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James Earl Thode Jim was born in Show Low, Arizona, on September 27, 1965. He was killed while on active duty in Afghanistan by a roadside bomb on December 2, 2010 (Afghan time). Jim was a Sergeant 1st Class with the 118 Sappers of the Utah National Guard. At age three, Jim and his family moved to Tucson, Arizona, where he graduated from Catalina High School and the University of Arizona. Jim was a sergeant on the Farmington, New Mexico Police Department where he served for 14 years. He was awarded Supervisor of the Year in 2009. Jim is survived by his wife, Carla; daughter, Ashley and son, Thomas all of Kirtland, New Mexico; his mother, Eve and stepfather, Ron Taylor of Pagosa Springs, Colorado. He is also survived by his father, Ernest Thode and Mary Thode; his sisters both of Tucson, Arizona and his grandmother, Olive Myers of Payson, Arizona. Services will be held in Farmington at Pinon Hills Community Church, officiated by Pastor John Morgan. The time of the service is pending. Those who served with Jim in the police department and the military respected him for his integrity, work ethic and selflessness. Arrangements by BREWER, LEE AND LARKIN FUNERAL HOME.
Published by Arizona Daily Star on Dec. 12, 2010.

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Brian Olsen

August 29, 2021

You are not forgotten, Sergeant Thode. I have been thinking recently of you with recent events, of the short period of time I spent with you in humbly preparing your platoon for deployment at Camp Williams the spring of 2010. What I found remarkable about you was how seriously you took your role as a servant of your soldiers. You cared deeply about them, and they knew it. After each exercise I ran, you would seek every bit of feedback -- what could each person, yourself, improve on. You were a counselor to the LTs in your company, guiding them in their roles as leaders. You, sergeant, represented the finest of the NCO tradition. If you made such as an impression on me in a short few days, I know in my heart that those that knew you for years will never let your memory fade. My continued condolences to your family.

Charlie Gili

July 14, 2016

Hello,
We would like to express our deepest condolences and to also let the Thode Family know that we recently sent Care Packages to American troops in Afghanistan. Each box carried a dedication sheet that includes the name, service information and a photo of your loved one, Sergeant 1st Class James E. Thode. We recognize that this is a humble tribute, but we wanted you to know that it is heartfelt and made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals in the youth hockey community and beyond. We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of the US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign

Ron & Ann Ash

April 3, 2016

We did not know Jim but we did know his mother Eve. Ron married us in 1999 and we used to occasionally see them in Pagosa Springs. (We have lost touch now.) We were grieved to hear of Jim's death and still remember. We are so grateful that Jesus' work for us will enable us to meet Jim one day.

Shaun Olson

May 21, 2015

I will be running in Sgt. Thode's honor this Monday as part of Wear Blue: Run to Remember. While it has been several years, know that his service and sacrifice are still cherished.

September 17, 2014

To Jim's family,

Although I have never met you, I consider Jim as one of my very best friends - Jim and I met at Armor Officer Basic Course in 1991 at Fort Knox - We were inseperable - I was so honored when Jim came to my wedding and served as a Swordsman - I owe you pictures and will send them as soon as I return home. He made me a better person and I continue to struggle to think of the world without him. As I sit here in Kandahar, AFG I think of him almost daily - I regret never getting on a plane and coming out to New Mexico to see him - life and distance overcame our close friendship but I always knew he was there. Bless you for sharing Jim with us and my continued prayers are with you and your family.

Best,

Ash D. Worboys
LTC, ARMOR
Afghan National Security Forces Development (Ops & Training)
CJ-35, 1st CAV DIV, RC-S
Kandahar Air Field, Afghanistan
APO AE 09355
UNCLASS # (318)421-1897
[email protected]

Earl Rogers

May 16, 2014

I serve as a cav scout in the 8th 40th armor 1983-1991. Sorry to here of your lost. He was av ery good soilder. Scouts out.

Cesar Genders

May 12, 2014

Jim was my best friend. I let him down. I did not go see him put to rest. I was devistated by his death, and I still hurt by his absence. I could not bring myself to see him taken from us. I am sorry, my friend. I should have been there. Jim and I met in 9th grade and were inseperable for the next 10 years. To his wife, I am truely sorry for never having met you, I know you must be a wonderful person. To Eve, Mary, and Ernst, I am so sorry for your loss, you are all in my prayers. Jim, my brother, I love you and miss you very much.

