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Demetria Hibbler Memoriam

Demetria Hibbler "Meechie" 1/26/83-12/14/09 My beautiful great-niece you are gone but not forgotten. Love, Aunt Brenda

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Published by The Blade on Dec. 14, 2011.

Memories and Condolences
for Demetria Hibbler

Sponsored by Ms. Denine Y. Barnes, 'Meechie's' Mom & Mr. Doty Hibbler III, 'Meechie's' Brother..

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Denine Barnes,, Mother

December 14, 2023

My Meechie, my beautiful daughter another year now on this date 12/14/23 you been gone 14yrs I remember just like yesterday, but to me and your brother you been gone a long time now, this year July 7, 2023 you became a "auntie" and I'm a grandma he is such a blessing he look just like ur brother. Ur brother is such a good Father I'm sooo proud of him, his name is Doty Hibbler iv but we call him " Ivy" he is such a blessing you would love him sooo much ,, me im in love with my lil "Ivy" I miss and love u 4life Mom!! Please continue to watch over us and R.i.p.

Denine Barnes ( mother)

November 11, 2023

My daughter, my meechie, my pooh- bear wasn't ready for this date to come 11/11/23 but on 11/11/09 was u last words to me you were in the hospital sick and you call me and said ( Mommy I Love you , are you coming down ) (me) i said I love you too yes iam please hold on I'm trying to get there and them was you last words to me forever !

Samantha Luckett

January 25, 2023

Happy Heavenly Birthday my beautiful cousin. You are loved and missed. Until we meet again.

Denine Barnes

January 24, 2023

Happy 40th birthday to my Meechie, just was sitting earlier today thinking I can't believe you would have been 40ys now. You were so smart, intelligent, ambitious and confidence, I wish I could seewhat you would have been today. All I know you were on your way!! But I will never know cause God call you home at 26yrs. Just want u to know I was always, always sooo proud of the woman you became. I miss you dearly and love my pooh-bear so much, please continue to watch over me and your brother and the rest of your family R.I.P. Mom!

Felicia

January 24, 2023

HAPPY 40TH BIRTHDAY MEECHIE!! PARTY WITH THE ANGELS BOO. I LOVE YOU AND I MISS YOU VERY MUCH.

Samantha

December 15, 2022

Rest in paradise my beautiful cousin.....

Denine Barnes

December 14, 2022

To my Meechie I wish I could call you in heaven , can't believe it's been 13yrs now that u left me and ur brother forever!! and the rest of your family!! Wow seems like a long time now, but at the same time I remember like it was yesterday ,, I miss and Love u 4life Mom.

Denine Barnes

November 16, 2022

To my beautiful daughter Meechie I had a sad day on Friday 11/11/ 2022 it's been 13yrs on that date that I heard ur voice, you were sick and in the hospital and you said to me ( Mommy I Love you are you coming down, I said pooh-bear I love you to yes iam please hold on) and I will never forget those words and date 11/11/09,, I was at the cemetery on Thursday 11/10/22 at ur graveside visiting, and changing ur flowers I took a picture of my arm that I had my daughter "signature " tattoo on my arm and also a picture of my meechie face that I wear everyday, You are always with me. I miss and love you sooo much please continue to rest in paradise love mom!

Denine Y Barnes

January 24, 2022

Happy 39th heavenly birthday to my beautiful daughter Meechie!! Love you Pooh-bear R.i.p. Mom !

Denine Y. Barnes/ Mother

December 25, 2021

Merry Christmas to my Meechie!! I miss her pretty little face!

DAWN B

December 15, 2021

MEECHIE!

MY LIL SIS, THE FASHION DIVA! I MISS AND LOVE YOU SOOOOOO MUCH! I SEE YOU'VE HAD VISITORS LATELY. I PLACED ONE FLOWER ALONG WITH THE BEAUTIFUL ARRANGEMENT THEY LEFT YOU. D'AMBER AND I JUST TALKED AND I FELT YOUR SPIRIT WHILE THERE. THANK YOU FOR COMING INTO MY LIFE. YOU WILL ALWAYS BE MY BONUS SISTER/COUSIN. KEEP SHINING! YOU ARE THE RADIANCE FROM THE SUN AND THE TWINKLE FROM THE STARS. I WILL FOREVER LOVE YOU. SEE YOU NEXT MONTH.

Denine Barnes / Mom!

December 14, 2021

Denine Barnes / Mom!

December 14, 2021

Denine Barnes / Mom!

December 14, 2021

My daughter, my Meechie, my Pooh-bear I can't believe it's been 12 years, I miss& Love u for life!!

Denine Y. Barnes

October 14, 2021

To my daughter Meechie, my Pooh-bear just wanted to share a message with you, I was in Atlanta last month visiting ur uncle Jason and auntie LiLi. Ur best friend Felica went out to the cemetery and visit ur resting place , she also took a picture with her and ur headstone together and she text me the picture. I was happy and honor that she took the time to visit you. So I told her when I get back in town let's get together,, and last week Thursday we finally after 11 1/2 yrs later we met at Red Lobster. We had such a wonderful time, we talk about you alot remembering old times ,, her son ur God son is 20 yrs old now You would be so proud of him, Her daughter is 15yrs both her kids are beautiful!! just want you to know Felica misses & Love you alot. And that she visit u often,, she always kept in touch with ur mama . We also talk about her mother right along with u. She loss her Mother 6yrs ago . I miss and Love you 4ever Mom!!

