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Joan Riley
February 13, 2026
Jileen, I think about the first time i met you and Richard in Seattle. You were so in love with each other. I think you were shucking oysters and you, Richard, Marlow and I were just walking on railroad ties near the sound.
And i remember you two during your last month of pregnancy and how relaxed and happy you were!!
I am so sadden to read of Richards passing. Im sending all my love to you and your family. Joan Riley.
Shoshana Matsumura
February 3, 2026
Attending concerts and potlucks at the barn, talking story with Ricardo when picking up our kau kau meat share, and shooting the philosophical breeze. Lots of great memories. Mahalo for freely sharing your aloha, and your supportive and encouraging nature. You are a rare bird and we were fortunate to have had you touch our lives.
Laura J Clark
February 2, 2026
I met Richard at Stanford in my freshman year. We lived in the same small dormitory and from the first day, Richard stood out. His talents and infectious laugh and smile were memorable and so warm; I remember being a bit lost in the first few weeks as I was very far from home and he reached out to me. Richard was interested even then in organizing gatherings that involved music, food and camaraderie for the dorm and for his smaller group of close friends and these happened informally and formally and were a lifeline to many early on and a centering influence in the dorm.
He and I painted the walls of many of the dorm rooms with subjects the folks who lived in the rooms chose; the idea took off and by the end of the year most of the rooms had some unique design. I remember many late nights in his room with a bunch of friends, playing music, singing and talking. Richard had a way of making even the simplest encounter feel magical and important. At that point i remember thinking he could do anything he wanted to, well, and that this confidence carried us all along in a wave. Richard was even then an extremely generous person--I remember him making sure that when an event was planned that everyone could manage to go. for those without transportation he arranged rides and he made sure that those who could not pay were able to participate. He kept his car, at that point old, now classic, signature MGB hatchback running himself and we took many memorable rides along Skyline Drive in the redwoods and down to San Gregorio beach on weekends. In the summer of that year I spent several weeks at the Russell ranch on Puget Sound, cooking for folks there, riding horses, exploring the forest and enjoying the company of his family and other friends who came to stay. I spent a lot of time working on my art and doing some writing and Richard made it easy to fit in and feel comfortable and his family embraced the motley crew of artists, writers and creative souls who dropped in. It was one of the most memorable summers ever: we even went to see Bruce Springsteen right at the beginning of his superstardom (just after Born to Run launched). Somehow Richard always seemed to have a thumb on the pulse of the moment--the concert was unforgettable! Richard had also managed to get a pilot's license and took four of us up for a flight over the sound and near enough to the mountains so that we could get a spectacular view of them. I had never had these kinds of opportunities before and I remember Richard's excitement as he created magical days filled with events and the spirit of adventure for all of us. I remember lots of laughing and celebration and joy in being together which continued when we met up at Cliveden, Stanford's progam in England the following spring of Sophomore year. Richard bought an old Rover that spring and we spent free time with two other close friends travelling the back roads of
England following the legend of King Arthur and other literary trails and sites. My notebooks and photos from that time tell a tale of youth and freedom; we were carefree and simply enjoying the fellowship of our small group.The following summer I returned to college early and spent some more time at the ranch, then five of us moved in together in a house that Richard found in Woodside, up in the redwoods. One of the things I remember best about Richard at that time was his energy, his search for experience and the sense that he was on a quest for meaning. This was exciting to be around and seemed to open up endless possibilities; seeing what he managed to create supported our excitement to follow our own paths.
I cannot really imagine what my college experience would have been like without Richard's presence. We had a wonderful friendship which lapsed when I stayed an extra year at Stanford and he went back to his beloved northwest. I then moved east but never forgot those wonderful times we spent in college, the length of the days and the sense that time was endless and filled with unlimited possibility. Richard was a person born into much privilege, but also a person who was an example of the phrase " for those unto whom much is given, much is then expected." Richard gave much to me in those college years and so many of my memories of that time are the result of his planning, imagination and the joy he took in bringing folks together for unforgettable experiences, both complex and simple, all of which created magic. I wish I had been able to tell him that; I think he would have appreciated the fact that we recognized that the magic was often of his making, even then. Somewhere in his possessions there is a leather folio of his early songs with illustrations of pen and ink and watercolor that I made for him as a thank you gift so long ago. It was a long project and I am sure he kept it--I remember that as a kind of symbol of his ability to inspire and bring folks together.
I am sure there are a lot of people from Richard's past who have appeared again, much saddened by his passing. Though we were only infrequently in touch a few times over many years, I am glad to read of his wife, son and grandchild, and such a full life of adventure and philanthropy of many kinds, which gave me no surprise at all. The world is a poorer place for his passing, but he lives on in the inspiration and kindness he left so many with, at all stages of his life, in many different forms.
Patty Carroll
January 3, 2026
We are so sorry to hear of Richard´s passing and send our condolences to Jil, Zac and family. We enjoyed being neighbors and friends in West Seattle and having our boys play together. Great memories!
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Linda Turner
January 2, 2026
Hi Jil & Zac...so have loved your family. So many wonderful memories...my love to you each.
Linda T
John Heile
December 8, 2025
So sad to hear. Richard and I became good friends when he was in Seattle. We worked, and played music together before his move to Hawaii. His passing is very hard to comprehend. My heart felt condolences to Jileen and Zac, and anyone else who came in contact with this wonderful man.
