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Bette Hotaling Obituary

Bette Hotaling WATERVLIET – Bette Yannick Hotaling, 62, died peacefully Wednesday, December 11, 2013 at Albany Medical Center with her family at her side. Born in Troy on November 8, 1951, she was the daughter of the late Raymond F. and Marion Barna Yannick. Bette was raised and educated in Watervliet and was a graduate of Watervliet High School. She served in the U.S. Army from 1970-71 in Ft. Benning, GA. Bette was employed for over 28 years by the Halayko family at the Schuyler Bakery in Watervliet where she was the head counter person before retiring last month on her birthday, November 8, 2013. Bette knew all her customers by name and always kept the bakery alive with her vibrant personality. She had also worked at the Standard Manufacturing Co. in Troy before going to the bakery. Bette was also a homemaker raising her children and grandchildren. She loved to cook, sew and crochet and did a little hunting in her day. She was the #1 sports fan at all her children and grandchildren’s sporting events and never missed a baseball or football game. She is the beloved wife of John W. Hotaling whom she married August 5, 1976, devoted mother of Michael (Lori) Hotaling of Clifton Park, Kristin (Tom) Eury of Howes Cave, Scott (Heather) Wagers of Folsom, CA, Jeff (Valerie) Hotaling of Averill Park and Tiffany O’Neill of Watervliet, adored grandmother of Nicholas, Samantha, Nathen, Gregory, Katherine, Zachary, Jonathan, Reese, Braxton, Danica, Abigail, Emma and Brielle, dear sister of Raymond (Maureen Danaher) Yannick of Melrose, Patricia Curtin of Cohoes, Barbara Yannick of Watervliet and the late Joseph and Evelyn Yannick. She is also survived by several nieces and nephews. A graveside service will be held in the spring at the Gerald B.H. Solomon Saratoga National Cemetery in Schuylerville. There are no calling hours. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the Watervliet Civic Center, PO Box 164, Watervliet, NY 12189 in memory of Bette Hotaling. Condolence book at ParkerBrosMemorial.com.

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Published by The Record from Dec. 12 to Dec. 13, 2013.

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Jean Bisnett

January 22, 2014

I was amazed as I stepped into the bakery this morning to find that my favorite "bakery lady" had passed away! I am sooo sorry for your loss but want you to know how important Betty was in my life as she always asked about my family and was concerned for them. She truly loved her family and spoke of them all the time. She had a servant's heart and was a true blessing and asset to the Scuyler Bakery! My thoughts and prayers are with you all!

Lisa Noles

December 17, 2013

Dear Kris & family - I am so sorry to hear about your Mom's passing. My thoughts & prayers are with you at this sad time.

December 16, 2013

The Almighty God will surely be with those who are grieving Bette, a sweet lady who worked at a sweet place! I hope those who loved her can keep comforting one another during this difficult time.

Michele Cerulli

December 14, 2013

Barbara,Pat & Family I am very sorry to hear about Bette. My thoughts and prayers are with the family at this sad and difficult time Sincerely, Michele Cerulli

Melissa Hotaling

December 14, 2013

Bette went from my friend working for my cousin to becoming my mother in law then back to my friend. Bette wasan awesome wife to John a great mother to her 5 children and always there for her grandchildren.Not to mention always there for me. I will always remember her talks with me.My sincere thoughts and prayers are with the family. Bette maybe gone but never forgotten..She is singing her heart out with Elvis cause she loved his movies and songs..Love ya my Bette Boo

Angela Perrotti-Sousis

December 14, 2013

John, Mike, Nick & Family- My thoughts and prayers are with you all. So very sorry to hear about Bette passing. Rest in peace now Bette, you may be gone but never forgotten.

Patricia Kowansky Sanford

December 14, 2013

I went to Maplewood School with Bette. Later in life, I saw her at the Bakery. She was always so friendly. May she rest in peace.

