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Donna Clarke
August 5, 2023
Mr. Wilkins was my favorite teacher at oakton high school in 1978.
Leslie Bowman
June 12, 2021
Ray set me on the path of an artist. He gave me the confidence to value the mark on the surface and the inspiration to follow my queries. I am grateful for his life and work. His family is blessed by his love and gifts.
June 12, 2020
I retired from teaching yesterday, June 9,2020. My entire successful professional career I attribute to Ray. I was his student teacher in 1969, then continued to work with him for several years after that.
His character was impeccable, his smile infectious, his humbleness so admired, and his talent beyond compare. What an amazing gentleman to whom I am forever grateful to have had in my life. Not a day goes by that I dont think about him.
To Pat and family, thank you for sharing him with so many of us.
xoxo Susann Leidemer
Lori Alexander
January 25, 2019
I was a student of Dr Wilkins in 89/90 and his generous spirit and enthusiasm for life has always stayed with me. He could probably make any subject come alive, but art, art history and interdisciplinary symposium (what a title!) were magical in his presence. I'm now a designer and constantly looking for the interconnection of elements thanks in part to him. Hugs to all his family for sharing him with us.
Erika Freiberger
April 8, 2018
To the family of Dr. Wilkins, I was a student of Dr. Wilkins in the late 80s. From art/architecture history to Maslow's Hierarchy of Need, he imbued a sense of humanity into his teaching that transformed my world view. His lessons shaped my perceptions, my parenting and my philosophy of life. I am forever grateful for his passionate approach to teaching, his love of beauty and his willingness to challenge/guide his students. Thank you for sharing him with SLHS. With gratitude, Erika Freiberger
Kristen Peterson
July 17, 2011
Ray Wilkins was an inspiration to so many students. I know my own life's fulfilling path has much to do with the encouragement and support he gave me in high school and beyond, when I followed in his footsteps to study art at Penn State. I will always remember him with warmth and appreciation.
July 16, 2011
We were sad to hear of the death of Dr. Wilkins. It was our pleasure to be able to help with his care. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Your friends at Comfort Keepers
Judy Richardson RN
Fred Klebacher
July 11, 2011
Brother-in Law Ray was never one to speak of his own accomplishments of which there are many. It is comforting to know that his spirit and legacy lives on in his many students.
Susann ("Sue") Bradman Leidemer
July 1, 2011
Dear Pat and Family,
I do not even know where to begin to express my sadness and pain in reading of Ray's death. I was his student teacher in 1969 and then worked with him at Oakton High School for many years. He was most certainly my mentor and was also a dear friend. I am still teaching art and will always remember how lucky I was to have him in my life as I began my teaching career. Much love and blessings to you all.
Leslie Bowman
June 30, 2011
Ray was an important mentor. Pat and children, know that his spirit lives on not only in your own lives but also in the vision and enthusiasm that he shared with his many students and fellow artists.
Katherine Moran Frederick
June 26, 2011
Ray Wilkins love of art and his students will forever shine brightly in my memories. He had such an impact on my life, he believed in me when it was hard for me to believe in myself. He was my art teacher for four yrs. at Oakton HS. (68-71) He gave me the honor of being Editor of the yearbook, he encouraged me in my decision to attend Ringling School of Art. His outlook on life, art, his humor were like candles ~ always shining brightly.
I had a habit of saying, "Yeah, but ~"
And he would laugh and say, "You're not a yabbit!"
I cannot express my sense of loss to think he has gone on before us. He WILL live forever in the hearts of SO many, including mine.
Thanks for the memories....RIP, with love.
Barbara Baker
June 26, 2011
I was a student of Dr. Wilkins in the late 60's at Oakton H.S. He was a great teacher and a very funny man. I was sad to learn of his passing. He will long be remembered. My prayers are with his family.
Mary Clark
June 19, 2011
I had the wonderful experience of being a student of Ray Wilkin's at Marshall HS in the 60s. It was through his inspiration and encouragement that I became an art educator. Working alongside my menor at South Lakes HS was the highlight of my career! I have fond memories of those days when I also had the privilege of having Mark and Hilary as students in photography and art. Pat and family, you are very much in my heart as I know how difficult this must have been for you in the last part of Ray's life. He certainly left his mark on this world not only through his artwork and teaching but through his kind generous ways and gentle humor. Mary Woodward (Houston) Clark
Stewart Andrews
June 18, 2011
Dear Wilkins family,
I was a student of Ray's from 1978-1982 and in effect came to South Lakes with the sole intent of studying art under his tutelage. No other reason. In fact, I was living in the Herndon district of northern Reston my first three years of high school but my family worked to sneak me into South Lakes because of him.
He was a man with a gift and influenced me in countless ways. His humor, his insights and his talents are things I carry with me always. I tell my children that we are lucky if in our educational years we come across a teacher who changes you — who influences the very course of your life. That was Ray. I count myself blessed to have known him and hope I can express the weight of my gratitude and emotion adequately.
May your grief be lightened by the outpouring of the return of the gifts he gave to so many. I remember the last time we spoke, I was so excited by so many things going on at the time and Ray listened patiently, then simply said, "good for you, now go make art".
Mike Zickel
June 18, 2011
To the family of Dr. Wilkins,
I don't typically peruse the obituaries of the VA Gazette, but I'm glad I did today. I was a student of Dr. Wilkins at South Lakes HS back in the 1980's. I loved is class, his energy, and his passion for art and teaching. He was a great instructor. As a HS student, I had no idea that he did so much outside of the classroom, but it fits with my memory of his character. Although I didn't pursue a career in the arts, I have always loved drawing and painting and encourage me kids to explore both. I attribute that at least in part to the encouragement and enthusiasm I received from Dr. Wilkins.
I'm sure this is a difficult time for you all, but I wanted to let you know that your husband/father/grandfather was an important and positive influence to many people, including me, and indirectly, my family.
Peace,
Mike Zickel
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