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Dr. William David Jacoby, Jr. "Dave" went home to be with the Lord on November 25, 2009, at the age of 66. He is survived by his devoted wife of 14 years, Amber; his son and daughter-in-law, Bill and Shelley; his daughter, Jennifer and his grandchildren, Liam, Graham and Eleanor. He is also survived by his sisters, Sally and Elizabeth and will be dearly remembered by Amber's family, including his brothers and sisters-in law, nieces, nephews and great-nieces and nephews. Dave Jacoby, a long term resident of Tucson, Arizona, was born in Long Branch, New Jersey, on June 2, 1943 to parents, Dr. William David Jacoby and Jeanne Kimball Jacoby. Dave grew up in Miamisburg, Ohio with his two younger sisters, Sally Jacoby Martin and Elizabeth Jacoby Dalton. Dave married Mary Josephine Sebold on June 5, 1965 and had two children, William David Jacoby, III and Jennifer Lyn Jacoby. Dave graduated from the University of Michigan Medical School in 1969 and trained in Dermatology at Henry Ford Hospital. During the Vietnam War, Dave served in the United States Air Force at Davis Monthan Air Force Base from 1970 to 1972. After returning to Michigan to complete his residency, Dave and his family relocated to Tucson in 1975. He went into private practice establishing Tucson Dermatology, Ltd. with his partner Dr. Edwin P. Rather. The two were later joined by Dr. Bruce H. Lynn. In 1995, Dave married Amber Taylor Jacoby on the beautiful Poipu beach of Kauai, Hawaii. Dave and Amber were very much in love and shared a beautiful, adventure-filled life together. They loved to vacation in their RV or visit their cabin in Pinetop as often as possible. Dave was an avid fisherman and enjoyed spending the weekends on his boat with his buddies. He felt closest to God during the many quiet mornings he spent on the lake, usually in the White Mountains or Lake Roosevelt. He was also a true sports fan and a lifelong supporter of the University of Michigan Wolverines. Dave was a member of the Rincon Rotary Club for 33 years. He served as President of the club and was known to his fellow Rotarians as "Big Dave". Above all, Dave enjoyed spending time, especially fishing, with his grandchildren and grand-nieces and nephews. Dave was known and cherished for his joy of life, his sense of humor and warmth. His generosity and big heart extended not only to his family but often to perfect strangers. He was a loving and supportive husband and passed on his strong values and work ethic to his children. His unconditional love will always be a source of security for all of his family. A Service to celebrate his life will be held on Saturday, December 5, 2009 at 10:00 a.m. at EAST LAWN MORTUARY, 5801 E. Grant, Tucson. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Camp Discovery, a non-profit organization for children with chronic skin conditions. (for more information please visit http://memorialwebsites.legacy.com/davejacoby). Additionally, in honor of Dr. Jacoby, an Automated External Defibrillator (AED) has been donated to the Northwest Medical clinic in Cabo San Lucas, Mexico.

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Published by Arizona Daily Star on Nov. 29, 2009.

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A FAN

November 22, 2010

The greatest measure of a man's life is family that he leaves behind....the ones that miss him, mourn him, celebrate him......the love he instilled is evident in everyone that is a part of him...his family, his treasure is larger than life!

Pam Ericson

January 19, 2010

My sympathies to Dr. Jacoby's family, colleagues, and staff. I am grateful to have known him as my doctor, but beyond that, I saw a beautiful soul, full of kindness and compassion, grace, and a passion for life. He graced us with that loving compassion in his presence among us. We are blessed to have known him. Rest in peace.

Gary Price

December 18, 2009

I was shocked to open my mail last evening to find out the sudden passing of Dr. Jacoby. I had been a patient of his since 2002 and a skin cancer survivor. He was always so positive and up-beat. My last appointment was this past October. Wow! I will miss him. God Bless to his office staff, fellow associates and more importantly-his family.

Ed

December 8, 2009

Wow, so saddened to hear of the passing of Dr. Jacoby. I only knew him professionally as a patient of his, but he truly gained my trust. There are very few doctors I've ever felt that way about. The last time I saw him I commented that he looked and sounded just like Dodgers broadcaster Charley Steiner, and he got a laugh out of that. Rest in peace, Dr. Jacoby.

Nell

December 4, 2009

To Amber and family,
It has been over a week since that phone call and I still cannot believe it. I have known you and Dr. J for almost 30 years and it has truly been my pleasure. Our lives will continue, but it will be missing someone very special to a great, great many people and I will certainly be one of them. My deepest love to you and know you have my deepest sympathy for someone we all loved very much.

Patty Taylor

December 4, 2009

Dave,
I can’t begin to express how much I’m going to miss you. I am privileged to have had you as my brother-in law and my friend. I will never forget your patience when you took me fishing and spent most of your time fixing my line and lure. Never once did you complain! Thank you for being a great father figure to MJ and a wonderful husband to Amber. You were a positive impact on our entire family and you will never be forgotten. This world has lost a kind, caring, loving, giving and selfless man. I will always remember your great outlook on life, your support of others and your wonderful sense of humor. You were a great person and you will forever be in my heart and my thoughts. I love you and miss you!

December 1, 2009

The Jacoby Family,

We were so shocked and saddened to hear of Dr. Jacoby's passing. We trusted him so with our medical needs and will miss him immensely. During our many years with him, we always found him to be personable and caring. Our thoughts and prayers are with you through this sad time.

