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1958
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2024
Brian Upton Obituary
August 10, 1958 - April 15, 2024
Richland, Washington - Brian was at Kadlec Hospital to Richard and Drusilla Upton. He graduated from Richland High School in 1976 and acquired several degrees from EWU in the 1980's. His intellect and knowledge of any topic you could think of was savant-like. He spent a brief time in Hollywood as an apprentice in the Director's Guild and worked on several TV productions of shows like Dear John, Cheers and Baywatch. He was a brilliant, kind, caring and hysterical friend, son, brother and uncle.
He spent many summer nights sitting on his front porch playing his guitar, writing songs and listening to his beloved Seattle Mariners. He passed away quickly after another Mariner loss and hearing Julio Rodriguez get picked off first base to end the game and kill a rally. He is survived by his mother Drusilla, older sisters Kathy and Laurine, and brother, Brad. The family would like to share our deepest gratitude to several of his close friends and neighbors that were absolutely invaluable to him and us these past few months.
In lieu of flowers donations may be made to: https://www.npr.org/donations/support in Brian's name or Melissa Bond Kitty Rescue 295 Gage Blvd, Richland WA 99352
A service will be held on Monday, May 6th at 11:00 AM, Pasco Christian Church, 1524 W Marie, Pasco, WA
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Memories and Condolences
for Brian Upton
Mary Cole
May 21, 2024
Brian and I met at work many years ago and although we had lost touch over too many years, he was and always will be very special to me. My prayers for the family and especially his beloved Mom!
Daniel Keane
May 17, 2024
I was so saddened to hear of Brians passing. As an old friend from WSU I would talk to Brian (Myron Lightbody) once or twice a year while driving by myself over the mountains. It was always a pleasure to hear his voice and his humor. I will miss his but will remember him each and every time I am on a long drive across our state.
Kathleen Sterling
May 5, 2024
Brian, I have a couple saved messages from you, one recent and one from my last birthday, just so I can hear your voice. Health circumstances kept me from your memorial, but I have a special candle lit for you and the family today. I'll miss your brilliance and sense of humor. Spending time with you was always a joy Until we meet again. Kathy
Mark Domarotsky
May 4, 2024
I got to know Brian through his brother, Brad, and always thought of him as a very smart, intellectual type fellow who was always concerned about the environment and social injustice. He was funny and bright, and from what Brad has shared, a devoted Mariner's fan who no longer has to endure the disappointment that comes at the end of the season. Rest in peace, Brian.
Mike Davis
April 30, 2024
Brad and family, I always enjoyed Brian´s company. He was an intelligent entertaining individual.
Brad, know that he thought the world of his big brother. Never was there a conversation with Brian that your name didn´t come up followed by some laughs.
He´s at peace now.
Lori (Landsman) Craig
April 26, 2024
My heart is aching at the loss of my wonderful, funny, caring, neighbor! Brian was my parent's neighbor for over 20 years. Daddy loved it when he would stop over to visit whenever he saw him outside. Brian gave me peace of mind knowing that he would check on Daddy if he had not seen him out on his smoking bench for a few days! I truly enjoyed getting to know Brian more after I moved into my parents' home. He was so intellectual, and our discussions were interesting and very varied. Brian had a delightful, positive outlook about life, nature, and his purpose on earth. He was a deeply religious man and spoke of his comfort knowing that God loved him. Even as trying as the last months of his life were, his positivity never dimmed! He was truly a faithful steward of the earth, plants, animals - especially his beloved cats, people, and God! I have no doubt he was met at and entered through the pearly gates to open arms and greetings from all the angels and saints and Jesus! Brian - you have left a lasting impression on me! Thank you for your friendship and love!
Ron
April 25, 2024
Brian and I were close as kids, but I always considered him a friend (even when we had drifted apart). My sincere condolences.
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