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Stuart Haywood Obituary

Stuart Barr Haywood Born Sept. 8, 1933 in Tacoma, WA and passed away Feb. 8, 2009 also in Tacoma. He was a lifetime resident of Tacoma and Gig Harbor who served in the US Army in Korea. He enjoyed fishing, hunting, and collecting. Stuart was employed by Hurley Engineering Co. in Tacoma for more than 50 years. Survivors include his wife of 22 years Sue; son Jeff "Buck" and Tammy of Gig Harbor; daughters Shannon Rider of Bellingham and Kristi Ratliff of Lynnwood; Sue's son Greg Rider of Vancouver; sisters Nancy Jarvis and Sally Rossi both of Tacoma; grandchildren Chad, Ashley, Emma, Will, and Hayden. A Funeral Service will be held on Feb. 12th at Haven of Rest Chapel at 2:00 pm. Memorials in Stuart's name may be made to the American Cancer Society, PO Box 22718, Oklahoma City, OK 73123-1718 or online at cancer.org. Arrangements by Haven of Rest, Gig Harbor, WA.

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Published by News Tribune (Tacoma) from Feb. 10 to Feb. 11, 2009.

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February 14, 2009

Sue and Family, I was so sorry to hear of Stuart's death. I just spoke with him on the phone a couple of weeks ago, and had a long visit about old times, I grew up in the North End and often Stu would give me a ride to work on his way to work. I enjoyed our visits so much whenever I saw him in later years, which wasn't that often. He was a special person. My thoughts and prayers go out to you Sue and your family. Maribeth Gordon

Lisbeth and Shane Stull

February 14, 2009

To Sue and the entire family, we were so sorry to hear of Stuart's passing. Stu was a good friend of my Dad's, Kenny Gordon. When they were together there was always a story and many laughs. I would like to think that they are sharing some fun times together again. I am so deeply sorry for your loss.

Mark and Patty Osterhout

February 12, 2009

Buck, Tammy and Family

Very sorry to hear about your Dad, our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. We hope you find comfort in knowing that he is in a better place and his suffering is over.

Sincerely

Geri Barkhoff

February 11, 2009

Sue,
Stuart will be deeply missed by all that knew him, especially at the horse races! We had such a good time with you and Stuart every year. Our deepest sympathy to you and your family.

Andrea Newberry

February 11, 2009

Our family is thinking of you Sue, Bucky, Kristi and Shannon. What a wonderful man Stuart was! Always cheerful, generous, and kind-hearted. We will miss him so much and I will especially miss hearing, "where the hell ya been?" Love to you all.
Andrea, Michelle and our parents, Ron and Connie Prynne

Andria Stephens

February 11, 2009

Our family has such great memories of Stuart! He was an amazing man. The love and pride he felt for his grandkids was so evident and he always made my kids feel special too! Whether cheering on the boys at baseball, volunteering at the school events, or just having the kids over to play on the beach our kids loved to be around Stuart. He will be missed by them and us. You all are in our thoughts and prayers.

Andria,John, Matt, Aly and Luke Stephens

Jody Waterman

February 10, 2009

Sue and family,
My heart and thoughts go out to each of you. Stu was an extradorinary husband, father and grandfather and will truly be missed. May God bless each of you and provide you comfort and peace as you remember him and celebrate his life. My love to you all, Jody Waterman

Jenni Minnis

February 10, 2009

I have been and will continue my prayers for your family. He is with God and peace is now on his soul... Our Love The Minnis girls.

WAYNE BUCK

February 10, 2009

So sorry, Sue...Wayne and I were glad to have a chance to visit with him before he passed away...always great to be around....that smile, and sense of humor...a long time friend of the Buck family...(even living in the old "Buck" home). We're on a trip, so won't be able to attend the service, but our thoughts and prayers will be with you! JUDY and WAYNE BUCK

Connie Underwood

February 10, 2009

Stuart was such a "genuine" person-we enjoyed his friendship and were so happy for Stu and Sue that they had so many years together. My thoughts are with all of his extended family who always shared so many wonderful times. He was "one of a kind". Love and blessings to all.

Marion, Scott, Elise & Keely Hamilton

February 10, 2009

Sue, Bucky and family,
Our thoughts are with you in this sad time. Stuart was a wonderful brother to my mother and a super uncle to me and my family. He will be truly missed by us all!

Larry Kelly

February 10, 2009

Stuart and I started first grade together at Lowell School he satin front of me. I have not seen him in many years but still remember some of the fun things we did as kids. This time of life we are seeig many of our friends leave and for a better place we hope.

Susan and Ross Cook

February 10, 2009

My heart goes out to Bucky,Tammy and thier children and to Sue. I know the pain of losing a parent. I have nothing but good memories of Stuart. Most of my memories go back over 50 years ago, when I was a little girl. He took my sister and I to the fair. He had a picture of us painted on silk in Korea. He made us laugh. He was a kind and generous man.

Darren and Janet Buck

February 10, 2009

I appreciate Stuart being part of my life for 50 years and know I'll see him again someday. We'll always remember Stuart for his sense of humor. Even during his illness, he could make us laugh. Our hearts go out to the family, Stuart will be missed.

February 10, 2009

Buck, Tammy and kids,

Deepest condolences from the Hanon Family,

Shaun, Melissa, Shane and Rachel

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