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Robert Stupka Obituary


Stupka, Robert J. III

"Rob"

Age 21, of St. Paul




On November 30, 2005. Complete notice to run Friday. Arr. O'Halloran & Murphy Funeral Home, 651-698-0796.

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Published by Pioneer Press on Dec. 1, 2005.

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Claire

November 25, 2023

Thinking of you, Rob, and your family. Your memory lives on. Here are some of the students planning the 2024 Stupka Undergraduate Research Symposium at ISU!

lásko

November 19, 2022

Still thinking of you almost every day. Nothing can replace you. Your memory lives on in so many positive ways.

May 19, 2013

Thinking of you today. You are never forgotten.

March 19, 2013

Happy Birthday Rob!
wow...29 years old today
We miss you and love you so much!
You have made a difference in our lives.
Love you
Rue, Bill Megan and Coley

January 24, 2013

Still thinking of you often, you beautiful soul. Love and light.

Tindy St. Patrick's Day

Tindy Michel

December 1, 2007

Hey Rob, Bob, Diane, Andy and Michelle. We're trying to do our best to make a difference out here in PA. Life is good and we think about you and the rest of our family all the time.

Congrats to Andy on skating 1st line for CHD!

MB and John

November 28, 2007

Rob, we think of you every single day. We miss you terribly. This week, especially, we pray for you and your family.

Alicia Tava

November 30, 2006

Rob I miss you more then anyone could know. You are living on in my memories. Please continue to watch over me and the rest of your family and friends.

iowa state bbmb'ers

November 30, 2006

we all miss you so much rob, and think of you constantly - every time we go in or out of your academic "home base", every time a group of friends is gathered and your huge smile and ideas are missing, every time i drive across that intersection, and every time i think about scientists of the future with real promise. you were the best.

November 30, 2006

We miss you so much Rob but we know you are watching over us everyday. All my love to those who knew Rob.

November 29, 2006

Miss you Rob and think of you often

Nancy McGaughey

November 29, 2006

In My Pocket

I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.

My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.

They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.

Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.

But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.

Mary Beth, John, Jack and Michael Stupka

November 28, 2006

Rob, we love and miss you more than words can say.

March 19, 2006

HAPPY BIRTHDAY ROB!

I think of you often and miss you alot.

Andrea Walker

March 19, 2006

Happy Birthday Rob! We miss you so much. You are always in our memories!

Love

Andrea

February 20, 2006

I wanted Rob's family to know that although there haven't been any new entries in here in a couple of months, your family and Rob are still in our thoughts and prayers. He will never be forgotten.

Clarissa Tinjum

December 16, 2005

I am deeply saddened to hear about the loss of Rob. Your family is in our prayers! He definately made a great impression on my niece, Brianna Baldwin. She wrote up the greatest "obit" I have ever read! I'm sure he will be missed by many including his college roommate and my nephew, John Baldwin & all his family and friends.

Jane Lockhart

December 15, 2005

To Rob's Family,

I lived next to Rob's grandparents in Roseville for many years. Rob's grandfather Pat talked about Rob many times and wanted him to meet my son, Mike, who is in grad school in the sciences. From the many messages I have read here, it was truly my son's loss to have missed meeting Rob. My heart and prayers go out to each of you for I know how precious Rob was to his grandparents and what a remarkable difference he seems to have made to so many people. He was blessed with so many gifts, and he shared those with others. What a wonderful spirit.

Emily Colaizy

December 10, 2005

Dear Bob,Diane,Michelle and Andy

I am so sorry about your loss.

Are Family is so close.

I just want you to know that we are there for you and we will always be there for you.

EmilyColaizy

(Niece and Cousin)

Emily Colaizy

December 10, 2005

Robby



You were a Great Cousin.

Whenever we had Family get togethers I could not wait until the time came because then we got to see everyone. When ever we were together you always made my night and everyones night with your smile.

We always had so many good times up at the lake. I remember one time we were sitting around the table eating dinner and you and your dad,mom and Michelle and maybe Andy was their I can't remember if he was or not well you were going to be leaving that night and you did not want to leave so we were eating Spagheti and Meatballs for dinner. We all look across the table and their you are sitting there with an afghan over you and you were forking the Spagheti throgh the little holes of the afghan by your mouth.

