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Marsha Lovstrom
November 5, 2024
Michael, no matter where I am or what I´m doing, you´re never forgotten. I´ll love you and miss you forever. Mom
Nikki
September 8, 2024
I can´t believe it´s been so long. It was on my birthday back in 2006 when we were at start up and your passing was announced. There wasn´t a dry eye among us! You were an amazing coworker and boss!! I left HD back in 2021 and your picture is still on the wall! You will never be forgotten!!
Brandon Needham
November 2, 2022
Michael it's been 16 years. It still feels like it just happened. So much I wish I could share with you in person, but you are with me in my heart through every step. I miss you a lot and that emptiness will never go away. While you were no doubt taken far too soon from all of us, I know we will all get to be reunited with you one day!!! Love you brother!!
Brandon
Marsha Lovstrom
November 2, 2021
It´s been 15 years since we lost you, Michael. So much has changed in my life, everyone else´s, and indeed the whole world. Yet there is happiness to be found in spite of the circumstances. Letting happiness in is my way of honoring you.
One thing I can say for sure - time may pass and things change, but love endures. I love you as much today as I always have, and always will. I cherish all our memories. I´ll always miss and love you. Mom (Marsha Lovstrom)
Jennifer Myers
November 5, 2016
Michael, it's been 10 years. Ten years ago I laid in bed knowing this day would come, if I could survive.. I still miss you every day and know I will never be the same, but I do my best to enjoy the good times in our lives because I know you want me to. But make no mistake, you are dearly remembered and greatly missed. There are so many things I wish we could talk and laugh about again. I just love you so much.
Jennifer
Brandon Needham
August 13, 2016
Michael, my friend. I miss you a lot, and so much has happened that I wish I could share with you. There isn't a day that has gone by that I don't think about you, and I still laugh at all of the craziness we did. Missing you brother.
January 15, 2012
Michael,
You are with me every single day. Every single day I miss having you here soooo much. I love you with everything I have and more deeply than words can say. You are just such a part of me and you always will be.
Your forever-loving sister,
Jennifer
Marsha Lovstrom
January 14, 2012
Michael,I was looking at the pictures this evening and remembering all of these different events. I wish I could reach into those pictures and relive them one more time. I could hear you laugh in my mind. I miss you so much.
Love, Mom
Suzanne Mote
January 11, 2012
Uncle Michael,
I miss you very much still and you are always somewhere on my mind. I know we didn't ever get to live close to one another (well for very long) but I will always remember and cherish the times we got together. They are so precious to me. I met a wonderful man, we are getting married in May. I wish that you were here to share that day with me and all of the family. You will definitely be there in spirit though. We are going to do something nice in memory of you and I am going to save you a seat. David makes me think of you sometimes. He has that quiet sense of personality but when he decides to open his mouth, he has everyone laughing. Ryan is the same way too. Even in the way they walk it's similar. It's nice to be able to look at either one of them and somehow see and remember a bit of you. It helps. Keep watching over us. We all love and miss you so much!
Marsha Lovstrom
December 25, 2011
Merry Christmas...missed you so much today. It's just not the same without you. You brought so much joy. I'm grateful for the memories. So many good ones.
Well, only a few more days to work and then it's life on my own terms. No more daily alarm clocks! I'm glad to be retiring. You would love Odie. She looks so much like a wolf and I remember how much you liked wolves. Odie is young and full of energy. She'll keep me busy. Maybe my energy level will get better. I'm sure you and Pappaw have had a few laughs watching us! Sometimes she out-smarts us. We'll learn. Jasper was so good and well-trained...thank you. Odie is a great dog, just quicker than we are sometimes.
I love you so much and enjoy the memories of you at Christmas. I miss the fun and love you gave.
Mom
Mike Thomas
December 16, 2011
Was thinking about you just the other day. I just moved back to Orting and wish you were still around to come visit. Miss you buddy! Hope to see you again someday.
Marsha Lovstrom
December 14, 2011
Michael, it's been five years since you left us and the holidays are here again. We love you with all our hearts and you will always be remembered and be a part of our special events. We know you will always want us to be happy and we try to be for you.
You were a wonderful gift given to me by God and I cherish the 33 years I got. I really wish I could have had you longer. I remeber all the times of your life. From a newborn, to a young boy, to a young man. I am proud of you.
I know you will be there to welcome your family as our times come to move on in our journey. In the meantime, you and Jasper have fun. I know you know how much you were and are loved by us and that you are still a big part of our lives. We miss your sense of humor, intelligence and love and honestly feel cheated for times that are not to be. We hang on to what has already been and what we share about you. The memory of you is not gone and never will be. You still touch our lives everyday. Love never dies. You are a part of me my son. Know and feel my love. Mom
Marsha Lovstrom
November 3, 2010
Michael,
It's been almost 4 years (November 5) since I lost you. I believe the world (at least mine) would be a better place if you were still here. Of course, you touched many lives and the good you gave will go on.
The candle I lit pales in comparison to how you lit up my world. I miss you and think of you everyday, all the time. I will do that for the rest of my life.
While, preparing for our move, I came across the short story you wrote when you first went to college. I thought your writing was very good and loved the instructors comment about you already having "voice." I'm so glad I kept it.
Thank you for giving me signs that you're happy about our moving from where we are. We shared a lot of memories here and in many respects it's hard to move to another house. I know you're with me no matter where I go and you're always in my heart, thoughts and prayers.
I love you son.
Mom
February 22, 2010
It's really difficult for me to write you on here, but you know what I feel and what I think to you every day. You also know how very much I miss you. Thank you for helping give me the opportunity to go to college...I'm going to do my best to make you proud. I love and miss you with all I have and every day.
love you,
Suzanne
Marsha Lovstrom
February 15, 2010
Hi Michael,
Well, as you may already know my computer has not been cooperating with me for sometime now. I miss being able to call you and say, "help...what do I need to do to fix this?"
The holidays were of course lonely without you here to make them special. I doubt they will ever be the same. The joy just isn't there anymore, but I do my best for you.
Having Jasper come live with us has sure been a blessing. He still does all the tricks you taught him and I am afraid I've spoiled him a bit too much but I wouldn't change it. He is so full of love and it makes me happy when he meets me at the door every evening with a toy. His diabetes seems to be under control although he won't go up and down the stairs anymore. It just tires him out too much. I promise to love him and take good care of him until he's ready to go to you.
Nothing changes...you're always in my thoughts no matter where I am or what I'm doing, which is fine with me. You'll always be with me somehow until you meet when it's my time to join you.