Betty and Gary Wiley

December 4, 2011

Eve and Ron,

It has been a year since your beloved Jim gave his life in behalf of all of us. While I know how much you miss him and will continue to miss him, we only hope you will derive some comfort from knowing you raised a child as noble and unselfish as Jim. He has set an incredible example for his children and all who knew him.

Janet Valdez

December 3, 2011

It has been a year since we heard of the great sacrifice made by you. We are so very blessed to have known you and think of you every day. Your sacrifice is never forgotten. We miss hearing your laughter next door at your Mother's house in Pagosa as you played with your family in the snow in the driveway when you visited. What fun it was to see your dogs pulling the sleds with Tommy laughing and having fun!!
We are blessed for having known you...
Mencor and Janet Valdez

Eve Taylor

December 3, 2011

Jim,
You have been gone from us one year now. By God's grace and good friends we have made it this far. "At the rising of the sun and its going down, We remember you. At the beginning of the year and when it ends, We remember you. As long as we live, you too will live. You are part of us, We remember you."
Love you always son, Mom

Peggy Childers

December 2, 2011

To the family of Sgt. James Thode:
James gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."

Vince Dagiel

September 28, 2011

To Jim's family,
I went to High School with Jim. He was one of the few, very few, that I looked forward to seeing later in life and swapping stories with. Sadly that day will never come.
I will lift a glass in his honor, "To those who didn't come home." Rest in Peace Brother, you've earned it.

Eve Taylor

September 27, 2011

Happy Birthday to my beloved son who enriched my life in so many ways. Jim, I miss you so much and will love you always.Today I am remembering the day you were born and when you were first placed in my arms. I made a committment to God that day to always be there for you. I will meet you again at the feet of Jesus.

Love always,

Mom

Scott Sweetow

September 13, 2011

Carlotta,

Although I have never met you, Jim was a friend of mine and I just learned today that he was killed in Afghanistan in December.

I served with Jim in the 8th Battalion, 40th Armor in Tucson, AZ where we were Cav Scouts. Since 1989 when I left the unit, we've stayed in touch through email and phone calls. I want to offer my deepest condolences to you and your kids, and am so sorry I did not learn of this until today, as I would have dropped everything to attend the services had I known.

I just spoke to the Farmington PD Chief's office and got their address; I am sure that I have some pictures of Jim from that era that I'd like to send you. All the best.

Jim, my bro - Scouts Out!

Scott Sweetow
Special Agent in Charge
ATF, Atlanta Field Division

Eve Taylor

June 11, 2011

Jim, Time passes but you are forever in my heart and on my mind. Your integrity, honesty,bravery,humor,love for family and country and your platoon will always be remembered. Proud Mom of Sgt.1st Class James E. Thode

A Rivas

February 12, 2011

May God bless your family Sergeant and thank you for your life of serving others.
AD1(AW) USNR Ret A. Rivas

VFW Post 7180

January 27, 2011

Our condolences to the family.

kelseyanne tohdacheeny

January 25, 2011

thank you

Welch Family

January 24, 2011

To the family of Jim Thode-There are not enough words to thank you for sharing Sgt. Thode, in order to make us safe. Our thoughts and prayers go out to your family.

January 21, 2011

I'm sorry for your lost. I know it can be hard but keep your faith in GOD..

Sue Burch-Prince

January 2, 2011

Jim set the standard for all of us who knew him. I'll never forget him and will always keep his memory alive in my heart. Carlotta, my prayers are with you. Love never truly dies. God Bless

Rita Garrett

December 24, 2010

To the family of Jim Thode--There are not enough words to thank you for sharing Sgt. Thode in order to make us safe. May God's love and blessing be in abundance this Christmas Eve and for the New Year.

Ida

December 24, 2010

SALUTE!! Rest in Peace, SGT. Thode. Thank you for your ultimate sacrifice, and may God Bless and Protect your wife and children and may He send his Angels to hold your loved ones during this time of pain.

Virginia Tom

December 23, 2010

To the family of Sgt.James E. Thode.
So sorry for your loss but a gain for heaven. May the Lord touch your hears and give you peace through this difficult time. Sgt.J.E. Thode, thank you for your selfless act & sacrifice.

