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Thomas J. Rosamilia CHESTERFIELD, VA - Thomas J. Rosamilia, 69, of Chesterfield, VA and formerly of Troy, East Greenbush, Poughkeepsie, and Clifton Park died Sunday November 6, 2016 at McGuire VA Medical Center in Richmond, VA. Born in Troy he was the son of the late Patrick J. Rosamilia and Eleanor R. Scarchilli Rosamilia. He was a 1964 graduate of Catholic Central High School and a 1969 graduate of Siena College where he was a ROTC member. Tom was employed as an accountant by Urbach Kahn and Werlin in Albany having retired as a Partner in 1997 after 20 years of service. He was a veteran of the US Army serving as a First Lieutenant in the Vietnam War and was a Bronze Star recipient. He had a great love for his country. He was a member of the AICPA, the Troy Lodge of Elks and the National American Legion Organization. His favorite hobby was socializing with others and he also enjoyed rose and flower gardening. His favorite teams were the NY Giants and NY Yankees. He was the husband of the late Cheryl Hosgood Rosamilia who died in 1995. He is the devoted father of Leita Rosamilia (Wilbur French) of Chesterfield, VA and Dominic Rosamilia (Kimberly) of Spring TX and proud grandfather of Samantha and Giovanni Rosamilia. He is brother of Lou Rosamilia (Peg) of Troy, James P. Rosamilia (Debra) of Jacksonville, FL and predeceased by his sisters Patricia A. Rosamilia and Anne M. Jett and niece Stephanie C. Rosamilia. He is survived by two nephews, several aunts, uncles, cousins and many friends. Funeral services will be Friday at 9 a.m. from the Philip J. Brendese Funeral Home, 133 Broad St. (Rte.32), Waterford and at 9:30 a.m. at St. Mary of the Assumption Church, Waterford. Interment will be in St. Mary’s Cemetery, Waterford. Relatives and friends may visit at the funeral home on Thursday from 4-7 pm. Those who wish may make memorial contributions to the Wounded Warriors Project, 4899 Belfort Rd. Suite 300 Jacksonville, FL 32256. To express your sympathy or share a treasured memory, visit: Brendesefuneralhome.com

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Published by The Record from Nov. 8 to Nov. 9, 2016.

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November 11, 2016

another member of the wonderful Rosamelia Family has passed. may he rest in Peace.

Ida Davis

November 11, 2016

I enjoyed knowing Tom at Commonwealth Senior Living. Our wheelchairs were always positioned side by side in the back of the bus on outings. I know you will miss him. I'm sorry for your loss.
Sincerely,
Ida Davis

Rose Palmeri

November 10, 2016

My deepest sympathy to the Rosamilia family. I worked with Tom in the earliest days of my career and he left an imprint that will remain with me forever. I have so many fond memories of him; he truly was one of a kind. May your memories provide you with a sense of comfort.

Sandra Hamlin

November 10, 2016

To the Rosamilia family,
Tom was a great man. You were blessed to have him in your life. May he rest in heaven.
May god heal your pain.
Remember the precious moments, as I will.
God bless you all

Ruth Wohelski

November 10, 2016

Jim and the Rosamilia family love and prayers go out to you.

Donna Cervini

November 10, 2016

So sorry to hear of Tom's passing. I remember the fun we all had when our parents got together. His smile could light up the room. May he Rest In Peace.

Jackie Carter

November 10, 2016

Sending love and sympathy, Jackie

November 10, 2016

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998

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Sent Flowers

November 9, 2016

Lou & Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts & prayers are with you & your family at this difficult time.

Arlene Dewan

Dianne Scarchilli

November 9, 2016

Love and prayers to all of the Rosamilia Family. Tom was a great guy with a winning smile and a great laugh. I am so sad for this unbelievable loss !

Richard Andrejcak

November 9, 2016

My condolences to the Rosamilia families. Tom, our lives were parallel. We grew up within 15 miles, went to the same college, same bars, US Army and finally met in Va. We had many laughs and good times, thank you for being my friend. Even our birthdays were only 5 days apart and I will really miss you when that time comes. May God grant eternal rest and peace. Farewell my friend, we shall meet again.
Rit Andrejcak

Maggie Clairmont

November 9, 2016

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

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Marilyn Pendergast

November 9, 2016

My heart goes out to all of you, Tom was a pleasure to work with, always ready with a smile or kind word. He was a good friend and I wish we had stayed in closer contact over the past few years. I am working in Atlanta so will not be able to be there to honor him but I will be praying for all of you.
Sincerely
Marilyn

Tony Cervini

November 9, 2016

Tom was a great guy, my condolences to all the family. I have fond memories and remember his great laugh and smile. Tony Cervini

Lori Cervini-Neal

November 9, 2016

My condolences to the Rosamilia families. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Rest in peace Tom

Mike McNulty

November 9, 2016

Lou and Family: I am very sorry for your loss.

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