With love always,
Mom
January 3, 2010
Hi Michael,
I don't pretend to understand this world, so I really don't understand the next. I wonder how you are and pray you're happy and at peace and waiting to see us again someday. I always imagine how joyful and excited I will be to see you again, I sure hope we can hug as spirits, I miss you so much!!!
If you have the ability to see down here, I know you'll understand why it's been so long since I've written, besides the fact that sometimes it's hard because I still feel like you deserve so much more than I can put into words in just a few minutes. I would also like to take this time to thank your friends who still write on here for doing so. It's nice to see what true friends they were to you, and to know you were loved by others too.
It's been a real rollercoaster ride of a year for us; but I've learned that it doesn't matter how terrible or wonderful the times are, how rested or exhausted I am, you are always with me and you're always in my thoughts.
I turned 40 this year and due to the craziness of this year; Brad on business and the kids with John, I spent it alone. [Really, it was ok because I was sooooo exhausted from painting and thinking we had a big move ahead of us], but like every milestone of every year, you were sorely missing for me. Of course, with our birthdays so close, you know they always have been and always will be entertwined for me. So I want to thank you with all of my heart for the phone call that didn't register on my cell, but the song that was left for me on my birthday. I guess I won't know until the end of my time here if it was really you or not, but I taped it onto a recordable Christmas ornament and put a picture of you laughing on it and hung it on our Christmas tree this year. I think I've decided to keep it out year round to remind me that it's possible for you to still know how much I love you and for you to love me back. I guess you may know God has had plans for us and we're doing our best to follow that path, but it's been hard to fit in the quiet time I've wanted to work on something for you. I'm still working on that. Hopefully, I'll do better here soon. I mostly want you to know that I love you every day and I miss you every day.
Eternally grateful and blessed to have you, of all people in all time, as my brother. You were perfect for me, but it sure leaves me missing your laugh.
Love forever,
Jennifer
Coloring Jennifer's hair
November 9, 2009
1980 - Wright-Patterson AFB, Dayton, Ohio
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1982 - Medenbach, Germany
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Christmas 2003 - Fircrest, WA: Kris and Michael
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1982 - Berchtesgaden, Germany
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1988 - Middletown, Ohio: Rick, Michael, Shawn
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September 2006: Middletown, Ohio
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July 2, 2006: Emerald Downs, Michael's 33rd Birthday
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June, 2002: (back row) Josh, David, Michael, Brad, (front) Kris, Caren, Jennifer, Suzanne, David, Ryan
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Michael and his Father
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Middletown, Ohio - September 2006: Family Reunion
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Medenbach, Germany - 1982
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Hurricane Ridge, WA - July 2004: Michael and Jennifer
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Madrona Golf Course - 1996: Jim, Marsha, Michael, Robert
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Jennifer, Ryan, Michael, Suzanne, Jodi, Michael's Grandmother, Stephanie, Michael's Grandfather - Ohio 1994
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Michael - 2005
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Michael and Jasper - 2003
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Octoberfest 1982 Munich, Germany
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Michael's Birthday - 1994
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Marsha Lovstrom
October 23, 2009
Michael,
Well, another day and you've naturally been on my mind all throughout the day. Jennifer and I talked about how you are always there in the forefront of our thoughts all the time. We both miss you lots. We were talking about music that makes us think of you and how when we thought of you, you were always "my Michael" to us. We know there are others that also thought of you as "their Michael." You were one special guy! Still are!
Good night my son. I love you as always.
Mom
Brandon Needham
October 10, 2009
Micheal,
Well it has been way to long since I have been on here! I want to wish you a very happy belated birthday!!!! Things are going well for the family and myself and I can say in all honesty I think about you daily and rehash old stories about the times we all had together laughing and enjoying life.
I came across old videos of us that I took with the camcorder and plan on watching them at somepoint.
It has been a while my friend but I know I will see you again so please, take care!!!!
Mike Thomas
October 10, 2009
Hey Mike,
It's been a long time since I've been on here last and I'm glad to see so many people are still sharing their thoughts and feelings here. I also never noticed before that there were pics of you on here so maybe someone added them in the last year or two.
Just moved back up to Washington and when I was moving I came across your obituary that I saved out of the newspaper and was thinking of you. Wish you were still here so we could hang out now that I'm back up here, but I guess I'll have to save that for another day when we meet again!
Take care up there good buddy! Tell my mom I said hi. She just passed away a couple months ago and she really liked you!
Marsha Lovstrom
October 7, 2009
Hi Michael,
I haven't been on my computer for a while and therefore, haven't made any entries. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't think of you over and over. I try to keep you alive in my thoughts, remeber your smile, laugh, sense of humor and good disposition. How blessed I was to have you as my son! I have wonderful memories.
I sure could some more time with you. I love dreams that give me more experiences with you. I miss seeing you, talking with you and touching you.
Jasper, as you probably know has to have insulin shots now...just like Snowball did. We'll take good care of him for you. We love him lots, too.
Love you always,
Mom
Ryan Mote
July 6, 2009
Hey Uncle Michael,
I haven't written in here in a really long time. I love and miss you so much. I think of you every day.
Happy (late) birthday Uncle Michael.
Love,
Ryan
Robert Hendrickson
July 3, 2009
My friend I still miss you and think of you often. The weather has finally turned nice and it would be great to be fishing. Happy Birthday!!!
Suzanne Mote
July 3, 2009
Thinking of you today and everyday. I miss you constantly but even more I'm thankful for the wonderful times we shared and the beautiful memories I will always cherish.
Happy Birthday Uncle Michael.
I love you,
Suzanne
Marsha Lovstrom
July 3, 2009
Happy Birthday, Michael! Jim, Suzanne, Ryan, Jasper and I celebrated your birthday tonight. Hope you saw your cake and heard what we each said to you. Wish you were still here with us.
You know we all love you as much as ever and remember all the fun times.
It's now 10:28 p.m. on July 2nd - your Birthday. This will probably now show up until July 3rd because of the time difference.
Love you forever and ever. 36 years ago you were my gift from God and you gave me over 33 years of love and happiness and it still continues although I miss you terribly. Thank you for being my son.
Love,
Mom
Marsha Lovstrom
June 24, 2009
Just wanted to say how much I love you and that I think of you all the time. Jasper is doing well and he is so good for us. It's so special to have him do the tricks you taught him. I feel a real connection having him with us. He just belongs here.
Come visit me in dreams whenever you can. I enjoy more time with you.
Love Forever - Mom
Marsha Lovstrom
May 14, 2009
Michael, my last entry did not show up, so I'll write again. I'm sure you know everything that's going on. Life has been pretty hectic at times, lots of changes. I'm sure you know "Farfar" (Gust, Jim's dad) passed over to the other side. "Ya, sure you betcha...I know you were probably there to meet him. The family is growing on your side little by little.
