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Mitchell Barrigar Obituary

Mitchell Barrigar 16, passed away June 15, 2014. Mitchell was preceded in death by his grandfather, Edward Barrigar. He is survived by his father, Michael Barrigar; his mother, Melissa Griebel and Melissa's partner, Sue Dunn who loved him more than the word "stepmother" could ever convey, and by his brother, Mason Barrigar who he loved very much--even though, in typical big brother fashion, he didn't say it very often. Also survived by his grandmother, Marie Barrigar and his "Papa" and "Nana" Jon and Cindy Griebel; his uncles, Mark Barrigar and David Griebel; his "Aunt Patty" Hutton; cousins, Matthew Barrigar, Anthony Hutton, Danielle Tijerina, Samantha and Nicholas Griebel. Mitchell is also survived by his birth family who all loved him very much: Kenneth and Michelle Davis, and siblings, Kenneth, Kevin, Keith, Kyle, Kristin and Kourtney. Mitchell had the most captivating smile, and when he chose to show it, he would light up a room. He was a tremendous friend to many people and was always willing to help others in need. Mitchell had a huge support in the AA community, had recently achieved a milestone of 1 year of sobriety, and he remained sober to the end of his life. Mitchell was an avid guitarist and had played in two bands in his short life, House Divided and his most recent band Verona. He was never happier than when he was playing music, especially on stage. Music was his life. He'd aspired to play music for a living and was exploring many avenues to that end. Mitchell was born in Las Vegas, Nevada. He attended Mesquite, Old Vail, and had just completed his sophomore year at Cienega High School, including two honors classes. He also attended Pima College with the goal to graduate early. He was working his second summer job at Mr. Electric, and previously worked at the Pima County Public Defender's Office. He loved working at both places very much. Mitchell's parents are buoyed by the outpouring of support from the friends who loved Mitchell. Our lives will never be the same and our hearts are broken. We are richer for the years we had him and we cherish every memory. We ask each of the young people who knew Mitchell to reach out and ask for help when you need it. Even if the word "help" is all you can utter. Let him be the last one. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to HOPE, Inc's Young Adult Team to build a music program for youth recovering from addiction and mental illness. Donations can be sent to HOPE, Inc., 1200 N. Country Club, Tucson, AZ 85716. Visitation will be held at EAST LAWN PALMS MORTUARY, 5801 E. Grant Rd., Saturday, June 21, 2014 from 10:00 a.m. - 11:00 a.m. Funeral Services will immediately follow from 11:00 a.m. - 12:00 p.m.

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Published by Arizona Daily Star on Jun. 19, 2014.

Memories and Condolences
for Mitchell Barrigar

Melissa Griebel

November 3, 2014

To all our dear friends, and all the dear friends of Mitchell who have posted here, Thank you. Thank you for loving him. Thank you for loving us. Thank you for your kind words, your support, and for wrapping us up in your comfort and love in the past 4.5 months. Nothing takes away our intense pain and sorrow. Nothing. But if anything has added some salve to our hurt it has been the love we have found in our friends and in Mitchell's friends.

Mitchell did not leave us. He left his pain. I wish we had been able to help him find other ways to deal with and solve that pain. It must have been so heavy for him. Any of us would have done anything we could to have carried it for him.
My heart breaks every day I live without him here. The sorrow is so deep.
We have decided to close this online obituary for further comment. For a variety of reasons we are unable to keep this online obituary open any longer. The past comments will continue to be able to be read.
Melissa

Mitchell, you are the child who made me a mother. There was no greater honor in the world for me than to mother you. I will continue to live that honor in mothering your brother. You were so very special. So unique. So valued. So loved by me. I ache to hold you again. The world is a sadder, lesser place without you in it. You brought humor, love, thoughtfulness, compassion and art to this world.
You will never be forgotten by me, and by many other people. You mattered.
I love you.
--The Mother who loved you and raised you and taught you and kissed you and took care of you and laughed with you and hugged you and loved you every day of your life… far, far too few of them… and who will continue to love you for all the rest of the days of my life.

