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Ernest Henry Cote obituary, Merrimack, NH

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Rivet Funeral Home & Crematorium Inc. - Merrimack

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Merrimack, New Hampshire

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Graveside Service

Sep. 19, 2025

2:00 p.m.

NH Veteran’s Cemetery

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Ernest Cote Obituary

Ernest Henry Cote, 89, longtime resident of Merrimack, NH died on Thursday, September 11th, 2025 at the Community Hospice House in Merrimack after a period of declining health.

He was born in Londonderry, NH on January 29th,1936 to the late Ernest D. and Laurette (Fontaine) Cote. Raised in Londonderry, he was a graduate of Pinkerton Academy.

After high school, Ernie enlisted in the U.S. Air Force and served during the Korean Conflict. After an honorable discharge, he went to a long career with Kollsman where he retired as a supervisor.

Along with his parents, he was pre-deceased by his sister, Elaine Fortin.

He will be forever loved and remembered by his wife Pauline (McMahon) Cote; four children, Karen Cote, Linda and her husband Kevin Vesey, Brian Cote and his wife Lisa and Sandra and her husband Chuck Krueger; five grandchildren, Garrett, Taylor, Brandon, Hannah and Bryce; three siblings, Roger Cote, Irene Klink and Anne Mafera along with several nieces and nephews.

A Memorial Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at Our Lady of Mercy Church, 16 Baboosic Lake Road, Merrimack NH on Friday, September 19th, 2025 at 9:30 AM. Burial with military honors will be held at the NH Veteran's Cemetery, 110 Daniel Webster Highway, Boscawen NH on Friday, September 19th, 2025 at 2 PM.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations in Ernie's memory can be made to The Parkinson's Foundation, New England Chapter.

Kindly visit rivetfuneralhome.com to leave an online condolence for the family.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Union Leader on Sep. 16, 2025.

Memorial Events
for Ernest Cote

Sep

19

Graveside service

2:00 p.m.

NH Veteran’s Cemetery

110 Daniel Webster Highway, Boscawen, NH 03303

Funeral services provided by:

Rivet Funeral Home & Crematorium Inc. - Merrimack

425 Daniel Webster Highway P.O. Box 86, Merrimack, NH 03054

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Robert Morrison

Yesterday

My deepest sympathy to Pauline and family. My only regret is that I cannot attend services because of health issues. A great friend and fond memories of the times our families got together and knowing each other thru our school years.

Susan Lafond

Yesterday

Linda and family,

My condolences for the loss of your dad. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. God Bless!

Robert D Machain

Yesterday

Mr. Cote, Thank you for your service RDM Windham NH

Jen Vesey

September 15, 2025

Rest in perfect peace, sir. The world will miss you, but know that your legacy of love, humor and compassion will live on in all who knew you.

The Staff of George R. Rivet Funeral Home

September 16, 2025

Offering our deepest condolences during this time.

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