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Pamela Humphrey Obituary

Pamela Sue Waters Humphrey died tragically on Wednesday, May 14, 2008. She was born July 18, 1954 in Oklahoma City to Howard and Opal (Ritzy) Waters. She was a 1972 graduate of Bishop McGuiness High School in OKC. She earned her Bachelor's in Psychology and Sociology in 1976 and her Masters in Personnel and Guidance in 1977 from Oklahoma State University. Just days after completing her Masters Degree, Pam married her sweetheart, James Michael (Mike) Humphrey. They spent their honeymoon driving across the southwest to Tucson. In 1988, Pam and Mike were blessed by the arrival of their son, Sean. Pam retired from the City of Tucson Water Department as Human Resources Manager on March 31 after 30 years of service. While at the Water Department, Pam was responsible for the establishment of the Tucson Water 5 Star Safety Program and a Skill Based Pay Compensation Program. She was a member of the International Personnel Management Association. She also actively supported Literacy Volunteers of Tucson and the Humane Society of Southern Arizona. Pam enjoyed traveling, including trips to Tahiti, Ireland, and Europe. She loved visiting her cabin in Pinetop, going to the beach in Rocky Point and spending many hours on home improvement projects. She loved animals, and has a cat and a dog. Pam was a loving, honest, intelligent, driven, caring and generous person. She had a great sense of humor, and her laughter will be missed by all who knew her. Preceded in death by her parents, Pam is survived by her loving husband of 30 years, Mike; son, Sean; brother, Johnny Waters; his wife, Fran; and a host of family and friends. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the Humane Society of Southern Arizona. Services will be Monday, May 19, 2008 at 2:00 p.m. at St. Philip's in the Hills Episcopal Church, 4440 N. Campbell. Arrangements by ADAIR FUNERAL HOME Dodge Chapel.

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Published by Arizona Daily Star from May 18 to May 19, 2008.

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Hugo Gonzalez

June 27, 2008

Dear Mike and Sean,
I am so sorry for your loss. My name is Hugo Gonzalez, I had the pleasure of working with your wife/mom. I worked in the HR department for Tucson Water a few years ago but had the pleasure to meet Pam back in 1996. Pam was always very nice to me and to everyone. She helped me understand many city guidelines and showed me how to conduct myself in a professional manner. I was but 18 years old when I began to work at Tucson Water. I can easily say Pam was one of favorite people I have met in my life. Sean, your mom always had a smile on her face when she mentioned your name she was always so proud of you she will always be proud of you and love you for ever. Some day you will all be together again... God Bless

Vanda Waller

June 21, 2008

Dear Mike and Sean,
How blessed Jon and I feel that we got to see all of you last summer. Our get together in London was so fun and special after our Christmas communication that spanned 20 plus years! We are keeping you two in our prayers and know that Pam is watching you from heaven with so much love and pride. We will always cherish the memory of our reunion and hope to make new memories with you in the future.
With much love,

Vanda and Jon

Jenni Rogan

June 5, 2008

Sean
We continue to keep you and your Dad and your Uncle and family in our thoughts and prayers. We know the sadness is immense but your Mom was so proud of you and loved you. If there is anything at all you need even let us know anytime. We are always here for you.
Jenni, Stephen, Kristy, Daniel, Sarah, Benjamin and Luke

Sally Dodd-Riddle

May 27, 2008

Mike, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Pam was a wonderful person and I have so many memories of my time with all of you...they still make me smile. Please take care.

Pat McGuigan

May 23, 2008

I have found it difficult to put into words my feelings about Pam. Together, we attended the last few years of grade school (John Carroll), all of High School (McGuinness) and then five years in Stillwater (Oklahoma State). I remember her wonderful and infectious laugh, her ear to ear smile, her good heart and that incredible braid that went down her tiny back all the way to her waist. In the years after OSU, when we rarely saw Mike and Pam face to face, my wife, Pamela, and I appreciated the great Christmas letters every year as a way of keeping up with her and Mike and their son. I wish I could have given her one last hug. It's been too long. I believe our loving God will grant our heart's desire, and that one day we will be together again, as Kevin Mahoney said, in "house of Mellow." But that will be the ultimate and blessed "mellow" -- in Heaven.

Kevin Mahoney

May 21, 2008

Mike and Sean,
I can't find the words to adequately express my sincere sympathies to you both. Pam will be missed by many, many friends. The great times at OSU that we shared in the "house of mellow" were some of the best ever - I just should have listened to Pam's sage advice more often. Mickie and I were so looking forward to your visit this summer. Know that you are in our prayers and thoughts every day.