JoLee Arnold

July 14, 2014

In Memory of Mitchell Barrigar......
of a Life so beautifully lived.....a Heart so deeply Loved.
R. I. P. Mitchell you will be greatly missed.
Until we meet again in God's Kingdom.
Love JoLee Arnold and Family

Beneficial Davis

July 11, 2014

Baby brother, words can not describe how much I love and miss you. As I sit typing this I shed tears but also hear you and feel you standing next to me telling me that you are ok. You will never be forgotten! Such a beautiful bright young person gone too soon. I know you and grandpa are having a jam session playing your guitars together. I love you deeply you will forever be in my heart Mitchell! Until we meet again, Continue to rest in paradise Little brother of mine.

Cindy Coward

July 6, 2014

I never met you but I see that you were loved by many and was so special to many. Sorry I never got to know you because you were just to young. God Bless you and your family at this time and know I care.

Jari Wilson

July 6, 2014

Mitchell it was such a pleasure to watch you grow, in size, development, and maturity. I hope you knew and know how much you were and are loved. I hope you realized you made a difference in this world. I as one of many loved your beautiful smile and will not forget how amazing it was. You will never be forgotten Mitchell.

July 6, 2014

We never got the chance to meet you, but we love you. Rest peacefully Uncle Mitchell. Love, Xavier, Zackariah, Kaliyah, Khalil, Malik, and Elijah.

Nephew Dominic

July 6, 2014

Uncle Mitchell, two years ago you held me when i was just six days old. I wasn't old enough to remember, but I love you.

Kourtney D

July 6, 2014

To my little brother you will be missed not a day goes by tht your not thought of you are missed and always will be and you will never be forgotten i love you <3

Melanie Combee

July 1, 2014

Mitchell... you are loved so very much and you will never be forgotten. Everyday I wake up, my first thought is of you. I talk to you before I go to bed at night.. I hope there's a way for you to hear me. I wish we had more time with you. I so badly wanted you to be a part of our families future. Until we meet again nephew.. rest in peace.

Big sis

June 28, 2014

My baby brother, I miss you everyday. It breaks my heart that you are no longer here with us, and still I wish everyday that it's some dream id wake up from. You were so talented and smart, and whenever I talked to you it was a great time for me because we could talk about almost anything. I wish I was there for you more than I was. It sucks that you will never know how great you truly were, and how much every one loved you. I miss you so much, you are in a better place now. And I will continue to wonder if you are watching over for me, for the whole family. We won't forget about you Mitchell, my baby brother.

Sylvia Olberding

June 26, 2014

I am so sorry for the loss of Mitchell and will miss his warm and endearing smile in German class. I extend my deepest sympathy and prayers to your family.

June 24, 2014

Dr. Kim Paukune DDS and staff are very sorry for the loss of your son Mitchell he was an awesome patient in our office. Our condolences go out to Mithcell's family We have no words to say except that we are very sorry! God Bless you all.

Dr. Robert Crum & staff

June 24, 2014

Our office would like to extend our heartfelt sympathy for you sudden loss of Mitchell.

Mama

June 24, 2014

Missing you each and everyday. I love you more than words can say. My heart is broken, my mind is racing. My darling, my heart will never let you go. You will be forever my baby boy. Sleep peacefully my angel.

Jenny Myers

June 24, 2014

You were the definition of a REAL best friend. You were a real supporter. I am so proud that you were a year sober. The Megadeth concert was one of the best nights I have ever had. It was so much fun. I remember you singing all the words to Sweating Bullets, and I thought it was the weirdest song ever. And we rode the ferris wheel and talked about getting diabetes from eating deep fried oreos. I remember in 7th grade, we were asked to split up because we were talking too much, so we used text books to pretend to instant message eachother. We always talked about visiting the botanical garden. I wish we could have done that. Mitchell, there is no doubt to say that you have enhanced my life by far. I loved coming in early to school and hanging out in the cafeteria, and we'd stress about our math class, we'd talk about whatever was going on in our lives, or just watch a funny video. Thank you for always giving me hugs whenever you saw me, and all your kind words. Your talent on guitar is indescribable. Everytime you played I was always amazed. Thank you for all of our inside jokes and laughs. You left such an impact on me. I'll miss you so much, and you'll always be in my heart. I love you Mitchell.

