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BORN

2005

DIED

2023

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Wilkinson-Beane-Simoneau-Paquette Funeral Home

164 Pleasant Street

Laconia, New Hampshire

Merrill Pataski-Fay Obituary

Merrill Mischa Pataski-Fay, 17, God called home his most precious angel on Sunday, January 1, 2023. Mischa was born in Laconia, NH on January 18, 2005, to Merrill P. Fay and Beth Pataski-Fay.

Mischa totally loved hockey and played for the Lakers and New England Wolves for many years at the Merrill Fay Arena, his "second home." He was so proud to be a left wing and number 18, both his beloved sister, Gwen's high school soccer number and his beloved sister, Cora's college softball number. He was a huge Boston Bruins fan having met many players over the years. He loved #63 Brad Marchand and was always right next to Dad on the couch watching games, talking hockey.

Having received his boating license at 15 years old, Mischa was known to take solo voyages on his 15 ft Boston Whaler across Lake Winnipesaukee, following in the footsteps of seven generations of his family on and around "The Smile of the Great Spirit."

Mischa's other love was Star Wars. He often quoted many lines from the movies and was a walking textbook of Star Wars trivia. Mischa also loved music, and in particular Weird Al Yankovic, having attended concerts at Meadowbrook with his beloved sisters, Cora and Carey, and his mom.

He enjoyed summer sailing at the Winnipesaukee Sailing Association, his many pets he had over the years, and anything to do with hot sauces, pizza or pasta. Mischa loved the Chrysler building in NYC, sloths, board games, and coin collecting with his dad.

Church and his wonderful church family were very important to Mischa. He was a fourth generation Christian Scientist with his ancestors having helped build the Christian Science Church on Pleasant St in Laconia. His favorite Bible passage was Psalm 23 and he said it every day with a heart that loved God.

Mischa loved, and was so loved by many friends, teachers, and coaches...everyone who had the privilege of knowing him. Many doctors, nurses, and health care workers also adored Mischa during his past two years of declining health.

Family meant everything to Mischa, and he was everything to his family. Mischa was so kind, sweet, soft spoken, polite, and very giving - always thinking of others.

He is survived by his father, Merrill P. Fay and his mother, Beth Pataski-Fay of Gilford, NH; maternal Grandmother, Suzanne Barron of St. Petersburg, Florida; maternal uncle, James Pataski of Renfrew, PA; sisters, Carey Fay Blandford of Gilford, NH, Gwendolyn Crafts (Scott Graff) of Arlington, VA, and Cora Anne Crafts (David Yagy) of Gloucester, MA; brothers, Jeffrey Fay (Pam) of Gilford, NH, and William Fay (Bethany) of Gilford, NH; nieces, Heather Blandford Baybutt (William) of Manchester, NH, Rachel Blandford (Michael Pugsley) of Brookline, MA, Lillian Fay (William Armstrong) of Gilford, NH, Alexandra Fay of Gilford, NH, and Catherine Fay of Gilford, NH; nephew, Steven Fay (Michelle Daviault) of Gilford, NH; his best friend and knee hockey partner, Tristan Reinhold; Ralph Reinhold who was like a second Dad to Mischa; and last but not least, Linda DiRosa and the entire Fay's Boat Yard Family.

Calling Hours will be held on Monday, January 9, 2023, from 4:00pm-7:00pm in the Carriage House at Wilkinson-Beane-Simoneau-Paquette Funeral Home, 164 Pleasant Street, Laconia, NH, 03246.

A Funeral Service will be held at 10:00 a.m., Tuesday, January 10, 2023, at the Gilford Community Church, 19 Potter Hill Rd, Gilford, NH.

A Graveside Service will be held at a later date at Bayside Cemetery, Union Avenue, Laconia, NH.

In lieu of flowers, and to keep Mischa's light alive, please donate to Lakes Region Youth Hockey, PO Box 762, Laconia, NH 03247, or any youth hockey or organization of your choice, or sponsor a kid to skate. Please watch a Star Wars movie with a child (young or old) in Mischa's memory. May the Force Be With You, Always.

Wilkinson-Beane-Simoneau-Paquette Funeral Home & Cremation Services and 603Cremations.com, Laconia, NH, is assisting the family with arrangements. For more information and to view an online memorial, please visit www.wilkinsonbeane.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Union Leader on Jan. 5, 2023.

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Michael Koecher

January 14, 2023

I don´t know your family but I grew up in Gifford and Laconia in the 70´s and 80´s. I am so very sorry for the loss of your son.

Sally Davis

January 9, 2023

I am so sorry Mischa was living with such pain which I know was felt by his family and friends as well. I have a son diagnosed with mental illness in his early 20s and it has been a source of worry for 30 years now as my family experiences his successes and then his setbacks. We all need to understand and treat victims of mental illness with compassion and patience. May the good memories continue to give your lives the light we all need.

Sally Davis
Thornton NH

Arna spagnuolo Beverly spagnuolo

January 9, 2023

So sorry for your loss.

Dawn M Gill

January 8, 2023

Jeff, Pam and the Fay family,
We are so sorry to hear about the loss of your loved one. May he be at peace and please know that our thoughts, prayers and love are with you all during this very difficult time in your life.
Bob and Dawn Gill

Karen Crafts

January 8, 2023

My thoughts are with the Fay and Crafts family
Karen Crafts

RICHARD CRAFTS

January 8, 2023

Dear Beth, Merrill, Gwen and Cora,
My thoughts are with you and the rest of the family.
Please lean on your family and friends
Dick Crafts

Sandy Maguire

January 6, 2023

I was devastated to have heard about the tragic loss of such a bright light. I can only pray that Beth, Merrill and the rest of the family are able to find light in such a sad, dark time. I know how much this young man means to his parents and I can't imagine what they're going through... but please know that my thoughts, prayers and well wishes are with everyone who has been hurt by this tragic loss!

Ida Daufen

January 5, 2023

Merrill and Beth I am so sorry for your tragic loss. May you Rest In Peace Mischa and May the force be with you! The stars will shine brighter as you look down upon your loved ones. You will be missed by many.

Scott landry

January 5, 2023

He is the man great smile
Will be missed big time

Greg Barrett

January 5, 2023

It is the most heartbreaking when a young person whose life has barely begun leaves us. May the road rise to meet you. RIP

George Pettee and Tuckers of Birch Island

January 5, 2023

In sympathy,
GEORGE PETTEE and the Tuckers of Birch Island.

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Wilkinson-Beane-Simoneau-Paquette Funeral Home

164 Pleasant Street P.O. Box 67, Laconia, NH 03246

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