I think about you and miss you all the time. I doubt there's an hour goes by that you aren't on my mind. Jim and I talk about all the good times we had with you and how blessed we were to have you.
Mother's Day just passed and I told you and God how blessed I was to have you as my son. I wish I would have had longer, but I'm grateful what the time we had.
I love it when you are in my dreams. It's like having a little more time and a few more experiences with you. I cherish every one.
I'll love you forever and ever and big as the sky, Michael.
Love,
Mom
Suzanne Mote
April 24, 2009
Hey there punk :)
I was driving back to Greeley on Wednesday morning and Feel Like a Woman by Shania Twain came on the radio. I couldn't help but laugh and call mom because the only thing I could think about was the day we were getting gas and you put her C.D. on and informed me that it was your favorite song and sang and danced to it. I have to admit, I was pretty embarrassed at the time but it's hilarious looking back on.
I think of one thing and a million other memories pop into my head. Remember the time that we were in that feed store and you were putting the funnels on your chest saying you were Madonna? Or when you MADE me watch that stupid scary and sick movie about the boat in the Bermuda Triangle and then Kung Pow? I bought that movie because of you forever ago ha ha. I remember we were SO sick we were practically drinking cough syrup.
I miss giving each other a hard time. I can't wait to see you again! :) I think about, love, and miss you every day! I have your glasses hanging from my rearview mirror in my car too. You are my guardian angel and I know that for a fact.
I kinda love you stinky!!! :)
Always and forever,
Suzanne
Diane Roe
January 4, 2009
Hi Michael
It's been ages since I've written, but I think about you often, and especially now with the snowy weather we're having. Riding in to work with you on all those icy days was both fun and appreciated, and I miss that. You always had KZOK on the radio - The Bob Rivers Show in the mornings, and I still listen to it. (you converted me from that other morning show!) I often find myself laughing out loud at something on the show, and then thinking that you would have enjoyed it too, and likely had a comment that would make it even funnier.
You are so missed, my friend, and in so many ways.
David Holland
January 4, 2009
Michael,
I love you and miss you so much. I think of you everyday and nothing will never be the same without your humor and good sense. As I told you before, I'm proud of you.
Dad
Avis Thomas
January 3, 2009
Michalel, I just wanted to send another hello your way, there are a group of us at Gottschalks who still remember what a wonderful person you are and miss your smiles. I lost my mother in August, so if you would please give a hug for me I would appreciate it!! :) Michael's family, I know life here is very hard without your sweet son/brother but take comfort in knowing we will all be together again one day!!! Miss you MIchael!!! ~Avis
Suzanne Mote
December 17, 2008
Uncle Michael,
I haven't written in here all except for once and a long time ago at that. I'm sorry. I love to write but seem to find it hard to write here sometimes and the last time that I did it deleted everything I had.
I just wanted to let you know that I miss you a lot and that there honestly is not a day that goes by that I don't think about you.
I was just thinking about some of the funny times we had today and it brightened my day like thoughts of you seem to always do.
I have the card that I gave to you up on my wall at college and look at it all the time. I can't explain how happy that made me that you still had that card after so long.
Well I just wanted to stop by and put into words that I miss and love you dearly and that whether you or anyone else really knows it, you have taught me so much without hardly even saying a word.
all my love,
Suzanne
Jennifer Myers
November 16, 2008
Hi Michael,
I suppose you may know this, I hope you do... I'm still going to school, which is why it's been so long since I've written, but I love and miss you so very very much. I think about you all of the time. I sure wish I could be going to school with you. I want to go see Madagascar (is that spelled right?) II. I think we'll enjoy it and I know you would too. We watched "Finding Nemo" not too long ago and I remembered how you would call me on your way home from work and there was always the spot in the road where you could hear me and I couldn't hear you, so I would start talking to you like Dori when she was speaking "Whale". I always enjoyed hearing you laugh when the service would pick back up, and had great fun torturing you!! I have to go to bed now, but I just have to tell you I think of you all the time. I miss you and love you as big as the sky.
Jennifer
Brandon Needham
November 13, 2008
Michael,
Well it has been a while but I thought I would stop in and tell ya hello!!! Things are going well, I got promoted to Patrol Sgt. at the police department, Kristy has a new job working for the Pasco School District (and is doing really awesome there) and I just got done coaching football for my oldest (Andrew).
We all miss you alot and I think about you every day!!!!
Marsha Lovstrom
September 29, 2008
I think of Michael always and miss having him here with us so much. How blessed I was to have him as my son.
I love you so much Michael. That will never change. Thanks for the joy you brought to my life.
Mom
Jennifer Myers
September 22, 2008
Michael,
I love and miss you so much.
Jennifer
Marsha Lovstrom
September 9, 2008
Hi Michael,
I haven't written in this book for awhile, but as you probably know I've had things going on that has required alot of "going inward" to decide how I needed to handle some things in my life. There isn't a day that goes by that you aren't in my heart and mind. I hope you hear me talk to you and tell you how much I love and miss you.
As you most likely know we've got Jasper now. What a big loveable dog he is! I got him on Jennifer's birthday and was so happy to have him on your birthday. It made the sadness a little better and gave me another reason to think about all the good memories.
I love you forever and always.
Mom
Jennifer Myers
September 8, 2008
Hi Michael,
I actually wrote a lot to you one night but for some reason it didn't show up. I know that has happened with Brad and some others too. You know, I'm sure that you know I think of you every moment of every day. I miss you so so so much!! I am so happy to see the entries and hear from from your friends who care about you, and remember you still. It really means a lot. One reason it's taking me time to get on here is because I've written something, that isn't quite done yet and I keep thinking I'll have it finished soon. However, with Suzanne's graduation and getting her off to college and with me starting class again, I'm not always very good at getting stuff done. So, here I am just to tell you that I love you more than words can possibly ever express, and I think of you all of the time. I miss watching stupid funny shows with you too. Brad and the kids and I went to see a movie called Stepbrothers and I wish you could have been there. It was truly dumb, but we really would have laughed.
I Love You So Much,
Jennifer
Brandon Needham
July 6, 2008
Happy late Birthday Mike!!!!!! Time flies but I still talk and think about you daily!!!! My wife and I moved into our new home (just built) and I am getting promoted to Sgt. Kids are great and things are going good!!! I know your doing good!!! And I encourage all friends and or family to get ahold of me via email because I have lost all my email contact info.
Marsha Lovstrom
June 24, 2008
Hi Michael,
I ran into one of you previous co-workers last week. She had not heard about your passing. Her comments was "Oh no, not Michael...I loved that boy so much!" She went on to tell me that everyone loved you. That no one could feel down or be in a bad mood around you and that people would go to you when something was wrong and walk away feeling better. She told me I sure had a good son. It was nice to hear, although I already knew that.