Alex Buchroeder

June 23, 2014

So very sad to hear another young man in the Vail community taken away too soon. My thoughts and love are with the family.
Mitchell you were always a fun kid to see get off the bus at the school and knew how much music meant to you and your whole group of young rockers. My thoughts are With those guys as well and all his classmates. hang in there!
-Mr. Alex

aunt Melanie Combee

June 23, 2014

We love you Mitchell... we are torn apart by the loss of you. We had so much invested in the future. We all believed that in time we could build a solid fondation. How could we have known or even imagined that future would never come? We are now left to mourn the loss of you forever. We will carry you in our hearts always. We love you!

Louise Henley

June 23, 2014

IF ONLY.... I am sure we have all thought those words and wish there was something we could have done to stop this tragedy from occurring. I never had the chance to meet my nephew Mitchell, but he is the one nephew I often thought about... Wondering where he was, what he was like. It seems he was very much loved and for this I am very grateful. May his memory and love remain with all who knew him. I look forward to the day when I can meet him in paradise. For Mitchell's birth parents, please remain strong. We know you loved your baby boy. For the parents who raised him, it seems he was a well loved and likable young man. For this we thank you. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

Aunt Louise and Uncle Jeff

Dr. Tricia Peña, Principal Cienega High School

June 21, 2014

My thoughts and prayers to the family who are feeling great loss. Mitchell, you were cared for by teachers, staff, other students and friends. Forever a bobcat Mitchell.

Melanie

June 21, 2014

I love you MItchell. From your aunt Melanie. Your birth mamas baby sister. I met you only on your day of birth, but I have loved you since then and I will love you forever. . for the rest of my life you will live within me. I hold you in the most sacred place in my heart. Until we meet again nephew. I love you! Love your aunt Melanie

marcus jarrell

June 21, 2014

so sorry to hear about your loss, you remain in my thoughts and prayers.

June 21, 2014

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Lisa Giannini

June 21, 2014

I didn't know Mitchell, but I know you. You are wonderful, and he sounds like he was, too. I am SO sorry. I am praying for a rock and roll heaven.

June 20, 2014

Melissa,Sue,Mason, Michael and family I am so sorry for your loss Melissa it has been a while that I have not seen you and the boys but I have followed you all through facebook Mitchell has grown to be a great kid. I will keep your family in my prayers may god bless you all. I am so sorry I will not be able to be there tomorrow I am out of town but I will be there in spirit. Love Luis Yolanda Luis Jr. Duarte

Jane Kaskel

June 20, 2014

Our sincere sympathy on your painful loss.
Jane Kaskel and Phyllis Maloney

La Verne Davis

June 20, 2014

To the nephew I never had the pleasure of meeting... It truly breaks my heart, that you felt you had no other way out. I do look forward to meeting one day. Much love, Aunt La Verne

June 20, 2014

Mitch was an important part of our home group, a face I was happy to see every week, and a sweet, sarcastic, wonderful friend. Fridays are definitely going to lack the laughter and comfort that he brought. always gonna be glad to have known you, my friend.

Katie Thomas

June 19, 2014

To the cousin I never got to meet, we do love you. You will forever be in our thoughts and prayers. We look forward to meeting you in paradise.

Katie Thomas and family

Julia Golden

June 19, 2014

I wish I could offer some comfort but I can only express how deeply devastated we are. As you know, my son, Blake, was proud to call Mitchell a best friend. Mitchell has been a confidante and support to him for many years and their friendship carried him through rough times. Just a few weeks ago, he took Blake to his first AA meeting and I am so very thankful. I pray that he will honor Mitchell by staying sober and making him proud. They shared so many similarities--including music--together. May knowing that he touched and brightened so many lives bring you some peace. We are wrapping our arms around your family and will always treasure his memory and life.

Michelle Feinman

June 19, 2014

I am so sorry for you loss. Condolences to your whole family and extended family.
Your Neighbor,

Susan DePasquale

June 19, 2014

Words cannot express the sadness I feel for your loss. I'm happy to have known Mitchell and to have spent some time with him. I'll always remember Mitchell's wit and charm as a young boy, and the special love he had for his family. Although your hearts are broken, I hope the happy memories that you shared are a comfort to you during this time and in the days ahead. You're in my thoughts and prayers. Sue

Tatianna

June 19, 2014

Mitchell will forever be in my heart, Stay strong for him.

