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Jamie O'Hara

1950 - 2021

Jamie O'Hara obituary, 1950-2021, Nashville, TN

Jamie O'Hara Obituary

(News story) Jamie O'Hara, a Grammy-winning songwriter and a chart-making country music recording artist who years earlier turned heads in northwest Ohio with his athletic feats, died Jan. 7 in Alive Hospice, Nashville. He was 70.

He had cancer, his wife, Lola White O'Hara, said.

Mr. O'Hara was inducted last year into the Ottawa Hills High School Athletic Hall of Fame. A 1968 graduate, he'd been a standout in baseball and basketball and led the football team to three consecutive conference titles.

"Jamie was a unique combination of an exceptional athlete, very humble, the nicest person, friends with everybody," said Robert Shopneck of Denver, a friend since childhood. "Yet he was this incredibly fierce competitor. He was a person of great character. That stood out."

Mr. O'Hara played football for Indiana University. An injury his sophomore year ended his playing career.

He'd first made headlines as a 5-year-old swimming sensation.

At his death, music trade publications noted his achievements in another arena.

Billboard, in its report, said that Mr. O'Hara as a songwriter had 31 hits on the Billboard Hot Country Songs chart. They included 10 top 10 songs and three No. 1s. Most notable was the Judds' recording of his song, "Grandpa (Tell Me 'Bout The Good Old Days)," which won Mr. O'Hara the Grammy in 1986 for best country song. Other No. 1s included, in 1987, "Can't Stop My Heart From Loving You," which he recorded with Kieran Kane as a member of their duo, the O'Kanes, and in 2003, Gary Allan's "Man To Man."

Close vocal harmony was an O'Kanes' hallmark and, the publication said, the duo had six top 10 Billboard country songs. Their vocals on "Can't Stop My Heart From Loving You" prompted a Grammy nomination for best country performance by a duo or group. According to Billboard, the O'Kanes received credit for helping spearhead the alt-country/?Americana movement in the 1980s and early 1990s.

"I can't really call it country music and don't try to define what I write," Mr. O'Hara told The Blade's Hank Harvey in 1987 ahead of an O'Kanes performance at the University of Toledo's Centennial Hall. "That's for the public to do. If it hits my soul button, then that's what I like."

The late Mr. Harvey - himself a musician who'd been a radio disc jockey in the South - wrote: "Instrumentally and vocally, the O'Kanes are in the bluegrass stable, but it is a delicate and measured music that allows the vocals to soar...Their songs say a lot, but do it subtly...Some of the duets bring back memories of the Louvin Brothers, a gospel/?country duo who came out of West Tennessee in the early 50s to become regulars on the Grand Ole Opry."

The duo split in 1990. Mr. O'Hara continued to write - his songs were recorded by Emmylou Harris, Tammy Wynette, Randy Travis, among others - and he recorded as a solo artist.

"When the O'Kanes broke up, I kind of went into a hermit mode here in Nashville and began writing...As I began looking at the body of material that I was writing, I felt like an album was taking shape," Mr. O'Hara told The Blade in 1994 about his debut solo recording, released that year. A song on that album, "50,000 Names," about the Vietnam Veterans Memorial, later became a hit for George Jones.

"His athletic training and discipline very much influenced his approach to his musical career," his wife said by email. "He worked hard, every day, just as he continued to work out physically every day, even when he was in great pain from the knee injury that ended his athletic career, and the severe back pain due to spinal stenosis that he suffered in recent years, and right up to his death."

She added, "...he was very meticulous about always doing his BEST work."

James Paul O'Hara, Jr., was born Aug. 18, 1950, to Lindy and James O'Hara, who became founder and president of Louisville Title Insurance Co.

Training and competition began early. "Jamie O'Hara, At 5, Already Winning Prizes As Swimmer," said a 1956 Blade headline. At age 6, he set a national record in the freestyle. A decade later, a Blade headline about his football talent, said "Hill's O'Hara Is Golden Boy." The Blade's Bill Fox noted that, as a junior, the halfback wanted to be known as "Jim."

"His teammates call him 'Gold,' perhaps because on the football field he's as good as the precious metal," Mr. Fox wrote.