It's always nice to hear how others feel and felt about you. I am very proud and blessed to be your mother.
Love Always,
Mom
Marsha Lovstrom
June 9, 2008
I haven't written for a while, but not because I haven't thought of Michael. Michael is always in my thoughts and will never be forgotten. I'm sure you know that, don't you Michael?
Well, as you know Suzanne graduated from high school. We felt that you were there with us and feeling proud just like we did. I gave her the graduation bear that I gave you. It was a special gift for her from both of us. I also gave Ryan the cribbage board Jim made for your birthday. These are things that Suzanne and Ryan cherish, just as they cherished their uncle Michael.
I'll add more Michael stories soon. I appreciate other peoples Michael stories also.
Love,
Mom
Michael Thomas
June 6, 2008
It's been awhile since I visited this page, I'm still glad to see that a lot of his close friends and family still post here. I truly enjoyed reading all the wonderful stories Marsha posted about fond memories. I especially liked the story about the dorky movie they watched and how they thought it was the funniest thing. As stupid as it may sound, if I had one wish right now it would be to get a chance to watch one of my favorite movies with him, and with a good buddy of ours Brandon Needham. The movie, Super Troopers, always reminds me of him and the crazy days when we all worked together for the Orting PD. We had lots of great memories, and I still miss him a lot.
Marsha Lovstrom
December 23, 2007
It's December 23rd so Christmas is just around the corner. Today I'm wrapping gifts and trying to do what I need to do for the holidays. Last year I was so numb and hurting so bad I didn't really do anything. We put up the tree because Michael would have wanted us to, but all I could manage was to sit and rock in my rocker (that I used to rock Michael in when he was small) and look at the tree and the fireplace and think about Michael.
I know Michael would want us to continue to enjoy the holidays and would want us to remember all the Christmas joy we shared with him. This is my inspiration to create a new kind of normal without Michael here physically with us. I do it for Michael, to honor his love and what I know he would want for us.
Michael is always with me in my thoughts and he gave me many wonderful memories of things that enriched my life so much. He was and is very special and I am blessed to have him as my son. I carry him with me in my heart and mind and will do so until we are reunited.
The holidays will never be the same just as my life will never be the same, but I'll have joy because on some level Michael will always be with me and is an important part of who I am. For those who read this, remember Michael and the gifts he brought to your life. Have a Merry Christmas from me and from Michael.
Michael's Mom
Marsha Lovstrom
November 28, 2007
Well Michael, I made it through Thanksgiving and the anniversary of your memorial service. You were missed, needless to say. I had my moments, but tried to focus on the good memories and the joy you brought us. Overall I feel I did OK because I know you want us to be happy. I'm sure you understand that I will always have moments of sadness, but you are never out of mind and I try to focus on the wonderful things you brought to my life.
Last night I was in Hallmark and one of the ornaments was a Tigger Jack-in-the-Box and it played Pop Goes the Weasel. It was so Michael...(Tigger was his favorite character and I searched high and low to find a record with Pop Goes the Weasel when Michael was 2 or 3.)I bought one for me and one for Jennifer as our special Michael gift this Christmas.
Always loving you, Michael.
Mom
Brandon Needham
November 24, 2007
Mike,
It has been over a year and it seems like I just got the call. Not an easy call to make and an even harder call to receive. I remember not knowing what to say and being somewhat numb when Robert called me and said he had bad news.
The only thing I really remember saying over and over was..."What?" So many things will remind me of our years of friendship, songs, movies, games and even commercials.
I think it is truly awesome that you have been able to touch so many lives and continue to do so with each passing day.
Your laugh, smile, humor and the way you carried it all was so unique and "Michaelish"!!!!!! You are truly a one of a kind. You were a great friend and I really miss you. I know I will never have another friend like you but the memories I have of all the things we have done still makes me happy and one day we can sitdown and laugh again over the things we did and the times we shared. Happy late Thanksgiving Michael!!!!!
Marsha Lovstrom
November 10, 2007
Today I received a copy of what Mamaw Doris wrote as we reached the end of the first year without Michael with us. Here it is written to Michael from her heart:
Michael, it's been one year today you left us to be with Jesus. We've had a lot of sorrows and grief...we miss you so much. You are in my heart every day. I think of all the good memories you gave us. The smiles, the jokes, the unusual and unique sense of humor only you had. But through it all there is the saddness that will never leave since that November day when you call and said you were coming to spend the day with me and papaw. It was the last day of your life here with us. We had such a good day together. Now papaw has gone on to be with you. I know you were waiting for him. You knew he was behind you. Oh, how I miss you both, but I know you are happy now. It's hard to understand why you both had to leave us. God loved you both. He called you both home to be with him. I love you and Papaw.
Mamaw Doris
Middletown, Ohio
Michael, we all love and miss you and Papaw.
Mom
Karen Johnston
November 8, 2007
Just wanted to share a recent experience which made me realize how special Michael truly is in our lives. (True Story)- Lost my job several months ago and between the career search and financial struggle to get by I face the daily challenge to stay positive. Counting my dollars and change I went into Walmart last week to get only the necessities I needed and could afford. My attitude was truly in the "life sucks" mode that day to say the least. Frowning face and all I trudged into the Walmart entrance thinking how I used be able to fun-shop instead of counting pennies for necessary items. Got the shopping cart in hand and started down the isle and suddenly overhead music started loudly playing the original version of "Singing In the Rain", words and all. This immediately got my attention since I know this was one of Michael's favorite songs. My frown turned to a smile and I suddenly found myself wanting to dance through the store with my cart, but I restrained myself and just enjoyed listening to the song. As I continued shopping the song ended and I thought "wow, that sure made me feel better" when suddenly the song started playing again right from the beginning, and then again, and again continuing on until I left the store. I thought, maybe for some reason the audio system was having technical difficulties. The more the song played, the more I smiled and left the store uplifted with thoughts of how wonderful Michael truly was and is. I'll never know for sure if the other shoppers were hearing the same song and at one point I wanted to ask someone but wasn't sure if I wanted to hear their response. In fact, now that I think about it I'm not sure I've ever heard any music playing in that store before but, I do know that "Singing In the Rain" brought me "Sunshine" THAT DAY at Walmart. Thank you Michael, I love you too! Aunt Karen
Robert Hendrickson
November 5, 2007
Well my friend, you are truely missed. A year has passed and I think of you daily. On Saturday I had breakfast with your Mom, then had lunch with your Mom and Kris. Beyond the obvious that they miss you it is great to see that you still bring great joy to peoples lives through the great memories.
