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Mary Ruth BORER

1950 - 2021

Mary Ruth BORER obituary, 1950-2021, St. Paul, MN

BORN

1950

DIED

2021

Mary BORER Obituary

Age 70, of Saint Paul, MN Died peacefully on Thursday, January 21, 2021. Born December 15, 1950, in Minneapolis, MN, Mary was the eldest daughter of the late William and Ruth (Morrison) Borer. She was a graduate of Wayzata High School (1968), the College of St. Catherine (1974) and Northwestern Health Sciences University (2001). Mary spread joy, love and laughter, and she loved spending time with her family, making holiday meals and telling corny jokes. Mary worked as an occupational therapist at Hazelden Treatment Center in Center City and as an activities coordinator at Rose of Sharon Nursing Home in Roseville. She led classes in yoga, crafts, and organized holiday parties. In 1987, Mary transitioned into becoming a full-time mother, and part-time business woman. Mary later became a certified acupuncturist and started an independent acupuncture business where she treated patients and friends for many years. Mary retired in 2012 and began attending weekly classes in yoga, tai chi, and ceramics at Bethesda Hospital. She went on annual fishing trips and loved going to shows at the Guthrie Theater. Mary also enjoyed drawing, calligraphy, reading, gardening and taking care of her cats. Mary especially loved celebrating holidays with her family. Her holiday meals were famous for their deliciousness and she always had a fun, holiday themed joke to make everyone laugh. Mary will be remembered for her love, care, and special bonds that she had with her family and friends. Mary was predeceased by her parents and older brothers, Jack and Gary Borer. She is survived by her son, William J. Merkl, daughter-in-law, Caroline C. Merkl of Saint Paul, her son Daniel T. Merkl and his fiancée Alyssa E. Chagnon of Minneapolis; good friend (and former husband) Joseph Merkl; brother Dave Borer (Linda); sisters Jean Schneider (Dean) and Barb Schreifels (Keith) and many nieces and nephews. A post-COVID memorial celebration will be planned at a later date. The family is grateful for the kind and thoughtful care Mary received at Saint Joseph's Hospital, Fairview Acute Rehabilitation Center, Lyngblomsten Senior Living Center, Saint John's Hospital in Maplewood, and Accent Care Fairview Hospice at Lyngblomsten. In lieu of flowers, donations in Mary's memory may be made to the Minnesota Brain Injury Alliance, the National Brain Tumor Society, or Feline Rescue.

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Published by Pioneer Press on Feb. 7, 2021.

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Ann Lewis

February 3, 2025

Another year and I still miss her. I had memories with Mary starting on White Bear at a small clinic, where individual practitioners would see clients. She was so nice. The next I remember seeing her at her apartment on Selby. Neat old resident it even had a covered porch where Mary grew vegetables in pots, and decorated with delight on Halloween. She worked at Mastels where she learned more knowledge in natural treatments. And supplements. Our conversations were long and encouraging. Even there was sometime months we did not talk, it was like we had just spoke. Still smiles in my heart when I think of her, or drive around and go by a familiar place. A beautiful person who will always stay in my heart. Bless you and you family and friends. Love to all ......

Lewis Ann

February 2, 2024

Best friend ever. Smart, a healing heart. Supportive g thru my cancer treatment. Great guide to better health. I used to bring her care packages. Soups, jams and jellies, A wise soul.

Ann Lewis

February 5, 2022

I think of her every day. She did so much for other people. She helped me thru chemo and radiation with her accupuncture. I shared life with her with my visits with jelly´s and Jams, cabbage patch stew, Any casseroles.,any thing that I shared with her in love. We shared our wisdom with each other. Didn´t you love her jokes? She was my best friend.

Ann Lewis

February 17, 2021

A friend, a caregiver during my cancer treatment, Always connecting so that we could share meals, memories. Advice as we grew older.

Cousin Mike / Sharon Olin

February 8, 2021

I have many good memories from when we lived near each other as kids out at Medicine Lake. fun times.

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