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All her life, Mary was actively involved in Christian ministry, including at St. Basil's Seminary in Methuen, Mass., and St. Pius X Parish in Manchester. Mary was the director of many ministries and educational programs including the Open Hearts, the Consolers for healing and bereavement and Youth Ministries. She loved teaching and taught at Rivier College in Nashua.
Mary was a graduate of Notre Dame College in Manchester and earned her master's degree at Fordham University and continued her doctorate studies at Boston University.
She is survived by five siblings, Mr. and Mrs. Stanley Kuzia (Elizabeth) of Manchester, Dr. and Mrs. James Tenn (Sylvia) of Manchester, Mr. and Mrs. Ernest Nedder of Tucson, Ariz., Mr. and Mrs. Charles Nedder of Darien, Conn., and Mr. and Mrs. Sarkice Nedder of Tucson, Ariz.
She was predeceased by her brother, John, in 1988.
Mary is also survived by 15 nieces and nephews, and more than two dozen great-nieces and great-nephews. She had a wide circle of friends and touched the lives of many through her prayerful ministries.
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services: Family and friends are invited to visiting hours at St. Pius X Church, 575 Candia Road, corner of Sarto Street, on Tuesday, May 21, from 5 to 8 p.m.
A Mass of Christian burial will be celebrated on Wednesday, May 22, at 10 a.m. at St. Pius X Parish in Manchester. Committal prayers and burial will follow in St. Joseph Cemetery, Bedford.
Memorial donations may be made to St. Pius X Parish, 575 Candia Road, Manchester 03109.
Lambert Funeral Home & Crematory is assisting with the arrangements.
To send a message of condolence, go to lambertfuneralhome.com.
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Memories and Condolences
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Donna Garman-macdonald
June 1, 2013
Our sorrow is surpassed by heavens joy at having one of their angels back! Even though it has been years since we spoke, you always have a special place in my heart and also in my children's lives. We love you Mary! I have never forgotten your kindness and your generous spirit, enjoy your reward good and faithful servant!
JoAnn
May 28, 2013
I will miss you my friend.
Anna Willis
May 22, 2013
How wonderfully creative, energetic, straight-shooting, bright, and loving was Mary! We worked together at St. Joseph Parish in Salem, NH, and her work here was inspired! Blessings on you in your sorrow.... We loved her!
May 21, 2013
I am sorry for your loss, she was a wonderful teacher for me, sharing her great knowledge about the bereavement ministry. She had a strong will to live and continue her work for when I worked with her , she was very ill and in and out of the hospital. I am very grateful for the time she shared with me. Helen O'Neill Heiner
Peg Donahue-Turner
May 21, 2013
Mary taught me many catechetical "tricks" over the years. We worked together in Boston and in Manchester. She was a dedicated disciple, prayerful and pastoral to many. She will be missed.
Jeanne Pinard
May 21, 2013
My prayers and sympathy to Mary's family. I enjoyed working with Mary when she was in the Salem cluster,but I am unable to be with you on Wednesday.
Karen Boucher
May 21, 2013
My deepest sympathies on your loss. I enjoyed working with Mary at NHCRE. She will be sorely missed.
May 19, 2013
Thank you Mary for being in my life at a time that few understood what me and my family where going through at the time and few still do now even after 7 years of dealing with a tragic loss. Your honesty and compassion can never be replaced...R.I.P. With love and appreciation, Chuck
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