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Jeffrey L. Alter

1964 - 2017

Jeffrey L. Alter obituary, 1964-2017, Tarentum, PA

BORN

1964

DIED

2017

FUNERAL HOME

Duster Funeral Home, Inc.

347 East 10th Ave.

Tarentum, Pennsylvania

Jeffrey Alter Obituary

Jeffrey L. Alter, 53, of Tarentum, passed away Wednesday, May 24, 2017, at his home following a long and hard-fought battle with severe depression. He was born April 6, 1964, in Natrona Heights, son of Lynn E. "Bud" and Frances M. (Magoc) Alter of Tarentum. Jeff had lived his entire life in Tarentum and worked as an operations manager in building maintenance for many years. Jeff was a member of Trinity United Methodist Church, Brackenridge, and Outdoor Life Lodge in Fawn Township. He was a 1982 graduate of Highlands High School and Forbes Vocational Technical School. He enjoyed gardening and grilling outdoors. His love for fishing was surpassed only by the size of his heart and love for his family. His compassion is evident in the multiple lives that have been saved and improved by his organ donation and dedication to research for suicide prevention. Besides his parents, he is survived by a daughter, Shelby McAndrews, of North Carolina; granddaughter Abby, of Colorado; twin brother Jon Alter, of Natrona Heights; and brothers Mark (Brenda Marshall) Alter, of Saxonburg, and Brian (Christie Chapman) Alter, of Cabot. He is also survived by an uncle, Thomas (Mary Jo Yeasted) Magoc, of Frazer Township; aunts Marie (Magoc) Tartamella, of Brackenridge, and Nancy (Michael) McCarty, of Cranberry Township; nephews Cory, Sam, Alec and Devin; and niece Kali. Jeff was preceded in death by paternal grandparents Lynn and Miriam Alter, maternal grandparents Thomas Magoc and Margaret Pochet, uncle Robert Magoc and niece Angel Alter.
All services and burial in Prospect Cemetery, Brackenridge, were held privately for Jeff. Arrangements are by DUSTER FUNERAL HOME INC., 347 E. 10th Ave., Tarentum, 724-224-1526.
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Published by The Valley News Dispatch on May 26, 2017.

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Colleen McAndrew

December 16, 2022

Dear Jeffrey, I cried my eyes out when I heard of your passing. Thank you for giving me the Greatest Love of all! My Shelby Lynn. Love you always. Colleen

Jill Levin Levin

May 24, 2019

Missing you; yet seeing you in my dreams brings joy

Jill Levin Levin

May 23, 2019

Still.... thinking of you daily and planted beautiful" Love In a Midst" flowers 4 you- only one block away from where you grew up.I am looking forward to seeing you again in all your perfection and glory, in the kingdom. Love Always xoxo

significant other

October 12, 2018

still So,So missed

"What"; (now you know)

jill alter

July 16, 2017

Chips that We L♥ved with Salsa............

Jill Alter

July 11, 2017

We really are not THAT Old!!

Jill Alter

July 11, 2017

I showed Jeffrey were I roller skated as a child on Monday May 22, 2017

Jill Levin

June 30, 2017

I shared a childhood memory with Jeffrey on May 22, 2017, after we ate Little Caesars Pizza for dinner

A lunch date Monday May 22, 2017

Jill levin

June 30, 2017

That he wanted to take me out to lunch on Monday May 22, 2017 and we went

A great trip to see the animals & shop

Jil Levin

June 30, 2017

I enjoyed every peaceful moment with him driving to Locust Grove twice, since November 2016

"you need this" (per Jeffrey..LOL... WE GOT BIF TIME BACK UP: BABE

Jill Levin

June 29, 2017

Jill Levin

June 29, 2017

great memories

Cherry Tootsie Pops we always shared 2gether♥

Jill Levin

June 29, 2017

Cherry Tootsie Pops we always shared 2gether

jill levin

June 28, 2017

Emails sent between Jeffrey and I below. He did not receive the ones May 24 Or May 25, as I hadn't heard from him and did not know he had passed already.So sad.So young & sweet.♥♥♥♥♥

jill levin

June 28, 2017

banana anna
To:Jeffrey Alter
May 25 at 1:49 AM
have not heard from my monkey in 24 hrs.?

