Search by Name

Search by Name

Dominick Tocci Obituary

Dominick P. Tocci
Delmar
Dominick P. Tocci, 77, of Delmar, passed away on Tuesday, May 1, 2012. Born in Utica on July 1, 1934, he was the son of the late Joseph A. and Rose (Lovaglio) Tocci. Dominick was a graduate of Proctor High School in Utica, Hamilton College and Syracuse University Law School. He began his law practice in Gloversville, where he also served as assistant city judge. Later, he was a founding partner of Tocci, Parker and Tocci in Albany. Throughout his career, Dominick worked tirelessly to protect the rights and benefits of union members and working people. For this, he received numerous awards and accolades. He was highly respected among clients, colleagues and members of the legal community for his integrity and exceptional intellect. Dominick had served as panel arbitrator for the New York State Mediation Board and American Arbitration Association. He had also been an instructor for the Cornell University School of Labor Relations. Dominick was a devoted husband, father and grandfather who loved spending time with his family. His wife, Celia (Zizzi) Tocci, predeceased him on December 7, 2007. He is survived by two daughters, Charmaine Veldhuis (Don) and Jennifer O'Neil (David); a son, Richard Tocci (Robin); grandchildren, Justin and Jeremy Veldhuis, Kelsey and Kevin O'Neil and Alex Tocci; special family friend, Monte Vacarelli; brothers, Ronald Tocci (Cathy) and Joseph Tocci (Marianne); and many nieces, nephews and dear friends. A special thanks to his aide, Tara, for her loving care and friendship. Relatives and friends are invited to call on Sunday from 4 to 7 p.m. at the Applebee Funeral Home, 403 Kenwood Ave., Delmar. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated 10:00 a.m., Monday, at St. Thomas the Apostle Church, 35 Adams Pl., Delmar. Burial will be in Bethlehem Cemetery. Those who wish may send a remembrance in his name to the St. Jude Children's Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude Pl., Memphis, TN 38105. www.applebee funeralhome.com
Dominick P. Tocci

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Observer-Dispatch from May 4 to May 5, 2012.

Memories and Condolences
for Dominick Tocci

Not sure what to say?





Laurie Tyrrell(Robens)

May 7, 2012

Jennifer and family~ I was so sorry to hear of the loss of your father.You are all in my thoughts and prayers...and he will forever live in your hearts.

Don Miller

May 6, 2012

Jennifer, Maribeth and I are saddened to here about the loss of your dad. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your famiy.

Laure

May 5, 2012

Dear Charmaine and family,
My heart goes out to you all.
Love,
Laure

Ann Lieberburg

May 5, 2012

Jennifer,
I was sorry to read about your Dad's passing. My thoughts and condolences to your family

Mary Blessing

May 5, 2012

Jennifer & family,
What a gentle soul this world has lost with the passing of your dad, Dominick. I knew him for many years & will always remember him as a happy go lucky guy who cherished his family. May he rest in Peace.

Lisa Finkle

May 4, 2012

Charmaine, I was so sad to hear of your Dad's passing. Please extend my sympathy to your entire family and know you are in my thoughts.

Susan Bentley

May 4, 2012

To the Tocci family -- I was saddened to hear of Dominick's passing. My father (Chuck Bentley) always spoke highly of him when he was the attorney for the union, and I know he considered him a good friend as well. My condolences to the family. I know you will miss him but he will always remain in your heart and memories.

Santina Bretti-Murine

May 4, 2012

I am so sorry for your loss. I remember Dominick (Dick) from many years ago. He was my brother's good friend. We all lived near each other, he on Mohawk St. and my family on Eagle St. My brother Dominic Bretti sends his deepest condolences and has many great memories of their adolescent yrs together.

Cathe Flood

May 4, 2012

Jennifer,
I am so sorry for your loss. I always loved Dominick. He was such a funny, down to earth guy. Never put on airs. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time.

Showing 1 - 9 of 9 results

Make a Donation
in Dominick Tocci's name

Memorial Events
for Dominick Tocci

To offer your sympathy during this difficult time, you can now have memorial trees planted in a National Forest in memory of your loved one.

How to support Dominick's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Dominick Tocci's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more