Thomas McAlister, 65, of Penn, passed away from complications due to covid-19 pneumonia, Wednesday, Sept. 23, 2020, in Excela Health Westmoreland Hospital. He was born Sept. 15, 1955, in Greensburg, son of the late Clarence and Marie McAlister. Tom was a 1973 graduate of Jeannette High School. He was employed by SuperValu Inc. for 34 years. Tom is survived by his loving wife of 31 years, Sue Painter McAlister; his children, Adrienne McAlister, of Greensburg, Jared McAlister (Carly), of Forest Hills, Brandy Slezak (Kevin), of Export, Courtney Seyler (Tom), of Greensburg, Shelby Clouse (Erik), of Penn, Matthew McAlister, of Glassport, Justin McAlister, of Greensburg, and Jason McAlister, of Tampa, Fla.; a sister, Patricia Jacobs, of Latrobe; a brother, Robert McAlister (Gloria), of Pittsburgh; his twin brother, Timothy McAlister, of Jeannette; and numerous grandchildren, great-grandchildren, nieces and nephews. Per Tom's request, there will be no services. A celebration of Tom's life and memorial will be announced at a later date. Tom's family has entrusted his care to the JOHN V. GRAZIANO FUNERAL HOME INC. in Jeannette. The family would like to express gratitude for the care and compassion of the devoted staff in the ICU at Excela Health Westmoreland Hospital for all that you do. To offer an online condolence, please visit our website at www.johnvgrazianofuneralhomeinc.com. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the American Lung Association. Tom's advice for all: stay covid vigilant, wear a mask, social distance, wash your hands, and stay safe.

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Published by Tribune Review from Sep. 26 to Sep. 27, 2020.

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Glenda Hughes

December 6, 2020

I met Tom and Sue through a group called New-Gen. Our friendship bloomed when we met in Ohio for the first time. A mutual friend from Staffordshire, England, Pam Parsons, visited the United States. Pam went with them to their home and I returned to my home in London, KY. This was in 2004. I felt like I already knew them from all the posts we had shared over the years. Pam visited every two years until 2010. Tom and Sue would drive to my home to pick Pam up and take her back home with them. That is when I really got to know Tom. He was the most loving person. It was evident how much he loved Sue and I was impressed with his gentleness and caring spirit. I grew to love Tom and Sue and count them a great friends. My heart goes out to Sue and all the family. Please know that I am here for you Sue. I realize there isn't much I can do to mend your heart but I will always try to be there for you. God bless you. Love, Glenda

Thomas Reinacher

October 10, 2020

The Reinacher Family from Germany is shocked about Tom passed away. We are sad about not visiting him and his family in real. Deepest sympathy, Thomas and Silvia, Corinna, Jan and Stephanie with Luis, Milo and Nele
Rest in Peace

Frank J. Boch

October 2, 2020

I remember Tom from working with him at Elliott Company back in 1975. I couldn't forget him because he was an exceptional union brother who stood up for me when I needed his help. We hardly knew each other, and I gained a great deal of respect for him that day. I still hold that respect.

I never forgot, Tom. Rest In Peace.

Jerry Lago

September 29, 2020

Really sad to hear about Tom. As childhood friends, had many happy times playing ball at Myers Field and hanging out in the woods with Tom and Ape. With deepest sympathy.

Jeff Dematteo

September 29, 2020

With our deepest sympathies for Tom’s family. May you find peace and comfort knowing so many care and are praying for you. Tom was a childhood friend and coworker at Supervalu for many years. Sincerely Jeff & Katie DeMatteo

Hank & Linda Balles

September 28, 2020

I'll always remember you as a loving and generous person. I also have wonderful memories of the fun I had with the cousins at Aunt Chic and Uncle Bossy's house, and recently being able to keep in touch through Facebook. Sending our thoughts, prayers and love to all the family.

Angelo Manolis

September 27, 2020

To the McAllister family was shocked to hear about Tom‘s passing cannot believe it I hope you guys get a little comfort.