Jennifer Myers
November 5, 2007
Well Michael,
It's been a year. It doesn't feel like it. I will try to stay as positive as I can, because you were always so very good at finding the most graceful way of handling a bad situation and moving on. Of course, I've never been as good. This has been such a painful year of firsts without you, and reminders of the firsts yet to come where we'd be looking forward to you showing up. Suzanne's graduation will be a big one. My Michael-sized hole isn't healing too well, but I suppose it only proves what a wonderful brother you were. I miss you so very very much. It's been a year of seeing movies I thought you would like, and reading books I thought you would've read and enjoyed. So many conversations I would have liked to have had. Cookies I would have liked to bake for you. I haven't brought myself to make your famous meatloaf, but I do run across the recipe you sent years ago. How much I love to see, "Love, Michael" on there. Thank you so much for the love and attention you gave to all of us. Especially, thanks for your wonderful sense of humor. I doubt Suzanne, Ryan and I have ever laughed as much with anyone as we have with you. I felt this love and affection when you were here with us just the same as I do now, I really did always treasure the times we got to spend together. I just have to come to terms with the fact that I won't have it here anymore, and will just have to be patient until we meet again. I do so hope you're happy and peaceful, you really deserve it, because peace and happiness is what you gave to all of us. It was your natural gift to give your family and friends and you did it so well.
This it to the Best Brother Ever, I love you with all of my heart and soul...
Jennifer
Marsha Lovstrom
November 5, 2007
Well, it's now been a year since Michael left us. In some ways it feels so fresh it feels like it was just yesterday. In other ways it feels like the days are long and I miss Michael so much it feels like forever. I had this terrible fear that I would forget the sound of Michael's laughter or him saying "I love you, Mom." I know now that I'll never forget the sound of his voice. It's in my heart, mind and soul.
I think about Michael all the time...when I wake up in the morning, during the day, he's on my mind the last thing at night and if I wake up in the middle of the night. If only I could wake up and it be a bad dream and he was still here. But this is where we are and it can't be changed. He's moved on in his journey and is in a good place and hopefully checking in on us occasionally. However, selfishly I wish he was still here with us. I'm sure God understands these conflicted human feelings of a mother wanting her child (even though he was grown) and knowing that he is God's child and was a gift to us. He's home now and is fine, but we just weren't ready to give him back.
I am so grateful to have been blessed with Michael as my son. He was good natured, intelligent, kind, and had a good sense of humor. He shared his love easily with those around him. I'm sad I didn't have more years with him, but I am very thankful for the 33 years we did have him. As his sister, Jennifer, said, "We have a Michael shaped hole in our heart." We love him so much and always will.
Michael, thank you for being you.
Love,
Mom
Marsha Lovstrom
November 2, 2007
One evening when Michael was probably a senior in high school, we were watching TV when this movie called "They Came from the Center of the Earth" or something like that came on. It must have been rated a triple "D" movie if they were even willing to rate it at all. I watched a few minutes of it and decided I didn't have the brain cells to waste watching it. However, Michael and Jim were laughing hysterically at how bad it was and stayed up and watched the entire movie. It started with people in Las Vegas with their ears to the sidewalk listening to what turned out to be aliens tunneling through the earth from Oregon. I went to bed and left them to their entertainment. The next morning they told me it was so bad, that their ray guns were flashlights and how much they laughed through the whole movie. (It must have been a male bonding thing.) They talked about that movie for years! Jim says he doesn't remember the plot, but just remembers the two of them laughing hysterically at how bad it was. It's not always the monumental things that make the best memories. A night laughing and watching a bad movie has left a memory that still makes Jim laugh. Thanks Michael for another memory of fun.
I love you lots.
Mom
Marsha Lovstrom
October 31, 2007
Here's a Michael story that happened when he was a young teeanager. After Jim & I were married, it was not unusual for a golf match to be playing on TV since he is such an avid golfer. Since this sport was relaatively new to me and Michael at that time, we weren't always up on all the appropriate golf terminology.
One day Michael walked in just as the announcer in his whispering voice said, "you know, I think he must have the ugliest driver on the tour." Michael was absolutely appalled by the announcers statement. Michael said, "I can't believe he has the nerve to say such a thing on TV...I think I'd sue!" Jim then explained that he was not talking about the person who drove the golf cart, but was actually talking about a golf club called a "driver." We've all laughed about that ever since. Thanks for having such a good sense of humor Michael and letting us enjoy your stories.
Love you always,
Mom
Marsha Lovstrom
October 27, 2007
Well Michael, I wrote about going to see Spamalot last weekend but the entry did not appear. Not sure what the problem was, so I'll write about it again.
This was something that I would have gone to see with you and knew I had to go as a tribute to your memory of all the funny times we had with you & Jennifer cracking yourselves and us up do Monty Python reinactments. In fact, you know we still laugh about the first time Jim came to dinner and met you & Jennifer. The two of you entertained us (and yourselves) with all the lines from the Monty Python movies. I figured Jim would either appreciate this humor and be OK with it, or he'd bolt and we'd never see him again! I can still hear you two laughing and mimicing the lines you'd watched so many times. Good memories. Thank you!
There was an empty seat next to us at the theatre. I decided it was your seat. Hope you enjoyed it along with us. You were never far from my mind.
Before the show started we were talking about how ornate the theatre was and I was sharing with Jim that your first exposure to the theatre was in Germany when you went on a school trip in 2nd or 3rd grade. I remember how excited you were telling me about the chandliers and art work and you took pictures to show us. You were so excited to share this experience with us, that we went back on the weekend to see the play with you again.
I'm grateful to have such wonderful memories. You always enjoyed life and made it enjoyable for the rest of us. Thanks for being such a loving and enjoyable son and leaving so many good memories. A legacy you can be proud of. I am.
Love as big as the sky,
Mom
Marsha Lovstrom
October 22, 2007
Well Michael, we went to see Monty Python's Spamalot yesterday. I knew it was something we would have done together. But I'm not sure you weren't there with us...we had what appeared to be an empty seat by us. I decided it was occupied by you and we really did get to see it together. It sure brought back all the memories of you and Jennifer cracking yourselves up doing all the "ka-nig-it" (knight), Trojan rabbit, catapulted cow and killer rabbit stuff.
I remember the first time I invited Jim over for dinner to meet you and Jennifer. After dinner you both were in the living room doing your Monty Python thing and cracking up. There were only two choices - either he would appreciate the humor or think we were a little too crazy and we'd never see him again. We still laugh about night. You two made it very memorable.
