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Patrick Carlisle
January 29, 2021
I didn’t personally know you, Brian. Being a father is what made me grieve you. I don’t know your mother or father either, but I know exactly how they feel and how much you are loved. I just know. Peace and love always.
Karen Maas
February 28, 2014
I don't know if you remember me. Brian Sr. And I were friends when he started Med school, at MCO. I was SO sad to hear about your sweet boy. I too am a parent of teens. And do not know how terrible it is to see your son, one day alive then see him again not. My prayers are with you. My husband and I will try to attend one of the functions held in Brian's honor. Karen and Jim Maas (Kane)
Cheryl ( Hoeflinger) Brouillard
July 4, 2013
My name is Cheryl Brouillatd -
nee: Hoeflinger - I was googling my maiden name when I saw this. I am so very sorry for your loss. It is so sad to lose a child at such a young age. Brian passed in my 53 rd birthday. My son will be 18 this month. July 24. He will be attending Wright state university in Dayton Ohio. Very strange coincidences. I will pray for your family
Juley Norman
March 5, 2013
Brian and Cindy,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Lisa Wardell
February 20, 2013
Dear Hoeflinger Family,
My heart broke hearing the news.. I am so sorry for your loss.. I don't know if you remember me, but I worked in the Pro Shop at the Country Club a few years ago... I remember Brian as this cute little boy with his plaid shorts, polo shirt and fluffy hair. I can still picture him carrying his clubs. He was always so nice and wanted to be a part of the conversation..It was so cute how excited he was to turn in his scores for his handicap. I can't believe how much he has grown up in the past few years.. He was such a great kid.. My thoughts and prayers are with you all! RIP Brian
Molly Brown
February 13, 2013
Brian and Cindy, I am so sorry for your loss. Bill and I will keep you and your family in our prayers as you go through this difficult time.
Toledo Hospital Surgery Department
February 11, 2013
Dr. Hoeflinger and Family,
Our deepest sympathies are with you and your family during this difficult time. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Laurie Cohen
February 10, 2013
Our deepest sympathy.
Laurie & Sandy Cohen
Ron & Bev Martin
February 9, 2013
To Dr. Hoeflinger and Family, We are so sorry for the loss of your precious son and brother. We've just read every entry in the Guest Book and could feel the love for Brian in each entry. While Ron was a patient of Dr. Hoeflinger, we often spoke of Brian's accomplishments on the golf course. His smile and memory will live on in your hearts and minds. Ron & Bev Martin Holland, OH
February 9, 2013
elvis and i had many great rounds at inverness golfing
St Louis Family
February 9, 2013
We would like to convey our sympathies to Dr. Hoeflinger and family for this tragic loss.
May the God of all comfort, who does not cause bad things to happen, be with you at this time.
We look forward to the time when HE will bring our loved ones back to life and eliminate death forever.
Patrick Carlisle
February 9, 2013
I just want to express my sincere heartache for the loss of your son. I never knew him. I'm a driving school instructor, and have had many students from OHHS over the years. Your son sounds like he was one of a kind, and I can't get this tragedy out of my mind from the day I heard about it. Thank God that you have a large family that can hold each other up together as you slowly move forward. I train a lot of my students in the village roads of Ottawa Hills, and will always keep your son in my thoughts along with each student. My prayers are with you always.
Patrick Carlisle
Tami Leatherman
February 8, 2013
I'm in northeast PA, but my sister lives in Ottawa Hills. She informed me of your tremendous loss the morning they learned of the tragedy. She sent me a picture of Brian with my niece, Mallory and it has been a constant reminder to whisper your names in prayer throughout my day. I hope you find comfort knowing miles don't separate the compassion and mourning we feel. Community is larger than our zip codes, and you are loved.
Christina May (Rapid Response Team, Toledo Hospital)
February 8, 2013
Dr. Hoeflinger and family,
My deepest sympathies are with you and your family during this difficult time. May you hold in your hearts the precious memories of Brian and bask in all of the joy he brought into your lives.