I will never forget you Rob.

I miss you already.

Emily Colaizy

Your Cousin

Constance Zweber Vince Conway

December 9, 2005

Stubby, Diane & family,



We extend our deepest sympathy to you and your entire family. We are very sorry about the loss of your beloved Rob. You are in our thoughts and in our prayers.

joe felion

December 8, 2005

I fell honored that I was able to spend as much time as I did with Rob even though it was not long enough. I will cherish all of my memories with him forever. Your family is in my thoughts and I hope you can all make it through this. I know how much Rob loved and admired his Mom, Dad, Brother and Sister. I am so very sorry for your lose.

Greg, Mary Helen, Ryan and Shannon Pates

December 7, 2005

The reality of Rob’s death had to be accepted as we prayed for his soul at the funeral. What an incredible turn out of mourners all searching for answers and comfort. Some solace was found in the moving homily of Father Bill Baer. So touching; so powerful. Rob and Diane, your tribute to Robbie showed such courage and such love. We will all reflect for many years on the events of last week. Again, our heartfelt sympathy to you, and all the Stupka and Meehan families. “The Lord bless thee. The Lord make His face to shine upon thee, and be gracious unto thee. The Lord lift up His countenance upon thee and give thee peace. Amen.”

Tim Kruesel

December 7, 2005

May the soul of the faithfully departed by the grace of God rest in peace. Amen

Kevin Zehrer

December 7, 2005

Bob & Diane,

I am so very sorry to hear of your horrible loss. I can't imagine what you're going through, and I could never find words that would be of any help.

I can only wish you the very best in getting through this incredibly difficult time.



Take Care,

Kevin

Terri and Roy Carter

December 7, 2005

We are your former neighbors on Lake Hubert and just last night heard this horrible news from our son, Bruce. Roy and I are so deeply and profoundly saddened.Your family has always been an inspiration to us...your entire wonderful, loving family is such a gift and a blessing and as you comfort each other know that you are all in our prayers.We love you, all of you wonderful Stupkas! Your friends from up north, Roy and Terri Carter

Molly Lahr

December 7, 2005

Rob

You have no idea how you have impacted my life in so many levels. As my best friend you dealt with my impatience and humor with grace. I have so many memories of us being naughty, mischievous, and happy that will last a life time. You left me too soon. I look at your pictures and see your booming smile, I know you are watching and loving me every second. Michelle and Andy should be so proud to have the most caring, nerdy, and loving brother that could be offered. You will be missed by many, but eternally loved by more.



I love you more than you know,

the kind that lasts forever.



Your best friend and partner in crime



Molly

briana larson

December 6, 2005

all of my love to you, robby.

all of my love to you, stupka's.

all

the

love

of yours

and ours

goes to robbyguy.

he is our warmth for winters to come.



always,

bri

Gloria McCarty

December 6, 2005

Bob Stupka & Family,



So sorry to hear of the loss of your son. My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this difficult time.



Gloria McCarty

Philip Swintek

December 6, 2005

Rob,

You are the best friend any of us could have asked for. I'm so glad I got to spend so much time wih you over Thanksgiving. I will always cherish the memories I have with you, from the Funky Monkey to our late night talks about biology. Thanks for all the smiles, advice, and friendship. We are all so proud of you and miss you so much. Love you forever buddy.

Irene Rygh

December 6, 2005

Dear Stupka Family:

I was deeply saddened to hear of your loss. Your family and Rob are in my thoughts and prayers. I wish I could have met him. He left an obviously wonderful impression on my niece Brianna Baldwin.

"Until you meet again, May God hold Rob in the palm of his hand"

God Bless

Molly Fischer

December 6, 2005

Dear Diane & Family,

Words can't begin to express my sadness for your loss. My heart is broken for you. I've been thinking about you constantly and am praying that you can find comfort & healing in the love and support of your dear friends, your family and your faith. We are here for you. I'm looking forward to my chance to give you a big hug, Diane...my thoughts and prayers are with you. Love, Mol

Janelle Kuhn

December 5, 2005

Dear Stubby, Diane, & family,



I was so sad to hear of Rob's death. I know I missed out by never getting a chance to meet him as an adult but my days as a box girl were way before his! My heart and prayers are with you during this time.



