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Lila Jean Rhude

1931 - 2025

Lila Jean Rhude obituary, 1931-2025, Tucson, AZ

BORN

1931

DIED

2025

Lila Rhude Obituary

Lila Jean Rhude died peacefully on January 4th, 2025 at the age of 93. She is joining her parents Alice and Clarence along with her husband Lauren and son Scott in heaven. She is survived by her children Dave (Sue), Mark (Carol), Kim, Joni, and grandchildren Sean, Samantha, Nick (Alexa), Kyle (Halley). She was a dedicated mother that devoted her life to her family. Her passions were family, golf, and UofA sports. Services will be private for family only.

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Published by Arizona Daily Star from Jan. 16 to Jan. 19, 2025.

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Shanon Easterday-Skellett

January 24, 2025

Giving prayers and thanks to your whole family at this sad time. Your Mom and grandmother was a sweet, vivacious and lovely woman who made the community a better place. She helped her husband be able to accomplish so many things - she did more than hold down the fort. She lifted barriers and helped people be their best, contributing in so many ways. Losing her means she gets to be with her first luv, your Dad, and your brother Scott. Heaven isn´t heavy, it´s lightened up with her laughter, her presence. Dear Joni, Mark, Dave and Kim, and to the grandchildren, I give you my deepest sympathies. Hang on to family traditions. Share her favorite quotes, relish in her favorite foods and keep her gifts alive. ITB Joni. Love, Shanon & Tim

Ivar Eidsheim

January 20, 2025

In August 1983, we stood at Bergen Airport and waited anxiously for Ivar's cousins from the United States to arrive. Lila with her husband Lauren and her sister Irene, wanted to see where their ancestors came from and visit living relatives in Norway. For us, this was the start of a long-term friendship. It also inspired our daughter Torill to a year as a US exchange student, which also included visits to Lila and Lauren in AZ at Christmas 1987. In 1988 and 89, we also met a warm welcome with them in Arizona. We admire their ability to cope with both success and adversity. Even though Lila is now gone, we still have clear memories of a kind and energetic lady who drove around in Cadilac with her own name tag. But first and foremost, we will remember her as a dear friend, who wanted the best for her family and friends. Peace over her memory.
From Norwegian friend and family
Ivar and Kari Eidsheim, and daughter Torill.

Elaine Guenette

January 18, 2025

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always. Ray & Elaine

Sally Mettler

January 17, 2025

Lila was a beautiful woman with an amazing spirit. I was fortunate to get to golf with her from time to time. She was most engaging and interesting and fun. She clearly adored her family...you were blessed.

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