Stanley A. Brander Jr.

BRANDER - Stanley A., Jr., died Tuesday, February 3, 2009. Beloved son of Stan and Kathryn "Kats" Brander. Stan was born in 1930 and was a lifelong Tulsan. Stan was a wonderful teller of stories and jokes, and always had an anecdote to share with a twinkle in his eye. He passionately pursued a wide variety of interests throughout his life, including competitive sailing at Grand Lake and around the world, golfing, fly fishing, woodworking and volunteer work. He never did anything halfway. For instance, as a fly fisherman, he learned to tie the most beautiful flies and craft the most spectacular rods from rare hardwoods, which he then gave away to his friends. He combined his passions for golf and volunteerism by serving as chairman for many golf tournaments, including the PGA and Tour Championships. In his retirement, he derived a great deal of pleasure from community service, making weekly Meals on Wheels deliveries and telling entertaining stories to the meal recipients. Stan will be greatly missed by: Jean Johnson Brander, his wife of 55 years; his sister, Barbara Tate of Newport Beach, CA; his 4 beloved children: Stanley "Trip" Brander, Katy Brander, Brent Brander and Kelly Brander; his daughters-in-law: Robin, Dee Dee and Shelley, his 7 grandchildren; and all who were fortunate enough to be treated to his wit, charm and gentle nature. Service 10:30 a.m., Saturday, Church of the Resurrection. In lieu of flowers, donations to Clare House, Tulsa Boys Home or Church of the Resurrection, would be deeply appreciated. Stanley A. Brander, Jr.