Janelle Kuhn

Paul Mazanec

December 5, 2005

Rob,

i am so glad i got to see you over thanksgiving.i learned so much from our trip to the science museum over the weekend.i was always so excited to see you during breaks from school cuz i always new you would have some adventure planned out for us.i am sad i didnt get to learn more from you.you are the greatest and i love you.

maz

Dave Sampair

December 5, 2005

Rob-



You were a great guy! Always so genuine and outgoing. Your humor and smile will never be forgotten, as will everything you stood for. I will always remember you and I finishing that Physics project senior year of high school at 12:30 am! Great memories. We'll all miss you so much.

Tracy Schultz

December 5, 2005

Stupka Family,

I have just heard of your loss and my heart goes out to you. I met Robbie my freshman year in college when he was working at Davanni's as a boxer in the kitchen. He made every shift more enjoyable for me and he helped to make my years in Minnesota wonderful. He's a remarkable person. Kindhearted, caring and always smiling. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Robbie will be missed.

Jimmy Stodolka

December 5, 2005

To the Stupka family, my prayers are with you. If you need anything please feel free to call our family, along with anyone else. We all feel bad for you and will help you in anyway. My prayers will continue to be with you.

Jimmy Stodolka

December 5, 2005

To the Stupka family, my prayers and thoughts are with you. If you need anything each and everyone of us is here for you. you will continue to be in my prayers and the prayers of my family.

Peter Felion

December 5, 2005

Dear Stupka Family,

All of you are in my thoughts and prayers. Rob was an amazing kid and I feel privilaged to have been able to get to know him when I was growing up. This upcoming time will be hard but with everyones love and support we will make it. Andy your a great kid and Rob is smiling down on you watching you become a great man just like he was.

Christine Wilson

December 5, 2005

Dear Stupka Family,

I’m so sorry about the loss of Robby. I got to know Robby growing up with friends from Nativity and CDH. He was by far one of the nicest people I have ever known. He was always so much fun to be around. I will never forget his smile and kindness. This past weekend has taught me so much and I am proud to have been a friend of Robby’s. You are all in my prayers.



Sincerely,

Christine Wilson

Kailyn McQuillan

December 5, 2005

I want you to know how sorry I am for everything you are going through. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers as you go through this difficult time.

Lucy Ward

December 5, 2005

Dear Stupka family,

I was extremely saddened to hear of the death of your Son & brother...May the joy of his memories lighten your hearts & live on forever in all of us who have been touched in some way by Rob's short life, Sincerely, Dr. Lucy Ward (Aunt of Rob's college housemate, John Baldwin)

Jay, Karen, Katie and Annie Hughes

December 5, 2005

Dear Stupka Family,



you have our heartfelt sympathies on the loss of your beloved Rob. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.

Laurence Nace

December 5, 2005

As a father, I greive for you and your family. My daughter was struck by a bus while running last year and survived. Why she did survive and you didn't I nor anyone can explain. I pray for you and your family even more fervently than I have for her.

Anne White

December 4, 2005

Diane and family,

I arrived back from out of town with students to find out about Rob. My heart sank and I have a pit in my stomach to think what you and your family must be going through at this time. I never met Rob,but talking with you about him after our tennis matches,I could imagine what a terrific son and human being he must have been. My thoughts are with you and your family at this difficult time in your lives.

Casey Farrell

December 4, 2005

Rob ~

You were the greatest teacher/friend I ever had! I always looked up to you and followed your lead, except for the one time down by the river when I fell down the cliff and gashed my shin, I was trying to lead the expedition but failed, and you helped me get back up. The world needed a leader like you. Many of your friends are lost right now, but we will never forget how you led us joyfully and positively. You left us too quickly, and because of this you will be remembered forever. I love you Rob, and miss you so much. I can only hope your dreaming right now, flying over mountains and breathing underwater with the carp.