Brian sounds like he was a wonderful gentleman who will truly be missed by all who knew him.
Anne and Tom
February 8, 2013
Dear Dr. and Mrs. Hoeflinger and Family,
Our hearts are so heavy, and tears flow every day for your loss. No words are sufficient to express how much the entire Village and beyond are feeling your grief. May Christ hold you close and comfort you in the knowledge that your beautiful son is certainly with him in his glorious home in heaven, and silently with you as well, forever. You will always be in our prayers.
When you can, read Eben Alexander's Proof of Heaven.
Brenda Smith Westfall
February 8, 2013
Cindy, I am so deeply sorry that you and your family are suffering through such heartache. There can be no greater pain then losing a child. My deepest sympathies go out to you and your family at this devastating time. My thoughts and prayers continue to be with you.
Melissa Glover
February 8, 2013
What a truly beautiful outpouring of love for Brian and your family at St. Joe's today.
Ahed and Manar Nahhas
February 8, 2013
May he rest peace in the heavens above. Our hearts and prayers are with you at this time and always.
Evie S.
February 7, 2013
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your son Brian. I did not know him but after reading all the entries in the guest book, he was a special individual. Touching so many people at such a young age was truly a wonderful gift. He will continue to touch many people through the memories people have of him. Praying for the Hoeflinger Family that God give your hearts peace and comfort at this difficult time.
February 7, 2013
There is such a heavy heart among our children and this community. Your son is loved and will never be forgotten.
February 7, 2013
Dear Hoeflinger Family,
Your family has touched our hearts... We've been inspired by the wonderful stories of Brian through our daughter and her friends... God Bless you and hold you in His Peace,
the Gibson Family
Susan Mabry Van't Hof
February 7, 2013
Dear Brian, Cindy and the Hoeflinger Family,
My heart aches for you. Such a terrible loss for everyone. You are living every parents' nightmare and there are no words to ease the pain and sorrow. I am so sorry. May you find peace and strength during this time of grief. With love, Susan
February 7, 2013
Dear Cindy and family,
I can't get you off of my mind...my thoughts and prayers are with you. You are living my worst nightmare as a parent. Please know that the hearts of parents everywhere are aching for you.
Janet Bowman Rymers, Blissfield
February 7, 2013
Cindy, we are so sorry for your loss. Our hearts are breaking for you and your family. I hope the prayers and sympathy from friends, family, acquaintances and strangers will give you some solace in your grief. Glenda Schwartz CLOSETMASTER
Magdalena Skiles
February 7, 2013
Hoeflinger Family: Sincere sympathy. Thank you for sharing Brian with everyone whose lives he touched, and made a memorable contribution. He truly was a gift. Continued blessings and prayers for your entire extended family in the spirit of St. Padre Pio (PPPG-CK),Diocese of Toledo.
February 7, 2013
You and your family are kept in our prayers, Dr. Hoeflinger.
Jamie and Jamie Weidner
February 7, 2013
Mr. and Mrs. Hoeflinger,
You don't know me but I wanted to pass along my very deepest sympathy to you and your family at the loss of your son. You are living my biggest fear/ nightmare and I cannot imagine your loss and your pain. Every parent of a teenage child is sharing in your pain and heartache and we are all so saddened by your loss. My heartfelt sympathy goes out to you all. I pray for you and may God provide you with some comfort as you grieve. Sincerely, Laurie Luce
Weston & Bennet Hecklinger
February 7, 2013
Our deepest sympathy for your loss of Brian. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this very hard time.
February 7, 2013
The PTH Adult Intermediate family would like to extend our most sincere condolences for your tragic loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this most difficult time. May you find the strength to get through this with the tremendous amount of support from us all.
