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Ron Gehler
December 24, 2010
Dear Sandy, Carol & I talked about you and Van a couple of weeks ago as we were reading Christmas letters from our friends & relatives. We had such great memories of both of you. We did an internet search and found this site with Van's Obit. We are so sorry to read of his passing. Van & I both shared a passion for good food and fine wine as well as computers. What a life he had for his family to celebrate.
Sandy, if you ever feel like getting in touch with us, our address is PO Box 2091, Mikana, WI 54857. We retired to our lake cottage(after remodeling) in 2001. I teach computers to our Sr. Adults part-time for the Tech College in Rice Lake, WI. Carol & I keep very busy with our many activities. We wish you the best and hope we hear from you.
Ron & Carol Gehler
Catherine Hennessey
February 12, 2010
Sandy, you're in my prayers. I'm sorry I missed seeing this sad news last month. With much love, Catherine.
Kay King
February 9, 2010
Sandy, You are in my thoughts. What a great team you and Van made. When you told your story, Van shared the spotlight with you. We miss you and hope you will speak this fall. If I can be of help, please let me know. Kay King
January 29, 2010
Dear Sandy,
What wonderful memories you have of your love story.
Not only did Van treat you well, he welcomed your friends with a wonderful smile and a kind and gracious warmth, that always made me feel so special to be a part of your lives.
I know you will miss him but you will always feel him with you. He is in your heart.
God bless you and may you know peace as you have known love.
Love,
Ina
Rich Newman
January 27, 2010
Sandy,
Van was my Branch Manager at Microdata some 30 years ago. He was always a gentleman with grace and integrity. Everyone who knew Van has wonderful memories of him - and the stories! You two were perfect together. I am honored to have know you both.
Rich Newman
Virginia Schneider
January 27, 2010
Sandy,
I am so very sorry to hear about Van. You are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. As time passes my happy memories help to ease your sorrow and bring comfort to you. With deepest sympathy.
Donita Haack
January 25, 2010
Sandy, I'm so very sorry for your loss. I know how wonderful the two of your were together. Please accept my deepest reqret on Van's passing. May God be with you. Donita H
Brenda Davies
January 25, 2010
Sandy,
I am so sorry to hear of Van's passing. He was indeed a kind and gentle person and he will be greatly missed.
Brenda Davies
Michael Byrne
January 23, 2010
Sandy, A light has gone out. The best advice I ever heard was "Grieve, with hope'" A bunch of us are meeting Monday night to have a drink and a roast.
Mike and Cindy Spellman
January 23, 2010
Sandy, we will all miss him but none so much as you. You two were my first friends after I moved to MN, and you introduced me to many things in the area--the State Fair, politics, gardening, fine dining at home, Summit Avenue, "outstate." Mike and I always enjoyed our time together. Our love always,
Vicki Bunker
January 23, 2010
I was sorry to hear that Van had passed away. He was certainly a legend and I shall always cherish his kindness and support towards me. Sandy, the relationship you and Van shared is one that is to be admired by all. He will be missed by many.
Sarah Fuller
January 23, 2010
My Dearest Sandy,
I am saddened by the passing of such a wonderful man, but happy in the knowlege that I was able to share in the last few months of his life on earth.
I looked forward to seeing Van's smiling face each week, and was inspired by his winning ways and contagious enthusiasm for life.
His love and adoration for you was so wholly evident; you two truly shared something rare and special.
I pray that God will comfort you in your loneliness, and bring you cheer in the days to come.
In deepest sympathy,
Gene Jensen
January 22, 2010
Dear Sister Sandy, Although we knew Van more through you than in person, we did have the pleasure of his company on a few occasions. I never knew a man who was more loved by his wife. The terms you used to describe him were quite rare. You were both so lucky to have the time you had, but it's never enough. Kelly's and my thoughts are with you. We love you, Gene and Kelly
Susan Fisher
January 22, 2010
Sandy, I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. May you find support from family and friends, and may your wonderful memories bring you comfort throughout the days ahead.
Take care.
Cheryl Manke
January 22, 2010
Sandy, I enjoyed talking to you about Van and your travels. I could tell the great love you shared. With sadness, I send my deepest sympathy.
Gopal Khanna
January 22, 2010
Sandy,
I'm so very sorry to hear of your loss. All of us at OET are saddened and extend our prayers and support to you.
May God Almighty give you courage in your time of sorrow and fill your heart with sweet memories of Van.
My heartfelt condolences to you and your family.
Sue Peltier
January 22, 2010
Sandy,
I'm so sorry to hear of the loss of Van your sole mate and friend. Please know that your friends have you in their prayers during this difficult time.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Sue Peltier
January 22, 2010
Sandy,
To know you at all, is to know of your love for Van.
I'm here to listen when you need to talk
If it's ok, I'll check in with you over the next couple weeks.
Ted@work.
Rex Andre
January 22, 2010
Sandy, may you be granted the support of family and friends and strength through this very difficult time of your loss. I found the obit on Van, wonderful...tho I never had the pleasure of meeting Van, I now wish I had, given the obit in the Pioneer Press. He must have been quite a guy.
My prayers go with you in your time of need.
Milo and Ileta Moen
January 22, 2010
We would like to share our condolences
at Van's death. We did not know him well but his sister, Beverly, is a dear
friend and we also were close friends with his parents before their deaths. We met Van on his visits to Orlando and
always enjoyed seeing him. Our sympathy and prayers are with your family. Milo and Ileta Moen
John Gibson
January 22, 2010
Dear Sandy,
You are in our thoughts and prayers. The heavens are a little brighter and the world is a little sadder.
John and Carol
Sandee Scheller
January 22, 2010
Sandy, my heartfelt condolences. I am so sorry you lost your wonderful partner. You are in my thoughts. There really are no words that could comfort you at this time. Hold onto all of the wonderful memories you shared in your life with Van. Take care Sandy...
Sandee Scheller
January 22, 2010
Sandy, you so often spoke of your soul mate, that I feel like I knew him too! He was a priceless gift in your life. My God comfort you.
Patty/OET
Linda Anderson
January 22, 2010
Sandy, my sincere condolences in the loss of your partner, your friend and your love. Although it has been over 20 years that I worked with him, every time I would see his little car with VBT license plate it would make me smile to remember the support and encouragement he gave me those many years ago.
January 22, 2010
Van had a sister that loved him very much. Beverly Thompson Foland.
Kathy McCarthy
January 22, 2010
Sandy, my deeepest sympathies for your loss. He sounds like quite a guy.
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