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Shirley A. Messaros

1953 - 2025

Shirley A. Messaros obituary, 1953-2025, Irwin, PA

BORN

1953

DIED

2025

FUNERAL HOME

John V. Graziano Funeral Home, Inc.

228 N Second Street

Jeannette, Pennsylvania

Shirley Messaros Obituary

Shirley A. Messaros, 72, of Irwin, passed away Sunday, July 13, 2025, in the UPMC East Hospital, Monroeville. She was born June 9, 1953, in Greensburg, a daughter of the late Michael and Mary (Roi) Messaros. Prior to her retirement, Shirley was a teacher in the Jeannette School District for over 35 years. She was a member of the Ascension Church, Jeannette. Shirley loved the beach and enjoyed traveling with her companion, Dave, including a yearly trip to Cabo San Lucas, multiple cruises, including cruises in the Mediterranean, and, over the last 40-plus years, the "Girls" trip to Myrtle Beach, SC. Shirley loved her hometown of Jeannette and was always supporting and rooting for her Jayhawks. In addition to her parents Shirley was predeceased by her brother, Michael Messaros. She is survived by her life companion, David Detore; a sister, Trish Persichetti of Perryopolis; nephews, Logan and Michael Persichetti and Austin Messaros; a niece, Monica Messaros; a great-nephew, Luca Persichetti; and numerous other nieces and nephews. Friends will be received 4 to 7 p.m. Thursday, July 17, 2025, at JOHN V. GRAZIANO FUNERAL HOME INC., 228 North 2nd St., Jeannette. A funeral Mass will be celebrated at 10 a.m. Friday, July 18, 2025, in Ascension Church, 615 Division St., Jeannette, with Fr. Job Foote, OSB, as celebrant. Everyone is asked to please go directly to the church. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Susan G. Komen for the Cure, www.komen.org, or 13770 Noel Road Ste 801889, Dallas, TX, 75380, or the Jeannette Public Library, 500 McGee Ave., Jeannette, PA, 15644.

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Published by The Valley News Dispatch on Jul. 16, 2025.

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Joe Marnell

July 28, 2025

To the Messaros family and Dave so sorry to hear about Shirley .
I was your Mailman for many years. Both of you treated me with such kindness.
Prayers to all in your time of sorrow.
Joe

Mary Porreca

July 20, 2025

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My condolences to you and your families.

Your Student

July 19, 2025

RIP
To my Seneca Heights 5th grade teacher, 45 years ago.

Lois D'Orazio

July 18, 2025

I was so sad to hear of Shirley's passing. RIP dear Shirley. Hugs and prayers to all the family and friends who cared and loved Shirley.

Mark&Cheryl Gogolsky

July 18, 2025

Shirley RIP to Dave and Trish and the family you have our deepest sympathy we grew up on the south side then were neighbors on Lewis Ave she fought a great battle she was a great teacher who was well respected you will be in our prayers

Michele chockla

July 17, 2025

Rest in peace you beautiful soul

Ron Petrillo

July 17, 2025

Shirley was generous: She often let me and Mike cruise town in her Pinto!
Shirley was easy going: She put up with a bunch of obnoxious guys in her basement at Mike's weekly Poker Nights!
Shirley was fun: at IUP Homecomings and her summer house parties!
Shirley was amazing!

Tom and Susan Lippencott

July 17, 2025

We knew Shirley from High School and IUP. She was a great person and will be missed. RIP

Katjy Dunmire

July 16, 2025

Shirley was such a kind and sobbed pertain. Always had a smile on her and she will be greatly missed

Christopher. Lewis

July 16, 2025

To the Messaros family my deepest condolences on the passing Of Shirley she was a great person friend and teacher please know that my prayers are with you all during this difficult time blessings

Denise Kotouch Shaw

July 16, 2025

Shirley and i grew up together on Division street and as we got older we went are separate ways but i will always carry those memories with me RIP fly with the angels

Karen Freed

July 16, 2025

I knew Shirley since HS. She was a kind person who always did her best at whatever task she was called to do, including & especially teaching. I thank God for letting me be fortunate enough to have known her.

Toni Mough (Dubich)

July 16, 2025

Sending my deepest sympathy to the family.

Barbie Colonna

July 16, 2025

What a kind and happy soul! So very sorry for your loss.

Dakota Gridler

July 15, 2025

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Prays for you and your family

Kira Scallish (Rall)

July 15, 2025

Ms. Messaros was a strict, but fantastic geography teacher. She took so much crap from our 7th grade class but she was ALWAYS there and ALWAYS SUPPORTIVE. The way she made connections to pop culture to the lesson is something I use now with my students.

Thank you and may you rest well!

April Powell( Ondulich)

July 15, 2025

You will forever be missed! You was the best teacher ever and helped me through my middle school days! You will be missed!

Linda Tanyer Haluck

July 15, 2025

We grew up on Division Street and it was a great neighborhood. I send my heartfelt prayers to your family and friends.

John Boyle

July 15, 2025

You will be missed by everyone. Prayers for you and your family.

Ralph Scurci

July 15, 2025

Sorry for the loss of Shirley. Many childhood memories of her and the family
May she rest in peace.

Hillary Whigham

July 14, 2025

Shirley was my favorite teacher, 40 years ago. I always looked up to her. Prayers to the family.

Nick Swanson

July 14, 2025

Shirley was such a sweetheart. She will be missed. God bless her ❤.

mary ann altier

July 14, 2025

Frank and I will miss you so much much we enjoyed your company beyond words. Rest in peace with your loved ones that have gone before you God bless you my friend

Linda Ranella

July 14, 2025

Shirley was a beautiful soul inside and out. She will be missed dearly.

Curtis & Karen Antoniak

July 14, 2025

Our Deepest Sympathy on the passing of such a wonderful person. May Shirley rest in the arms of our Lord.

Jan Grimm

July 14, 2025

Grateful for Shirley's kindness and sharing thoughts of her cancer journey with me.

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4:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m.

John V. Graziano Funeral Home Inc.

228 North 2nd St., Jeannette, PA 15644

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18

Funeral Mass

10:00 a.m.

Ascension Church

615 Division St., Jeannette, PA 15644

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228 N Second Street, Jeannette, PA 15644

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