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Marilou Caldwell Obituary

CALDWELL -- Marilou Chesnut, away Friday, July 14, 2006, after a spirited battle with cancer. She was preceded in death by her husband, Samuel Dennis Caldwell of Muskogee, 28 years to the day of his death, July 14, 1978. Marilou Chesnut was born to Dr. Wylie Chesnut and Pauline Redpath Chesnut on January 5, 1935 in Joplin, MO, and was raised in Miami, OK. She graduated from The Hockaday School, Dallas, TX. She attended the University of Oklahoma, where she was a member of Kappa Kappa Gamma Sorority. She married Sam Caldwell and moved to California, where she continued her education at the University of Southern California. She graduated with honors in Accounting and Marketing from Northeastern State University. She was a member of the Society of Certified Public Accountants and had a successful auditing career with The Williams Companies. She completed her career as Director of Internal Audit with TransOK, in Tulsa. Marilou and Sam reared their family of 4 children in Muskogee, where she supported his legal practice. She was an active volunteer in her communities and especially passionate about her work with CASA and Stephen Ministry. Marilou was a faithful member of Westminster Presbyterian Church. She also served as a member of member or PEO & YMCA Board in Muskogee. A devoted mother, she is survived by: her children, Brenda Jewett and husband, George of Hillsborough, CA, Julia Caldwell of San Francisco, CA, Scott Caldwell and wife, Jamie of Scottsdale, AZ and Trish Cloud and husband, Jeff of Oklahoma City; her 8 grandchildren, Sam and Fritz Jewett, Sean, Jack and Michael Caldwell and Cooper, Carter and Johnny Cloud added immensely to the joy of her life. Marilou is survived by: a sister, Pat Foster of San Mateo, CA. Her sister, Brenda Findley of Lake Oconee, GA, predeceased her last Fall. Her family will celebrate her life at a Memorial service 2 p.m., Tuesday, July 18, 2006, at Westminster Presbyterian Church in Oklahoma City. Memorial donations may be made to CASA of Oklahoma City, The American Cancer Society or the charity of your choice. Hahn-Cook/ Street & Draper Funeral Directors, (405) 848-3744.

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Published by Tulsa World on Jul. 16, 2006.

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Curt, Peggy & James Johnson

July 19, 2006

Wow, she was an amzaing woman. Our hearts go out to all of the family.

Rob Sandlin

July 17, 2006

To all of the Caldwells:



I'm remembering the good times that our Dad's (Forney and Sam)had practicing law, our Mom's (Polly and Marilou) had at St. Paul's and the good times that we kids had at St. Paul's MYF and MHS Tennis Team.



I am thinking of you in your loss. Many blessings to each of you.



Love,



Rob Sandlin

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Nancy & John Ferguson

July 17, 2006

It was just a year ago that we had our 50th anniversary and Marilou came. I had talked with her about two weeks ago and she was her usual postive self and we were planning on getting to gether in OKC.

Will always remember our school days together, before she went to TX.

Scott, I always asked her about you and she told me about your job in AZ. and still in the hotel business.

My thoughts are with you.

Lou Bowers

July 16, 2006

Dear Ones, Marilou, Brenda, and I took dancing lessons together in Miami. Brenda was one of my best friends and I spent many a wonderful time at the home of the Chesnuts.You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Marilou was truly a special person and had such a marvelous attitude. Love and hugs, Lou Bowers

Diane Carselowey Powell

July 16, 2006

Pat, Brenda, Julia, Scott and Trish, I called, but not certain I had the correct phone # or address. I was just stunned today to read of Marilou's death. I didn't know she had been ill. I also did not know that Brenda had also died within the past year. How sad for all of you. The last time I visited with Marilou was in Miami, I just happened to be up there when she was campaigning for Jeff. I saw her downtown with Aunt Mary. What wonderful memories you must have, Trish of the last few years and know you are happy that she moved down to OC. You all are in my thoughts and prayers. Special thoughts to you Pat, to lose both little sisters within a year. I have many fond memories of the four of us growing up together in Miami. Much love to all of you.

Cate Caldwell Long

July 16, 2006

For my dearest Aunt Marilou:



I was thinking about the qualities that made you so wonderful. You loved to laugh, you were very smart and quick and your kindness was exceptional. You loved your family deeply…you embodied the best traits of an Oklahoman.



What that means to me is a true balance between the strength of the mind and the warmth of the heart. You were always interested in understanding the point of view of the person you were conversing with…but did believe that your opinion had value and wanted to be understood. You were engaged and giving and so full of life.



I always looked forward to seeing you when I visited Oklahoma. I only regret now that I didn’t stay longer and hear more stories and argue more politics. I will really miss you.



Rest in peace Marilou.



Love, Cate

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