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Rev. Bernard J. Boff

1932 - 2013

BORN

1932

DIED

2013

Bernard Boff Obituary

(News Article) The Rev. Bernard J. Boff, a Roman Catholic priest whose ministry extended from central Toledo to a diocesan mission in Zimbabwe, died Thursday in the Ursuline Center, where he'd lived since 2007. He was 81.

He had Parkinson's disease.

As a young priest, in 1965, he marched with Martin Luther King, Jr., in Selma, Ala., in support of voting rights. He was pastor of the former St. Teresa parish from 1970-87 and was a founder of the Central City Ministry in the Toledo diocese.

"He wanted the poor to have the rights and the freedom to speak and be recognized," said Msgr. William Kubacki, diocesan vicar for priests. "He really wanted to be able to provide housing, food, and a faith-based opportunity for people living in the central city and, in that way, he really was a true missionary both at home and abroad."

Father Boff, as the director of global concerns for the diocese from 1987-2001, oversaw the diocesan mission of accompaniment to the BaTonga people in the Hwange diocese of Zimbabwe. He traveled there six times and was co-author of a book about the mission.

Standing 6-feet, 4-inches, he made an impression as he stopped at every parish in the 19-county diocese to speak about the Zimbabwean mission.

"He was bigger than life, a robust man," his niece Mary Rose said. "When he spoke, he walked into the aisle and was animated. He would grab your attention."

He grew his trademark beard in 1968 after taking part in Resurrection City, the Washington encampment that was part of the Poor People's Campaign planned by the Reverend King and carried out after the civil rights leader's assassination.

He was the first Catholic priest to be president of the ecumenical Toledo Area Council of Churches and was the first Catholic member of the Toledo Metropolitan Mission. He formerly led the Bible Center on Franklin Street and helped found Claver House on Dorr Street, which fed all comers without question.

"We don't preach at people, but we've seen their lives change, just through our presence, service, respect for people," Father Boff told The Blade in 1998. "We don't throw people out ... It's a place where people can go and be reverenced."

He was active in the Catholic Interracial Council of Toledo and the local branch of the NAACP.

Father Boff lived what he preached, said Sister Nancy Mathias, an Ursuline, who was principal of St. Teresa School when he was parish pastor.

"He reached out to others," Sister Nancy said. "That was driven by his great love for the Scriptures and what Christ asks all of us to do. He really heard that message."

He was born March 29, 1932, in Defiance to Hazel and Carl Boff and was a graduate of Defiance High School, where he played basketball.

He studied economics and had a bachelor's degree from St. Joseph College, Rensselaer, Ind., where he was on a championship basketball team.

He had a master's degree from Northwestern University. He pursued the priesthood after a period of prayer, his niece said, and completed seminary studies at St. Mary College in Kentucky and St. Mary Seminary in Cincinnati.

He was ordained Aug. 21, 1961, at his home church, St. John in Defiance. He was associate pastor of St. Patrick of Heatherdowns Church and the former St. Ann Church before becoming pastor of St. Teresa.

He was chaplain for the Ursuline sisters from 1987-99 and pastor of St. Jude Church from 1999-2003. He wrote a column, "Praying the Word," for the Catholic Chronicle.

Golf and fishing were favorite pastimes. He was close to his four nieces and two nephews, and family gatherings featured card games, laughter, and the Boff secret-recipe vanilla ice cream, his niece Mary said.

There are no immediate survivors.

The body will be in Our Lady, Queen of the Most Holy Rosary Cathedral after 4 p.m. Monday, where visitation is to continue until 8 p.m. and from 9:30-10:45 a.m. Tuesday. Funeral services will be at 11 a.m. Tuesday in the cathedral. Arrangements are by the Coyle Funeral Home.

Tributes are suggested to the Ursuline Sisters; the priests' retirement fund, or Central City Ministry of Toledo.

Contact Blade Staff Writer Mark Zaborney at: [email protected] or 419-724-6182.
Published by The Blade on Aug. 11, 2013.

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Dwight Steele

September 28, 2021

Fr Boff. Words can´t express the impact you had on the lives of many. My 8 years at St Teresa were the building blocks of my life. As a little boy watching this 6´4 man in the cafeteria greeting all the students with his famous one liner" what´s the good word" was intimidating. Once I got to know him all that changed. For the young men that played basketball and had to go in his basement to get out uniforms every year was something we looked forward to. He was a great inspiration to all of us and God called home a true soldier! Rip

Fritzi Bohlmann

July 29, 2017

This remark comes nearly five years after Father Boff's
death. My mother, Jane Bohlmann, taught him at
Defiance High School and was invited to his
Ordination at St. John's in 1961. My mother brougjt me
along. I was eight andhad made my first just three months before this impressive event.

It was memorable and he was an excellent priest.

Fritzi Bohlmann

April 22, 2014

I just found Fr. Bernie's obituary notice in the Northwestern Alumni magazine. Spring 2014.. So many memories of the summers he was my husband's roommate at the Sheil (Newman) Club at NU.

Bernie laid the black and white linoleum tile floor in what would become our first apartment after our 1958 wedding. When the 3 of us went to the beach,we could see his knees were red from nights at prayer.

We went to his Ordination in Defiance, Ohio, and kept in touch during his early years in the priesthood as he grew from thinking that God could best be found in the countryside to having a storefront church.

Fr. Bernie baptized our daughter, Crispin Mary, at St. Joseph's Church in Wilmette, Ill., in 1963, and gave her First Communion 7 years later in Terre Haute, Indiana at a special home Mass on our coffee table from biscuits I'd made that morning.