Antoinette

July 7, 2021

We miss you beautiful cousin!!!

Mona L Barnes

January 24, 2021

Happy birthday Meechie my first granddaughter . It doesn't seem like you have been gone 12 years . I miss seeing and talking to you, my daily calls. Only from you . I love you so much and miss you terribly. Your grandma

Denine Barnes

January 24, 2021

Happy 38th birthday to my Meechie in heaven!! I miss & Love u forever Mom, please continue to rest in peace ☮ !!

Chantel Barnes

January 24, 2021

Today my Angel would’ve been 38 you’ve had me, and guided me all theses years thank you so much and I know you’re showing out up there lol Happy Birthday Beautiful #MEECHIE

Jason Barnes

January 24, 2021

Happy Birthday to my 1st niece, my beautiful niece... We love and miss you dearly!

Love Jason, Paulita, Jamirah, Jamar, Jaylon, Janiyah and Amir

Keaira Gabriel

January 24, 2021

Happy Heavenly Birthday Meechie, miss you so much - Keaira, Jason and JaySean

Jahvon Barnes

January 24, 2021

Just wanna say happy birthday cousin love you so much miss you more than ever please watch over me and the family love you boo man

Linda

January 24, 2021

Happy Birthday Demi, ur presence is greatly missed, miss ur laugh, ur smile, the way u think u can sing....like Beyonce, miss u being u....Happy B-day

Dawn Barrett

January 4, 2021

My SISTER, my COUSIN my FRIEND!
Through the clouds I'm screaming Happy Holidays to you, Meechie! So much has gone on since I last came to visit you. I miss you soooooo much. This is still unreal for me. It's like you are in Columbus with Bo and I'm texting you to say WYA.
I know you're putting on a heck of a show up there. Modeling and beauty tips for everyone.
Happy early Birthday.
I LOVE YOU, MEECH!

FELICIA

December 25, 2020

MERRY CHRISTMAS BOO. I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU SO MUCH!!

Denine Barnes

December 14, 2020

To my beautiful daughter Meechie, it's been 11 years today, that u left me forever ,,I just hope u know that I was there for u,,I miss so much please continue to R.i.p. Love always Mom!

Sherhonda H

December 11, 2019

Miss you so much cousin! Can't believe it's almost been a decade!❤

Linda Butturfly

August 1, 2019

Hi Meechie. Just want to let u know we felt ur presence on Saturday 7/27 @ the swimming pool , ur mom said u were flying around as a butterfly, well Jahvon has a new baby girl name Jaylah Brielle, she is Beautiful like him...sending u a picture of my 2 girl's, talk to u soon, love & miss u dearly.

"Ur LOVE continues to shine thru"

Linda Barnes

April 28, 2019

Hey girl, just wanted you to know we miss & LOVE u, my thoughts go to you daily as my granddaughter reminds me of you when you were young, I see you in her. Keep shining bright from above.....always

To my beautiful, daughter Meechie on 4/21/19 laying here looking at ur beautiful face with tears rolling down my face, I miss and love you Mom!

Denine Barnes

April 21, 2019

Denine Barnes

February 14, 2019

I miss and love you so much my Pooh-bear ,,love always Mom,, please continue to R.I.P!!

Dawn Barrett

February 10, 2018

I miss you. I miss you so much! I don't want to sound selfish but I still question "WHY?" I know we're not suppose to question, but "Why you?" Brains, beauty and inspirational. Those are only a few words to describe you. I want to pick you up and just DRIVE! Talk and laugh about everything like we always did. I love when people walk past my curio cabinet and ask "Wow, is this your sister!" My face just lights up and your voice taps my spirit. I miss you so much, Meechie. My ANGEL in Heaven! I will ALWAYS hold you near and dear. Until we meet again. I LOVE YOU, MEECH!

Denine Barnes

February 10, 2018

Samantha Barnes-Luckett

January 25, 2017

You are missed my beautiful cousin. Love you much!

Love, Felicia

January 24, 2017

Happy 34th Birthday Meechie. Oh how I wish you were here. Love you and miss you very much!

Felicia

January 1, 2017

HAPPY NEW YEAR MEECHIE. LOVE AND MISS YOU VERY MUCH!

Linda Barnes

January 17, 2015

Hi Meechie, living life without your presence hasn't been easy...days into weeks...weeks into months... months into years...and years turned into 5yrs. Life keeps moving, as time waits for no one, u knew that that's why u lived your life to the fullest, making ur dreams & goals come true along the way...as your family was always waiting for the next accomplishment, so that we could live it out with you. Thanks for your passion and leaving a legacy for the young ones in the family to look up to, my Mello knows you, loves you and has a role model to look up to, Thank you....love you to the moon and back....until we meet again...Auntie

Denine Barnes

May 15, 2014

Hi Meechie my pooh-bear the Cards that Ur brother Lilman buy me r amazing!!! and then the words he writes is even more amazing,,, it always bring tears t o my eyes,,,my b day card is amazing and deep,,,and the words he wrote,,he is my Inspiration! !!! If it wasn't for him keeping my spirits up about me los ing my Meechie,,,I wouldn't make it..I love him more than life it self,,,more than my own life, ,I love him to death!!! just like I did and always love my Meechie forever! !!! Love mom Denine Barnes.

