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Paul Boucher Obituary
Paul E. Boucher and Betty R. Mathews were married in 1963. They celebrated 55 years of marriage, living in Manchester and Merrimack, NH before moving to Raleigh, NC in 1992.
Paul is survived by his loving wife Betty R. Mathews Boucher; his adoring daughters, Lisa Frisella and husband Richard of Zebulon, NC, Lori Dery of Raleigh, NC and Kristi McKeown and husband Robert of Raleigh, NC; grandchildren, Brittani Frisella (Harrison Adams), Phillip Frisella (Sarah Jordan), Caleb Dery, Spencer McKeown, Christine Blaisdell (Matt) and Brandi Mobley; great-grandchildren, Grace Wertz, Jay Mobley, and Lane Adams; his brother, Richard Boucher (Barbara); sisters Denise Elaine Koyianis (Bob Shaw), Michelle Tellier (Bob); sisters-in-law Madeline Boucher, Annette Boucher and Sharon Cronin (Bob). He was blessed to have numerous nieces, nephews, and extended family.
Paul was preceded in death by his parents Leon and Cecile Boucher, his sister Rita Gagne, brothers Gerry Boucher, Raymond Boucher, brother-in-law Richard Gagne, mother-in-law and husband Beatrice Mathews Dahl and Henry Dahl, and sister-in-law Bonnie Ranfos.
Paul had a deep love for his family, card games, time at the beach, and golf. Having family dinners was always his favorite way to spend his time.
The family would like to thank the caregivers at Transitions LifeCare of Raleigh, who made his journey to Heaven so peaceful.
A private service will be held for immediate family. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that memorial contributions be made to Transitions LifeCare, 200 Hospice Circle, Raleigh, NC 27607.
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Memories and Condolences
for Paul Boucher
Michelle Tellier
March 10, 2019
Still thinking of you and remembering the time you sported a beard which made you look like trapper John. Hope you all all having living moments watching the family continue to grow every day.
jill Fitch
April 3, 2018
Your spirit lives on in your beautiful daughters! Peace be with you and your family.
Michelle Tellier
March 29, 2018
Dear brother, I know we have been separated by miles, but you and all my sisters and brothers, nieces and nephews and all their children, will always be in my heart. I will miss your contagious laughter and how you looked like Pernell Roberts at one time. I know you will be in good company with mom and dad as well as two of your other brothers and oldest sister in heaven. P.S. Thank you for being my surrogate father and walking me down the aisle. Love you dear brother. See you later.
Michelle
George&Helen Pratte
March 28, 2018
Sorry to hear of Paul's passing. Deepest sympathy to Betty and family.
Old friends from NH.
George and Helen Pratte
March 24, 2018
My deepest sympathy in the loss of Paul....Betty-Jo Salvail Overton....McElwain Street, Merrimack, N.H.
Donna Morse
March 23, 2018
I am so sorry for your loss. May Paul RIP. I know you will miss him and hope the good memories will sustain you through this difficult time. My heartfelt sympathy to all of Paul's family
S H
March 22, 2018
May the God of all comfort strengthen the family during this time of deep sorrow. Those who pass on, God keeps in his memory because they are precious in his eyes. My sincerest condolences. (Psalms 116:15)
Wendell Palmer
March 22, 2018
Our deepest sympathy to Betty and her family. We had a pleasure of meeting Paul when you visited NH to see my sister Wendy. He had a great sense of humor and will be missed by many. We are sad in Cocoa Beach Florida. Rest in peace my friend. Prayers and hugs from Wendell and Carol Palmer
March 21, 2018
Our sincere condolences to your family and friends. May the God who binds up the brokenhearted and comforts all who mourn, sustain your family during this difficult time - Isaiah 61:1, 2.
March 21, 2018
May the Most High God give peace, strength and comfort to you during this difficult time.
2 Thessalonians 2:16,17
March 21, 2018
I am so sorry to hear about Paul. I know you will miss him. Rely on our heavenly Father to comfort and help you endure.
-BeLinda
Isaiah. 41:10
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