After his knee injury at Indiana, he came home to recuperate. His parents gave him a guitar for his 21st birthday. Three months later, his father died.

"It was an extremely emotional time. But all that emotion went right into the guitar and started coming out," Mr. O'Hara told The Blade in 1994. He moved to Nashville in the mid-1970s.

He was formerly married to Meredith Roemer Delone.

Surviving are his wife, Lola White O'Hara, his life partner since 1979, whom he married Feb. 14, 2019; stepsons Brian Claflin and David Halberg, and sisters Lyndell O'Hara and Patricia "Micki" O'Hara.

A memorial service will be held "when it is safer to hold such gatherings," his wife said.

This is a news story by Mark Zaborney. Contact him at [email protected]">[email protected]">[email protected]">[email protected].
Published by The Blade on Jan. 24, 2021.

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Marti Herring

April 13, 2023

So very fortunate to have seen Jamie with Kieran (O'Kanes) in Branson, 1988. They invited me and my son back stage to meet the band. Saw them again a few months later in Springfield, MO and Jamie remembered us. How sweet. He was such a gentleman with a wonderful gift of song writing and a beautiful voice to sing those songs. You will be missed. RIP

Billy Sours

November 1, 2022

Thank you Jamie..... just Thank You.

Abby Jones

October 12, 2022

So much talent. So little time. Huge loss. I thank God for the childhood memories you left behind Jamie. So glad you found a soulmate my friend. And thank you for sharing your soul with others. Rest in peace.

Karen Krattinger

February 15, 2021

Lola, yesterday's memorial to Jamie's couldn't have been any more lovely. His presence and spirit shined through all of those who spoke such beautiful memories. I am proud to have been a part. Much love.

ElizaBeth Hill

February 13, 2021

Early in our friendship Jamie was curious about my being Native American and said "I guess you don't like westerns then do you." He was honest in conversation and respectful in his consideration of everyone's words. And one of the people who could make me laugh so hard I'd cry. Sometimes God sends angels to walk amongst us, gives them opportunity to anchor beauty and love on this Earth....that was Jamie.

Jennifer Kimball

February 13, 2021

Zoom is far from perfect- but you folks did a wonderful job celebrating Jamie. I was smiling for much of it, cried just a little--loved the slideshow (what a dive!), songs and stories, and your poetry, Lola. Like a great songwriter, you choose your authentic words with care, none are misplaced--and you perform them beautifully. I see you in your sons- and your grandchildren's pure voices. Much love to you- Jennifer

Kellen Brugman

February 13, 2021

I remember Jamie for his gift of giving someone his full attention during conversation. He listened with his ears, eyes, and heart. First met him in 2000, while working as office manager for Moraine Music Group, his publishing company. As he walked to Brent's office, Jamie always sat a spell and struck up a little convo. I can't recall what we talked about now, meaning the words. But I can still hear the melody and lilt of Jamie's voice. His way of speaking was like his songwriting style. His calm, smooth voice - the melody; thoughtful speaking- the lyrics; and his gift of listening- the spaces between notes. That sacred space where hearts meet and love eternally blossoms. What a beautiful soul and being.

Miranda Louise

February 10, 2021

What i remember most about Jamie was his kindness, first and foremost....which is such an amazing attribute for anyone to have....he was a great songwriter; he wrote the kind of songs people don't forget! May he RIEP.... Godspeed, friend.

M Rutledge

January 26, 2021

My deepest condolences to Jamie's family. He will live on forever in your hearts. Jamie and I were friends and teammates at the Sylvania CC in our youth.

John Anthony Martin

January 25, 2021

Amazing harmonizer. Hd sang most of the high harmonies on the O'Kanes hits, and did it with soul and a Don Every like precision that was uniquely his own. What a writer and super talent and all around Godly and Good man! Love you Jamie! John Anthony Martin

Lola White

January 24, 2021

Jamie was the finest man I've ever known, kind, generous, humble, loving and the possessor of many talents. He was a faithful friend, and was always available to listen to strangers, who seemed to seek him out to tell their own stories.

James and Heide Klein

January 24, 2021

Bless Jamie O'Hara.

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