Ernie and Barbara Blandin
Bowie, AZ

Jack & Jeanne Northroup

December 1, 2009

Dear Amber and Family,
Our sincerest condolences to you and your family. We will miss Dave's warm welcome upon our arrivals to Bear Run and will be reminded of him every time we are there. May you find peace in your heart that he will be forever fishing on that lake up there... Jack and Jeanne Northroup, Pinetop Neighbors

November 30, 2009

I was shocked and saddened to read of Dr. Jacoby's death. I was one of his many patients and I highly respected his medical knowledge and always felt like I was in good hands with him as my Dermatologist. He had a wonder manner in dealing with patients. My thoughts go out to his family at this time.

Richard Darling

William Rose

November 30, 2009

We were in shock after reading Dr. Jacoby's obit. We were his patients for years and I always enjoyed talking to him about fishing as I used to be an avid fisherman. He will be greatly missed. We are so sorry for your loss and God bless and keep you in your grief. Dr. and Mrs William Rose

Dale & Jennifer Nunn

November 30, 2009

Dear Amber,

Our lives are enriched by those who have touched our hearts. May cherished memories that you and Dave shared, help to ease your sorrow.

"Big Dave" was a great man and a great friend to all who knew him. He always had a laugh and sense of humor second to none! We shall remember him fondly.

Peter Kay MD FRCS(C)

November 30, 2009

Dave has been a wonderful colleague and support to me ever since coming to Tucson in 1989.He was always so helpful and knowledgeable and was always able to help the most challenging cases. We will all miss him professionally and socially.He was a blessing to our community.Our prayers and thoughts encompass you and the whole family Amber.

Trisha Andresen

November 30, 2009

Dr. Jacoby (Dr J) was a wonderful man. For nine years I worked at Tucson Dermatology along side him
and Dr. Rather. They had a way of making me feel more like part of a family instead of just another employee. I will always remember his great sense of humor and the joy he brought to me and all of his many patients. My thoughts and prayers go out to all of his family. He will forever be in my heart.
I will miss him dearly.

Charlie and Brenda Ohrel

November 30, 2009

We were shocked to read of Dr. Jacoby's death. We have been patients of his for many..many years, and just saw him recently. We certainly will miss his calm manner.. his smile and talking about boats.. fishing.
We are very sorry for your loss.......

Warren Thompson

November 29, 2009

I've known Dr. Jacoby as a patient since 1989. He always seemed bigger than life. He was always up to date on the latest advancements in medical solutions in regards to my particular afflications. It was always a pleasure to seem him. He made me feel like more than just another patient looking for help. He would always give me snipets into his philosophical thoughts regarding politics, sports, medical advancements, the environment, and so on. In short he made one feel a part of his family. I last saw him in October and we talked briefly about the upcomming holidays and what each others plans were, prior to getting to the reasons for my being there. He always came across as one of those rare individuals who you felt truly cared about you. I will miss him very much. He was a truly a unique individual that felt deeply about others. - Warren

Alice O'Hare

November 29, 2009

I was both stunned and shocked when I opened my paper and saw Dr. Jacoby's picture in the obits.
He was my dematologist and a wonderful man. There aren't many doctors who are so kind to a 78 year old patient.
May God hold him in the palm of his hand, and may he be in Heaven an hour before the devil knows he's dead.

November 29, 2009

Guy and I were shocked and sadened to hear of Dave's death. He was a dear friend to our entire family and the world will be a lesser place without him. Our hearts go out to his family.

Anne and Guy Ferro

Vikki Flynt-Ricker

November 29, 2009

DR J will deeply be missed. May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived? He’s now up in haven fishing along side god shearing stories of his life and family that he loved so much. My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Malkin's

November 29, 2009

David and Jeanette Malkin, as patients we received some of that big heart and generosity from Dr. Jacoby. We are so saddened by his passing and will surly miss him. See you in Heaven Dr.
May the God of all comfort , comfort you as only He can.

Michael Scherer

November 29, 2009

Uncle Dave, you will never know how much James and I loved you. You were always there for us no matter what! Not a day will go by that i wont remember how great of an person, uncle, and father figure you were towards me! If I can be half the uncle, father, husband, and person that you were, I will live a fulfilled life. You brought joy and happiness to every single person in my family without even trying. I thank you for showing me what kind of man I need to be! I Love You and Miss You!

Denny Peck

November 29, 2009

To the family I express my sincerest condolences. I was a patient in the 70's. He was a soft-spoken kind man. Insurance plans change and with it physician choices, but I never forgot him. When I saw Drs Rather and Jacoby together I always stopped to say hello.
I am so sorry for your loss.

Kirsten Stephens

November 29, 2009

Dave was a super sweet, funny guy and a great Rotarian. Dave will forever be remembered for his humor and the fact that he spent much of his life helping others. He will be sorely missed. My deepest condolenscences.

Jennifer Lake-Wright and Family

November 29, 2009

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Carol Bailey

November 29, 2009

My daughter was a patient of Dr Jacoby.. His death was on my daughters birthday. We will miss him, he was always so kind and gentle. A very sweet man,
With fond memories of someone who always put a smile on our face.
You will be missed.

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