Your Friend and Follower ~ Casey

Daniel Hanks

December 4, 2005

Dear Bob & Family, I've had the pleasure of knowing you for less than a year, but to know you, I feel I know your family as well. Our conversations focus on numerous subjects, but the joy that your family brings you is very obvious. My sincerest condolences to you and your family.

Liz White

December 4, 2005

I am so sorry for what has happened to your family. No words can describe the pain and sorrow that you must be going through, but please know that so many people pray and will be here and there for you throughout this time. From what I heard, there is no doubt that Rob was truly an amazing friend, brother and person. Not only did he blessed so many people with his sincerity and kindness, but he will also be here always in spirit.



We all take different paths in life, but no matter where we go, we take a little of each other everywhere. – Tim McGraw

Jack Stupka

December 4, 2005

Dear Robby,

I miss you so much. I did not want you to die. You played catch with me and were so nice to me.

Love,

Jack

"Will this go up to heaven?"

Megan Berg

December 4, 2005

Dear Stupka family,

I am a friend of Andy's and although I have never met Rob, knowing Andy I am sure that he was just as great and fun of a person. My prayers are constantly with you. God Bless

Brian Kilburg

December 4, 2005

Stupka Family,



I'am ver sorry about your loss. I remember Robbie alway having a great attitude towards life and always having a smile on his face. My prayers are with you guys.

Brian Kilburg

December 4, 2005

Stupka Family,



I'am very sorry to hear about your loss. I remember him as always having a great attitude towards life as well as always having a smile on his face. He will be greatly missed. My prayers will be with you guys.

The Langton-Yanowitz family

December 4, 2005

Dear Rob's family and friends,

We are so sorry for your loss. We are close friends of the Kruesel family, whose daughter, Claire, was Rob's soulmate. We understand that Rob was a special treasure who radiated a joy of life. We believe that his energy will be carried forward by all those people he inspired. The curious "inspector" with a verve for science will live on. With our sincere sympathy,

Sarah Lauer

December 4, 2005

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Stupka, Michelle, and Andy,



It was a pleasure to attend Robby's wake and funeral this weekend. The outpouring of love by those touched by his short life was overwhelming to experience. I had the pleasure of attending Nativity and Cretin-Derham with Robby, and he was a person who when you met him, you knew right away that your life was changed by his presence. He will truly be missed by all. You will always remain in my thoughts and prayers.



May the peace and grace of God be with you Rob, and also your family and friends.



Sarah Lauer

Tina & Dave Alunni

December 4, 2005

Dear Diane, Bob and Family,

We are so very sorry for the loss of Robbie. Although we did not get a chance to know him, he must have been a very special young man from how his life impacted on Teddy & Cindy. We cannot imagine the sorrow you are now feeling. Please know that others do care for you & your family & that we will be keeping you in our prayers & thoughts. With love & prayers,

Laurie Ayre (Luedtke)

December 4, 2005

Diane and Family,

I just found out about your loss of your son, I am truly sorry. I can't imagine what you are all going through. Please know that you are all in my prayers. God Bless...

Katherine Cairns

December 4, 2005

You could tell they have a new scientist up in heaven! Last night, the day of Rob's funeral and burial, there was the most awesome display of nightime "ice pillars" over the twin cities sky. It was also reported last night on the 10pm news as a rare, but naturally occurring event. My prayers are with his family and friends during this difficult year.I think Rob has found more experiments to conduct and things to add to his cargo pants as he watches over us and smiles.

Chris Beckman

December 4, 2005

Dear Stupka Family,

Rob was a good friend of mine, and it's still pretty hard to accept that he is gone. I lived across the hall from him in the dorms last year. It was my first semester at ISU, and as such I didn't know many people or have much of an understanding of what I was in for. Rob became my first friend at college, and seeing him in the hallways, at lunch and dinner and so forth always helped make the hard work of college a little easier. I can't ever remember seeing Rob anything but cheerful and smiling, always wanting to listen to how things were going for you, and never complaining if things were hard for him. He also loved knowledge and culture in a way that you rarely see. His idea of recreation usually involved learning something or experiencing something new, but amazingly, when you were with him, even going to some lecture on a new scientific theory was an exciting and fun experience. Rob was of one of the most sincere and wonderful human beings I have met, and he will be missed. He brought a lot of good into this world, and I know he at least made a lot of difference in my life.