Ben & Lavinia Henry

December 21, 2010

Our condolences to the family of SGT. THODE, may he rest in peace. We truly thank him for his valor in service to the community as a Police Officer and serving our country in the Armed Services. We may not know him personnaly but his protection of service to us, says it ALL. Cherish the many memories he left with each and all. My sympathy goes to his family across the miles. God Bless.

December 20, 2010

May the windows of heaven open and pour down upon you during this time! Thanks for serving our country and protecting our family.

Sara Flores

December 20, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with the family and friends of this Great man, Thank You for my freedom.

Steven Tanner

December 20, 2010

I never met James, but with all the stories I have been reading, he was a great person. It has made me think to do something greater with my life like he did. My condolences to his family and friends.

travis b & mike y

December 20, 2010

may our prayers bring peace to the family of Sgt.James Earl Thode in this time of mourning. thank you for your service................

Regina Ozbun

December 19, 2010

I was greatly sadened to learn of Jim's death. I worked with Jim at the police department and he was a good officer and a good man. My thoughts and prayers are you his family and friends.

December 19, 2010

Dear Sgt. James Earl. God Bless you for your selfless bravery and your family for their ultimate sacrifice. My condolences to your wife & children and to all those whose hearts you have touched. May you never be forgotten.

Dee Ann Johnson

December 19, 2010

My prayers to the family. God bless you all.

David Woolley

December 18, 2010

Dear Carlotta and Family,

"What makes men good is held by some to be nature, by others habit or training, by others instruction. As for the goodness that comes by nature, this is plainly not within our control, but is bestowed by some divine agency on certain people who truly deserve to be called fortunate."
Aristotle [350 B.C.]

.... in turn, all of us are fortunate to have been touched by the life of Jim.

The Families David Woolley and Kitsy (Woolley) Newburg,
Cousins from back East

December 18, 2010

Thank you for your service and your life sacrifice! May God bless your loved ones still here on earth and watch over them always! Thank you for preserving my freedom!

December 17, 2010

Thanks for protecting our country. My prayers are with the family.

Theresa Porambo

December 17, 2010

My prayers are with you and your family as I send my deepest condolences, Sgt Thode was truly a remarkable man and has passed with dignity and honor. His memory will live on and god will give you the strength to carry on proudly and strongly as Sgt Thode will have wanted. May the creater watch over you and your family during this trying time. God Bless.

December 16, 2010

our prayers are with you and your family as you have lost a loved one, we have lost a hero, but is in heaven watchin from above as a proud father,husband, hero

sheila staley

December 16, 2010

my deepest sympathy to your loved ones in this time of sorrow. he gave the ultimate sacrifice for our country .

Russell Thompson

December 16, 2010

Thanks for your sacrifice. I am forever grateful for what you have done for our country. May God keep and bless your family.

Reeco Ceresola

December 16, 2010

Thanks for your sacrifice. Our society is forever grateful for what you have done for our country.

Elaine Halterman-Teakell

December 16, 2010

To Carlotta,Ashley, and Thomas, RIP Jim, my sister (Pam Halterman) and Niece( Lisa Halterman-Marek) Loves this family very much! Jim was a good man. May you take comfort in knowing he was very much loved by you and the rest of his family and friends in the Farmington Police Dept. Gone but NEVER FORGOTTEN!! My prayers are with you and you family at this time.. Elaine Halterman-Teakell

December 16, 2010

I didn't have the privelege of meeting Jim, but his sister, Mary, is a dear friend. My deepest sympathies for the Thode family. My thoughts and prayers are with you through this difficult time. Jim's service and ultimate sacrifice will never be forgotten. May God bless you.
~Yvette Palma

Norleen

December 16, 2010

It with deep sadness of your loss. My prayers are with you and your family. May God Bless & Comfort You.

Kim Martinez

December 16, 2010

To the family of Jim Thodes, although I did not personally know Jim, the service he performed both to our city and our country will never be forgotten. He surely was the type of man who cared deeply for everyone he met and was willing to give his life so that they could have a better life. What an honor to have such a person in our midst. He will be missed but you will see him again someday.

Jeri Lowe Scott

December 16, 2010

Your husband & father will always be a hero in everyone here in San Juan County. Know that you have God looking over you from this day fourth. Stay strong and look to God for strength. Ur husband & father is an angel and will be there to protect you are you live the days here. Don't worry you are not alone. He's here. It's just you can't see him. God Bless You!