Jahvon Barnes

May 12, 2014

Hey meech at work bored can't stop thinking about you. I'm turning 26 next month I'm bless and grateful to make it to 26 but I sure do wish you was here. I still have dreams about you mostly good and sum I just see you on that hospital bed wishing I could do something to save you. At 25 I feel like I'm a few steps behind in my life I ask myself what am I doing wrong I thought I did everything right in my life so far sure I made sum bad mistakes but its people out here that done worst but living fine I just don't get it. But the more and more I pray go to church and keep my faith I know the lord and you have a vision for me I'm just to blind to see it right now but I will open my eyes. Because I realize the storms don't break you they make you. I miss you so much feel so alone and out of this world at times only person I can depend on is my mother I don't know where I would be if she wasn't in my life. But I miss and cant thinking about you and I will talk to you tonight Love You Meechie Boo.

Dawn Barrett

January 26, 2014

I miss and love you, Meech! I set the pic that you shot in black and white next to the television. D'Amber wears your shirt like it's a designer name brand. We'll never let you go. Didn't know I'd feel this way. Just wish I was more aware of what was going on. I was with you daily but didn't pay attention. I'm so sorry. God knows I am!

Denine Barnes

January 25, 2014

Happy b day my beautiful Meechie,,u r 31 yrs now,,,i wonder what u would look like now,,u been gone 4 yrs now and miss 5 b day,,,i was at a store that had a purse u would like Doone and Burk,,,i wish i could have brought it for u,,instead i had broughr u 3 balloons and tie them around ur vase at ur grave site, so sad,,ur cuz Jahvon (boo man) got Baptize today on January /24/14 ur Birthday ,,,he said he wants to be closer to God and u..im so proud of him he misses u and so do I and the rest of the Barnes family,,im going to watch ur videos later so i can c ur beautiful face,,ur pictures is all over my house and will remain there forever ,,i miss u so much !!!!! Love mom,,,,

Beautiful Purple Rose

DeLesa Edwards-Parrish

December 26, 2013

The loss of our loved ones, who are gone may be too painful to remember, but their lives are too precious to forget!

Their absences are like the sky, spread over everything.

If love could have saved them, they would live forever.

How very wonderfully they came into our world, in the moments they were with us, what a gift!
But what an imprint their footsteps have left upon our hearts.

Losing a child is like losing your soul. You may bravely face the world without your loved one, but, on the inside, you feel like you are dying, but hold on…. to life.

Some precious lives may last just for a moment, but our memories keep those moments lasting forever in our hearts.

Our loved ones may be gone but never forgotten, although we may not be together,their spirits live within us.

What we have once deeply loved and cherished, we can never lose, for all that we love deeply becomes a part of our souls.

If tears could build a stairway and memories a pathway, we would walk right up to heaven and bring them home again.

Denine, I pray for you and Doty always in my heart, and for all the people who loved Meechie during her life and pray for God to give you Beauty for your sorrow.

With Love,

Aunt DeLesa

Denine Barnes

December 25, 2013

Merry Christmas,,My Beautiful Meechie baby girl ,my pooh bear. Today is ur brother Doty 24th b day Christmas day!!!,,,we both miss u sooo much,,i saw him in his bedroom looking at a picture in his phone of ur headstone and him looking so sad,,i walk out his room and went laid dowm then i heard him sniffing so i got up and i stood by his door and sound like he was crying,,,so i start crying outside his door,,me and him is so lost without Meechie!!! :( ,,it gets harder and harder every yr.,im so thankful i have my Lilman he is the one who is keeping me insane and a purpose to get up everyday,,if i didnt have him,i know i wouldnt make it,, the holidays will never be the same ever ,,,,i just want to know u r ok,,,we Love u forever!!! Mom and Doty ur brother( Lilman),,

somewhere...

Cheryl McClellan

December 17, 2013

Denine and Family....after recently losing two first cousins in less than two months I truly feel your pain....Heaven is an open door we ALL must go through .... some sooner than others - true that does not ease our pain BUT we serve a good God and he went throught it too! We all must strengthen our realtionship with God~ Jahvon Be Blessed on your Baptism for your eyes will have been opened and the healing will begin. Denine in time the pain will lessen you will never forget your beautiful baby girl praise God and give Thanks for the time you did spend with her and I pray those precious moments/memories and pictures get you through the rough times !!! God Bless you Denine

With Love Cheri

Eric Nelson

December 14, 2013

Demetria, till this day I can still close my eyes and hear your voice. Your voice is reassuring me that everything is ok. You will always be loved and remembered in all of your friend's heart and especially in your family's heart. *closing my eyes now and hearing your voice* *smiling*

Denine Barnes

December 14, 2013

Demetria, my baby girl ,my pooh- bear who i love forever!! U were beautiful!! inside and outside when i look at u , im so lost , i just stare into your eyes u were Beautiful!!!!!! Sometimes i dont know how to make it without u,, Love always Mom!!!

Meechie 7yrs old and 26yrs old.

