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David Barnes Obituary
Dave was born in New Britain, CT on May 12, 1939. After graduating from high school, he served in the Army for two years. He returned home to attend college and begin his career. In 1962, a friend introduced him to Sue, the love of his life. Together, they lived in New Britain, Harwington, Kensington, and Barkhamsted, CT; Pulaski, TN; and Swanzey, NH. Dave spent his entire career in mechanical engineering, finishing at Timken in Keene and Split Ball Bearing in Lebanon. He still holds out hope that one of his grandchildren will follow him into this career, which he found endlessly interesting.
In 1995, they moved to Webster, NH, where they found a welcoming community and wonderful neighbors. Soon after, Dave was fortunate to be able to retire. This gave him the opportunity to pursue a multitude of passions: traveling with his wife; helping neighbors; volunteering with Servcorps; spending time with his grandchildren; building wooden boats and sports cars; and working with his antique tractors.
David is survived by his wife, Susan, of Webster; his children, Heather Jasmin and her husband Michael of Alstead, NH; and Christopher Barnes, and his wife Brenda of Little River, SC; and five grandchildren: Robert Franklin, Aiden and Keanan Jasmin, and Tucker and Aniah Barnes. He also leaves his brother, Craig Barnes, of Coventry, CT; his sister-in-law and brother-in-law, Jack and Cindy Kadzik of Orleans, MA and their children; a number of cousins; and many loyal friends who enriched his life. This dedicated and loving support system, with the help of the wonderful team at Concord VNA, allowed him to remain at home during his brave struggle with COPD and lung cancer. Dave is predeceased by his parents, Kenneth and Patricia Barnes.
Those of us fortunate to have known Dave will remember his love for his wife, his dedication to his grandchildren, his strong sense of ethics, his keen intellect, craftsmanship, and his great sense of humor.
SERVICES: A celebration of Dave's life will be held at the First Congregational Church, 1011 Long Street, Webster, NH on Saturday, April 30 at 1 p.m. The Reverend David Robinson will officiate. A reception will follow at the Webster Town Hall. The family asks that donations be sent to the First Congregational Church of Webster.
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Memories and Condolences
for David Barnes
April 17, 2019
It sure doesn't seem possible that time goes by so fast as the death of David and then Susan.
I grew up as a little girl having many visits and outings with David and his parents in Connecticut. Matter of fact I have a picture that my brother David Williams sent me sometime ago with all of us on a picnic!
God Bless you all...
Betsy (Williams)and Richard Bighinatti
Dawn Marie Godin
April 17, 2019
Just last week Lydia White and I were talking about a time Dave and Sue joined us on a trip to NYC. Once we arrived, they led us to a great bar and Dave in his typical way, opened the flood gates to a lively night. Just remembering that weekend bring a smile. I hope their family's hearts are warmed with stories of their own. Keeping you in my prayers.
P.D. Squazza (Little)
April 30, 2016
So sorry to hear of David's passing. I have soooo many memories of Dave and his MG and times at the Lake. It was the best of times and he made it more so. We had alot of laughs and his smile and humor made life all the better. It was a pleasure knowing him. My prayers are with you all....
April 29, 2016
Our condolences to the entire Barnes family. May God's love and grace be with you all.
From Kay & Ken Eaton, Leetes Island neighbors
RICHARD AND BETSY Bighinatti
April 27, 2016
Dear Sue and Family
Richard and I are so sorry for your loss. I have so many childhood memories with David, Pat, Ken and Craig growing up in Connecticut.
We had some fun times on picnics and at the lake. We then connected with you when David and Margie were married. It has been fun seeing you both in NH.
our thoughts and prayers are with you all and know the wonderful memories will last forever
May peace be with you you all
Bernice Miller
April 27, 2016
Sympathy and prayers in your time of loss.
April 26, 2016
Dear Sue
We are so sorry for your loss of Dave. He will be missed by the Little Hill community to which he contributed so much.
Love, Curry, Ray, Eric and Cheryl
April 26, 2016
My condolences to your family. May you find comfort from God's word recorded at Ecclesiastes 9:5,10 regarding the loss of your love one.