Going to the theatre yesterday was for you Michael and I'm glad you're life was spent laughing and having fun. The closing song, as you know, was "Always Look on the Bright Side of Life." I miss you, but you really did brighten my life. Although I have lots of sadness, I still feel joy because I was priviledged to have you as my son.
I'll always love you big as the sky.
Mom
Jennifer Myers
October 14, 2007
Hey Michael,
Ryan's team won the championship. They were undefeated this year, and this is the fifth year in a row that the eighth grade football team has taken the championship. Ryan plays both offensive and defensive positions and I think he was worried about losing that five year winning streak, but he was in almost the whole game and did great.
We missed you alot, but I felt like you were with us when they won and played "We are the Champions". I've got to get my homework done. Brad came in and said "tell Michael Hi for me", so "Hi". We love and miss you bunches.
Always your loving sister...
Jennifer Myers
October 10, 2007
Michael,
I think of you every day, and find myself relating something about you nearly everday. The other day I was walking with some co-workers and a HUGE spider crossed our path, causing a bit of an uproar amongst those of us who are spider haters (my apologies, I know they must serve a good purpose but I just can't seem to believe that's possible). Anyway, I couldn't help but remember when we were teenagers and I heard you call "Jennifer....can you come in here a minute?" I should have known you were up to no good, because you were leaning back on your bed with your arms back behind your head with the you-know-what eatin'est grin on your face as you said "flip on the light there".....Of course, you'd still laugh at how bad you got me through our adult years... You had discovered that your black magnetic spider would stick to the screw on the lightswitch plate... and my hand came within a frog's hair of touching what I thought was a real spider.....Of course, I'm sure you felt really and truly bad about the way I flew to your side of the room afflicted by all sorts of seizures and hysterics, and I'm sure that you would have protected and consoled me, had it been a real spider and had you not been afflicted by your own type of seizures and hysterics, which, oddly enough, sounded like laughter..... Anyway, you got me good.
A little update along that line;Ryan killed a big black widow on our front stoop yesterday and he left it to show his Dad and Larry and Brad, but Larry came up the porch and stepped on it. The disappointments of boys.
Ryan won another football game tonight. They're going to the championship. Suzanne is a senior and we have so much going on that I can't believe you won't be here. Sometimes, I think I just can't make it, but I do. I just hope if you see us, you're proud and you're happy. You surely made our lives better, I still want the best for you.
I love and miss you as big as the sky,
Me
Marsha Lovstrom
September 26, 2007
Here's another Michael memory. When he was in kidergarten he got his first school yearbook. My sister, Karen and her family had come to visit and Michael brought his yearbook out and was showing it to his uncle. His uncle asked him to point out his girlfriend and Michael after some thought pointed out two. One was a little petite, shy looking blonde haired girl and the other was a little dark haired girl who looked very much the opposite. Then his uncle told him he wouldn't be able to marry two girls, so he asked Michael if he had to make a choice which one would it be. After some thought he finally made a choice. It was the little blonde. When asked why he chose her, Michael said "well, it's because she (the dark haired girl) hits when she gets mad, and the other girl never hits me." I always knew he was smart!!
I'm proud of the person Michael was here with us. I feel blessed to have had 33 years with him. My life is much richer and more meaningful because of him. I wish we had had more earthly time together, but I have wonderful memories and I'm sure Michael's soul journey is still progessing as God planned for it to. Michael, I'm sure you know how much you are loved and missed by us. You're with me always.
Love,
Mom
Marsha Lovstrom
September 25, 2007
I've been in checking Michael's Guest Book, but haven't written for a while. Sometimes I just don't seem to be able to find what I want to say. I really appreciate those who write in the book and share your feelings and stories about Michael. He is very special to me and I love and miss him so very much. Thanks to all who continue to remember him.
Here is another Michael story. When he was about 1st grade I took Michael and Jennifer out and bought them new shoes. After we got home I told them to throw away their old worn out shoes. Jennifer did, but everytime I looked in Michael's room his old shoes were still sitting there. Everytime I reminded him to throw them away, he would say OK but wouldn't. Finally, after he realized that I wasn't going to forget about it, he came to me and said he had something to tell me. He said it was embarassing but he couldn't throw away his old shoes. I asked him why and he said "because I think my shoes have feelings." I understood his attachment and feeling about just throwing away things that had meant something and been a part of everyday life. I told him it was OK and to put them
in his closet, which he did. After a couple weeks, the new shoes had become a part of everyday and he didn't notice when the old ones were no longer in his closet. I feel that this story shows that he was sensitive, caring and thoughtful about more than just himself. This was a trait that he always had and never lost. If you were family, friends or "old shoes" you always knew he'd be there for you caring about you.
Michael, I'm sure you don't mind me sharing stories about you over the years. There are lots of special memories that explain who you are. I love you and talk to you everyday.
Jim wants me to say "hi" and let you know that he also thinks about you everyday and his special memories of you. He said he will get back with you and start sharing his memories in this Guest Book, as long as "your Mom" listens to him when he talks. He said you know he is not a great talker and will let your mom do his talking "as usual." (I'm sure you're chuckling at this!)
We love you!!
Forever love,
Mom & Jim
Robert Hendrickson
August 28, 2007
Michael,
Well my friend Summer is nearly over and I have missed you often. You are on my mind every day. I wish you were able to call and just tell me the latest happenings in your life or see if I wanted to go fishing. My dear friend you are deeply missed by so many people. Thanks for being my friend.
Marsha Lovstrom
August 18, 2007
Hi Michael,
I've not added anything to your guest book lately. I've checked it, but not written. It's definately not that you are forgotten. You're in my thoughts and heart eternally. I miss you and love you so much. It's all still so hard to believe. I love you my wonderful son.
Mom
Brandon Needham
July 6, 2007
Mike,
Hey bud, well, happy late birthday and happy 4th of July!!!!!! I reflected on the 4th about our 4th at Chenney Stadium and the events afterwards!!! How time flies by and things get so different.
I still cannot accept or beleive that your no longer physically here, but thanks for letting me know that you are around, I appreciate that!!!!!!!!! I still break down sometimes when I am alone and think about things, but instead of feeling sad, I should feel comforted knowing your in a place that is without worry. I found an old photo of you during a work get together way back in the day, and it made me laugh all over again!!!!! We are all doing well, of course you know this.
Well Mike, I will write again soon. I miss you pal!!!!!!
Jennifer Myers
July 3, 2007
Hi Michael,
Mom has pretty much described how our day has gone and what we did. I hope you have been with us, or allowed to see us. We did our best to honor you and enjoy your birthday. I could talk or write all night long and never get close to how much we love and miss you. You really were the best son and brother we could have ever hoped for.