Denine Barnes

December 13, 2013

Meechie, My pooh-Bear, I am still in disbelief that you are not here anymore. the holidays are so hard for me to get through, I'm always sad around this time of year. When I look at your pictures when you were a little girl and how you grew up to be so beautiful, first I smile then I start to cry. I miss you sooo much. This is so unbelievable Love you So Much Pooh-Bear Mom.

Me and Meechie

Jahvon Barnes

December 13, 2013

Hey meechie, It's boo your cousin/bro I know I haven't been on in awhile kind of hard to read this and still remain happy I try to remember you happy and that gorgeous smile you had. Lately I been going throw some up and downs in my life and I haven't really been myself but I realize I really haven't been myself since you past you was my best friend the person I went to besides my mother we use to talk every night when you got off work, you was suppose to come kick it the weekend you was in the hospital I lost my relationship with god at a point because I couldn't come to grips why he would take you from us so soon. I never really dealt with I was trying to be strong and not show the hurt but in all the hurt came down line because I never really dealt with it. The more and more I think about you the more I want my cousin back but even more my bestfriend but I know you in a better place watching me and you gave us a gift in my niece mello man she remind me of you and she know who you is which is beautiful, I love that little girl more than life itself me and my sister don't have the best relationship like you and Doty but she know I do anything for that girl. so lately I been trying to mend my relationship with god ask him for his forgiveness for losing my faith and becoming angry when you past and each day I feel myself getting back to how I use to be before I lost you but its go be one day at a time I wasn't happy with my life at all and it showed people start to tell me I'm not acting like myself but lately I been more happy and having more faith then ever and trusting the lord. On your birthday this 1/24/14 I will be getting baptized by our uncle Minister Justin Barnes in your shirt I got made its a celebration for you but also something I been wanting to do and get my life together in the right way family go be there and I know you will be there. Love you Meechie miss you more everyday we all miss love meechie booman.

Linda Barnes

October 28, 2013

Hi Meech, missing ur smiling face. Miss Mello knows who you are as I told you she would, she knows ur face when she sees a picture of you. She is as you were when you were small, it's funny to see that all over again...it's good for your mom & grandmommer. Much love for the over who left us too soon, Auntie Linda

January 30, 2013

We miss you Meechie!

December 18, 2012

she my lil cuz on my dad side we hang in juner high school now she in a better place may god be with her an her fam

DAWN BARRETT

December 16, 2012

MY LITTLE SISTER. MY COUSIN. MY GIRL. I MISS YOU SO MUCH! I WAS CONTENT FOR THE MOMENT JUST KNOWING THAT MY MOM AND KIMBO SAW YOUR MEMORIAL, BUT NOW I AM SO EMPTY. I CAN'T MAKE MY TEARS HAPPY ONES BECAUSE I WOULD BE LYING. I DID YOUR HAIR FOR THIS PICTURE! I AM SO HURT AND SO EMPTY. I MISS YOU, MEECHIE. YOU WERE NOT SUPPOSE TO GO THIS WAY. I AM SO SORRY. I WISH I COULD TELL YOU ONE MORE TIME HOW MUCH A BRAT YOU ARE. HOW TO COOK YOUR GREENS AND BLACK EYE PEAS. I MISS OUR SPEND-THE-NIGHTS AND UP TALKING FOR HOURS. NO ONE WILL EVER TAKE YOUR PLACE. NOBODY!!!! I LOVE YOU, MEECHIE!!!!

December 14, 2012

I am just another Mom, but I cannot imagine your pain! The loss of a child has to be unbearable! Your Daughter was just beautiful. You have a special Angel watching over you~

KIMBO

December 14, 2012

DEAR "MEECHIE", THAT DAY WALKING IN UR HOSPITAL ROOM REALLY DID SOMETHING TO ME.SEEING UR FAMILY SO HURTING TO SEE U THERE.WE GREW VERY CLOSE THRU OUR FAMILIES (UNCLE MYRON& AUNT BRENDA).... UR MOM AND DAWN CONTINUE TO KEEP IN TOUCH TO STRENGHTEN EACH OTHER DURING THE RUFF TIMES,ONLY GOD KNOWS WHY U HAD TO GO.BUT TRUST AND BELIEVE ONE DAY WE ALL WILL MEET UP ON THE OTHER SIDE... I WANT TO MAKE MY PEACE WITH U,AND SAY U ARE LOVED AND MISSED SOOOOOOOOO DEEPLY !!!!! R.I.H. TRUE BEAUTEE'

Katie Hibbler

October 25, 2012

To my baby girl Aunt Katie miss u so much, u just calln or come home n stop by to c me! U r still a true Queen even after the Lord has called u home! I Luv U n miss u so much! Talk to u again

Cheri

May 11, 2012

Denine,

I saw you last at your Grandmothers wake services last year after not seeing you for many many years. It was then you showed me your daughters picture and told me she died. I did not know the circumstances but sensed it was extremely difficult for you.

It seems like we are here on earth forever but really it's not ...in time you WILL be reunited with your Beautiful Beloved Meechie and then you can catch up like old girlfriends which then it will seem like eternity ! I can feel the Love for her as everyone continues to remember her and I only wished I had the chance to. There is no doubt in my mind as I look at her she reminds me of you as a little girl who grew up to be a beautiful woman whom you and your Mom can be very proud.