Although we lost touch in the later years, Fr. Bernie and his wisdom remain a treasured part of our family memories, and as Jerre and I pray now at his passing into his Heaven, we give joyful thanks for his long life of service to to God and His people on earth.

Peace and all good,
Alexandra (Sandy) Cline, OFS, and Jerre Cline

Leonard Stanish

August 13, 2013

I attended St. Ann's and remember when Fr. Boff arrived. He did grab your attention with his sermons. He was not concerned with other's opinions of him when preaching the Gospel and defending basic human rights. He made you look at the status quo and ask "Why ?"
Rest in His Peace, Father Boff

Kristal Brown

August 12, 2013

Rest in Peace Fr. Boff. Blessings to your surviving loved ones. I will cherish the fond memories I have, from the school yard of St. Teresa School and our St. Teresa Parrish. Since hearing of your passing I have been trying to remember the elephant character you use to play using your long arm as the trunk. I remember you, at a young age being this tall man with a great since of humor. Deepest Sympathy, from across the miles. - Kristal Brown (Hartman)

Priscilla Kynard

August 12, 2013

I'm so saddened by the loss of Father Boff. He was such a caring Priest to me for eight years (1970-77) at St. Teresa. I have many fond memories of attending Mass at St. Teresa that I will always hold near and dear to my heart. I'll remember you as a gentle Giant. Thank you Father Boff for your teachings. May you Rest in Heaven.

Sr. Bonita Janiszewski, csj

August 12, 2013

The church and community across the world have truly been blessed with the presence of Father Bernard Boff. A quiet man with a gift to share life as a it called him to with great energy, respect and delight. A definite pillar and a man who made a difference. I'm grateful he touched my life many years
ago.

Kevin Zimmerman

August 12, 2013

Truly a blessing to me from my days at at St. Theresa Elementary School. The things he taught us as children, I saw him live out when I became an adult. The Lord called home a good brother.

August 11, 2013

I am so saddened by the passing of Father Boff. I have so many great memories of my childhood at St. Theresa School and Parrish. I still hear his voice in my head during mass reciting scripture. I was blessed to grow up under his influence. May he rest in peace. Cereda (Hornbeak) Blanchard

CERESE BURNEY

August 11, 2013

(FATHER BOFF). YOU WILL BE TRULY MISSED.I THANK(FATHER GOD).FOR PUTTING YOU IN MY LIFE.AT ST.ANN'S(THE DOUGHERTY FAMILY).

Norman Hinton

August 11, 2013

Father Boff,
thank you for always taking the time to ask me "what's the good word?" thank you for squeezing my hand with your "special handshake" when I got out of line, thank you for the best sloppy joe's I have ever eaten, thank you for your years of service at St. Teresa's, thank you for the stories about your basketball playing days, thank you for not paddling me as hard as you paddled some of the other kids, Thank you for being a presence in our community. Thank you for painting the side of the building red, black and green, thank you for telling me about your marching with Dr. King. You helped make me proud of who I am and proud of my heritage. I was upset when you had to leave St. Teresa because I felt like you belonged to us but as an adult, I now have a better understanding of the things you, Sr. Nancy and Sr. Virginia tried to instill in us and I have a much greater appreciation for the sacrifices you all had to make and I thank you for that, too.

Peace and Blessings,
Norman (St. Teresa, '79)

TYRESE ABERNATHY

August 11, 2013

Celebrating a life well lived. We will cherish the memories forever.

August 11, 2013

Father Boff was a true blessingto so many , he has touched our hearts at St Patricks of Heatherdowns years ago and squeezed in the old Chevvy to take the kids ice skating at the park - a kind caring man .

MARK NARGES

August 11, 2013

Fr. Bernie: I am so sorry to hear of your passing. You will be missed here in Toledo.
Since I know you are in heaven please look up my MOM& DAD and tell them {WE}are ok and {WE} miss them a lot !! Go now GODS' angle you have earned you wings !!! I'll miss you FR. BERNIE

Marilyn Perry Watson

August 11, 2013

Remembering your great love story today and always.

Trina Carter Mathews

August 11, 2013

Fr.Boff may you rest in peace..I send my deepest sympathy to your family. .an old student at St. Teresa

R. Gregory Stein

August 11, 2013

I am a volunteer at the Claver House soup kitchen. Fr. Boff helped found Claver House many years ago. It is still going strong, feeding people on weekday mornings at the soup kitchen, and providing groceries from the food pantry to the needy in the Swayne Field neighborhood. He was the type of priest Pope Francis talks about frequently, a priest out working among the poor. Fr. Boff should be remembered for the many good works he did for the poor, and the legacy he leaves behind in organizations like Claver House. A wonderful, giving person, beloved by those he served so unselfishly. May he rest in peace. Amen

Cordell Lofton

August 11, 2013

Will Be Missed Always Had Time To Listen ? He gave me my first paddlen
Miss u freind
Cordell Lofton.

Cordell Lofton

August 11, 2013

From the Lofton Family It was a pleaser Sharirg A part of Your Life u Will Not Be Forgotten
Annise,Mary,Cordell ,Gregory , Dennis The Lofton Family

ann hall

August 11, 2013

Thank you so much for your service to our community -- my children were under yours and Sister Nancy direction back in the 80's and you blessed our family. May your family find peace.

Ann Snodgrass hall

Felica Crockette-Clark

August 10, 2013

Father Boff was my priest at St. Teresa's in the 1970's. He loved his kids and was the father figure to many of us with no dads at home. I can't say enough about his great service to the poor. He will be missed.

Felica Crockette-Clark

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