Bob and Sandy Gongaware

September 27, 2020

So sorry Adrienne and Jared and family for the loss of your Dad. Prayers during this trying time!

Joseph Grenda

September 27, 2020

To you and your whole family you have my deepest sympathy.I worked with Tom and considered him not only a good friend but one of the best people I have known.Tom and your whole family with be in my prayers always.

Kelly Swain

September 26, 2020

I am so very sorry for all of your loss . Tom and sue will always have a forever love ❤ . Sleep well Tom and thank you for always showing love and compassion to everyone who knew you.

Alana Maffessanti

September 26, 2020

Courtney & Family - I have great memories of hanging out at your place as a teenager. Laughs and good times always filled the house. In all the pictures you posted, I see those good times carried on. Continued prayers for all of you during this difficult time.

Just a tiny gallery of memories with dad

Adrienne

September 26, 2020

Chris Scurci-Vitale

September 26, 2020

Deepest sympathies to your family. Tom was always such a nice guy, graduated with him.

Denny Mccready

September 26, 2020

RIP Tom my friend. Thoughts and prayers to family & friends

Mom and Dad

Courtney Seyler

September 25, 2020

Best picture:)

Courtney Seyler

September 25, 2020

Courtney Seyler

September 25, 2020

His Boys

Courtney Seyler

September 25, 2020

Loved his grand babies

Courtney Seyler

September 25, 2020

Courtney Seyler

September 25, 2020

Loving his grandchild

Courtney Seyler

September 25, 2020

Miss you DAD!!

Courtney Seyler

September 25, 2020

Courtney Seyler

September 25, 2020

Amazing, Joy, Devoted, and Smile for miles!!

Bob Bayura & Erika

September 25, 2020

May your soul rest in peace with the Lord my union brother. Another great soul on this planet has been lost. May your family have peace in knowing that you are with the lord.

Scott, Wendy, Olivia and Theo Lindstrom

September 25, 2020

Our deepest sympathy goes out to all who mourn the loss of Tom. Love and memories are never ending. We pray that peace fill your hearts in place of sadness. God be with you all.

Jonathan Jamison

September 25, 2020

Rest in peace Tom

Curtis & Karen Antoniak

September 25, 2020

Our Deepest Sympathy to all of you!!!

GAP FCU

September 25, 2020

Our deepest condolences to the family, Tom will truly be missed by all of us!

Stout Family

September 25, 2020

Deepest sympathy

Darlene Govern

September 25, 2020

Sending the hope that you may find some small bit of comfort in knowing that the people whose lives Tom has touched care and share in your sorrow. Prayers to you all for the strength and courage to face the difficult days ahead. May you cherish and hold dear in your hearts forever all the loving, wonderful memories!

Lynn Wiser

September 25, 2020

My deepest sympathies to Sue and all the kids. We once were part of the same family but I still consider you all family. My heart breaks for you. Love to all.

Cynthia Gorgas

September 25, 2020

I am truely saddened to hear of Tom's passing. We knew each other since the early 70's and I am happy to call him friend! Ed and I wish for peace and wonderful memories to Sue and all family members! He adored you Sue and all his children! Tom and family are in our thoughts and prayers!

Julia Augustine

September 25, 2020

My deepest sympathies, my heart and prayers for your loss. May you be filled with the Peace of Christ.

Elaine Ankney

September 25, 2020

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived. Elaine Ankney

September 25, 2020

May God bring you all comfort in this time of such sadness. -Eric & Jackie Kisslinger

Paula Arnold

September 25, 2020

Our deepest condolences to the family.
May you find comfort with you wonderful memories❤

Jay Harrison

September 25, 2020

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Mark Gogo Gogolsky

September 25, 2020

Tom RIP to the McAlister family you have my deepest sympathy

Anita Tortorella

September 25, 2020

Dear Adrienne and siblings you are in our prayers. We also pray for your father. We know how close you were with your father.

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