Heaven continues to replenish itself as it gives and takes from here so know that you will always have a Guardian Angel watching over you and yours !!!

Denine B

January 24, 2012

Happy 29th Birthday Meechie!!! Wow it hurts me that I cant touch or call you and say"I'ts your Birthday girl!" I haven't seen you in 2 yrs, and I missed 3 of your Birthdays. I went out to your site last week, and it was sunny out that day...but this day was different, your stone and all your decorations had such a beautiful glow. It looked like some one poured a shiney gloss on your area... I've never seen anything like that before, ever. A few of yor aunts said that you were looking down on me that day, to let me know that your o.k. & that your with me at all times. I wish you could give me a sign so i would know your o.k. ... I miss and love you always... My pooh bear forever... Mommy

John Russell

January 24, 2012

Hi Meechie, Happy Birthday. U dont know me, Im John your moms boyfriend... I hear a lot about you from your mom and how much she loves you. I wish I could take your moms pain away, but I know that I can't, but I will always be there for her.

Linda B.

January 24, 2012

Happy Birthday Meechie! I can only imagine how happy you would be today....we miss your smile, your sillyness & your love of life. Today is your day. Continue to shine your light down on us. Words cant express how much we love & miss you, just know that we do, you are out of site, but never out of mind,
much love for you Meechie.

Darlene Shelmon

December 23, 2011

Denine, My heart goes out to you still, cause I know the hurt, the pain, the sadness--- of losing a child. I realize that the circumstances are different because your daughter lived in Columbus and it is easy to imagine her being there. If you find yourself smiling, it's O.K. If you find yourself laughing that's O.K. too. You know your daughter and that's what she would want for you.

This thing called death is something that we can't go around, over nor under. We have to go through it with our heads held high, because I'm going to see my child again, I have to.

There is a time to weep and a time to laugh,
a time to mourn and a time to dance.
Ecclesiastes 3:4

This is a poem that I ran across right after Keijuan went to be with the Lord. I have shared it with a lot of people. Denine don't think this is easy for me. I'm full just writing this letter. I miss my child deeply.

DEATH IS NOTHING AT ALL

I have only slipped away to the next room.
I am I and you are you.
Whatever we were to each other,
That, we still are.

Call me by my old familiar name.
Speak to me in the easy way
which you always used.
Put no difference into your tone.
Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow.

Laugh as we always laughed
at the little jokes we enjoyed together.
Play, smile, think of me. Pray for me.
Let my name be ever the household word
that it always was.
Let it be spoken without effect.
Without the trace of a shadow on it.

Life means all that it ever meant.
It is the same that it ever was.
There is absolute unbroken continuity.
Why should I be out of mind
because I am out of sight?

I am but waiting for you.
For an interval.
Somewhere. Very near.
Just around the corner.
All is well.

by Henry Scott Holland

Dawn Barrett

December 17, 2011

My Girl, My Friend, My Cousin, My Sister! I'm looking at the last picture we took together and I'm still in disbelief. I visited your grave and I looked at your headstone with blurry eyes I stepped so lightly on the ground. ("You are not down there!") I know we are not suppose to ask the Lord "why" and I know I'm selfish for saying why not someone else. But I miss you so much. I just want you to call me one more time. Ask me what all to put in the greens and the blackeyed peas. Let me tell you how spoiled you are. Share our fashion and make-up tips. My heart will never let your spirit die. You are: My Girl, My Friend, My Cousin, My Sister! I love you, "Shining Star!"

KIMBO

December 14, 2011

TO MEECHIE; I MISS U SOOOOOOOO MUCH!!! ALL THE FUN MEMORIES AND GREAT CAREER IDEAS WE SHARED WITH EACH OTHER... WE ALL ARE STILL HAERTBROKEN THAT U LEFT US... R I H LOVE AND MISS U ALWAYS... I'M SORRY!!!!!!!!!!

kimbo

December 14, 2011

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Denine Barnes

December 14, 2011

Demetria, my baby girl, my only daughter who I love more than life.. It's been 2 years today on December 14th, 2011.. and I can't believe you are not here with us.. I Look through the hallway all the time and hoping you would walk up the steps and say Mommy I'm home, but it's always your brother walking up the steps and I'm so glad.. But it's never you and I'm always so,so SAD. This is the hardest I ever had to endore losing you, it's too much to handle a lot of times.. I cry all the time wondering when am I going to wake up from this Bad,Bad dream.. Because in my mind you are still in Columbus.. I don't know how to be happy without you.. I'm not sure if I want too at times. I know I Miss You Like Crazy!! I never thought in a million years that I would be going through losing you. I'm not feelin these Holidays.. they mean nothing to me anymore since you left me..... I Love You Always.... Mommy

Denine Barnes

November 11, 2011

Pooh-Bear,

It's been 2 years since your last words to me. On this day, November 11, 2009, you were in the hospital crying and scared. You said to me "Mommy, I love you. Are you coming down?" I said "Pooh-Bear, I love you too. Please hold on! I'm trying to get there."

My life will never be the same without you in it. I miss you sooooo much! I wish I could see and touch you again. I wish I knew you are ok. It still doesn't seem real that you're not here with us. It's unbelievable.

