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Dr. William Goldstein
The 'brilliant'-- as he was so often called-- Bill 'Doc' Goldstein recently passed away at age 93. He was a Trumbull Legend, and true character in every sense. A very charismatic, memorable, and popular High School Principal, an outstanding Superintendent of Schools, a gifted writer and lecturer, and an extremely proud Military Vet and Parachutist.

Bill was born in 1930 in Bremen, Germany, then in 1937 fled with his parents to the Boston area, specifically to Malden, MA. But the repercussions and long-lasting emotional scars of the Holocaust, especially regarding his relatives not fortunate enough to get out, shadowed him his entire life and was reflected in his extremely hawkish stance on... well, almost everything. But mainly all things Israel.

At Malden High, he was recognized as the "Class Genius" and then chose to enroll at Boston University to stay close to home, and graduated with an A.B. degree, Cum Laude.

He had joined ROTC during his last two years at BU, which paved the way for his service in the Army, where he rose to the rank of 1st Lieutenant during active duty, and then later to Captain in the Army Reserves.

He was a Parachutist in the 11th airborne division at Fort Benning, GA, and stationed at Ft. Campbell.

Afterwards, he received his master's and Ph.D. degrees in Education and Secondary School administration at UCONN while working as an undergraduate instructor.

He then taught English and Literature at Windham High School and E.O. Smith High School in CT.

In his early 30s, he became the Assistant Principal at Deep River Secondary School in CT, then accepted his first principalship at Mattlen Junior HS in Plainview, NY. He went on to become the Headmaster of Trumbull HS in 1969, overseeing the opening of the new Trumbull HS in 1972, and where even today maintains legendary status, according to the outpouring of posts on the Trumbull High Facebook pages. He became known as somewhat of a maverick, implementing among other things—flexible curricula like specialized and often esoteric English courses, the elimination of study halls, and an emphatic promotion of sports, music, and in general-- school spirit.

After his tenure at Trumbull HS, he became Headmaster of Weston HS while also teaching at Hunter College, Western CT State, and was a visiting professor at Wesleyan, while writing books, pamphlets, and articles about everything from achievement to budgets to evaluations to even a very insightful and moving piece about class reunions. His book "Successful School Communications" made the education Industry's Top Ten best sellers in 1977. He was a renowned lecturer at school conventions, conferences, and conducted symposiums, both nationally and internationally.

Later in his career, he became the Superintendent of Schools in Rocky Hill, CT, where he retired after nine years, then returned to Western CT State as a full professor.

In addition to his professional achievements, he was an obsessively passionate Mozart aficionado (even naming his puppy after him), and was an avid Opera devotee, and a big lifelong sports fan--from the Red Sox of his childhood to his student-athletes who held a very special place in this heart.

As one former Trumbull High football star, Tommy Signore, said, "I found out over 40 years later that Dr. Goldstein was a fan of mine. So a few years ago, his son Howie invited me over to say hello. As I sat there, he described how I played in several games and precisely what I did, and I had to hold back tears as I recalled the plays he described. Football is a game filled with emotion and adrenaline. And all the memories came rushing back. It was overwhelming. He LOVED Trumbull High Football, and he spoke to me from his heart that day, so many years later, and I will never forget it."

His dedication to education and his leadership in various roles left an ever-lasting impact on the education system and touched the lives of so many students and educators.

He is survived by his sons-- Howie, Wayne, and Danny, from his ex-wife Rose -- and the grandchildren. Plus the daughter he never had, Carol. He is predeceased by his partner, Connie.

"...Too often, like Gatsby, we tend to spend so much of our lives "in-between time", a foot in the past, a glance to the future. I would like to think that somehow your years at Trumbull High School provided a striking moment where, in a sense, time stood still, clocks froze, past and future blended, but only to heighten the bitter-sweet things one lives through at that time, in that place..."

William Goldstein
Trumbull HS Yearbook, 1973

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Published by Trumbull Times on Sep. 26, 2023.

