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Sep. 12, 2025

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Paul Bayer Obituary

Paul Bayer, 87, of Bedford, NH and Fort Myers FL, died April 25, 2025, surrounded by his wife Rosemary and family. Paul was born on April 20, 1938 in Rochester NY, the son of Wendel and Madeline (Cunningham). Paul is survived by his wife Rosemary, children and spouses, MaryBeth and Bill Arling; Michael and Erin Bayer, Julie and Jeff Vinacco. His son Mark and daughter in law Sherrie predeceased Paul in 2018 and 2020 respectively. Grandchildren include Noah Arling, Chris & Adrien Arling, Aimee Bayer, Zachary & Claudia Bayer, Nicholas Bayer, Jackie Galetta, Kailey and Morgan Vinacco, as well as a great-grandchild Calvin Arling. He leaves his brother, Father Pater T. Bayer of Rochester NY. A Memorial Mass to celebrate Paul's life will be held September 12 at 11 am at St Elizabeth Seton in Bedford NH. An Air Force military burial service will be at the Veterans Cemetery in Boscawen NH on Monday September 15 at 12:00 pm.

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Published by Union Leader from Sep. 6 to Sep. 13, 2025.

Memorial Events
for Paul Bayer

Sep

12

Memorial Mass

11:00 a.m.

St Elizabeth Seton

Bedford, NH

Sep

15

Burial

12:00 p.m.

Veterans Cemetery

Boscawen, NH

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