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Geraldine Manley Obituary

Geraldine Ladelle Manley Geraldine Ladelle (Jeri) Manley, 82, of Tacoma, died on Tuesday, July 17,2007 in Tacoma, Washington from complications related to a large lung tumor. She was born to Leonard Leroy and Mable (Thomas) Matthews on July 9, 1925 in Ruston, Washington. She was a life-long Tacoma resident, graduating Stadium High School in 1943, where she majored in English, Home Economics and Typing. She also participated in many social activity committees, Thespians, Royal Rollers skating club, Record and Pep clubs, and interned as an Attendance Clerk. Both during and after WWII she volunteered at the local USO, where she loved to dance with the young soldiers and sailors. On August 30, 1947 she married one of those young former sailors, Patrick James Manley. They had seven children together and attended Visitation Catholic Church. She was the typical complete "mom" of the post-war era - cooking and baking from scratch, sewing and mending her children's clothing, managing the home, nursing the sick, being a second mother to all the children in the neighborhood, and gathering with the other mothers on the block for coffee after the children were off to school. She divorced in 1967, never remarried, and worked a variety of clerical and waitress jobs to support her family. After several years at Mr. Munchies family restaurant, she finished her working career at the Narrows Plaza Bowl restaurant. She was known and loved as a hard worker and friendly face to all her customers. For many years she was active with the VFW Ladies Auxiliary, and always a proud member of the Humane Society. She was well known as direct in her opinions, but intensely loyal to family and friends. After raising her family and retiring from work, she returned to her North Tacoma roots, settling at the Golden Hemlock senior apartments near North 26th and Pearl, where she made many new friends, enjoyed her cat, and watched as her children grew into adults, providing her many grandchildren and four great- grandchildren. In the days before her death, she enjoyed visits by all of her children, several grandchildren, and friends. Before she died she was able to go home from the hospital to see and touch her beloved cat, Pumpkin, one last time - and she smiled. Jeri is survived by six of her seven children and their families: John (Canby, Oregon), Sharon (Federal Way), Patricia (Willamina, Oregon), Kathleen (Tacoma), Kevin (Tacoma), and Brian (Woodburn, Oregon); several grandchildren: Alicia, Paul, Adam, Jamie, Alex, Kyle, Stefanie, Kara, Mari, Brianne, McKenzie, Bryson; four great-grandchildren: Jewell, Abby, Eddie, and Annora; her younger sister Linda (San Jose, California); and several nieces and nephews. She was preceded in death by her parents, her three brothers Donald, Martin, and David, her second daughter Mary, and her former husband. At Jeri's request, her body was cremated. The ashes will be scattered on the waters of Puget Sound north of her hometown in a private ceremony. A memorial service for family and friends is scheduled for 11:00 AM Saturday, August 11, 2007 at the Tacoma Nature Center, 1919 South Tyler Street. A light luncheon will be served after the service. No flowers please. Memorial donations to her favorite charity, the Humane Society for Tacoma and Pierce County, at 2608 Center Street, Tacoma WA 98409, are encouraged. Condolences to the family may be sent to John Manley c/o 4215 North Gove Street, Tacoma, WA 98407.

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Published by News Tribune (Tacoma) on Jul. 29, 2007.

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July 16, 2017

Just so we all know and remember: After exploring the practicalities of placing your ashes in Puget Sound, we decided that having you hang out with dad in American Lake was most appropriate for future memories. This was after seeing a picture of you and our step-mom Zelda sharing stories together at a family gathering. We remembered joking with dad at the time, that the two of you were sharing stories about him and, with a knowing smile and a sigh, he agreed. You are all now together at American Lake and that great family reunion in the sky. We will do our best to make you proud and give you new stories to share until we meet again.

kathleen rath

June 7, 2012

I miss you Mom, Love you always

Cora Ellebrecht

August 29, 2007

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2007

Brian Manley

August 28, 2007

There are so many memories in my head and all are good like there was the time i wentot and walk the picket fence wit my new shirt on and slipped there iwas hanging by the shirt mom you were mad at me and said dont you do that again and there i was out there on that fence.As i got older and had kids yousaid yours is comming especially when bryson was born and boy you wher right. I said it before and i will say it again iam sorry for all i did as a child. I miss you mom ,I LOVE YOU WITH ALL MY HEART.

Kathleen Coulombe

August 6, 2007

Memories of music flowing through the house, Songs from the past, Mom dancing in the kitchen, snapping her fingers, and trying to get us kids to dance with her. Smells of baking homemade bread, and pies. Sneaking a homemade noodle that she made off the bread board. These come flooding back into my mind. Miss those times.
I know I was not the easiest of kids, the younger daughter , and the most rebellious at times. I know I put you through hell at times, and I never got to say I was sorry for those times. But I do know you forgive me now, and love me. As I love you!
I will keep all the memories I do have close to my heart. I love you mom,, miss you so much.
Your Daughter , Kathleen

Patricia Moir

August 2, 2007

My fondest memories of mom are sitting on her lap when I was about 7 or so,and her drawing for me(potraits)which is where I got my artist talent from.I'll never forget the red courderoy coat she sewed with a zipout black lining and had the most beautiful black buttons!And not to mention,every day after school,she always had some homemade pastry waiting for us..I can almost smell it still.We also would sit together and share an avacodo with mayo.She was a great mom and tough;always could here her voice in my head if I thought about doing what was wrong.We had our ups and downs thru the teen years,but don't we all.But she gave me her deepest bleesing when I moved in 1974.I miss you mom,and I still laugh when the last time I saw you,you said..I don't like your hair short!Grow it long!That was my mom!To the point and outspoken!Now you are with your loved ones;rest in peace be happy.Have many other fond memories,they will always be mine and yours.

