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Michael Behm Obituary

Michael (Bub) Thomas Behm Born June 26, 1985 in Olympia, Washington. Michael brought so much joy to everyone who knew him. He had the most beautiful blue eyes that twinkled with mischief and humor. Michael attend- ed Puyallup schools and recently enrolled in Green River Community College to pursue his lifelong dream of becoming a police officer, and was excited about the many opportunities that were opening up for him. He enjoyed football, fishing, camping and hiking with his brother Bryce, wrestling with his brother-in-law Jeff, having long conversations with his big sister Kristen and playing with his nephew Liam. He was a gentle, sweet young man who loved spending time with his many friends and family. Michael was tragically killed Sunday, March 7, 2004. Preceded in death by his grandfather William Harbke, uncles Randy Behm and Gordon Petrie. Survived by his mother Debbie (Ray) Lewis, his father Mike Behm, his sister Kristen (Jeff) Kerns and nephew Liam, brothers Bryce Wynn, active duty military serving in Iraq, Corey Young; grandparents Eldona Harbke, Bob and Chris Behm; special friend Lauren Baker; and numerous other aunts, uncles, cousins and friends. There will be a memorial service and celebration of Michael's life at Grace Lutheran Church, 22975 24th South, Des Moines, WA 98198; Saturday, March 13 at 1:00 p.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials can be made at any US Bank branch, or the King County Credit Union, in the name of The Michael Behm Memorial Fund.

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Published by News Tribune (Tacoma) on Mar. 11, 2004.

Memories and Condolences
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Gary Bowen

March 31, 2004

I was able to meet Mike at a party for some friends. I soon realized how very funny he was and that he had a very incredible talent to make anyone smile. I want to extend my deepest sympathy to Mike's family for their loss. Thanks for the fun memories Mike!

Matt Williams

March 13, 2004

Bryce and Family,

I am sorry I wasn't there in person today. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. My heart goes out to you.

Andrea Bastiaannet

March 13, 2004

Bryce and family,



At a time like this I am at a loss for words but, Bryce if you need anything let me know. I have not seen you much since CWU but you are always on my mind. HUGZ to you and your family.

In loving memory of Mike Behm

March 13, 2004

Morgan Davis

March 13, 2004

Mike was one of the funniest guys I knew and he helped get me through tons. He was a very special person and will be missed very much. We will never forget him, though, and he will always be remembered as the wonderful person that blessed our lives. I am very sorry for his family's loss and my thoughts and prayers are with them.

Jeanette Perozzo (Schultz)

March 12, 2004

To Debbie I was saddened to hear of your loss. I will keep you in my prayers as you are going thru this difficult time. You will always have him in your heart .

Jackie Fay

March 12, 2004

Debbie and Family,

I am so sorry to hear about the tragic loss of your son Michael. My familys prayers are with you in this time of sorrow.

Jackie and Bonnie Fay

Lynn Wagner King

March 12, 2004

Debbie,

May God be with you at this time. May the love of family and friends comfort you.Know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Janet & Alex Perez

March 12, 2004

This is such an overwhelming tragedy, it's difficult to find words to express my condolences. As a parent, I can only imagine how difficult this is for both of you. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Annie Savage Johnson

March 11, 2004

We are very sad to hear of your loss, and we will have you in our prayers. He was a beloved cousin and nephew who will be missed greatly.

Annie Johnson

March 11, 2004

We are very sad to hear of your loss, and we will have you in our prayers. He was a beloved cousin and nephew who will be missed greatly

Love Annie (Savage) Johnson

Terry & Becky, Kelby & Karli Heartburg

March 11, 2004

Our prayers and love go to you and your family. His little handprint is stamped in the cement of our patio and his memory is etched in our hearts forever. May God be with you and may you know how much we are thinking of you and how much we love you all.

Michele Vercella

March 11, 2004

Please accept my heartfelt condolences on the tragic loss of Michael. May God bless all of you and help you through this very difficult time. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.

Sincerely,

Michele Vercella

Krista Jenkins

March 11, 2004

I met Mike in our sophomore year. The first time i met him i knew he was a special guy. He could make anyone laugh and had a great personality. I'm deeply sorry for this tragic loss and Mikes family and all of his friends are in my thoughts and prayers. If only he can see how many people are truly sad over this tragedy and how many peoples hearts he has touched.

amanda schultz

March 11, 2004

I will miss Michael so much and I will pray for your family and for him each and every night. God Bless You!

joe delong

March 11, 2004

i dont know exactly what to say, i didnt know mike very well but i new him to a certain extent. he was a great guy that i will always remember. to the parents of mike, i am very sorry for your loss and my prayers are with you all. joe delong

Carleen Combs and Elizabeth Combs

March 11, 2004

We were blessed to have known your son. He was a very close friend of my daughters. Mike always brought laughter and joy into my home. His presence brought a sense of comfort and peace to everyone around him. All our prayers are with you throughout this time. Mike will be truly missed.

Helen Clark

March 11, 2004

I never imagined this to happen to my good friend Mike. He didnt deserve any of this. He had a caring heart and would never hurt anyone. I miss him more then anything, i loved mike. He was always there for me, made me laugh more then anyone else i know. he will remain in my heart forever.

Jim Holliday

March 11, 2004

Dear Deb:

When Tim called me on Saturday

I was shocked and upset at this most sorrowful event. I hope you know that our Love and support goes out to you. If you need me please do not hesistate to call.

Your Cousin

Jim Holliday

Sharon and Dan Taylor

March 11, 2004

Our hearts are with you. You will be in our thoughts.



Dan and Sharon Taylor

brian & shannon hayes

March 11, 2004

You are in our thoughts and prayers, I wish we could be there. We are so sorry for your loss. Words can't express how truly sad we are for your entire family.

love,

Brian & Shannon Hayes

Joseph DelGreco

March 11, 2004

Debbie, this all comes as such a shock to all of us. Michael was such a gentleman to all of my children all of those years and his presence will be dearly missed, from Matthew, Genevieve, Jose and myself.

Donna Lee

March 11, 2004

As a mom my heart is broken I can't emagine the heart ache you must be feeling. It is hard enough for adults to understand. My son's Quentin and Nikolas knew Michael from PHS, they are deeply saddend. They consider Michael one of the coolest guys and one of the nicest people they have ever known. I hope it brings comfort to know how much he was loved and how much he will be missed.

Teresa Bowers

March 11, 2004

Debbie and family, what can anyone say to help ease your pain. I, along with so many other people are shocked and saddened by such a senseless act that took Michael from you. Please know that I have been thinking of you often throughout these last few days and sending prayers your way with hopes that it will help in some way. It's helpful to know that you are surrounded by family and friends to comfort you through this tragic time.

Kaisha Felderman

March 11, 2004

We Love you and Miss you more than anything.

Bob, Jeanine, Kayse, & Kelli Martin

March 11, 2004

We love you Mike

Linda Engen

March 11, 2004

I am so sorry about your loss. My girls are 19 and 21 yrs old, and have gone to FW schools. When I hear of these tragedies in our youth it really comes close to home and I can't imagine the hopelessness you must feel. My condolences to you and your family

Erline and Dave Clark

March 11, 2004

I wish we could attend the celebration of your life, but since we cannot....Your family and loved ones are in our prayers.

Lisa Calderon

March 11, 2004

I want to express my deepest sorrow for your loss. My daughter Amanda Schultz was a classmate of Mike's and she spoke of him often. Please know that my family and I will keep you in our thoughts and prayers. God bless you and especially Mike.



Sincerely,

Lisa Calderon

A PHS Mom

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