jill levin

June 28, 2017

Thank you
personal

[email protected]
To:[email protected]
May 24 at 1:31 PM

Thanks 4 lunch & good times fishing& walking in woods great food
...just alittle 2late...

jill levin

June 28, 2017

♪ ♥ ♪ ♥ ♪ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pX_rkvZONj0 ♥ ♪ ♥ ♪ ♥

Market Square 2016 with Jeffrey smirking

Jill Levin

June 27, 2017

Dec.2016 Jeffrey and I went to Pgh. to get a marriage license, do business and go shop at the Market Square X-mas market. I also took him to see the gingerbread houses in PPG that the kids make yearly.He watched me get my pic taken with Santa.I remember telling him to "look how happy I was in the pic", coz I was having such a great time with him that day. I never like pics of myself;so this was rare for me.
We laughed with the garage attendant,as well.Bif showed us the pic of his wife and how it was their 20th anniversary.
He met Emil that day, our professional fisherman that is now retired.They got along great and Jeffrey got to fish with him, as well as fix his screen door for him on Mon.May 22, 2017.He just took it upon himself to fix it;Emil never even asked for help. Jeffrey always gave out of his heart♥

Are we related ?{in sync thinking again} We had so much in common

June 27, 2017

Jeffrey and I had so much in common that I made a joke about getting a DNA test to make sure we weren't related.We agreed. I showed him this kit and we laughed.He loved me so much he told Sammy he didn't even care if we were! LOL..

The necklace with a cross

Jill Levin

June 27, 2017

The necklace I bought at Trinity church craft show last fall. I gave Jeffrey's mom my phone #, because I refused him several times prior. I bought the necklace that day and saw him that afternoon.

Lol.. in sync thinking:fishing lures"!

JIll Levin

June 27, 2017

I remember laughing together in my apartment when we both thought these could be used for fishing lures.LOL..Jeffrey's laugh and sparkle in his eyes were contagious..♥

Thank you 4 taking me 2 Locust Grove..xoxo

Jill Levin

June 26, 2017

Tupperware times!

Jill Levin

June 26, 2017

boots still dirty from fishing last month-Ty 4 taking me 2 Locust Grove

jill levin

June 24, 2017

just found our gum in my purse

jill levin

June 24, 2017

jill levin

June 23, 2017

Turn Turn Turn , by The Byrds... Ecclesiat.3:1-8

fishing poles

jill Levin

June 23, 2017

jill levin

June 23, 2017

https://youtu.be/twL3v5r8s6o

"Look how expensive it is"(per Jill), but it;s good & worth it! You loved those Belgian waffles 2, babe

jill levin

June 23, 2017

Just finished the salsa last night that we bought @ Aldi's; Wow ! I am gonna think about you every ti e I go back there now<br />

Jill Levin

June 22, 2017

Our last shopping trip 2 Aldi's

&quot;Look @ her little satchel&quot;(per Jeffrey), upon our first meeting @ Kieth's house

jill levin

June 22, 2017

"Look@ her little satchel", (per Jeffrey) upon our first meeting @ Kieth's house

jill levin

June 22, 2017

I just KNOW you were the little boy i had a crush on @ Melwood pool..(who i truly believe found my sterling silver spoon ring by the deck)................frozen Snickers Bars & High-Dives!

Found your cup in my storage unit 2day... I used it all day.. ( it's still pretty full)

jill levin

June 22, 2017

Found this Coke can in truck, &amp; saved it from Buttermilk Falls.(your can)

jill levin

June 22, 2017

Buttermilk Falls; your last CoKe Can in the truck

A Must Have ...TY, Babe, still got "em 2night( 3.5 wks. later)♥

jill Levin

June 21, 2017

Jill Levin

June 21, 2017

Typos..woops, Ecclesiastes 3:1-8
NOT Ephesians as stated below.