February 7, 2013
I never knew Brian. However, as a former resident of Ottawa Hills, I have had a constant stream of messages, pictures, and statuses describing how amazing he was. I have talked with family and friends, some who knew him and some who did not, and everyone seems affected in some way. I have found myself crying and mourning with the rest of Ottawa Hills the last couple of days, because although I never knew Brian, somehow, I still feel like I lost someone. I am deeply sorry for your loss and I have been praying a lot. But despite the sorrow, I cannot help but notice that this tragedy has ignited a life, an energy, a movement to this village and everyone connected to it. I have never seen anything like it. He really must have been something special. Stay strong and know people are thinking of you, near and far.
February 6, 2013
Brian, Cindy, Kevin, Julie and Christie,
May the love and support of your family and friends be with you today and in the days to come. May the Lord give you Strength and fill you with His peace. We love you guys,
Jay, Michelle, Judah, Jack, Jaela and Justice Wollenburg
Steve Farrell
February 6, 2013
Brian and Cindy,
My deepest sympathy. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Lauren Shrader
February 6, 2013
Mr. and Mrs. Hoeflinger, you raised an amazing son. Brian will never be forgotten. I will always remember him as the smartest kid from St. Joe's. My thoughts and prayers go out to your family through this hard time.
February 6, 2013
Brian, Cindy, Kevin, Christy, and Julie
We are so sorry for the loss of your sweet Brian. We will be here for you anytime you need us. We join you in celebrating the many gifts of his life on earth and his everlasting life with Christ.
With love, Ron, Sherry, Michael, Rachel, Stephen and Lauren Wainz
Sheila Dull
February 6, 2013
Brian, Cindy and family...I can't think of any words to express my sorrow and pain for you and your family. Although I really didn't know Brian, just reading the countless words of love and support about your son speak volumes...cherish your memories with him. God bless.
Denise Bauman
February 6, 2013
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Ms. Tamra Jared
February 6, 2013
Dr. Hoeflinger & Family: There are no words eloquent enough to convey
My Deepest & Heartfelt Sympathy to you & your family at this most difficult time. Your son has touched the live's of so many who knew him as well as those of us who did not have the pleasure. As parents we grieve along side you, & hold your family in prayer. May God's abundant Love and strength be poured out to you now and in the days ahead through family & friends.
John Snyder
February 6, 2013
Dear Cindy,
I am so sorry for the loss of Brian. I can't seem to get you and your family off my mind. Prayers Prayers Prayers....
John Snyder and Family
Blissfield, Miichigan
Toledo Hospital CT Dept
February 6, 2013
Dr. Hoeflinger and Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you now and the days going forward. May the beautiful memories of Brian help you find comfort during this time of sorrow.
Tracie Winebarger Boling
February 6, 2013
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
February 6, 2013
Dear Cindy, I want to extend my deepest sympath on the passing of your son. With all the things I've seen and heard he is a son to be proud of. My thoughts and prayers are with your beautiful family, may God Bless you.
Cheri McNutt. ( Inverness Seniorita team)
Jen Chamoun (Respiratory Therapist at Toledo Hospital)
February 6, 2013
I wish I had words to lighten your agony but sometimes words are just not enough. Please accept my deepest condolences on your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
February 6, 2013
Hoeflinger Family:
We are extremely sorry & sad to hear about your sudden loss. May God give you strength to pass through this tragic time. Our thoughts & prayers are with your family.
- OH Resident
February 6, 2013
We are so sorry for your loss, and are in our prayers.
Carol & Terry Brown
Donna & Bill Venable
February 6, 2013
Hoeflinger Family:
We are mourning with you at this time. Stay strong. Your friends and families are here for you. Our prayers and thoughts are with you.
OHHS Graduate
February 6, 2013
Sorry to hear about your loss. Didn't know Brian, but I know he was a great kid and I wish your family the best.
February 6, 2013
Our heartfelt condolences.. you are in our thoughts and prayers. Kesari Sarikonda.
John and Deb D'Souza
February 6, 2013
We are just so sad for your loss. Know that Brian and your whole family have been in our daily prayers.