Claudia Cope

August 2, 2007

Dear John, Sharon, Patti, Kathleen, Kevin and Brian,

As a neighbor, I watched all of you grow up. Jeri and I shared many a cup of coffee along with Dee, Grama J and Pat Franklin. My the memories flood my mind. Your Mother played an important part in my children's lives. She was always there for any need that arose. I remember when the boys all got the chickenpox! Your Mom came to visit. Again one summer, they all got the measels and once again she was a blesing. She stayed with the boys while I quickly went to the store. She was a wonderful neighbor, and through the years, I treasured her continued friendship. As "Oldies", we would gather for lunch, Jeri, Dee, Pat and I and we'd have a wonderful time. Sometimes we were lucky and Sharon would join us! What fun we had.

The last time I spoke with Jeri was on her recent birthday and she was so happy I called. Her kitty was a great deal of company to her and she always reminded me of that. She always told me I needed a kitty to keep me company.

Jeri, my Friend, there's no more pain, no more worries, and finally at last you are reunited with your beloved Mary Jane. I know that you missed her more than you were willing to admit, but that's what made you a beautiful Mother.

God bless each one of you as you go through the days ahead. May the joy of all the wonderful memories soon fill you, and lessen the pain of your loss. My love to each one of you. Please keep in touch. (Thank you John for calling me.)

Jessica Matthews

August 1, 2007

Geri, You will missed by your family, but you will be missed by me, knowing that you were always in Tacoma sending us Christmas stories about your Cat Pumpkin, that is one thing I will miss,you helped David become the man he was, your influence made him a strong, and respectful towards family and woman as a whole. David loved you and he was proud that he was your baby brother, the words I remember at David's memorial you wrote Baby Brother Iam here. Little did we know that it was only four months away, you would be saying that to him in person. You will be missed by everyone that was touched by you. Thank you for always being my sister Jessica Matthews

Terri Gormley

August 1, 2007

My thoughts go out to all of the Manley family. I too have felt the pain of loosing a mother and know what her kids are going through...she was a wonderfull person and I have many fun childhood memories. Love Terri

Alicia Lawver

July 31, 2007

Grandma's death unleashed memories that I don't know why were all tied up in bundles in the back of my brain. Maybe there was too much of today occupying my brain space to leave room for the yesterdays we should always cherish.

Grandma, my stubborn, loyal and hard-working grandma, was a waitress for much of the time that I remember. And she seemed to enjoy it, and people seemed to enjoy her. I especially remember the time she spent at Mr. Munchie's, a fabulous homey diner where my brothers and I would sit at the counter and order monster-sized milkshakes as grandma laughed and showed us all off to her coworkers. Later in college, one of my husband's roommates fondly remembered working there with her during his high school days. I remember when she worked at the Narrow's bowling alley, and we'd go there too to see her, grab some grub and occasionally bowl. I thought it was eternally cool that grandma worked in a bowling alley. I believe it during a visit with grandma that I experienced the legendary Pizza & Pipes with the organ of lore, complete with dancing bubbles and way-better-than-Chucky-Cheese entertainment.

And then there's just the nostalgia that has also been escaping my brain cells the past few years. It was grandma's house where I first saw coffee cups hung on those little expanding coffee cup hangers that you hang on your wall (like what are now attached to my own cupboards.) I seem to recall a giant fork and spoon on the wall. Grandma always had the best refrigerator magnets. Awesome Christmas decor. Beaded room dividers. It was in her house (I believe thanks to my uncle) where I first wanted my MTV. (Phil Collins, Talking Heads, etc.)

I'm sure more memories will come as the days continue.

To my grandma ... thank you for your part in making here my here. I will miss you, but not forget you.

Paul Manley

July 30, 2007

Although she left before I had a chance to make the last visit... further reflections allowed full appreciation of what became the last visit.

I remember her as a lucid and vibrant woman living life like I had never seen her live it before. I know her life had many twists and turns, and am proud of how she took them.

Cheri Starkey

July 30, 2007

I knew Geri from her waitressing days at both Mr. Munchies and Narrows Plaza. As we got to know her, we realized that she was a very special person. Our thoughts and prayers are with her family.

Traci Kelly

July 30, 2007

Thank you, Geri, for accepting me into your wonderful family. I've never taken that for granted, as I know your blunt honesty that was so much a part of your charm would have set me straight had I done so. I feel very fortunate to have known you and and to have been blessed by the love you and all your children give. Holidays will never be quite the same without you.

Kevin Manley

July 29, 2007

When I drive down Pearl street getting close to your home, I feel an emptiness.

Often when I would be driving to, at and from work I would reach for my phone to call you. I still do this, but I know you will not be there to answer.

I will miss you, your cat Pumpkin will miss you, your children will miss you and all you have known and shared your life with will miss you.

You were and are loved.

I know you wanted Pumpkin to come live with me but my cats, "the girls" Tina and Sue, thought differently. So if all goes well, Pumpkin will be moving into her new home with Shawn in Ellensburg. I know that you would approve of Pumpkin living with Shawn, because I know that you cared about Shawn and said many times what a good person Shawn is.

So for now, I guess I must say goodbye.

May you have peace and no pain.

I love you Mom! I will and do miss you!

Your son, Kevin

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