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Charles Frederick "Bud" Thompson of Warner, historian, lecturer, teacher, singer, historical preservationist and founder of several museums in New Hampshire, passed away peacefully on Thursday, August 12, 2021 at ninety-nine years of age.

Bud was born in Newport, Rhode Island, on April 12, 1922, the son of Alexander Whitehill Thompson, Jr. and Margaretta (Schleith) Thompson. At age sixteen Bud had his own weekly radio show as "The Singing Cowboy" on station WMEX in the Boston area. He later studied opera singing under the tutelage of Alexander Kipnis, the lead basso of the Metropolitan Opera in New York City. After his marriage to Harriett Waller, an organist, pianist, and music teacher, he sang in operas for one season on Cape Cod and then later became a folksinger, traveling the country to perform traditional music of America and the British Isles as well as operatic arias. His desire to publish a book of previously undiscovered folk music drew him into studying the music of 18th- and 19th-century American communal societies. His research led him to become a close friend of the Shakers in Canterbury, New Hampshire, and eventually he moved to the village with his family to live with and work. He originated the concept of the historical restoration at Canterbury Shaker Village; founded the museum there with the assistance of Sisters Bertha Lindsay, Lillian Phelps, and Marguerite Frost; assembled the original collection around which the institution coalesced; and became the museum's curator. Today Canterbury Shaker Village is a historic visited by thousands.

Bud delivered slide lectures on the Shakers and Native Americans for over thirty years to hundreds of schools and organizations throughout New England and taught courses at or lectured for a number of institutions of higher learning in the state.

In the late 1960's, President Franklin Pierce's home in Concord, New Hampshire, was threatened by Urban Renewal's wrecking ball. Bud's friend Carl Bell, the editor of the Concord Shoppers' News, founded the Pierce Brigade, an organization dedicated to saving the home and turning it into a house museum. Bud served terms as vice-president and then president of the Pierce Brigade and was involved with the successful preservation effort.

Bud married Nancy (Erickson) Lamb, an elementary school teacher and church soloist, in 1972. Immediately upon their retirement in 1990, Bud and Nancy purchased property in Warner, NH, upon which to establish the Mount Kearsarge Indian Museum. The museum is today visited annually by thousands of adults and children and, through its tours programs, and special events, is dedicated to increasing public knowledge of Native American philosophy, art, and traditions, and to building awareness of the natural environment.

Bud is survived by his wife, Nancy Thompson; his former wife Harriett Coupal; son Darryl Thompson; son Dayne Thompson and his partner Betsy Thew; stepson David Lamb and his wife Janet (Murphy) Lamb; stepson Steven Lamb and his wife Stefanie (Getchell) Lamb; grandson Avery Thompson; grandson Warren Thompson; grandson Alex Thompson, Alex's son (Bud's great-grandson) Brandon Thompson, and Brandon's mother Maureen Biondo; step-grandson Michael Perella; step-granddaughter Amy Lamb; step-granddaughter Christine (Board) Parent and her husband Jason Parent and family; step-grandson Christopher Lamb; step-granddaughter Elizabeth (Lamb) Morris and her husband Bryan Morris and family; and numerous nieces and nephews.

A public memorial service for Bud will be held at Mount Kearsarge Indian Museum property on Saturday, September 25, 2021 at 2:00 p.m. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that remembrances in Bud's honor be given to Mount Kearsarge Indian Museum (www.indianmuseum.org).

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Published by Union Leader on Aug. 29, 2021.

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Elizabeth Lamy-Harris

September 25, 2021

I met Bud at the First Congregational Church of Hopkinton at a social hour some 20+ years ago. He offered his warm smile, interest in my life and children, Jessica and Adam, then 5 and 11, and with his twinkling blue eyes, his friendship. For a long time, we spoke almost every social hour, even for a quick hello. As time went on he shared his pride in his wife, a former elementary school teacher, his family, and the work of his life. I learned early on, of Bud's enormous reverence for the First Peoples that stewarded the land that we stand upon. I felt ever so fortunate to hear his stories and explanations of the Indigenous People and their ancestors that he had come to know, love and hold in high esteem. Never once did he proclaim that he had solely formed the museums, etc, except maybe the Indian Museum. Even then, he cited the help and support of others, especially his wife, for "putting "up with him and his pursuits. He spoke highly of folks who valued and supported the preservation of the culture. I heard of the kindness, wit, ingenuity and fortitude of the Shakers he had lived with and grown to love and respect, and his quest to save their cultural history, buildings and all. He shared his appreciation of all the many people in his preservation adventures, special people who rallied to save the history and cultural significance of The Shakers and the Indigenous People. After reading his obituary, he learned so much more about Bud. He was certainly a multifaceted person!

I feel such gratefulness to have known Bud as a friend. I will always remember him with great respect and warmness.


Much love to his family and friends,

And Bud, let your spirit soar!

Elizabeth Lamy-Harris

(formerly Betty Marston)

September 23, 2021

As a member of the Museum Community and a Volunteer; both my Husband and I would like to express our sincere sympathy at Bud's passing. He will be very missed and remembered long into the future. Sincerely, Russ and Elly Shetenhelm

jean saben

September 14, 2021

so very sorry to hear of your loss/my family and I send our deepest sympathy to you

David Emerson Stotler

September 3, 2021

Dear Bud. I will always remember you with Dad and the Coffee Club at McDonald's. I wish I had known you better. Thank you for all you did in your life. David

Bob Molloy

August 31, 2021

One of my first clients when I started my business in 1976 was Canterbury Shaker Village where I met Bud and Nancy. A great couple to know. After leaving the village I ran into Bud a few times but always would check on their status through Darryl. Am sorry to learn of Bud´s passing and offer my condolences.
Bob Molloy, Molloy Sound and Video, Manchester, NH

Carolyn Muise

August 27, 2021

Thank-you Bud for creating such a wonderful space for all to gather, enjoy & learn. Your life's work will be a blessing to future generations to hopefully follow in your footsteps. Condolences to the family & may Bud rest in peace while still overseeing those he cherished. Osiyo

Lenny Novak

August 25, 2021

Bud was and still is, a shining light that will shine on through his Museum. We were honored to be counted among his friends. He was an amazing man, and we will miss him greatly.

Richard Williams

August 25, 2021

Bud may the great spirits guide you along on your next journey in your new life my friend. I will miss you. Say hi to my mom and dad .thank you for all you have done for silver star.....cloud walker

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Anna Glavas

August 24, 2021

I would like to express my sympathy to Bud's family. I was lucky to have many opportunities to talk to him over the last eight years of being at the museum he founded. His dedication and passion was inspiring to many and he was always kind and friendly. May his memory be eternal. Thank you, Bud, for your emphasis on education in New Hampshire and beyond.

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