June 19, 2014

I am so sorry for the loss of your son. My thoughts are with you and your family.
...Pamela

Nana

June 19, 2014

Mitchell, You taught me what unconditional love was all about when you would say "go away Nana." every time I visited you in Vegas. Then you grew up and I saw what a beautiful and loving young man you were becoming and my love and respect for you deepened. I will love you for an eternity, but for now, rest in peace until we meet again.

Janine Kaucher

June 19, 2014

Melissa and Sue, Debbie and I send our deepest sympathy for your loss. Your family is in our prayers.

Shaughnessy's

June 19, 2014

We are so very sorry for your loss. Mitchell was a fabulous kid. We so enjoyed watching him and Mason when they were young. Our hearts go out to you and your family.

jane lincoln

June 19, 2014

I am so very sorry that all of you have lost this handsome talented young man. The grief is so hard to bear. I hope that all of you feel surrounded by love, even while your heart hurts almost too much to stand. Prayers unceasing from me and Valerie.
Jane

Jennifer W.

June 19, 2014

My heart truly aches for your loss. Nobody should have to bury a child. Mitchell was such a special boy, so loved by so many. Sending love to all Mitchell's family at this time. May you always cherish your beautiful memories of Mitchell. You were so fortunate to have him in your life, and he was blessed to have you in his. Much love always.

Dawn Gatan

June 19, 2014

My heart goes out to you all. Hang on to all your memories. Picture his smile and laughter. Take one day at a time.

Jahnae Stuehrenberg

June 19, 2014

I miss you Mitchell, I can't believe you're gone. I'm going to miss your corny jokes, sweet compliment such as "You look pretty Jahnae." You always have me a hug no matter what mood you were in and I am so proud of you for your sobreity. You were there for me from the first day I met you. It's going to surreal not seeing you at school, and not being there to greet me as I walked through the gates. Keep rocking Mitchell, you're on a much bigger stage now. You're truly an amazing and beautiful person. I love you buddy. Gone but never forgotten.

Susan Vale

June 19, 2014

Melissa,
I am so terribly sorry for your loss. Please know that you and your family are in my prayers at this most difficult time.

Nick Ray

June 19, 2014

Oh good grief...i cannot begin to pretend I have words that do or ever could begin to express my sympathy for what you must be grieving right now. Please know that very sincere love is being sent your way from Phoenix and far beyond.

Bill & Debbie Marshall

June 18, 2014

We are so sorry to hear of your loss. How tragic. Our prayers go out to you and the family.

Joleen, Travis, & Wyatt

June 18, 2014

It takes a special family to raise such an incredible young man! Michael, Melissa, Sue, Mason & Mitchell's extended family... you ALL can be proud of being that family! Mitchell was an awesome guy! So intelligent, handsome, funny, talented, kind, and genuine. It was a privilege and honor to know him. When our boys met & started House Divided he was already a great musician, but it was a pleasure to watch and hear him transform into an AWESOME musician with actual "Rock Star" talent! We absolutely loved listening to him rock out and perform with us, as well as Verona! Man, that kid could play his guitar! We're thankful he was such a big part of our world, and for all the memories he gave us. We're all proud of his achievements and his sobriety. We loved him and will miss him. We're sorry for your loss.

michelle davis

June 18, 2014

You will be forever loved and missed... i love you

Connie Combee

June 18, 2014

So sorry for your loss. May God bless your family.

Patty & Tony Ambriano

June 18, 2014

So very sorry for you all at this most difficult of times. May you draw strength and comfort from one another. With Deepest Sympathies to all,

Jane Porter

June 18, 2014

Melissa I am so sorry for your loss. Please kow that I am thinking of you and your family at this difficult time.

Aunt Jane

Angie Siewert

June 18, 2014

Gordy and I are so saddened by this. Our hearts are with all of you.

Annmarie Kracunas

June 18, 2014

We're so incredibly sorry for your loss. May you find the strength to carry you through this very trying time.

Aimee Graves

June 18, 2014

Mike and I are so very sorry for your loss. May you find peace among people who care about you and who knew your son.

Jen Wagner

June 18, 2014

My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

Aunt Patty

June 18, 2014

I love you Mitchell.

Michelle Davis

June 18, 2014

My dearest baby boy, I will love you and hold you in my heart forever and ever. You are so loved and will be missed, but never forgotten. I love you, sweetie...

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