There is a time & season for everything under the sun......


So, glad i was a part of your life & gave you hope your last 7 months. I will never forget when we were @ Rite Aid & you pulled out an old saying"Dig it" !

My heart was full of compassion for you, empathy for your situation & pure love.♥

Sammy got the boat in this year w/o you, Jeffrey. So glad you loosened the ties, babe.

Jill Levin

June 20, 2017

Jill Levin

June 20, 2017

Ephesians 3:1-8
I always played the song in the truck ,and it is what is getting me through these difficult & sorrowful days, Jeffrey.♥
May it bless and help to heal all who were associated with Jeffrey & loved him.♥

Todd was sorry to hear this sad news. This is where we met him @ the Beach. Jeffrey always wondered where this Beach was. I showed him &amp; we camped out here b4 Todd's boat was in.

jill levin

June 20, 2017

Jeffrey was well liked ; no matter who we met when fishing together.

The gas line @ the Beach where we fished &amp; camped out. &quot;There's a gas line there&quot; -&quot;don't be afraid to step on the gas&quot;; as Jeffrey pushes button to 4 wheel drive for Jill to get out of the rut! {whew!}

jill levin

June 20, 2017

"How do you make me love you like that"? (Jeffrey to Jill)
"Coz', I am special"(Jill to Jeffrey)
"You are special" (Jeffrey to Jill)

jill levin

June 19, 2017

...And you always called me your" Queen" & I called you my "KING", as you were. Thanx for sharing the little you did have to give, it meant the world to me.♥

"girly" , "squirrel", "honey" your sweet names 4 me.♥♥♥♥♥

Jill Levin

June 18, 2017

Talented,intelligent,creative,witty,fun,great sense of humor, perceptive,awesome cook,clean, neat, organized,particular & laughed away his pain, but learned to trust in the end..a real sweetheart, but felt as though life was unjust. But, Our Lord & Savior is JUSTICE, Jeffrey..Now you know him as He Is...Remember my gavel.. Now you see JUSTICE.♥ as i told you many times.

"let's have a seat under the pavillion"(jill)

Jill Levin

June 17, 2017

In sync thinking{Do we wanna go there}, as we walk 2ward it & retrieve

Jill Levin

June 17, 2017

we notice this tree 2gether,"Is it birch" , ??ing Jeffrey

Jill Levin

June 17, 2017

"it's made of logs"(jill) "look, it;s broken"

Jill Levin

June 17, 2017

fish first

Jill Levin

June 17, 2017

"Look He left"(jill) po po left

Jill Levin

June 17, 2017

"Let's take a walk"(jill)

Jill Levin

June 17, 2017

Jill Levin

June 16, 2017

Thanx 4 washing the truck & doing a great job on the tires May 23, 2017 after fishing. I enjoyed all the shopping trips to Aldi's & Roses, Advance Auto,& Denny's- the day we found out Trump won! And all the special times you held my hand & picked me flowers out in the woods.♥ Peace brother...♥

our buddy Emil;glad we took him fishing

Jill Levin

June 16, 2017

the kiss

Jill Levin

June 16, 2017

♥Love♥ you

Jill Levin

June 16, 2017

Why are you takin' my pic?

Jill Levin

June 16, 2017

4 you babe

Jill Levin

June 16, 2017

4 you babe

Jill Levin

June 16, 2017

Jill Levin

June 16, 2017

Jill Levin

June 16, 2017

Our trout

Jill Levin

June 16, 2017

on laptop

Jill Levin

June 16, 2017

May 23,2017 Deerlakes

Jill Levin

June 16, 2017

kiss in garage ♥

Jill Levin

June 16, 2017

Butermilk Falls

Jill Levin

June 16, 2017

Our Jigs from Frdeddy

Jill Levin

June 15, 2017

our wedding rings!... lol

jill levin

June 15, 2017

Jill Levin

June 15, 2017

"With Arms Wide Open"....L♥ve you, Jeffrey & miss you...