I LOVE YOU ALWAYS.... MOMMY

March 2, 2011

Just wanted to let you know that I think of you daily... loving you always my beautiful neice... Your mom just sent me your DVD I will watch tonight! Man, I wish I could just hear you say my name once more.. I would give anything to see you or hear your voice once more...

Uncle Jason - ATL

January 24, 2011

Happy 28th Birthday my beautiful neice! Always thinking of you... always Loving you!

Love Uncle Jason

Denine Barnes

January 22, 2011

Demetria,
Happy 28th Birthday, This is the second birthday you miss with me and your family.You know i would buy you alot for your birthday,like you were a little girl.But you was my little girl once,and then you grew up to be a beautiful woman, that i was very much proud of.I was glad to have you as my daughter,we would always have clothes alike, I miss shopping for you this christmas and now your birthday i can't get you anything ever again.My life will never be the same without you.I watch your video's all the time,I cry all the time .I want to touch you' I wish i could hear your voice again.your name & phone no. will always remain in my phone.It don't feel real that you are gone,Its unbelieveable. I Love You Always, Mom.

Denine BARNES

January 22, 2011

To: My Beautiful Meechie, It's been a year,since you;ve been gone.Not a day goes by that we don't think about you.To me you are one in a million. I was always proud of the woman that you became.I miss your smile,independence,your focus and drive.You will always be my top model. You made me very proud to be your Mom.Gone too soon,I miss you sooooo much. I love you forever Mommy.

DAWN BARRETT

January 20, 2011

MEECHIE~

I'M MISSING YOU LIKE CRAZY, LIL SIS!! I REALIZED IT'S ALMOST YOUR BIRTHDAY AND I KEEP THINKING OF OUR LAST PLANS. IT'S 5:17 A.M. AND I CAN'T SLEEP. I STARTED READING YOUR ENTRIES AND I BEGAN TO CRY. SO MANY PEOPLE LOVE YOU! IF I CRY MYSELF BACK TO SLEEP I PRAY YOU COME TO ME LIKE YOU DID YOUR AUNTIE. I JUST WANT TO HEAR YOUR VOICE, SEE YOUR FACE AND HUG YOU. THEN I CAN CALL DENINE AND TELL HER HOW CUTE YOUR OUTFIT WAS! I COMPLAINED ABOUT YOUR BRATTY WAYS BUT KNOW I WAS A MAIN CONTRIBUTOR. YOU KNEW I WOULDN'T SAY NO. BUT THAT'S THE BENEFIT TO BEING MY SHINING STAR! I WAS CREATING A "MINI ME" WITH PERFECTION! TTYL! (MUAH!)

Sonya Edwards

January 14, 2011

My Dearest Great Neice Meechie,
I am so glad that we learned to trust
one another and reconciled that fact to
each other. Thank you for your last
kiss. You matured into a "Beautiful
young lady and showed more maturity
than a lot of grown people we know.
You had the "good courage" that the
Bible refers too and you know that.
I know that you are entertaining the
Angels!!! I will see you again by
"Faith I say this. From Everlasting
to Eternity, Lovingly Your Great Aunt
Sonya!!!

January 14, 2011

Dear Demie, wow how times flies. It was only yesterday when you would call me and keep me up all night me phone as you would travel from state to state on trips. We would talk about everything from your modeling and me being your bodyguard/manager and I would protect you. Now Gods Angels are watching over you, I look forward to seeing you on that runway to heaven one day. I pray that God will comfort mom and your brother. Everytime ihat I think of you I will look towards the sun of your warmth of love and to the stars in the night for that twinkle in your eye. Love you much your family Big Tim Hood. Atlantic City NJ.

Alexandra Edwards

January 10, 2011

Demetria, a year has passed and I still cannot believe that you are gone. I thank God for the times that we were able to spend together. You may not know it, but you gave me a front row lesson on how to be a young woman who is about her business. Although your time here was short, you definately left behind a wonderful legacy. I will continue to carry you and this legacy with me everywhere I go. Love you!

Eric the airbrush dude

January 9, 2011

Demetria I wish I could speak to you one more time. I want to tell you that I'm sorry! I'm sorry that I didn't hold a longer conversation with you that day you stopped by my airbrush shop to talk to me. It's really eating me up inside. I feel like you wanted to talk to me about something. I just keep having that feeling. I remember you said that you stopped by to say hello because we had not heard from each other in a while. I can still remember when you were walking out the door and you looked back and smiled. That smile stayed with me. I really miss you my friend! Time went by and in April of that next year I searched your name on the computer to see how your career was going. That's when and how I found out. That was a sad day for me. I think I stayed in for two days in a row. I normally don't cry much but I couldn't hold back. Demetria this is my letter to you. When I finish writing this I'm going to get on my knees and close my eyes and know that this letter got through to you. I also want to tell you thanks! Thanks for being a strong lady and living your life to the fullest. You inspired so many people to go for their dreams. Oh yeah! I'm not going to forget the food fight that we had at Ryan's Steak House that day you pushed my ice cream into my face. That was funny.
I miss you!
Luv ya!