February 6, 2013
Dr. Hoeflinger, Cindy and Family,
Our prayers will continue to be with you in the this time of tragedy and sadness. It is obvious that Brian was an extranordinary young man who touched many, many lives. May our Lord strengthen you and hold you close.
Sincerely, Chaplain Julie Beitelschees
Supervisor, Spiritual Care at Toledo Hospital
Lindsey Smith
February 6, 2013
Dr. Hoeflinger,
I am sincerly sorry for you and your family's loss. You operated on me and literally gave me my life back. As the mother of a 19 year old boy, I can't even express how truely sorry I am. May you find comfort from your supportive OH community and know that you're in my prayers...
Beth Tillman
February 6, 2013
I am so so very sorry for your loss. My son knew Brian from St. John's and said that he had never met anyone as friendly as Brian. He went out of his way to make sure he said hi, give you a smile and make sure you were having a great day.
You were truly blessed with an angel and please know that Brian touched so many lives and made those lives better just by knowing him.
God Bless your family.
February 6, 2013
Dr.Hoeflinger & family, we are so sorry to hear of the tragic loss of your son Brian. You took great care of our father 5yrs ago after his stroke. You are such a compassionate doctor. May all the care,peace,and comfort that you gave to your patients be given back to you during this most difficult time.
With sympathy, The Madrzykowski Family
February 6, 2013
I am so sorry for your lost. My prayers are with you.
Butch Janczak at Residential Electric
Barbara Czapski-Warn
February 6, 2013
Dr. and Mrs. Hoefflinger,
My deepest profound sympathy on the loss of your son. I shall keep a prayer for his soul and a prayer for youf family to find His peace in your hearts.
God be with you now and always.
Andy Carr
February 6, 2013
Sorry to hear of your loss. I did not know Brian jr Ingred (Peterson) Hoeflinger was my first cousin and I have met her children some time ago at aunt Tillies home.I will keep your family in my prayers.
Brandon Williams (Inverness)
February 6, 2013
I always enjoyed talking golf with Brian while on the driving range at Inverness. He was a great young man who had a bright future ahead of him. He will be missed by all. My thoughts and prayers go out to Dr. Hoeflinger, Cindy and their entire family. God bless
10W Nursing Staff Neuro ICU of The Toledo Hospital
February 6, 2013
Dr.&Mrs Hoeflinger and family, we the entire staff of Neuro ICU at The Toledo Hospital want you to know those we love don't go away they walk beside us everyday, unseen, unheard, but always near still loved, missed and very dear. We are praying for you thru this difficult time and know we are there for you.
February 6, 2013
My most sincere sympathy to your family. Dr. Hoeflinger operated on me 6 years ago when I was 77. I think of him often with love and thanks.
Carol Green, Toledo
Joan Koester
February 6, 2013
Cindy & family:
So very sorry to hear about Brian. Tough to understand God's ways some times; we are suppose to go before our children, but he is now an angel doing God's work and will watch over you all. I am here for you, Cindy; if you need anything in the days to come please give me a call. Much Love, Joan Koester
MIchael Rudnicki
February 6, 2013
Dr. Hoeflinger and family--as a patient of Dr. Hoeflinger, I can tell how much he cares about others and just by reading all of these entries, I can clearly see that Brian took after you--you should be proud parents of such a loved son--my thoughts and prayers to you and yours
Cheryl Boulle
February 6, 2013
Dr. Hoeflinger and Family..
May your sons candle burn ever bright..
February 6, 2013
So sorry for your loss..
Prayers to you and yours at this time of sorrow..
Cheryl J. Boulle'
Sean, Cynthia, Ireland, Emerald & Zöe Rae
February 6, 2013
All of our love,prayers and support. My the Lord wrap his arms around you and his tears console you.