"Now everything has changed"♥

how about these potatos?

jill levin

June 12, 2017

i have not touched my fishing pole since May 23. We caught one after another that day!

jill levin

June 8, 2017

can't get you off my mind, no matter how hard i try........... Thank you 4 spending your last 2 days with me fishing & grilling, laughing & chillin.{May 22 & 23rd 2017}; dedicated 2you 4ever ,coz u broke the code& we threw away the key! XOXO

Peace Be Still, jeffrey...God Loves You

jill levin

June 5, 2017

Dana Gasiorowski

June 4, 2017

I have not met to many people that has so much knowledge in a variety of so many things and someone who was so easy to get along with cause of his outgoing personality.....I know how special he was and I'm glad I got to know Jeff for the short period I did... Will deeply be missed.... My sympathies and prayers to you and your family
Dana

Lani Bowden

May 30, 2017

Bud, Fran and Family,

We are so sorry to hear about Jeff. You will be in our hearts and prayers. Please call Dad if you need ANYTHING that we can help you with.

All our love,

Dave Sowanick Sr., Lani & David Bowden

Dawn

May 29, 2017

So sorry for your loss great guy ... may your find peace

Rock on wit ur bad self

jill levin

May 28, 2017

"Where were you 17 years ago"..(per Jeffrey)


I was down On the other end of the river by Sharpsburg,Sweetie.

We met when we were supposed to, darling.

Let the good times roll.......& YES.."I will Slow My Roll", baby.. thanx 4 all the affection & love---------even in the midst of your storm.
Married in Spirit, babe.xoxo

jill levin

May 27, 2017

As soon as i can get connection 4 this laptop, i will upload our last 2 days 2gether, honey.............xoxo

Jill Levin

May 27, 2017

Peace be Still, Jeffrey...

Jill Levin

May 27, 2017

I will always love you & remember you; and yes; "I will slow my roll"........PEACE OUT, Peace Pipe.. Bud sends condolences as well from Buttermilk falls last week.

jill levin

May 27, 2017

That you were my best friend.. Thank you 4 teaching me 2 Fish

Rachele Marasia

May 27, 2017

Jon, Mark, my thoughts and prayers are with you both..

Rachele Marasia

May 27, 2017

Jon, Mark, so sorry for your loss. I have great memories of Jeff..My thoughts and prayers are with you both..

Anna DiSiena

May 27, 2017

Bud & Fran & Family , So sorry for your loss.Your in my thoughts & Prayer's.My deepest Sympathies.R.I.P.Your Friend, Anna

May 26, 2017

My deepest sympathy. I'm very sorry for the loss of your loved one. I was a 1982 class mate and will always remember him fondly. Laurel Callender Younkins

Glenda Wikes

May 26, 2017

Dear Fran and Family,

So sorry for the loss of your son. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Glenda and Marvin Wikes

Kim & Bill Mauro

May 26, 2017

Our deepest sympathies. May God give your strength and healing in this time of your loss. Rest in peace Jeff.

Tammy Anderson-Frye

May 26, 2017

My condolences to the family. May he rest in eternal peace.

Andre

May 26, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss. May Almighty God who "binds up the brokenhearted" and "comforts all who mourn" sustain your family during this challenging time. (Isaiah 61:1,2) With heartfelt sympathy to you and your family.

Belinda and Family

May 26, 2017

Your kind heart and warm smile will be missed. Thank You for your friendship.

David Sowanick jr

May 25, 2017

The SOWANICK family sends our most heartfelt condolences to the Alter family. We will always cherish and most fondly remember Jeff and the great person he was. He will always be in our hearts and our prayers. Jeff will be surely missed. With love always, the SOWANICK 's.

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