Peggy Steel Spillman

May 21, 2008

Mike,
I am so sorry to hear about Pam and your sister. Pam was a great person with a sassy smile we all loved. She will live on in our hearts. My thoughts and prayers are with you and Sean.

Salpointe Publications

May 21, 2008

Sean,
We are so sorry for your loss. Don't forget that we are here for you. We love you and we have you and your dad in our prayers.

Joan Liss Balcerak

May 21, 2008

Dear Mike,
I was so sorry to hear the news about Pam and your sister. Pam, your sister and your whole family will be remembered in my prayers.

Mark and Monica WARD

May 21, 2008

Dear Mike, Mark and I wish to send you our love and condolences to you and your family in your time of grief. May God Bless and keep you and yours. All our love Mark and Monica Ward

Pat Stuever Graff

May 20, 2008

Michael and Sean,

I feel like a big piece of who I am is suddenly gone. Pam was counselor, colleague, advice giver, and most of all FRIEND. Can't even imagine your grief, but know that Pam helped you both become so very strong and wonderful. Hang on to that in the next few months. She loved you both so much! We share so many wonderful memories, and Pam was one of the BEST people I ever knew. I had so looked forward to hosting you guys on June 4 here in Albuquerque. Whatever you need, whenever you need it, I am here to help. The world has lost a great lady. All my prayers are with you both.

Greg Hall

May 20, 2008

Mike,
I am so sorry to hear about Pam and your sister. All our prayers. All of us in OKC are thinking of you and your son. God Bless you.
Greg Hall

Janie Saltzman

May 20, 2008

Dear Mike,
Please take comfort in knowing that there are so many of us who are praying for you and your family. I am so deeply sorry for your loss. Sincerely, Janie Braun Saltzman

Cheryl Happ

May 20, 2008

Dear Mike and Sean,
Pam holds a special place in my memory. I've told my kids about the grade school I went to and Pam is an important part of that story. We were part of a tight group of friends. We studied dance together and all went to each other's houses and parties. Pam and I had the longest hair and wore it in either a single braid or two braids. People sometimes mistook one of us for the other. We thought it was pretty funny and exploited the mistake when we could. Even though we didn't keep close track of each other, I have very clear and fond memories of her. God bless you both. I thought a pleasant memory might help us all.

Susie Burke-Ellegard

May 20, 2008

Mike,
I am so sorry to hear about Pam and your sister. I had been e-mailing with Pam about your trip. I was so excited that you two were going to make it to Oklahoma. If there is an thing I can do please let me know. You and your family are in my prayers.

Arthur M. Castro

May 20, 2008

Dear Sean:

My name is Art Castro I worked with your mom. I have known her for a long time and you to a point. I don't think you might not remember but you and your mom used to go to the monster trucks and I took my son Calvin and my family. We used to see you guys pretty regular. I will miss your mom a lot. I lost my daughter Megan to an auto accident about 4 years ago. It was very hard to attend your mom's funeral at this time. I know she is in a better place. Just like my daughter they both are far better off than we are. I pray for you and your dad. May the Lord keep both of your hearts close to Him.

Lois Shoaf

May 20, 2008

Pam was not just a co-worker and my Boss at Tucson Water - she was a mentor, confidant, leader, and most importantly my friend.
She always respected each of our special talents and was forever looking for ways to encourage us to utilize them to the fullest, and step outside of our boxes to blossom.
We will truly miss that little whirl wind twister from Oklahoma - but know she will always remain forever here in our memories.

C. Bannon

May 20, 2008

Mike & Sean,

We were shocked when we learned of Pam's sudden passing.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you both and will be for a long time to come.

The Bannon's

carin hall

May 19, 2008

Dear Mike and Sean,
I didn't know Pam and Ann...I didn't know who I was saying prayers for since driving past the accident on my way up to Phoenix on Wednesday morning. Now I know it was for these beautiful, wonderful women and their families. My heart goes out to you with my deepest condolences. Her spirit lives on in the most incredible place.

Jordan Castro

May 19, 2008

Dear Sean,
While my words can’t express the sympathy I hold in my heart for you and your family, know that my heart goes out to you. May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief. Please accept my deepest sympathies and know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Kelly Clifton

May 19, 2008

Sean,
I can only imagine the sorrow you and your father must feel. I am so sorry for your loss. I know sometimes it seems that God breaks our hearts, but we are blessed for the time he has given us with those who have made our hearts what they are. You are in my prayers Sean.

Yolanda Parker

May 19, 2008

My deepest sympathies to the family during this time of sorrow. I knew Pam from Tucson Water and she always so friendly and respectful towards me. I will remember her constant smile and the hard work she provided for Tucson Water during her tenure as the Human Resource Manager. May God give you all comfort and fond memories of the years that you spent with Pam. Although I did not know Pam’s sister-in-law, my condolences on her loss also, I am sure she was also a wonderful lady.