Julius Tulley

December 16, 2010

Love you Doc. Thank you for your superb leadership and exemplary example. You will not be forgotten. Promise you that your wife, Carlotta and kids will be cared for by us all. May the Good Lord bless and watch over your family. God be with you til we meet again. And we will.

Yolanda H. Cline

December 16, 2010

My heartfelt sympathy for your loss of Sgt. Thode. He was a hero as a police officer & he was a hero as a soldier. He worked daily to keep his community & his country safe. He will be missed greatly by both.
My thoughts & prayers are with you in the time to come.
Yolanda H. Cline
Concerns of Police Survivors(COPS)
Past National President

December 16, 2010

Carlotta and family- My heart hurts for you as go through this very difficult time. I just wanted to let you know that I'm praying for you and thinking of you and your family. Just knowing you guys through the restaurant, he seemed like a kind and gentle soul and you were his little angel, always so happy together. He will be missed. May God Bless you and take care of you always. Love Brenda

December 16, 2010

We take things for granted. Thank you Sgt. Thode for keeping me safe and to sleep safely. God bless his family.

Jennifer Lappin

December 15, 2010

Thode Family-

I want to send my deepest sympathy on the loss of your husband, father and hero.
May God rest his mighty hand on your hearts and bring peace to your lives.

SFC. Joshua & Jennifer Lappin

Dino Benally

December 15, 2010

Carlotta, My family and I are very sorry for your loss. Your husband is a TRUE AMERICAN HERO!!! May he Rest in Peace! We are very grateful for his service to his country! God Bless you and your family always!

justin bell

December 15, 2010

I did not know that well but with that set aside I think you were a great guy and I have full respect for you and I hope your family well recover from there lost RIP

Cheryl Jackson

December 15, 2010

Humbled and Honored to see how much you were respected and honored today , may God hold your family until you all meet again. The jacksons. Bayfield Colorado

December 15, 2010

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December 15, 2010

Carlotta, sorry for your loss may God give you peace and understanding during this time of loss. we are grateful for your husbands service for our freedom.
love the Werito family

Stacy

December 15, 2010

Thank you for your service and sacrifice on behalf of this great country. "When you are in service of your fellow man you are in the service of your God." May God bless those he has left behind. Jim is a hero. May he rest in peace.

Mike and Vicki Faverino

December 15, 2010

Our deepest sympathy to the family of Sgt James Thode.

GySgt Chris Wood

December 15, 2010

Dear Carlotta,

It is with the heaviest of hearts that I send my most sincere condolences on the loss of Jim. I worked with him briefly in 1998. He will be forever in my memory as a great man, mentor, leader, and American Hero. I pray for you and your family in the trying times ahead, and hope that you will all have the amount of support you need to get you through it. God Bless You!

American Flag

December 15, 2010

Employees and Officials of San Juan County

December 15, 2010

With deep sadness we note the death of this Sergeant Jim Thode. His was the ultimate sacrifice for this community that he loved and for our country.

We mourn the loss of a great man and police officer as well. Our deepest sympathy to his family, friends, fellow soldiers and the Farmington Police Department during their time of grief.

Beth Utley

December 15, 2010

Carlotta,

You and the children are in my thoughts and prayers. I still remember with joy in my heart the friendship you and Jim showed me and my children when we used to visit your home for dinner.

My children also tell me how fondly they remember camping with your family. He was a wonderful man and you are a truly beautiful woman, inside and out.

May God Bless You and give you the strength you need to get through your time of grief. May you remember him always with joy in your heart and laughter in your eyes!

Leah

December 15, 2010

My prayers are with you Thode family. Thank you for serving and protecting Mr. Thode.

Eudora

December 15, 2010

Though I was not acquainted with Sgt. James Thode, I want to express my condolences to his precious wife and son for 'giving' of the man of their lives. Sgt. Thode will always be remembered for what he's done for ALL of us. Thank you! May God bless you!

Ken & MJ Washburn

December 15, 2010

Our deepest sympathy to the family of Sgt. James Thode.

Debby Grace

December 15, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with the family and friends. Thank you for your service as a Farmington Police Office and to our country. You are a hero!!

Julie Martinez

December 15, 2010

Dear Thode Family,
We are truly sorry for your loss but know that he didnt die in vain, he's a hero, he gave his life for our freedom. May God bring healing and peace to your love ones during this diffcult time. We also lost a loved one so we've been down this path, SGT. Troy Orion Tom...May they rest in Peace, God Bless.

