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Joshua Gruden Obituary

Joshua Aaron Gruden, 43, of Mt. Lebanon, passed away unexpectedly Thursday, June 14, 2018. He was the beloved son of Francis and Patti (Roesch) Gruden, of Mt. Lebanon; devoted and loving father (aka Daboo) of Storey Elizabeth Gruden; brother of Francis Gruden IV; fiance of Karina M. Casale; grandson of Frank Gruden and the late Elizabeth "Bettie" Gruden, Arveda and Elmer Roesch; and nephew of Kevin Gruden, Patrick (Gina) Gruden, Bill (Paula) Roesch, Luann Roesch (Larry) Steffy and Barbara (Ron) Forsman. He also leaves behind many relatives in Pittsburgh and Philadelphia. Josh was a 1993 graduate of Mt. Lebanon High School, where he played football, basketball and soccer. He attended West Virginia University and was a member of the 1993 Sugar Bowl team. Josh loved his family and friends, was an avid fitness enthusiast and enjoyed music and concerts, particularly Widespread Panic and Phish. Josh was well respected in the service industry for many years before moving on to his true passion of personal training and managing fitness clubs.
Friends and relatives are invited to a Mass of Christian burial at 10 a.m. Saturday, June 23, 2018, at Our Lady of Joy Catholic Parish, 2000 O'Block Road, Pittsburgh, PA 15239. Arrangements are by BURKET-TRUBY FUNERAL HOME CREMATION AND ALTERNATIVE SERVICES INC., Oakmont.
In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made in his name to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital. (www.stjude.org).

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Published by Tribune Review from Jun. 17 to Jun. 22, 2018.

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Carole Peticca Schafer

June 12, 2024

Always remembering, Joshua, a truly wonderful Parishioner at Holy Mass with his cherished Karina, and beloved Daughter. He is always with you, and honoring you at the Throne of Jesus in Heaven....You are always in my prayers.

Carole Schafer

June 11, 2019

Dearest Karina and Storey, I pray to Josh, he is truly a very special angel. I will always remember you three coming into Church together...a beautiful family of God...so special to all.
THANK YOU ALWAYS FOR YOUR MANY KINDNESSES TO ME! You made Reading, so much more wonderful! Please know, Karina, you and Storey are always in my every prayer! As so evident in his smiles, his manner, Josh loves you so very, very much...We all do, too...

Carole Peticca Schafer

June 26, 2018

Dearest Karina, Storey and Family ...
I am so very sorry for the loss of your beloved Josh.
Seeing you both at Our Lady of Joy Church always made my day ... and I was always so grateful for your kindness, compassion, in praise on my Readings ... You are all always in my heart, in my prayers. Remember, we are here for you and the love you will always share is in our hearts and minds, forever...
Love,
Carole Peticca Schafer

Barbara DaLee

June 22, 2018

I am so sorry for your loss. Prayers and hugs for your family.

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a loved one

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Jenni Asciollla

June 20, 2018

May your smile and larger than life personality continue to shine love and light on all of those that you have touched. Sending strength and love to your daughter, fiancé, family and friends. You left way to soon. RIP, Josh.

Tanya Haydt (Rudolph)

June 20, 2018

This feels like a part of my childhood has been ripped away. I have gone to school with Josh since kindergarten at Lincoln. He and I were never really friends, but I remember him well. He was a force of nature. No other way to describe him. His personality was electric. I can't believe I am using past tense when talking about him. My heart is heavy over this loss, and my most heartfelt thoughts and prayers go out to his family and friends.

Vince Pasquale

June 19, 2018

Fran, Patti & Pat

I never met your Josh but I know he was and always will be a valued member of your family.

As I was reading Ron's email I was thinking of what I could do to help you get through this loss. I only thing I could think of was to tell you there are a lot of your AWD friends that along with me are praying for you and your son.

I hope that this note may help ease the pain that you are going through.

If you ever get to New York City please give me a call.

Your Friend

Vince Pasquale
347-731-8241

Jake Shaffer

June 19, 2018

Can't believe your gone. All the good conversations we had, all the advice you gave me, it's hurts to know that your gone, you were truly one hell of a guy and I'll miss you so much. Rest easy up there. And I'll see you again someday.

June 18, 2018

My heat is breaking for you! All my love and prayers to all of you! Our children went to school together so I'm soo lucky to have known him. I'm holding on to those wouderful memories. God bless you all!!

Tristan Veitch

June 18, 2018

Josh was such a nice guy he tried to get me to join his gym he was so full of life and so happy I only met him twice but I'm praying for him and his family-Tristan-

Don Pysh

June 18, 2018

Fran,

I'm sorry about your loss. I wish there were something I could say or do to lessen the emptiness you must be feeling.

Your old friend ... Don Pysh

Megan Anton

June 18, 2018

To Josh's Family, I met Josh in March when he signed me up at the gym. He is actually the reason I joined because of his friendly and charismatic personality. I would make a point to stop and greet him every visit and he was just such a lovely person. He would always talk about Karina. I am actually in Wildwood, New Jersey right now and have been very upset during our entire trip. I cannot imagine what it will be like not to see him there next week but I will never forget his kindness with me in my journey. I am so glad I got to meet him even for such a short time. You raised a wonderful man.❤

June 18, 2018

Fran, Patti and Fran,

I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with all of you. - Packy Loughren

Erin Vuono

June 18, 2018

I went to elementary school with Josh and I have so many childhood memories of him. I was so sorry and shocked to hear this. My thoughts are with all of you.

June 17, 2018

Our thoughts and prayers are with you Grudens! We just love Josh, his smile, and his intensity!

Sally and John Adkins

Terry and Bonnie Doran

June 17, 2018

To the Gruden family,
Oh, my! We are so shocked and saddened to hear of your loss. We have such fond memories of our soccer days and time spent with your family. Such a tragedy.

John Adkins

June 17, 2018

Gruden Family,

We love Josh so much and we love you so much. His spirit burns bright.

Greg Kovalchick

June 17, 2018

May your family find peace and comfort in remembering all the good memories and cherished times you spent together with Josh. Uncle Frank, Fran and Patty and family have my deepest sympathy, Greg Kovalchick

Erin King

June 17, 2018

Patty and Family,
My sincerest sympathy on the loss of your beautiful son. May your healing come through the love of family and friends that will keep Josh alive in their hearts!

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