Antonia Edwards

January 9, 2011

Meechie, as I sit her writing I can't believe it has been over a year since you've been gone. I just want to say that even though you passed away at a time in which many cannot understand I know God had a purpose for your life. Most of all I realized that each day isn't promised and to live life to the fullest - cherishing the time you have with family and doing what you love the most. I know you are smiling down as you watch your family find comfort and strength. I love you and thank you for bringing me closer to the family, especially your mom.

Love you always,
Antonia

January 9, 2011

Meechie, words can not say what you mean to me. You were definitely a beautiful flower from the day I met you, and you bloomed into a magnificent rose of a woman. I've always been proud of you and I love you. Meechie you will remain in my heart and in my mind forever.

~ Rayshan ~

sherhonda haynes

January 9, 2011

Meechie aka Peaches,I still can't beieve u gone.I miss u⁢ hurts we never got2 talk 1 last time before u left but I know u hear me when I talk 2 u.u are always in my heart & I cherish the great memories we have growing up...u were like another sister. I can still hear your crazy laugh...I love u girl...RIH...love your big cousin mwah!

January 7, 2011

I love you and I miss you!!

Love always,
Minyon

January 7, 2011

To my God mommy Meechie,
I watch your videos and I cry. Why did you leave me? I know you are in a better place though. I miss you and I love you.

Love always,
Fredwin

January 7, 2011

Meechie,
I miss you so very much. It has taken me this long to write you because it has been so hard for me to accept you being gone. You were one of my best and closest friends and know that you will never be replaced. I miss calling you to talk about the different things going on in my life and you giving me your advice on what I should do and vise versa. I think about you all the time and sometimes the things make me laugh and other times I cry for hours. I am tearing up just writing this. You were definitely an angel gone too soon and one of the most beautiful people I knew. Just want you to know that I miss you and love you very much. You will always be in my heart and my prayers forever!!

Love you always,
Felicia B.

Toni Olarry

January 7, 2011

MEECHIE LOVE YOU GIRL!!!

your big cuz Antoinette Olarry

January 7, 2011

Danine words can't express my sorrow.I know that it has been really hard for you and little man. My prayers has always been with you and the family. I miss my little cousin she's so beautiful. I love you guys and will continue to pray for strength. I will always be here for you whenever you need me. I know meechie we will see each other again in heaven. Love you baby girl!!

January 7, 2011

Denine (my friend) Its been a year already and even though we may smile or even have a laugh together.... words cannot even express the PAIN and EMPTINESS that I see in you as another day goes by!!!!! I just want you to know I will always be here for you whenever you need to talk or you just need a hug. Love always, your friend and co-worker. Lisa Billups

December 31, 2010

Gone is the face we loved so dear,
silent is the voice we loved to hear;
too far away for sight or speech,
but not too far for thought to reach.
Sweet to remember Demetria who once was here, and who, though absent, is just as dear.

Demetria, you are truly missed!
Denine, you are in my prayers daily.

Love, Colleen

Lavenia Edwards

December 31, 2010

I can remember when you were just a little girl and your mom would take so many pictures of you. You were beautiful then and looking at all your recent pictures modeling was the right profession for you. Although you are not here with us any longer in the physical body, your spirit will live forever. God took you away for a reason we will never know why but I know your up in heaven doing what you do best and that is letting your light shine.I look at your picture every day and thank god for putting you in my life and my children's life's through your uncle Cornel. One day we all make that journey and the first face I know we will see is that pretty smile and loud mouth. Denine I pray for you everyday that in time you will grow stronger and live out the life that god has designed for you. I Love you
and I am here to listen,pray,cry or whatever it takes to get you through another day. Lavenia L. Edwards

Dale Wanda Spears-Sims

December 31, 2010

meechie it has been a whole years since u went to be with our Lord!! it seems like it jus happened!! i miss u so very much!! i look at ur pictures on my dresser & swear u r lookn bak!! i no r still with us becuz u r a strength of love & love is powerful!!! it has bn a struggle for us all!!! i miss u and i will always love u!! i just imagine u r still n columbus bcuz itz easier that way. but it gets really hard alot off times becuz i b waitn for some1 too say meechie coming n town!! i use to get too excited wen u came home!! now i just have 2 wait til god calls me home 2 c u again!! thank u for leaving us with such beautiful pictures, wonderful memories, extremely funny times, & ALOT OF LOVE..... i think of u everyday!!............u were our TOP model on earth & NOW U R GODS TOP MODEL N HEAVEN!! KEEP SHINING UR LIGHT MEECHIE!!!!

robby odoms

December 31, 2010

there does not go a day that i do not thank of you i still have your obituary on my dresser i still have your phone number in my cell phone i miss you so much you were the best god-daughter in the world because you showed me nothing but love my heart will never be the same again every time me and meechie talked we would end with i love you so i will say it one more time to meechie i love you may god help us all because we still need it

DeLesa Edwards Parrish

December 22, 2010

Meechie,

When God calls a loved one home, we sometimes question the wisdom of His love, for no heartache compares with the death of a loved one.

We all are Gifts of God to one another; He places Special Earthly Angels in our lives to reflect his love to us. You are now a Heavenly Angel, looking down with God, and sending Love, Blessings and Peace.
We may be restless as our lives are not whole because you are not with us. But, we will be peaceful because we know it is not forever.