Mary Beth Whited

December 13, 2013

Pat, Barb and family, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Florence Smith (Groesbeck)

December 13, 2013

I am sorry for the loss of your mother, I knew her for a long time. She was a very warm, generous and caring person.

Melissa Meroney

December 13, 2013

Val and Jeff, I am so sorry for your loss. May your memories comfort you during this difficult time. Thinking and praying for you all.

Karen OBrien

December 13, 2013

To not have Bette ask,"what can I get ya" is going to make visits to the Schuyler Bakery very different. I think she could read minds! Always friendly, upbeat and helpful...she will be missed. My sympathies to all who loved her.

Gary & Loretta Matthews

December 13, 2013

John & Family you already know how much Bette meant to all her customers & friends. She is & always will be a "Maplewoodin" at heart & will be surely missed.

Emanuel Biondi

December 13, 2013

Both Steve and myself were very sorry to learn of Bette's passng. Definitely a warm and kind women that brought light and happiness to all she knew.

Bev Feltt (Richards)

December 13, 2013

My sincere condolences go out to you on the loss of your loved one, Bette. We went to Maplewood and Watervliet High School together, but we lost touch as we moved on with our lives. It sounds like she had a wonderful family and a host of friends. May you all find comfort in the beautiful memories you have of her.

Tim Cronin

December 13, 2013

Always smiling in the bakery, two things I'll never forget. One, the day I saw a car stalking Gramps peacocks on Blue Factory road when I went to confront them it was Bette! Two the day I discovered she was married to my Arsenal boss John. My glazed dounuts will never be the same! Godspeed Bette!!!

Renay Dworakowski

December 13, 2013

Val and Jeff, I am so sorry for your loss. Please let me know if there is anything you need or that we can do.

Kathy Fuller

December 13, 2013

My deepest sympathies on the loss of Bette. She was a treasure always smiling and cracking a joke at the bakery. She was a gem!

Mary Anne Dronchi

December 13, 2013

I knew Bette from the bakery Fond memories of her will remain with me. My deepest sympathy to the family.

December 13, 2013

We will truly miss Bette. She was a big part of our lives at the baseball field. She will be truly missed by all.
With Deepest Sympathy,
Kris Ruddy and Family

Joslyn McArdle

December 13, 2013

Barbara- Keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.

December 13, 2013

Our sincere condolences to Bette's family. She will be missed. Her bakery customers, Bob & Maria Upton

Lidia Stoianova

December 13, 2013

My most sincere condolences to the whole family! She will be missed dearly! We love you Bette!

Paul Seney

December 13, 2013

John, please accept my most sincerest condolences for your loss. Bette was such a wonderful person and will surely be missed by many. My prayers are with you and your family.
Paul Seney, Myrtle Beach, SC

tom dombroski

December 13, 2013

good bye betty

robert welsh

December 12, 2013

our prayers are with bette and her family god bless you bette.

Denise Lindheimer

December 12, 2013

Bette. I feel as thou I am a better person for have known you. You have shown the world that this great town was your passion to make people happy, and put a smile on there faces. Knowing your daughter in law Melissa, was the next best thing to knowing you. She too is a very caring and loving person, and loved you like no other. You were there for her as she was for you. She will carry a heavy heart for awhile, but knowing you are with in in spirit, will put that smile back where it belongs. Everyone in Watervliet who has known you thru the years has lost of part of there heart to you in your passing. We shall remember you always. Rest in Peace Bette, you will be missed.

The Staff of Parker Bros. Memorial Funeral Home

December 13, 2013

Offering our deepest sympathies during this time.

Donna & Bill Gorman

December 12, 2013

So sorry for your loss....Bette was a nice women, always helpful when I just found not make my mind up on what sweet to buy...God Speed...

Kathy & Jim Pallotolo

December 12, 2013

Our thoughts and prayers are with Bette's family and friends at this very sad time. She was a great person and we will always remember her with love.

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