Laura Colaizy

December 4, 2005

Rob,



It is amazing the number of lives you touched during the short time you lived. And because of your humble personality, you never knew.



I appreciate the times we had together. I enjoyed our road trips down to Iowa when we would head back to school. I'll never forget the time we stopped at that Mexican restaurant in Des Moines and those men working there tried to come to our table and seranade us with music and we had to say, "Um, we're cousins!"



The day we left the hospital after your death your mom said, "All I ask is that you remember Rob." You will be impossible to forget.



You have inspired me to live the way you did, and for that I will always be grateful.



They say you can't measure life by the number of breaths you take, but by the number of moments that take your breath away.



See you some day...



L.C.

John Stephens

December 4, 2005

Bob and Diane,

I'm sorry that I did not have an opportunity to speak with you yesterday. I want you both to know how sorry we all are for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

I've never seen a more powerful celebration of a life than when you spoke yesterday. It is no mystery where Rob learned the grace, humility, and poise with which we led his life.

Stephen Troskey

December 4, 2005

Stupkas,



Rob stood out at Nativity all the way through ISU. He was caring, generous, and the one person that always had a smile on his face and a free hand to help.



He will always be remembered.

Steve & Lori Korte

December 4, 2005

Dear Bob, Diane, Michelle & Andy,

Words can never express the heartbroken sorrow we feel for you at this time of loss. We are sorry we didn't see you at the wake, we had prior obligations and each time we tried to get in we were forced to leave due to time restraints. Please know that our thoughts and prayers have been with you. May all of Rob's wonderful memories carry you through this trying time. The funeral was overwhelming, such a beautiful tribute to Rob.

God Bless You All!

Steve, Lori, Angie & Jay Korte

The Wozniak Family

December 4, 2005

Dear Stupka Family,

We are so sorry to hear about your loss. From the few times we met Robbie he was a wonderful man. We are praying for you through these hard times. You have a great family, Nick always enjoys spending time with Andy and will help him get through these hard times. We will always remeber Robbie in our hearts and prayers.

Love, George, Mary Ann, Jojo, Tim, Nick, And Lauren Wozniak

Caitlin Walters

December 4, 2005

I'm terribly sorry. Sometimes bad things happen to good people. I have so many good memories, and he truly will live forever.

Margaret Johnson

December 3, 2005

Stupka's-

I am so deeply sorry for the loss that you have experienced. I was at the wake last night because i attned CDH with Andy, and seeing him like that broke my heart. Every night I say a special prayer for your family. Please don't lose hope or faith.

Margaret Johnson

Mary Beth, John, Jack and Michael Stupka

December 3, 2005

We struggle to comprehend this loss, but Robby will never be forgotten. We loved him deeply. Words cannot express what a gentleman he was...and what a great example for our children to follow. We thank everyone for the outpouring of love and support.

Teddy Michel

December 3, 2005

Hi Rob,



Well, we're back at the Michel house after a truly remarkable day. You should have seen the courage and love pouring from your brother and sister these past couple of days. Additionally, your mom and dad shared to a capacity crowd how much they loved and still love you. We are all so grateful for your life.



Actually, after your mom testified to the gift of your life, your dad spent ten minutes thanking everyone from the Nativity parish community to the CDH and Iowa State students, staff and families.



And do your friends ever love you!



Thank you Rob for your gift of life and know I will love you always!



Cousin Teddy

John Erchul

December 3, 2005

Bob:

My heart and prayers go out to you and your family. I was shocked and saddened to hear about the loss of your son. My deepest sympathies are with you and your family. God Bless you, John Erchul

Maria (Michalski) Anderson

December 3, 2005

Dear Stupka Family,

I was not able to stay at the wake last night and give each of you the hug that I wanted to, and I know this is such an overwhelming time for you. My hope for you is that one day you will have the time to quietly look back on all the cards, letters and emails and KNOW what a difference your son's life made in this world. Your family means so much to this community, and you should be so very proud of the young man you guided and shaped to become the leader that he was. Please know we are all praying for you, and most importantly, we will not forget.