J J

December 15, 2010

Words cannot express how grateful I am to Sgt Thode for his service to our country. His sacrifice will never be forgotten. Thank you and god bless you.

Cathy and Del Brown

December 15, 2010

We want to express our sympathy at the death of your loved one, and we want you to know that we do recognize the ultimate sacrifice that was made for our us and our country. May God bless you at this time, and may you know how grateful we are for James, and for each and every person who fights for our freedom.

Wilhelmina Jim

December 15, 2010

Dear Thode Family,
I just want to say that I appreciate the service that your husband has served as a police office and a national gaurd. Thank you for his services to our country and our county for protecting the U.S. citizens. And Carlotta I am extremely sorry for your lost. Your prays and thought our with me and my family. My god just continue to comfort you with your lost. And I thank you for you and your families sacrifice for our country. May God bless you and may the angels just continue to watch and guide your family with your lost. Remember God will be there for comfort and your husband will always be one of your angels, even though you can't see him. always in my thoughts my friend love you alway like a sister. Willie :):)

Pam Sandoval

December 15, 2010

Although I do not know Sgt. Thode, I would like to thank him, and especially his loved ones, for their sacrifice for our nation. I pray that our Lord would comfort you at this difficult time.

Pastor Scott

December 15, 2010

We didn't know Sgt. Thode personally or his family but we wholeheartedly appreciate the sacrifice the entire family has made. May God's peace rest in you and know that you are in are prayers.

E. Gomez

December 15, 2010

May God shine his light down upon you today and guide you through this difficult time. Thank You Sgt. Thode for your sacrifice to our country and to San Juan County. May God be with you, your family, and Farmington Police Department during this time of sadness. Peace be with you and may you rest in peace.

Ja Bee

December 15, 2010

RIP, May the Good Lord Bless your family and friends. Thank you and those who lost their lives in the fight for our Freedom. We are blessed to live in a country where we will be protected by people like SGT. James Thode. Again Thank you

Jennie Peterson

December 15, 2010

I did not know James Thode but I honor in my heart him and all of those that have given their lives for freedom for the American People and all those less fortunate in this world. Freedom is never free. There is always a price; of which I am grateful.

JoAnn Henderson (Hunt)

December 14, 2010

I am so sorry for your loss. Your entire family are in our prayers and thoughts through this time. Be strong and know we appreciate what Jim did for our country. May God be by you and your kids and be at your sides to give you strength through this difficult time.

Rachel Doyle

December 14, 2010

I am sorry for your loss. May you be blessed because of your sacrifice. You and your family will be in my prayers.

Marj Steffen

December 14, 2010

To Jim Thodes Family. Please accept my condolences on the loss of your husband and father. Jim came and spoke to my 8th graders at Heights Middle School last year on Veterans Day. He talked to the kids about what it meant to him to be a veteran. He did a wonderful job communicating with those kids. What a kind, gentle, caring man he was. I lost my husband this year too. I understand your pain and sadness. Be brave and know that he was so very admired, and loved by this community and the military community.

Tina Truesdell

December 14, 2010

To My Cousin Carlotta, I don't have words to express my feelings for you and your family, but our thoughts and players are with you always!! Please keep in mind what a BRAVE HERO he was. With love, The Truesdell's and McCurtain Family

Kelly Lewis

December 14, 2010

I did not personally know Jim but am a Farmington native and I would like the family to know how much I appreciate what Jim did for our country. May you the family feel all the love and prayers this community feels for you. God Bless you and May God give you strength during this difficult time.

December 14, 2010

I'm so sorry for your loss, I always saw James as a good man, a great leader and role model. He will surely be missed.

Justin

December 14, 2010

I don't know you personally, but wanted to take a moment to thank you for giving the ultimate sacrifice; your life. May God bless your family in your absence until you are reunited with them in the next life. RIP sir.

Dorothy Redhorse

December 14, 2010

God bless the Thode Family. Thank you for all that each one of you sacrificed for freedom in this country. May you find comfort in the memories of your love one. Jim is a hero. Jim is in kingdom of God.
My prayers and thoughts goes out to your family. Thank you and God Bless.

