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Joshua Wilterdink Obituary
ANDOVER -- Joshua R. Wilterdink, 18, of Andover, formerly of Naugatuck, Conn., died Aug. 7, 2009, at New London Hospital in New London.
He was born in Naugatuck, Conn., the son of Robert and Robin (Spear) Wilterdink.
He became a black belt in karate at age 16 and also an Eagle Scout at age 16 through Troop 138 in Naugatuck. He also volunteered at the Beacon Brook Nursing Home in Naugatuck. He and his family moved to New Hampshire in 2007. He was a 2009 graduate of Merrimack Valley High School and planned to attend NHTI in the fall. His ambition was to open his own bar and grill in New Hampshire. He enjoyed motorcycles, was eco-minded and was known for his sense of humor.
In addition to his parents of Andover, family members include a sister, Becky Wilterdink of Plymouth; and his grandmother, Millicent Spear Brown of Loudon.
SERVICES: Calling hours are from 5 to 7 p.m. Tuesday at the Bennett Funeral Home, 209 North Main St., Concord. A brief service will follow at 7 p.m. at the funeral home with the Rev. Henry M. Frost officiating.
Memorial contributions may be made to the Josh Wilterdink Summer Camp Scholarship Fund, Troop 138, c/o St. Michael's Church, 210 Church St., Naugatuck, CT 06770.
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Memories and Condolences
for Joshua Wilterdink
Tarra Toms
August 3, 2020
I remember Joshua as a small child With a never ending smile. He got along with every child that was in the at home day care. Happy beautiful child!
Rebecca Hancock
August 11, 2009
Dear Rob Robin and Becky, I am so sorry for the loss of your Joshua. Even though I don't know you, I know what you are going through as I lost my daughter Amy Gilbert who also went to MV in a car accident. Please feel free to contact me any time.
Sincerely Yours, Rebecca Hancock
Lori Alterio
August 10, 2009
Rob, Robin and Becky,
You are in our thoughts and prayers. We are so sorry for your loss.
Lori, Mike Jr. and Mark Alterio
August 10, 2009
August 10,2009
To Rob,Robin and Becky,
I,m a coworker of Josh's from the Country Club and I just learned of his passing yesterday.What a terrible shock.I am so sorry for your loss. I enjoyed working with Josh and always thought that he did an excellent job.He will be missed by all of us at the Club.
Barbara Chadwick
Montalvo Family
August 10, 2009
Dear Rob, Robin and Becky,
We are deeply saddened to hear of the loss of your son Josh. He will always be remembered in our hearts as a wonderful young man. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, that you may find comfort during this difficult time. Love always, Anna, Pedro and Pedro Jr. Montalvo
August 10, 2009
Dear Robin, Rob and Becky,
Our words can not express our heartfelt feeling of sadness for all of you. We only have to close my eyes to see Josh rolling down the sidewalk, our hearts in our mouths. I don't have to tell you what as great kid he was. You all are in our prayers.
All our love, Joyce and Fran Evon
Rob, I can finally use the computer, thanks to you.
Matt J
August 10, 2009
I was a pretty good friend of josh's...
i met him his senior year.
i saw him on the bus, and i just randomly sat next to him, i came to
realize the more i hung out with him,
the more i like him.
he was a great guy. always willing to help friends, and funny as all hell.
Josh could say some stuff that just made you double over laughing.
ill always remember the travels in his car...the places we went...
he'll be missed.
August 10, 2009
i went to naugatuck highschool with him. we had math together. we hung out sometimes. and talked on the phone alot. he was always such a good friend, always trying to make me laugh. he met alot to me, as i must imagine how this is for you all. josh is amazing.
Matt Slosman
August 10, 2009
to the family- you guys don't know me but i went to MVHS with josh, he was a good kid, and i cant beleive he's actually gone...he will be missed dearly.
August 9, 2009
I sat with Josh during lunch for half of what I'm assuming was his Junior year. He was a funny guy, and had great stories about Connecticut. Robin, Rob, and Becky, I'm sorry for your loss and know that Josh's MV friends are thinking about him.
Carol Fortin
August 9, 2009
Dear Rob, Robin, Becky & Millie,
I am in such shock at this news! I just cannot wrap my brain around this catastrophe. We haven't known your family very long, and for neighbors as close as we are in proximity, I wish we knew each other better. We knew Josh more than the rest of you as he was the same age as Tyler. We are so sorry for your loss and we are here for whatever you need. We are keeping your family in our daily prayers as you go through this awful time.
Love, Carol Fortin, Don Fortin, Cara and Tyler Valley, Suzie Morall and Perry Fortin.
Kurstin (Kurt) Berghauser
August 9, 2009
Dear Rob, Robin and Becky,
Was so sad to hear about Josh. Dylan and Gabriel are sad, too. They enoyed Josh's company at your home in Naugatuck. He was an awesome young man. Our prayers to all of you at this time. Please let us know if there is anything we can do for you.
Love and miss you all.
August 9, 2009
Dear Robin,Rob and Becky, Just heard the terrible news. Our hearts are broken. Prayers of strength go out to you. Joshua will always be remembered in our prayers. Love, Tarra (Varrone)Toms and family.
kyle mcneil
August 9, 2009
he was a great kid im so very sorry for your loss may his memory live on in our hearts
August 9, 2009
Dear Robin, Rob, Becky and Millie, Our hearts and prayers are with you....Please know that if there is anything we can do, we are here for you. You are all in our thoughts. Love Colleen and Paul
trish flood
August 9, 2009
Dear Rob, Robin and Becky,
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, we hope you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends. You are in our thoughts and prayers during this rough time.
The Flood's,
Trish, Michael, Caitlin, Jimmy and Colleen
Shelton, Ct
Robert & Linda Schwartz
August 9, 2009
Dear Rob, Robin, Becky and Millie, our prayers, sympathy and love are with you always. How we will all miss Josh--our weekend visits will never be the same. It was always such a joy being greeted by Josh after our trip on the road to visit with all of you. We always knew he would have a big smile, kind words and some update on his life to share with us as we walked through the door. May the love which flowed through Josh stay in our hearts forever. Our love to all of you, during this time of tragedy. Love always, Bobby and Linda.
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