The saddest word known will always be the last "Goodbye". Instead, we say “So Long” because we look forward to seeing you again, in Heaven.
Your Heavenly Love is being sent to your Mother, family and friends, Love that supernaturally help us to keep pressing on one more day.

We have learned from you in Life and now from Heaven that we should cherish each other every moment we have to share.

You are loved without measure and without limit.

Love, Aunt DeLesa

Melvin Womack, Sr.

December 22, 2010

Meechie,

I remember you as a very talented and beautiful young Lady. Your smile always provided a beautiful glow to everyone you shared it with. I always expected to see you in fashion magazines as a model enticing viewers to purchase the items you were modeling.

I imagine you, now, as a gorgeous Angel sharing the glow of Love from God along with His joy and happiness. You will always be remembered as a Niece full of life and energy. And each time I smile, I will attempt to share a glow to others as you did so well.

I expect to see you again when God calls me to share in my reward.

Love you forever, Uncle Mel

December 22, 2010

Meechie,

I remember you as a very talented and beautiful young Lady. Your smile always provided a beautiful glow to everyone you shared it with. I always expected to see you in fashion magazines as a model enticing viewers to purchase the items you were modeling.

I imagine you, now, as a gorgeous Angel sharing the glow of Love from God along with His joy and happiness. You will always be remembered as a Niece full of life and energy. And each time I smile, I will attempt to share a glow to others as you did so well.

I expect to see you again when God calls me to share in my reward.

Love you forever, Uncle Mel

MY ANGEL

Danielle Edwards

December 21, 2010

"Halo" everytime I here that song, remebering of how I had to pull your strength to dance through it, because that was just for you. You were an Angel here on earth, but now I know your one of my Angels. Although I wish I could still see you I'm blessed to have you by my side whenever I need you. For the last year the thought of being the last person you laid eyes on, I hope you could see my Halo too. Loving you more, Your Cousin, Dannie

Dannie

December 21, 2010

You were there when I needed you. I will never be able to repay you for the all the time you made for me and my children. I LOVE YOU, and always will.

Carlos Taylor

December 20, 2010

Meechie thank you for the time you spent with me and my family Aliyah misses you and I love the way you made a positive influence on my daughter who learned beautiful is not dumb thanks Meechie love you always BUTCH

Brenda Barnes

December 18, 2010

Meechie, Not a day goes by that I don't think of you you touched so many people's livesI miss you so much I miss not talking to you I know when you left us my mom wass looking for you but then she said oh she will be here she will be fashionaly late Ma loved you so much meechie give my mom a kiss and I will give your mom a hug I know on the 14th you looked down and saw how much you were loved there were so many at your site your mommie and daddy loves you so much Merry Christmas and Happy Birthday baby you are out of my sight you are out of my touch but you are not forgotten I love you your aunt Brenda

DAWN BARRETT

December 18, 2010

MEECHIE! I LOVE YOU SO MUCH. NOT A DAY GOES BY THAT I DON'T THINK OF YOU. THE HOLIDAYS WILL NEVER BE THE SAME WITHOUT YOU SO I WILL HOLD ON TO ALL THE MEMORIES WE MADE AND KEEP YOUR SPIRIT DEAR TO MY HEART.

Darlene Shelmon

December 17, 2010

I'm sorry I forgot to add my name to the entry on Dec. 16, 2010....so hear is a repost.
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Denine it's been a year and I know that you are still grieving. I also know that Jesus is still with you and the prayer and love of others are their also. I also know that the grieving and pain never goes away but believe me.....in time it gets less intense. It's been almost 8 years since I loss my child and sometimes it still hurts like it just happened. Grief can be so hard during the holidays, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one this holiday season.

I see you baby.....

Jason Barnes

December 16, 2010

Loving you always... my beautiful neice... I miss you so much.. I constantly stare at your pictures... Your always watching me! I love you so much and I will always miss you...

Linda Barnes

December 16, 2010

Its been a hard year to live without you. Things for me have changed a lot, the things we liked together. Music does'nt sound the same, I hear your favorite songs & think of you, your smile & you dancing. I think of you often,& miss you ALWAYS. Sad to say my new granbaby Karmello will not know the person that you are but she will know everthing about you, & know your face when she see's your picture. you left us with great memories of you, enough to share for years to come, & I thank you for that. Love you always & Forever.............................. NOT A DAY GOES BY........................... BuTuRfLy

December 16, 2010

Denine it's been a year and I know that you are still grieving. I also know that Jesus is still with you and the prayer and love of others are their also. I also know that the grieving and pain never goes away but believe me.....in time it gets less intense. It's been almost 8 years since I loss my child and sometimes it still hurts like it just happened. Grief can be so hard during the holidays, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one this holiday season.

Brittanie Edwards

December 15, 2010

A moment of silence for my cousin who left this earth last year;
At a time that was supposed to be filled w/ happiness & cheer.
Before I get too busy w/finals & forget to pay you mind,
Let me tell you that I love & miss you one more time.
Today is the official day of your deaths 1st anniversary,
since you're not here to Live It Up,this 1's on me.
I love you beyond actions &
miss you beyond words,
these words have been spoken to the heavens &
hoped to have been spiritually heard... by you.

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