February 6, 2013
Dear Hoeflingers,May God bless you and keep you in this time of such great loss. I thank you for taking care of me,so now I pray for the good Lord to take care of you and yours. Brenda Powers
Meredith Paul
February 6, 2013
I will never forget him, he was an awesome person; funny, smart, determined, I'm in shock. I'm so, so sorry for your loss, I can't imagine what your family is going through, how it will change, but I will be praying for you.
February 5, 2013
Dr. Hoeflinger and family I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you all. You are in my prayers.
Rita Periatt of Millbury ,Ohio
Joyce
February 5, 2013
I can't begin to imagine what you must be going through doing the worst thing a parent must do. But it's amazing how Brian made such an impact on so many and that so many people share your heart break. I can only pray you and your family can find comfort again. May God give you strength and guidance to get you through this.
February 5, 2013
I have been a patient of yours, Dr. Hoeflinger with such praise of your care! My Heart and Prayers are with you and your family! May God Bless all of you with his Love! Gretchen Tucker
Julie Riffle
February 5, 2013
Brian and Cindy,
I am so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Toledo Hospital PACU Staff
February 5, 2013
May the cherished memories remain forever in your heart and help you through this difficult time. Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
OHHS graduate
February 5, 2013
Another unspeakable tragedy has hit our small community. May you find comfort knowing your family is surrounded by endless love and support. In the dark days ahead, I pray you find peace knowing your son positively impacted so many lives. His memory will forever be alive in your hearts. Peace be with you.
Carol, Kurt, Kyle and Korey McCammon
February 5, 2013
Dear Cindy and Brian, Kevin, Julie and Christie,
Our hearts go out to you, with love and great sadness.
Dr. David Carter
February 5, 2013
Very,very sorry to learn about your loss.
Heartbreaking for all. May he shine light upon you and help you walk in grace.
Madalyn Mason
February 5, 2013
Brian I didnt know you very well, but from what I've heard you are a truly amazing guy! Heaven gained a beautiful angel. Thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
Flower Hospital MRI Department
February 5, 2013
Dr Hoeflinger and Family, May you find peace in the hands of Lord at this time of sorrow. Our Hearts are heavy with grief, compassion and sympathy with this tragic loss to you, your family and all whom had the pleasure of meeting Brian. May God Bless You All.
Brian Little
February 5, 2013
Bri and Cindy, so very sorry for your loss.
Brian Little CRNA (SVMMC)
Allison Cervantes
February 5, 2013
Brian, I can't even begin to thank you for everything you have done to me. Throughout the entire time I've known you, my heart has been touched. You helped me through things that I could have never gone through by myself. Your family is in my prayers every second, I still pray that you will come back. Thank you for becoming close to me, you were like my brother. I love you.
Bill, Cindy & Ben Steele
February 5, 2013
Brian, Cindy, Kevin, Julie & Christie,
Our hearts are breaking for your loss. We pray that your memories of happy times with Brian will bring you comfort. He is an exceptional young man who will live on in your hearts. God bless you.
February 5, 2013
Dr Hoeflinger,Cindy and family. My heart ached when I learned of Brian's death...really didn't know him except to see him with friends next door or hear his great music when I was out working in my landscape. For the first time in my life I am truly at a loss of what to say...except I am so sorry! Please know that all parents are grieving with you and hope that the coming weeks and months will heal and strengthen you and that Brian will be there helping you along the way...
Dayna & Ali
Jean Hanely
February 5, 2013
Dear Brian,
My deepest sympathies to you and your family. May God's grace give you strength during this tragic time.
Jean Hanely CRNA (retired). St Luke's Hospital
February 5, 2013
Our deepest sympathy and condolence are with you. May his memory bring you warmth in your heart. Keeping your family in our thoughts in this time of sorrow.
Bay Park Radiology staff
February 5, 2013
"So sorry for your loss, our prayers are with you all."
Rick & Linda Baker, Devils Lake
Mark Trankina
February 5, 2013
Dear Brian, Cindy and Family,
Please know that many many people are praying for you right now. Know that your son Brian loved you all very much, as he knew just how much you all loved him. To have a child, love nurture and raise a child.....A true gift from God. And Brian was given to you.
