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John Wilczynski Obituary

John R. Wilczynski (Wilski) 1938 - 2019
YORKVILLE/SUMMERFIELD, FL - Mr. John R. Wilczynski, 81, passed away on Tuesday, August 27, 2019, on Long Island, NY, in the arms of his loving wife, Mary, surrounded by the love of his family.
John was born in Utica, on February 5, 1938, the son of John and Victoria (Szczesny) Wilczynski. He was raised and educated in New York Mills and was a graduate of St. Mary's School, New York Mills High School and the Mohawk Valley Technical Institute. On April 29, 1961, at St. Patrick's Church in Utica, John was united in marriage with Mary Helen Rourke, a loving and devoted union of 58 years. John was employed as an engineer by the General Electric Company in Utica for 35 years, until he retired in 1993 to pursue his second career as a PGA golf professional. He was a parishioner of Sacred Heart/St. Mary's Church, New York Mills and a member of Ushers Club, Holy Name Society and Sts. Stanislaus and Casimir Society.
While John will be remembered for his humble, kind and helpful nature, John will be most remembered for his love of his family and golf. He surrounded the house he built in Yorkville with a putting green and never lived more than a few hundred feet from a golf course. He began to play golf as a child at Twin Ponds Golf & Country Club where he was a member for many years. John was Utica City Amateur Champion four times (1957, 1961, 1963 and 1965) before turning professional and continuing his successful golf career. He was the Head Pro at Crystal Springs Golf Club, Vernon and a member of the Central NY PGA and Metropolitan PGA.
John is survived by his beloved wife, Mary; three daughters and their husbands, Christina and Richard Panetta, of Oakdale, NY, Patricia and Mark Brozek, of Huntington, NY and Linda and Paul Hitchcock, of New York Mills; his cherished grandchildren, JP and Terry Panetta, Therese and TJ Young, Joseph and Anne Brozek and their special friends, Madison and Michael; two sweet great-granddaughters, Marielle and Charlotte; and so many cousins, golf buddies, friends and neighbors in both New York and Florida, especially his cousin, James Stanek; and the man who he loved like a brother, Fred Snizek.
There will be calling hours at Wolanin Funeral Home, New York Mills, on Monday, September 2, 2019, from 4:00-7:00 p.m., and a Mass of Christian Burial at Sacred Heart/St. Mary's Church, New York Mills, on Tuesday, September 3, 2019, at 10:30 a.m.
The family extends their heartfelt gratitude to relatives, neighbors and friends for the many years of friendship and love. Your kindness will not be forgotten.

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Published by The Observer-Dispatch from Aug. 31 to Sep. 1, 2019.

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Judy W. M. Carter

August 26, 2024

I forgot to add: I remember how much John liked my mom´s Sour Cream Coffee cake! He went through a lot of those!

Judy Wilczynski Mattson Carter

August 25, 2024

Remembering John - and all of you

Stan Lisk

September 19, 2019

John was a great PGA Golf Professional and I will remember my many times with him and as we recalled our times on the golf course and the friends we had on the links. Always a stand up Professional and person, I'm sorry for his passing. Condolences to his wife and Family. Truly a great guy and golfer.

Kathy and Gary sumner

September 6, 2019

Please accept our deepest sympathy. Our thoughts are with your family at this sad time.

RJ Ziats

September 3, 2019

Mary, Christina, Patty, Linda and Families,
We send deepest sympathies and many prayers upon hearing of John's passing. He was a great friend to my father and I have many great memories from not just golfing but also what a true kind gentleman he was.
We pray in his loving memory
The Ziats Family'

September 2, 2019

Mary, Christina, Patty and Linda, so sorry to hear about John (your dad). John was a gentleman in all ways. He will be missed by many. God Bless you all during this difficult time. My prayers and thoughts with all of you.
Trudy Berkman Nitti

September 2, 2019

To the Wilski Family,

So sorry to hear of John's passing. I had the pleasure of meeting John and the rest of the weekend golf group at Twin Ponds. He was a true gentlemen, great golfer and a pleasure to play with. He will truly be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of grief.

John Kiehm
Holly Springs, NC

September 2, 2019

Thinking of you Mary. Chris, Patty, Linda and all the rest of the extended family members. We wish we could be in New York Mills to personally share our condolences. One memory of John (Janek) that comes to mind is how much he loved my mom's Sour Cream Coffee Cakes..he certainly consumed many of them! God bless all of you--Our prayers and thoughts are with you.
Love, Judy and DJ (Doug) Mattson

September 1, 2019

Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Mary,Chris,Patty, Linda and
all extended family members. We are sorry we can not be in New York Mills to give you our condolences in person. One memory is how much he loved my mom's sour cream coffee cake....He ate many of them!! God bless you all.
Judy and DJ (Doug) Mattson (Valencia, California)

Judy VanDusen

September 1, 2019

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family Mary. I'm sure Steve will greet John with open arms (and even have golf game planned).

Richard Baszczoski

September 1, 2019

May John rest in peace. I know he was a good man by the way he cared for my mother. Thank you both for your kindness .

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