Carla Orellana
November 6, 2025
Richard gathered our community together in all the best ways. I wish there were more just like him. He was such a loving role model. He always met me with a huge smile. I always felt welcomed. I treasure and keep him close to my heart even more now.
alejandro scarpetta
November 4, 2025
Thank you Richard for sharing your music; community potlucks at the barn; encouraging me to play music in group practices,tolerant of the process. Thank you for enriching Kohala community. You are missed and celebrated ,free into a whole other dimension. Aloha.
Jerry and Jo Ann Wiesner
October 31, 2025
We fondly remember Richard as well as Jileen and Zac from our Westside School days. Your friendship and your family´s kind and generous contributions to the school and the community were very much appreciated. Sorry to have lost touch with you. Sending love and wishing you peace.
Jenny
October 28, 2025
Aloha Jil, it´s Jenny (Gerth) Reading, just now hearing of Richard´s passing. My prayers and blessing to you and yours
Wendy phillips
October 23, 2025
He was a force for good with his music , his work and his family.
How sad to have been taken so soon. Condolences to all the family cxxxx
Paul E Anderson
October 22, 2025
I wish to send my deepest condolences to Jileen and Zac, and the whole family for your loss.
david matteson
October 22, 2025
Aloha dear friend. The simple pleasure of an ordinary sunset on an ordinary afternoon with an ordinary circle of deep-hearted friends on your lanai . . . in that ordinary moment we were blessed and it rippled out without notice to bless Everything. Mahalo for the treasure of being your friend. d
Nelson Denman
October 22, 2025
Ricardo!
Wonderful memories of your big hearty smile and playing music with you in all our manifestations!
Blessings to you and your family!
Virginia Fortner
October 20, 2025
I'm so. grateful for the safe and welcoming space I've shared with Richard and will continue to share with Jileen.
Richard "Rudy" McMillen
October 20, 2025
So sorry to learn this.
I knew Dick back in the Red Rhythm Band days. Many memorable gigs, and the whole gang riding in a pair of vintage hearses to the Grateful Dead concert!
He was a sweet and kind guy.
My condolences to family and friends.
Lisa Marie Ottoson
October 20, 2025
Dear Jileen and Zac, My best memories are out at the farm, the fun, the music, the community that he created and his love of people. I am so saddened for your family, but know that Jane welcomed him to his next adventure with loving open arms. I knew Richard from Russell back in the 90's and while he worked with Bryan Bell over in the lab across from the building in Tacoma. What a joy, and what a reflection he was of his mother's love, kindness and genuine care for others. Laughs and jokes and music. Let us all strive to embody more of the characteristics that Richard so lovingly shared.
Gina Sala
October 19, 2025
Ricardo has been a friend and inspiration for 2 decades. His heart, his creativity, curiosity, humor, music and insights have brought wonder, delight and opened my heart and mind. Mahalo, my friend. Big love and blessings to Jileen, Zac and the whole family. Om Bhur Bhuvah Svah...
Tom
October 19, 2025
I was in Red Rhythm Band With him, The times practicing at the chicken coop. He helped me become the player I am today. This is a loss
Marc Pease
October 19, 2025
I never met Richard in person, but his music collaboration with Brooke Lizotte on the Alisaz brought so much joy to so many online during the days of Covid separation. I will always remember these times, thanks Richard, thanks Brooke.
Marc
Lyn Dodd
October 19, 2025
I was devastated when I heard about Richardo´s illness and passing! He was an incredible person whom I loved. As cousins and friends, I´ll always remember the fun times when we´d all get together!
His art and music always touched my heart and soul and I´m grateful to have some of his music.
I send the family all my condolences, love and prayers!
RIP, Richardo. You will be sorely missed!
Grant Ballin
October 18, 2025
Awww Ricardo...too soon ! I've always since I met you, wanted to create something extraordinary with you, maybe next time.
Lynn Brandli
October 18, 2025
I had the pleasure of being hired by Richard and his mother to manage the creative department at FRC. He taught me a lot, about how to honor my creative spirit. Spending time with Richard always left me thinking, inspired, questioning the "status quo". Encouraging me in both my professional and personal life.
I was proud to call Ricardo my friend.
I lost my husband a year ago. They used to get together over a shared love of music, playing all kinds of stringed instruments. I am sure they are putting together a new band creating a few more songs. Both talented spirits.
Rest in peace Ricardo- you were a beautiful human, and made a lasting impact on my life.
Charlie R
October 18, 2025
Richards jazz lab was not a band he wanted a place to play and grow it was beautiful keep playing
Hap
October 17, 2025
The world was lucky to see him born
Carla Orellana
October 17, 2025
Richard always welcomed me with a HUGE smile into his barn or home for music and get-togethers throughout the years. I felt like a loved family member. We were ALL his family in our hearts. I hope we can all aspire to be more like Ricardo
Steven Harold Beard
October 17, 2025
He´s gone. Too soon. He will be greatly missed.
My heart felt condolences to you Jileen Zac and the family.
Peace and love
Steven Harold Beard
Aozora Community
October 17, 2025
Dear Zac, Mariko and Family,
On behalf of all of us at Aozora Community, I would like to express our deepest condolences on the passing of Richard. We were so saddened to hear the news.
As the founding Executive Director of Clementine Fund, Richard´s generosity and vision have touched many lives, including ours. He helped strengthen our mission to create a nurturing bilingual learning environment for children like Rumi and many others in our community.
We are deeply grateful for his lasting legacy of kindness and generosity. Please know that our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.
With heartfelt sympathy,
Miho Nishimaniwa
Executive Director
Aozora Community Foundation
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