Of course, being only 2 days apart, your and my birthdays always seemed connected somehow... Jim and Mom took me to Sakura for my birthday dinner, I know it was always one of your favorites... Mom & I had your birthday at Kalaloch Lodge tonight, I believe that's the last place I had dinner out with you. I missed you. I also bought you some birthday cards. Really perfect ones. Basically, I just want to tell you how wonderful you are and always have been. I have always loved being your big sister and I'm so proud of the person you always have been. I pray you are happy and peacefull and that with time I will learn to be happier too. It's tougher not having you here, but we're working on it. There is a real void that can never be filled.
I miss you coming over for dinner & your birthday. I miss your smile and laugh, those were the best. And I miss your sense of humor. I have never laughed as hard or as much as when I was with you.
Happy Birthday Dear Michael, Happy Birthday to You....
We Love you SOOOOO MUCH!!!
Jennifer
P.S. True to my nature, this is late...but only on a technicality. It is currently 11:39 pm (Pacific Time) here. I just looked at this book and it shows July 3rd. Well, from where I sit, it's still July 2nd & I say I got this to you on time!! :) and so did MOM!! :)
Doris Johnston
July 3, 2007
Happy Birthday Michael! I think about you everyday. I know you're happy, but we miss you and I hope you're having a good birthday celebration with Papaw. I love you very much.
Love,
Mam-maw Doris
Marsha Lovstrom
July 3, 2007
Happy Birthday Michael! I am so glad you were my son. Jennifer and I spent your birthday together, of course I believe you may already know this. We started the morning by releasing a Tigger birthday balloon from the backyard and singing "Happy Birthday" to you. Then we drove to the beach at Kalaloch, after stopping at Lake Quinault. At Kalaloch we released more balloons to you and wrote a message in the sand to you telling you we loved you. Then we had dinner in the lodge. We chose to go there because it was the last stops we made on the trip the three of us made a few years ago. I hope you were watching and with us in spirit today. You know we've had our tears, but we also wanted to celebrate having you in our life. We love you so much and always will.
Love, Mom
May 13, 2007
Today is Mother's Day, Michael, and I miss you. I've had my tears and I've had my joys. I am so grateful that you were my son. You were such a good baby, cute toddler, child and young person. You grew into a handsome, smart and kind young man, which made me very proud. What more could a mother ask for? You made my life so much better and meaningful. I'm grateful that you were here with me for 33 years, although I selfishly wish there had been more. You will always be here with me in spirit and in my memories.
Jennifer sent me a beautiful NAO figurine of a mother holding a little boy. This gift she gave to me from you and her. You know how much she loves you and was there to help you make my Mother's Day special. The card from you and her was perfect with the yellow roses, lady bug and butterfly. She did a good job for you both. Of course, Suzanne and Ryan called me first thing to help make my day a good one. They miss you so much, too.
Jim is out planting the Japanese Maple tree I got yesterday. I know how much you wanted to get one for me last year and we just never made it to the nursery to pick one out. So I went yesterday to get one as my Mother's Day gift to express my love for you. It's "our" tree. The lady at the nursery helped me pick out a beautiful tree and when I went to pay, she said she wanted to give it to me and hoped it brought comfort to my life. Her name was Sunny, which I am sure you already know. In fact, you probably already know all of this that I've written, but I wanted to add it to your book. I am sad and have difficult days, but I am forever grateful for the opportunity to be a mother and grandmother. It has been the most meaningful part of my life. Thank you and God for letting me have you as my son and bringing so much love into my life. I was blessed to have you. Love always, Mom
Marsha Lovstrom
April 10, 2007
Well Michael, Papaw is with you now. Hope you two are enjoying each others company. Jodi pictures you two fishing and telling jokes. I miss you alot.
Love,
Mom
Marsha Lovstrom
March 21, 2007
Here's another Michael story. This one is one his Mam-maw Doris wanted to share. When we lived in Germany, she, Pap-paw and Jodi came to visit. We did the usual site seeing/tourist things. One trip we took was to Neuschwanstein Castle (The one like the Disney Castle). We decided to take the horse drawn carriage up to the castle. The driver said to Michael that he could sit on the bench with him. While we were waiting before we headed up to the castle, Michael kept laughing and turning around telling us the horses were farting. Shortly after we got up to the castle and were looking around, Michael had the worst Asthma attach he ever had. We sat down on a bench with him and after he was doing better, his Mam-maw looked at him and said "Well, Michael, I guess you're just allergic to horse farts!" As you can imagine, we always reminded him about being allergic to horse farts! Who would have guessed that he would meet Kris , who owned so many horses!
We miss Michael very much. I just came back from Ohio, where his Mam-maw and I watched the video he narated while we were in Germany, his Nutcracker demonstration, and Bye, Bye Birdie, his high school play where he was the Dad and sang "Kids, what's the matter with kids today." I know I'm biased, but I couldn't have asked for a better kid. He grew up to be a fine young man and we were very proud of him.
With Love,
Mam-maw Doris and Mom
Brandon Needham
March 21, 2007
I left two entries, because I thought the first one didn't go through, so I re wrote the second. But it is how I feel. I miss you Michael!!!!
Brandon Needham
March 21, 2007
Well, it has been a while since I have written anything and it is not that I haven't wanted to. I was at the federal police academy for 6 weeks and I graduated on the 16th of March.
During this time I reflected alot on the past. What was important and what was not. One thing that was and still is very important to me is Michael. I considered him to be my best friend and the one person whom I shared my fears, anger and private side with. If there was women trouble, I talked o Mike. If it was work or personal, I talked to Mike.
We would go and do so much together it was as if he was my brother and it was only genetics that made it that we weren't.
I wish that I had him at my ceremony for my police academy graduation. That is one thing that we always talked about, being on the same department, being in the same squad and having shop talk.
I remember the fateful call I got receiving the news about what had happened. I was shocked, angry sad and confused. I always took for granted things up until that point. I guess I always thought he would be around, and I could call him and things would continue on. I know now that complacency is not an option and you cannot take anything for granted. Life is precious and it only takes a second for those things we hold dear to be gone. Marsha, I want you to know that you and jim are my second family and if there is anything that you need please feel free to let me know and I will do what I can to help you out.
Well Michael, I still miss you, and it is a funny thing. They say you never have but one good best friend, and I beleive it. You were my best friend and I miss you more now than I ever have and the pain that I feel daily and the memories will never go away. I just hope that you will always know how much you meant to me and my family.
Brandon Needham
March 20, 2007
Well, it has been a while since I have written anything. First nd foremost this was due to my attendance at the federal police academy. I had six long weeks without much internet access, but during this time it also allowed me to reflect. And I reflected alot on things that meant something to me. One thing that meant something to me was Michael. He wsa my best friend and someone that I confided in when no one else would or could listen. He let me vent, express my anger, sympothy or caring without any judgements. I knew he was a special person the first moment I met him. We had some connection that you just don't find in other people and we instantly got along when it was so hard for me to get along with many people.