Megan McNamara

December 3, 2005

To the Stupka family,

I am so sorry for your loss, Rob was an amazing person. Your family and friends as well as Rob are in my prayers.

Anna Hennessy

December 3, 2005

Dear Stupka Family,

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Robby was an amazing person. He will be greatly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

With Sympathy,

Anna

Bill and Norma Speer

December 3, 2005

Stupka family,



You do not know us. We know of you from our daughter Amy Hennessey and her family in St. Paul, MN. Their description of Rob and your family is an inspiration for all of us. We share your deep pain from a distance.

Tom Clements

December 3, 2005

Dear Stupka Family,



As I type this you are having the mass for your son Rob. I am praying for you now. I will pray often for Rob and your family.



Deepest sympathies from Julie and me.



God Bless,



Tom and Julie Clements

Karen Sekevitch

December 3, 2005

Stubby, Diane, Michelle and Andy,

Our hearts go out to you during this tragic and difficult time.

You are in our daily thoughts and prayers. Jenny went to school with Robby and sends her deepest condolences as she was unable to make it back from Austrailia. She shared many beautiful memories of Robby with me and what a wonderful young man he was. We are deeply saddened by your great loss and we will continue to keep your family in our daily prayers. Karen, Jenny, John and Maria Sekevitch

Dorothy and Alan Johns

December 3, 2005

Our deepest sympathies to your family on the devastating loss of your gifted and intelligent son, Rob. We share your grief, as our 19-year-old daughter Betsy, a sophomore at the University of Minnesota, died of leukemia in June 2004. She was a gifted musician and was planning on medical school so she could work with pediatric oncology patients. We are struggling to understand why Rob and Betsy, two such talented, bright young adults, are not here to share their gifts with the world. Your family is in our prayers at this difficult time--we understand and share your grief.

John Baldwin

December 3, 2005

To the Stupka family,

Words fail me in this moment of absolute despair, Rob was truly one of a kind and living with him was an absolute pleasure as well as getting to know Mom and Dad Stupka. I assure you that Rob's memory will live on in my heart. My thought's and prayers are with your family and Rob wherever he may be.

Sincerely,

MARIE GIBBEMEYER

December 2, 2005

To the Stupka family and relatives,



Our deepest sympathy is extended to at this time of great loss. May God's love guide you through the days ahead.



Our thoughts and prayers are with you.



Dan, Marie, Lauren, Danielle and Hannah Gibbemeyer

Teddy Michel

December 2, 2005

Robbie,



It's sad to know the family is all upstairs and you're in a different "upstairs." We're back at the Michel house where we all celebrated Thanksgiving together just last week. The loving friends and family that came to see you tonight at O'Halloran & Murphy was truly amazing.



And so we talk about how very much we miss you. And so we talk about how very much we love you.



We'll see you tomorrow morning.



Cousin Teddy

jen kinneberg

December 2, 2005

my heart is broken for you all, I am praying for you and all of your family. I am so sorry for your loss.

jen kinneberg

Matthew Colaizy

December 2, 2005

It is too difficult to find individuals who want to hear about what you learned in biology or chemistry class. Now there is one less.



I wish I had not learned today how much I loved you and how much I will miss you. You were my cousin. You were my friend.

Beth & Chris Nelson

December 2, 2005

Stubby, Diane, Michelle and Andy,

We cannot even begin to understand the grief you are going through right now. I met Rob one time in his short life and I remember a hearty hand shake and a bright smile. I know that Rob is smiling that bright smile from the heavens above and may all the memories you have be enough to get you all through these up coming days, months and years. Our thoughts and prayers are with each of you.

God Bless

Doug ,Judy,John,and Charlie Lehnen

December 2, 2005

I wish we could have spent more time with both of you at the wake. You have our sympathy and support.

Colleen & Caroline Maher

December 2, 2005

Bob & Diane,

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Rob was such a wonderful person and so lucky to have you both as such wonderful parents.