April 26, 2016
So sorry to hear about David. Glad to hear that life was good for him.. I often think of all the fun times we had at the lake those many years ago. My prayers are with you and your families.
Barbara Sullivan Benashski
Hines
April 26, 2016
May God be your strength in this time of sorrow Matthew 5:4 "Happy are those who mourn since they will b comforted."
April 26, 2016
To the Barnes Family: I have great memories of the time we spent summers at Day's Camp at Lake Pocotopaug in East Hampton, Connecticut in the 1950's and early 60's. Rememmber David building a boat - real sleek craft.
My deepest sympathy to you all.
Don Goodrich
Tarpon Springs, Fla and East Matunuck, RI
taw
April 26, 2016
Sympathy to your family at this sad time. May the love of friends and family and God's promise of support guide you through the days ahead. Isa 41:10
April 26, 2016
My heartfelt condolences to the family. May you continue to cherish the memories you have and remember that God is there for us like it tells us at 1 Peter 5:6,7. I hope you continue to feel the love and support from your family and friends.
April 26, 2016
Kind Regards
April 25, 2016
I'll always remember Dave's kindness in letting Charles drive the tractor. He was a special man and knew how to make a young boy very happy.
Love, Lee, Tom, Inga, Charles, and Jessica Caldwell
Justine Curry
April 25, 2016
Mrs. Barnes, Heather, Chris and families,
Love and prayers to you all in the tough time. Mr. Barnes always had a smile for us and he will definitely be missed on Leete's Island. The Curry Family (Justine, Greg, Amanda and Aidan)
Jennifer Williams
April 25, 2016
My Godfather is now with The God Father. Thoughts are with you all right now. Sorry I can't be there on Saturday. I'll be with you in spirit.
Margie Williams
April 25, 2016
sue, heather and Chris, m heart and thoughts go out to you all. I was always impressed with how calm he was. I know the ending was tough.
but welcome. Blessings to you all.
April 24, 2016
Sue and family:
Thinking of you in your sorrow and extend my deepest and most heartfelt sympathy.
B.J.Folger, Leete's Island, Guilford,CT
AJ LaDuke (ARC staff)
April 24, 2016
Sue, my heart is broken for you and your family. You are loved at ARC. We still miss you. And any man who could charm and keep you deserves to be celebrated. He left the world a better place than he found it. I can't truly know your grief, but I cry with you.
Nancy Wills
April 24, 2016
Sue, Chris, Heather and family, you are in my thoughts and prayers. Dave was the best kind of friend and I will miss him. Deepest sympathy, Nancy Wills
Diane Johnson
April 23, 2016
My deepest condolences and praying for comfort for your family during this time
Bruce and Mary Peatfield
April 23, 2016
We are so sorry for your loss. He will be missed.
April 23, 2016
Dear Sue, Chris, Heather & families.....We know God's love surrounds you all and most especially our friend Dave. We didn't see you all that often, but we carried you in our hearts, as we will continue to carry Dave. We grieve we cannot be with you on Saturday as Dick can't travel that far. May God hold you all "in the palm of his hand." Dick & Joan
Dawn Marie GODIN
April 23, 2016
My heart goes out to Dave's family. The loss of Dave will be felt by those whose lives he touched but none greater then Sue. The lively stories she shared at The ARC still bring a smile....Dave, her true love always front and center. My prayers are with you.
Bob Dumong
April 23, 2016
Dave was a great man. We spent many hours together at my shop in Warner building his 428 Cobra kit car. My condolences to Sue and family he will truly be missed by many. God speed my friend
Patrice Shaw
April 23, 2016
Sue, I am so sorry to here of your loss, you and your family are in my prayers
Bruce and Debbie Howell
April 23, 2016
Sue and family, We are very sorry to hear of your loss. May God hold you in his Mighty hands of comfort at this time. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Bruce and Debbie Howell
Joe Dawkins
April 23, 2016
Dave and I worked on several 'mission trips' with ServCorps. It was always a pleasant learning experience and we always had fun and good times. I enjoyed knowing and working with Dave very much.
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