One thing we absolutely shared was our love for law enforcement. We talkedof joining the state patrol, being in the same academy class, being assigned to the same district and detachment, and much to our own dismay, at the time thought our Sgt. Would be someone who mentored us during our explorer years with the State Patrol (kidding Robert).
One thing I wish is that when I graduated, I could have had my friend there to enjoy the ceremony.
Michael meant so much to me in so many ways. He was like a brother to me and we shared so many things in life. My greatest gift was knowing that we shared what we did.
Marsha, you had a very fine son. You already know that but it doesn't hurt to say it again. I considered you my second mother and love you very much. Please know that whatever you may need I am here and will do whatever I can to help you.
I will truly never forget Michael, his humor, his laugh, his smile and the things that he did just being him.
To my best friend, I know one day we can see eachother again and reflect on things past.
Brandon
Karen Johnston
March 8, 2007
Good morning Michael! It's a difficult time for our family still. We love you so much and miss you. I get to see your Mom today, she is here in Ohio to spend some time with your Papaw Joe. I know you are watching over him too and I just want to say "thank you". We all miss you so much and find comfort in knowing your wonderful memories and beautiful spirit will always be with us. Love, Aunt Karen
Meagan
February 26, 2007
So my name is Meagan I worked with Michael at the DC. I thought that everyone reading this knows of michaels great sense of humor. So I thought that I would share with everyone a funny story that I remember that I shared with Michael.
Well where my desk is located in the office you can see out into the warehouse through a door that has a window in it. One day they decided to lock the door after 3 1/2 yrs of it being unlocked. YOu had to use you security card to get in. They didnt tell anyone that they were doing it. Well Michael just happen to be the first victum of the locked door. He smashed right into the door full force not knowing that it was locked. I just about fell out of my chair laughing at him. He scanned his carded and chuckled a little and tried to play it off like nothing happened. Of course I wouldnt let him live it down. I still wait for him to walk through that door in the mornings.
MISS YOU TONS
Meagan
February 22, 2007
Michael was one who was "almost" right much of the time when he was young. A few of the "almost" rights I remember are the following:
The name of the TV show was "Breaking Away" - Michael was trying to remember the name of the show and called it "Getting Away From It All."
Another time was when Michael was trying to think of the BeeGee's song, "Staying Alive." He said, "you know that song, "Keeping on Living."
When in Germany he was telling me that he got a ride home with "Quasimodo." I said "Who?" He said "You know, Quasimodo, Anna Maria's mom." Her name was Consuelo, not Quasimodo.
When we went to Greece we visited the Acropolis and all the historical sites and then went to dinner with friends who lived in Athens. After returning home to Germany, Michael was talking to me about the trip and said something about Mr. & Mrs. Acropolis. All those foreign words! They're name was Prevasiotis...but we did visit the Acropolis and he came back remembering at least one of those strange names!
Michael was a real joy as a child and throughout his entire life. I hope those who read this and knew him throughout his whole life get enjoyment from reading these memories we all remember. If you only knew Michael as a young man, I hope you know Michael a little more by my sharing my memories as a mother.
As always, I love you Michael.
Mom
February 19, 2007
More Michael sharing. Michael was in the 2nd grade, when we got cable TV. He came across the movie "Singing in the Rain." He thought that was such a cool movie, that he brought his little friend in when it was time to come on again, telling his friend, "You're really going to like this show." (Shortly after Michael's death, both my sister Karen and I within days of each other stumbled on the movie "Singing in the Rain," while flipping through channels. Of course we both watched it with memories of Michael running in the house because it was time for it come on again.)
Michael always had an appreciation for all types of the arts. He was so excited when we were in Germany and his class went to a "really fancy" theatre to see a stage play. He took pictures of the chandalier's and everything he could and we later took the kids back to see "Hansel and Gretal" so he could show us how neat that theatre was.
Later we went to the "Nutcracker Ballet" and other productions. When Jim & I got married, his gift to us was tickets for us all to go see the "Nutcracker" again, together.
I believe his favorite play was definately "Phantom of the Opera." We went to Vancouver, B.C. to see it the first time and saw it in Seattle the second time. That was always a special time for me and Michael. I have a carousal musical horse he gave me for my birthday that plays one of the songs from Phantom. Of course, thats's a cherished gift for me.
Michael later had some lead roles in High School plays and had solo parts in the boys chorus. This was always a surprise to me and Jim. He never told us what his part was...we found out when he would step out on stage.
More stories of Michael later.
Love you Michael,
Mom
February 18, 2007
Here's another story that is dear to me about Michael when he was very young. Michael was still in diapers so he was still very young when John Denver's "Thank God I'm a Country Boy" was popular. It didn't matter what he doing or how involved he was play with something, if that song came on he would run into the living room by the stereo and start clapping his hands and dancing as hard as he could in a circle around one foot. He would dance so hard his diaper would start slipping down before the song was over.
It's little moments like this that stick in a mother's mind and heart forever. Michael grew into a wonderful young man and there was never a moment I wasn't proud of him.
I love and miss you, Michael. Thanks for so many wonderful memories.
Mom.
Marsha Lovstrom
February 14, 2007
It's been a while since I've written in the guest book. Today is Valentine's Day, a day to express and share love. I think of Michael all throughout the day. He is gone to another part of his journey, but he lives on in my memories and by my love for him. I would like to starting sharing stories about Michael's life and invite others to do so also. I'll start with memories of when he was very young and move forward through his life little by little.
The first story I'll share is when he about 2 1/2 or 3. His dad was crawling around like an tiger as Michael ran from him laughing. Michael finally got himself trapped in the corner of the kitchen with no escape route and as he stood there laughing as his dad crawled toward him, Michael suddenly brought up his hand like it was a gun and shot at him with his "finger gun" (along with the sound effects) about 4 times before his dad reached him.
I'll share other stories later.
Love, Mom
Michael, Jim, Marsha and Robert
February 12, 2007
Jennifer's and Brad's Wedding
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Ryan, Michael and Suzanne
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Marsha, Jennifer,
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Rick Turner
January 5, 2007
My deepest sympathies and prayers go out to the family of Michael Holland. Even though I was not as close to Michael as many were, I do have fond memories of him when he came to visit with Joe,Doris and others around the Middletown area. Some of those memories I forgot until I went through some old pictures. He had a great heart and that is what matters. I wish I could have talked with him again before that day. May you be blessed with healing and strength.
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