Sara Schaffer

May 19, 2008

Mike & Sean-

No word can express my sympathy for you two. My heart really goes out to the both of you and your family in this time of sorrow. Pam was a wonderful lady, very open, accepting and friendly, all together a winning combination. It was truly a blessing to have known her, even for a short time. My sympathies are with you. May your memories be of good times.

Herminia Frias

May 19, 2008

Mike and Sean,
I am deeply sorry for your loss. My prayers and thoughts are with you.
May God Bless both of you and guide you through this difficult time.
Respectfully,
Minnie Frias

Kathy Dixon

May 19, 2008

Dear Mike, Though my words cannot adequately express my sympathy for you, Sean and your extended family at this difficult time, my heart goes out to you. I am deeply sorry for the loss of your wife and sister. May your faith bring peace to your hearts.

Cathy Bacher

May 19, 2008

Pam gave me the opportunity to move to Tucson and work at Tucson Water. Eventhough I was only able to work with her for a few months before she retired, she became my friend. She always had a smile or laugh for everyone. She really knew how to relate to people. She will be missed very much. You are all in my prayers.

Lupita Mackey

May 19, 2008

MIke and Sean

Words are so difficult ... my prayers are with you. Memories flood to us. I will always remember Pam and I were exercising while pregnant with our sons. She was a jewel of person. Always had a smile and a positive thought for everything. My deepest condolences.

Mark Sorensen

May 19, 2008

Mike, Sean & Family...

I will always remember Pam as the one who gave me the opportunity to join her team at Tucson Water. All of us at Employee Services grieve her loss. Please know that we are here for you for any need.

Our condolences as well in the loss of your sister and aunt Ann. God bless you, and keep you in this time of mourning.

Salpointe Catholic High School

May 19, 2008

The Salpointe Catholic High School community extends deepest sympathy to Sean and Mike and all of Pamela's family and friends. You are in our prayers at this very difficult time.

Carmen Cousins

May 19, 2008

Dear Mike & Sean,
Our sincerest condolences on the loss of your wonderful wife/mother and sister/aunt. An extreme tragedy which leads us to question why, yet we may never know the answer. May their memories comfort you and may you have peace in your hearts.
May God keep you strong during this most difficult time.
Please know that Pam always greeted you with a smile, even though her job as HR Director at TW was a difficult one at times. She had a contagious laugh and some of her antics still keep us laughing as we remember her.
Carmen, John & Monamie

Ben Slote

May 18, 2008

When I think of Pam, some of my fondest childhood memories come to mind. She was a great person and we're all going to miss her.

Phyllis and Billy Slote

May 18, 2008

Dear Mike and Sean,
We just couldn't believe our eyes when we read the paper today. We have so many wonderful memories of your family. Pam will be deeply missed. We are in total shock. Be sure she will never be forgotten by us. We are better for having known her. She will be forever be in our minds and hearts, especially Ben. You all are part of the fabric of his life since pre-school. We truly love you all.

Sharlin Barfield

May 18, 2008

My deepest sympathies to the family upon hearing of this sad news. I knew Pam from Tucson Water, and always thought so highly of her. She ran a wonderful department. She always brought a smile to my face.

Sincerely,

Tim & Mary Beth Schannep

May 18, 2008

Mike,

I was so sorry to read about your loss. Pam was a wonderful lady and she will be missed by everyone who knew her. We will keep you and Sean in our prayers

Diane harris

May 18, 2008

Timothy and I both worked with Pam at Tucson Water. Our thought and prayers are with you.

Suzanne Jameson

May 18, 2008

Dear Mike,
I'm so sorry to hear the sad news. Please know you are in my thoughts and my heart. I worked with Pam at Tucson Water and will always remember her sense of humor and her kindness to friends.
Bless you, Pam, for you are a part of this great universe now.

Dave Cosgrove

May 18, 2008

Sean, may your memories bring comfort to you and your family’s hearts. Thinking of you with sympathy, prayers and love. Coz

Monica Abril-Aragon

May 18, 2008

My sincere condolences to Pam's entire family. She was such a wonderful person! I had the pleasure of working with Pam at Tucson Water for just a few years & she was just the nicest person, so sincere & honest, she was so good at her job. She will be missed by all who knew her. May the Lord comfort your family during this difficult time. God Bless you all.

Sharon Norden

May 18, 2008

I worked with Pam at Tucson Water. She was always there when you needed someone. She was a good friend and confidant. I will miss her. My prayers are with the family.

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