Lana Hebert

December 14, 2010

I would like the family of Jim to know how much of a Hero he is, even though I did not know him, I whole heartedly owe him my gratitude for fighting for our "Freedom" . My prayers go to Sgt. Jim Thode family and friends, May God comfort you in this very difficult and trying time.

Lana Hebert

December 14, 2010

Thank you for your service and sacrifice on behalf of this great country. "When you are in service of your fellow man you are in the service of your God." May God bless those he has left behind.

Ray Begaye

December 14, 2010

As a member of New Mexico State Legislators, I send my condolences to Carlotta, Ashley, Thomas and all the extended family and relatives. Our prayers are with you in this time of saddness. The Comfort of God be with all of you.

Lana Hebert

December 14, 2010

I would like the family of Jim to know how much of a hero he is, even though I did not know him, I whole heartedly owe him my gratitude for fighting for our "Freedom". My prayers go to you and Jim's family.

Lana Hebert

December 14, 2010

I don't know your family, but wanted to tell you that I appreciate Jim's service and sacrifice for our countries freedom. God Bless your family.

December 14, 2010

With thoughts of gratefulness for such a divine sacrifice. He gave his life in service to help keep us free from terrorism and for that we ask that you, his family, receive great comfort.

Stephen and Maureen Olsen

December 14, 2010

We are saddened to hear of Jim's passing. Steve Olsen, my husband, was in the Blanding National Guard and served with Desert Storm. Though we did not know Jim real well we want to send our condolences to you and your family and let you know our prayers and thoughts are with you. May he receive the rewards of the great contribution he gave, in sacrificing his life for all of us here in the USA. May you find comfort with your loved ones.
Stephen and Maureen Olsen
Enoch, Utah (formerly Blanding, UT)

December 14, 2010

So Sorry for your loss, A TRUE HERO. May the Lord be with you and your family at this time.

Sandy & Willie Nutt

December 14, 2010

I did not have the priviledge to know Jim very well. But he is and will be loved and rememered forever! Thank you Mr. Thode for your ultimate sacrifice!
You have given your life so that my grandkids and I can continue to enjoy all of our countries freedoms!Thank from the bottom of my heart! My prayers are with you and your loving family. Rest in Peace My Brother!

Kathy Schlapp

December 14, 2010

I am so sorry for your loss. I am praying for all of you so that some day you will be able to find some peace. I met Ashley, I think of you every day.

jim hardcastle

December 14, 2010

I would just like to say Thank you for your huge sacrifice. I did not know you or your family butam SO gratefull to all that give everything for us. Please Remember your Husband father and friend is a HERO to so many of us. Sorry for your loss and thank you for your sacrifice. Jim

Ruth Magleby

December 14, 2010

One hundred years from now people will visit cemeteries. They will not know much about those buried there. But for this human being, mankind will always and forever know him as a 'HERO'. We appreciate our freedom. Thank you.
From American Citizen

December 14, 2010

God Bless the family of this brave hero. Rest in peace Sgt.

Jen

December 14, 2010

My sincerest and deepest sympathy to the Thode family. As the sister of an American soldier, I truly mourn for your loss. May you find some peace during this difficult time.

Tanerris Dance

December 14, 2010

GOD BLESS YOU ALL ..

Coy and Serena Skinner

December 14, 2010

A POLICE OFFICER'S PRAYER
Lord I ask for courage

Courage to face and
Conquer my own fears...

Courage to take me
Where others will not go...

I ask for strength

Strength of body to protect others
And strength of spirit to lead others...

I ask for dedication

Dedication to my job, to do it well
Dedication to my community
To keep it safe...

Give me Lord, concern
For others who trust me
And compassion for those who need me...

And please Lord

Through it all
Be at my side...

--Author Unknown




Our thoughts and prayers are with the family members and loved ones of those that gave their lives to fight for our country.
May God give you peace in your heart and strength to carry on.

They proudly served their country.
Now, they proudly serve with angel's wings.

margaret matley

December 14, 2010

Thank You...........

Joyce Roberts

December 14, 2010

To the family, friends, fellow service men and women, and to all who knew and loved this man,
My heart is heavy every time I hear of the ultimate sacrifice of one of our country's finest. The price of freedom is so high and so costly. A thank you for your service seems so little in contrast. You gave all so that I and so many others have our freedom to do what we do everyday. My thoughts, prayers, and trust in our Lord and Savior are all I can give. May the Lord provide comfort and peace to all of you. Sincerely, A grateful American

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Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

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