I will pray for your peace of mind, and ease on your broken hearts.
I am truly so sorry for your incredible loss
Betty Thomson
February 5, 2013
My prayers & thoughts are with each of you on this tragic loss. He is heaven with God and he is looking down on you with a lot of love. Keep the good memories you have of Brian. I have two sons' that died so I can relate to you. Keep your faith and God will always be with you.
Om Simmons
February 5, 2013
I pray that god gives u the strength to try to move foward. I am so sorry for your loss.
February 5, 2013
February 05, 2013
DR. Hoeflinger and Cindy and family,
Judy and I send our prayers to comfort you and your family through this termendous loss of your son. The Lord and your family and friends will help you through this.
We lost our 21 year old daugter in an auto accident in 1994 and she is always with us as Brian will be with you and your family.
Our sincere condolencees,
Mark and Judy Pennington Onsted, Mi 49265
February 5, 2013
Cindy and Brian, We ache for your loss and pray that time will heal. Our thoughts are with in this time of sorrow.
Barry and Brenda Kafer
Melissa McGee
February 5, 2013
Dr. Hoeflinger, Cindy & family,
It saddened me and broke my heart to hear of your loss. No words of any kind can tell you how sorry I am but know My thoughts and prayers are with you all thru this difficult time. He seemed like an amazing young man that has touched so many lives and may they all help you to hold on to and treasure the many memories that he has built with so many people and may the love and support from family and friends help you all thru this difficult time.
Cherie Szollosi
February 5, 2013
Dr. Hoeflinger and family,
Words can not express how deeply sorry we are to hear of your son's passing.
My husband and I will have your family in our thoughts and prayers.
Tom and Cherie Szollosi, Oregon ,Oh
February 5, 2013
To the Hoeflinger Family, May the good Lord hold you in his loving arms and bring you comfort and love for the days ahead. Such a tragic loss, thoughts and heartfelt prayers are with you.
Ali Chamoun
February 5, 2013
Dr. Hoeflinger and family,
I know that no words can help ease the pain and loss that you are feeling right now. You are in our every prayer and thought. You have my sincere condolences on the loss of your son.
Ali Chamoun
Resp. Therapist
TTH
Mr. & Mrs Jeff Aldrich (former patient)
February 5, 2013
Dear Dr. and Mrs. Hoeflinger and family, Please accept our sincerest sympathies in the loss of your son. May all the happy memories you created together help you through this most sorrowful time.
Dennis Aquino and Staff of 10 East Stroke Intermediate, TTH
February 5, 2013
Dr. Hoeflinger and Family,
We know that no words can ease the pain and loss that you are feeling right now. You are in our every prayer and thought.
Eric & JoAnn Paderi
February 5, 2013
Dear Cindy and Brian,
Our hearts are broken for you. We remember that cute little boy who moved next door, how friendly and creative he was and how you loved and cared for him. May your faith and the love and support from your family and friends help you.
Sandy Brown
February 5, 2013
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
February 5, 2013
The staff and students of Sylvania Northview High School offer our sincere sympathy to your family and all of Green Bear Nation.
Linda Goldstein
February 5, 2013
My heart feels for your incredible loss. Linda RN
Anne Sawicki-Lancione
February 5, 2013
I am so very sorry for this tragic loss your family is experiencing. I lived in Ottawa Hills during high school. I know what a wonderful, supportive community it is, and know you will not be alone during your greiving. Please know that parents everywhere feel your pain and send you love and compassion.
Gloria Wakefield(Inverness)
February 5, 2013
Dr.and Mrs. Hoeflinger, I had the pleasure of meeting Brian on 2 seperate occasions when he came to Inverness and I must say he was a very well mannered and polite young man with a beautiful smile and great personality.I am so sorry for your loss, you and the rest of your family will be in my prayers.Keep in mind God only takes the best.
February 5, 2013
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
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