Hal and Anne (Troskey) Balfour

December 2, 2005

Bob, Diane, Michelle, and Andy



Our thoughts and prayers are with your family in your time of loss. I will never forget Robby from watching him play baseball to hearing about all his accomplishments through you while a student at Iowa State. May you find comfort in each other as you all deal with this tragic loss.

Anne and Hal Balfour

Arne and Laurie King

December 2, 2005

To the Stupka family,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this terribly difficult time.

Regina Gillson

December 2, 2005

To the entrie Stupka family,

I am so sorry for your loss. My mother worked at Cretin Derham Hall, and I graduated with Rob. He was a wonderful person. Our prayers are with you and your family.

Cy/Virginia Potts

December 2, 2005

To The Stupka Family,

We did not have the pleasure of knowing your son Robby, but our daughter, Susie Hannon told us about him. Please accept our condolences, and know that God is with you every step of the way during this time.

Stuart Walden

December 2, 2005

I am so sorry for your whole family. My heart is torn.

Amy Stodolka

December 2, 2005

BOB,DIANE,MICHELLE,ANDY,AUNTS, UNCLES,COUSINS, AND CLAIRE.

I am so sorry for your loss. Robbie was an amazing guy. I am so proud to have known him for the past um-teen years. Nativity and CDH wouldn't have been the same without him. I have so many memories, and not one of them is bad. I can't imagine your pain or even think of words that come close to comfort. You are an amazing family and I know that you will help eachother, and pull through this difficult time. You know you have a strong community and thousands of friends to count on. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. MUCH LOVE!!!

Tim & Noreen Link

December 2, 2005

We are so sorry to hear about your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

With deepest sympathy

Hilary Caldis

December 2, 2005

Stupka Family,

I was in utter shock to hear about your loss and cannot even begin to explain my sympathy. I guess words really can never do justice when something as tragic as this happens. But I just wanted to let you guys know that you are in my prayers. "When this tent we live in--our body here on earth--is torn down, God will have a house in heaven for us to live in, a home he himself has made, which will last forever." God Bless You

Greg and Brenda Deutsch

December 2, 2005

Bob and family:



We were so sorry to hear about Rob. My son Joe went to school with him at Cretin and your daughter and mine also went to school together at Cretin and are friends. We have had Rob and your family in our prayers and will continue to. May God bless Rob and keep him by his side until we all meet again in heaven. May God Bless and keep you and your family as you move forward in your life. Please accept our deepest sympathies.

Charlotte Peck

December 2, 2005

Bob & family:

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.

Charlotte Peck

Anthony Valentino

December 2, 2005

There's going to be some stuff you're going to see...and things your going to hear...



But nothing is as clear as WE LOVE YOU LITTLE BROTHER. Our hearts to your loved ones' hearts.



God Bless...The Valentinos...

Dave Wivinus

December 2, 2005

We're very sorry for your family's loss of Rob and will pray that all the lives he touched here on earth are blessed in knowing him. Dave and Lisa Wivinus

Karen Ritz

December 2, 2005

Dear Diane & Stubby,



In the great Nativity circle of life, I am honored that my Daniel began his life in Robby's baby hand-me-downs. I pray he grows up to be as wonderful as your treasured son. My prayers are with you.

Love, Karen

michael dolphin

December 2, 2005

hey all,



i would like to express to you all my deep sorrow for your loss. i miss rob terribly and wish that this tragedy had not taken place. i know the little words that i offer cannot do much, except to add to the condolences for the loss of such a great man. my thoughts and prayers are with you.

sheila caldis

December 2, 2005

Dear Bob, Diane, Michelle and Andy: we have a High Priest who has touched our pain and knows are weakness. May Christ enter into and sustain you through this terrible pain. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Todd, Sheila, Matthew, Hilary, Peter and Maddie Caldis

Terry Wolkerstorfer

December 2, 2005

Dear Diane and Bob,

Susan was reading the news story about Rob to me at the breakfast table when she burst into tears and said, "I can't read any more." Many friends have noted that no one can possibly understand what you're feeling at the moment--and that's certainly true. But all of us who are parents know how we'd feel if we lost a child, and we share in your grief. Please know that you have our hearfelt sympathy. You and Rob will be in our thoughts and prayers.

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