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Bob Clark

January 25, 2025

I just saw Mr. Goldstein's obituary today. I wish to express my deepest sympathy's to his family and friends. I knew Mr. Goldstein personally as I was a teacher at the "new" Trumbull High School when it opened in 1972. I had come up from teaching science at Hillcrest Junior High School to be a Physics and physical science teacher, where I stayed for two years before returning to college for an advanced administrative degree. I remember Mr. Goldstein very well, even though we only had a few brief conversations over those two years. He was just a very friendly and genuine fellow and had, I could easily tell, empathy for every situation and human being. I'm sure he has been and will be missed by many. I had no idea what his history is and I am truly impressed. We need more men like Mr. Goldstein.

Jodie Cooper

September 17, 2024

I used to hide out in Dr. Goldstein's office when I didn't want to go to class. We would just sit and talk, and then he'd give me a pass to class so I wouldn't be in trouble for being late. He made me feel very protected in school.

I never knew about his early years and was moved when reading it.

My deepest condolences to Howie, Wayne, and Danny.

Howie G

July 18, 2024

Today marks exactly one year since our dad passed away.

This is a story from 22 years ago that was supposed to be included in the article about him that came out in the Ct newspapers, but it ended up only a quick reference.

We have always been big boxing fans, and I had become friends with the very bright, articulate Hall of Fame Sportscaster Jim Lampley around 1992, and Jim was generous enough to comp us ringside for HBO's legendary first fight between Arturo Gatti and Micky Ward (from the movie 'The Fighter') at Mohegan Sun.

For about a decade before that night, my Dad, who had the highest regard for Jim, insisted on making me pass along grammatical corrections to Jim after every fight he called, such as "Tell Jim in round 4, he mentioned De La Hoya's 'future plans'. Tell him 'ALL plans are in the future. It's redundant. Just 'PLANS'.

And Jim's response back on that one was 'Please thank your dad, and tell him I have said 'future plans' for the last time.'
And he meant it.

After the fight that night, and what a fight it was, I finally introduced them, and as were leaving the arena, and Jim was introducing us to a few people like HBO's unofficial scorer Harold Lederman, and said 'This is Howie, and this is his Dad, Bill. Bill likes to correct my syntax and grammar.' And my Dad immediately jumped in with 'Jim, syntax IS grammar'.

Huge laugh.

Great night.

Will remember it the rest of my life.

We ended up at a restaurant there, talked boxing and grammar for well over an hour, and in the following years my Dad, of course, continued correcting Jim's grammar-- and everyone else's-- until the very end.

Carol Maturo Ward

December 6, 2023

It was my privilege to work for Dr. Goldstein when he was Superintendent of Schools in Rocky Hill, CT. He was a dynamic leader, who promoted academic achievement and the development of, what used to be called, "well-rounded students." In short, he wanted kids to be involved in academics, sports, and the culture of their country and civilization. He was a role model for everything that he promoted, which was rare among the administrators that I worked for during my 37 years in the profession. I am sorry that his children and grandchildren--and the daughter he never had--have lost him. The profession has lost a leader at a time when it most needs them.

Steven Strange

November 23, 2023

I fondly remember Dr. Goldstein during his tenure as superintendent in Rocky Hill. When I applied for the position of Spanish teacher at the high school in 1980, my interview consisted of one question. He pointed to a painting on the wall of his office and said. "This interview consists of one question. Give the name of the painting and the artist." Since I was applying for the Spanish teaching position, and the painting was by Salvador Dali and was his painting entitled "the persistence of memory", I gave the information he requested. He subsequently said, "The position is yours. When can you start?" I gave him the answer, and then asked him, "Why did I get the position?" He answered most professionally. "Well, the other candidates could not answer the question. You did. Remember as professionals in education, we should not be peddling from an empty cart. We need to know all aspects of our discipline." I was at Rocky Hill High School for 31 years. Dr. Goldstein was the quintessential education leader. A life well lived, Dr. Goldstein. Peace, shalom to your family.

Dave Jaconette

October 20, 2023

Rest in peace Dr. Goldstein. Thoughts and prayers to your friends and family. Your student from THS Class of '72.

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