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Susan Hayes Obituary

It is with heavy hearts that we announce the passing of Susan Elizabeth (Lucier) Hayes, 67, of Manchester, NH, on October 15, 2025. She passed away peacefully, surrounded by her family, after a courageous battle with cancer.

Born on December 3, 1957, in Nashua, NH, Susan was the only daughter of the late Robert E. and Joanne E. (Bartis) Lucier. She was a loving sister to her three younger brothers, Michael, Bruce, and Keith Lucier, and a proud aunt to Michael, Kathleen, Jessica, Sean, Paige, and Elizabeth.

Susan spent her childhood years in Philadelphia but always spent her summers in Nashua, NH, helping her grandfather, John Bartis, at his ice cream business, the Dairy Freeze. She was especially close with her grandparents, John and Hazel Bartis, and Ralph and Hazel Lucier, and shared a special bond with her aunt, Bernice "Aunty Bun" (Lovejoy) Frost. Those summers were filled with cherished memories alongside her cousins Janet, Rick, Nancy, Ellen, John, and Margaret from Melrose, NY, and Robert and Brian Bartis of Hollis, NH.

Susan was the beloved wife of the late Thomas J. Hayes, with whom she shared 25 wonderful years in Manchester, NH. She was a devoted mother to Jeffrey B. Hayes, Keith R. Hayes (predeceased), and Ashley B. Hayes, and a loving grandmother to eight grandchildren: Dominic, Keith, Haley, Jordan, Cameron, Cayden, Colby, and Chloe. She also adored her two great-granddaughters, who brought her immense joy.

Susan will be remembered for her caring nature, her willingness to help anyone in need, and the warmth she shared with all who knew her. She loved shopping, gardening, and trips to the beach, and she especially treasured evenings spent with friends, filled with laughter and good company. In recent years, she found companionship and happiness with her partner of 20 years, Robin Jordan of Manchester, NH.

Above all, Susan's greatest joy was her family. Her generous heart, strength, and unwavering love will be deeply missed and forever remembered by all who knew her.

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Published by Union Leader on Oct. 27, 2025.

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Andria Davis

Yesterday

I am the mother of Dominic Hayes, and when I first met Sue I was 17yrs old, she welcomed me into the family and treated as her own. She was there for her grandson Dominic before I even gave birth. Her and Tom spent every weekend with him, and made sure he was short of nothing. Sue is the kind of person that will help a stranger, she was well known for her kindness. I have so much love and respect for her. I will carry her in my heart forever. Rest in peace God's angel until we meet again. Love Always Andria Davis.

Louise silva

Yesterday

My condolences to the Hayes family. I have known Susan for 29 years. She was a wonderful woman very kind hearted and one thing that I know about her, she loves her children, and she loves her grandchildren. she is very joyful, always smiling. and that´s how I´m gonna always remember her sleep well Susan

Zoe Cacavas

November 1, 2025

I have so many memories of school days with Susan. Sincere condolences to the family.

MaryEllen McGorry

October 29, 2025

Joanne and family, I am so very sorry to hear about Susan's passing. I have many fond memories from the days at the courthouse and coming to get lunches from you ladies! Thoughts and prayers-
Beab

Sandi Roy

October 28, 2025

Susan and her family rented from us and we became fast friends. We are so sorry to hear of Susan's early death.

Cayden

October 28, 2025

We Miss You, I know you´re dancing in the stars just like you said, Love You Gram

Jeannine

October 28, 2025

You were so sweet a smiling! Fly high with angel beautiful lady...

cameron castro

October 27, 2025

love you grammyfly high. we miss you. rest easy shine bright up there

suzanne ranfos

October 27, 2025

Rest in peace my old friend. You will be missed.

DEBRA A Trudeau

October 27, 2025

God she was so sweet always had time to say hi to me.

Tiffany

October 26, 2025

Rest in the sweetest peace Susan I loved all of our conversations you´ve brought so much love to everyone´s world..

Ashley Hayes

October 25, 2025

I miss you so much Mom, no longer suffering and hope you are at peace reuniting with my brother. I will forever cherish the time we spent together and memories made. Until we meet again, may you rest in peace, fly high with our angels in the sky and just as you told me on your final days to think of you dancing with the stars...I will always!
I Love you to the moon and back.

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