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Raymond Wilkins Obituary

Raymond Gene Wilkins, 73, of Williamsburg, Virginia and East Sandwich, Massachusetts passed away peacefully in the presence of his family on May 20, 2011. A native of Lewistown, Pennsylvania and a United States Army veteran, he earned a BA from Pennsylvania State University in State College, Pennsylvania and a MFA from George Washington University in Washington, DC. In 1983, he was awarded a PhD from Pennsylvania State University in State College, Pennsylvania. The title of dissertation was The Contemporaneousness of the Past: Historical Reflections on Artistic Giftedness and contrasts the lives and educations of painters Benjamin West and Thomas Eakins.
A noted painter and educator, Dr. Wilkins taught in northern Virginia at Oakton High School, Marshall High School and South Lakes High School, and was named the Agnes Meyer/Washington Post Teacher of the Year for Fairfax County in 1987. Sponsored by the Japan Foundation, in the fall of 1987 he was sent to Japan with nine other educators to observe and advise on the Japanese education system. During his tenure at South Lakes High School in Reston, Virginia, Dr. Wilkins piloted advanced placement art history and studio art programs, which spread throughout Fairfax County. He also collaborated with GRACE (Greater Reston Arts Center) to obtain a grant from the Mid Atlantic Arts Foundation to fund an artist in residence program, producing a sculpture which still stands in front of South Lakes today.
In concurrence with his career in Fairfax County Public Schools, Dr. Wilkins taught for years in the Northern Virginia Community College system. He also chaired the visual arts department of the Interlochen Arts Camp in Interlochen, Michigan for several summers. In addition, he taught painting at the first Governor's School for the Gifted in the Arts at Mary Washington in the early 1970's.
More recently, Dr. Wilkins' career included a position as an Arts Assessment Specialist at the Educational Testing Service in Princeton, New Jersey, working on advanced placement art history/studio art programs for several states in the U.S. and also U.S. Department of Defense schools in Italy and Germany. After leaving ETS, Dr. Wilkins founded his own educational consulting firm R.G. Wilkins and Associates, working with several state departments of education, most notably with the Pennsylvania Department of Education on an arts and sciences integration project. He retired from the workforce in 2002.
A noted artist himself, Dr. Wilkins' works are represented in several museums and private collections, including the National Museum of American Art in Washington, DC.
He is survived by his wife of 49 years Patricia, also of Williamsburg and East Sandwich. Additionally he is survived by a son, Mark Wilkins of Centerville, Massachusetts and two daughters and spouses, Hilary Wilkins Hatch and Michael Hatch of Weaverville, North Carolina and Elizabeth Wilkins Sykes and William Sykes of Williamsburg, as well as four grandchildren, Bella and Hannah Hatch, and Maggie and Teddy Sykes. He is also survived by two sisters and a brother.
The family would like to thank his caregiver Thomas Reynolds of Portsmouth, Virginia and the staff at the Hospice House of Williamsburg for their caring and dedication. A memorial service is planned for July 11, 2011 at 11 a.m. at St. Martins Episcopal Church on Jamestown Road. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made to Apple Federal Credit Union Education Foundation Scholarship Fund, http://www.afcufoundation.org/.

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Published by Virginia Gazette from Jun. 18 to Jul. 18, 2011.

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Donna Clarke

August 5, 2023

Mr. Wilkins was my favorite teacher at oakton high school in 1978.

Leslie Bowman

June 12, 2021

Ray set me on the path of an artist. He gave me the confidence to value the mark on the surface and the inspiration to follow my queries. I am grateful for his life and work. His family is blessed by his love and gifts.

June 12, 2020

I retired from teaching yesterday, June 9,2020. My entire successful professional career I attribute to Ray. I was his student teacher in 1969, then continued to work with him for several years after that.
His character was impeccable, his smile infectious, his humbleness so admired, and his talent beyond compare. What an amazing gentleman to whom I am forever grateful to have had in my life. Not a day goes by that I dont think about him.
To Pat and family, thank you for sharing him with so many of us.
xoxo Susann Leidemer

Lori Alexander

January 25, 2019

I was a student of Dr Wilkins in 89/90 and his generous spirit and enthusiasm for life has always stayed with me. He could probably make any subject come alive, but art, art history and interdisciplinary symposium (what a title!) were magical in his presence. I'm now a designer and constantly looking for the interconnection of elements thanks in part to him. Hugs to all his family for sharing him with us.

Erika Freiberger

April 8, 2018

To the family of Dr. Wilkins, I was a student of Dr. Wilkins in the late 80s. From art/architecture history to Maslow's Hierarchy of Need, he imbued a sense of humanity into his teaching that transformed my world view. His lessons shaped my perceptions, my parenting and my philosophy of life. I am forever grateful for his passionate approach to teaching, his love of beauty and his willingness to challenge/guide his students. Thank you for sharing him with SLHS. With gratitude, Erika Freiberger

Kristen Peterson

July 17, 2011

Ray Wilkins was an inspiration to so many students. I know my own life's fulfilling path has much to do with the encouragement and support he gave me in high school and beyond, when I followed in his footsteps to study art at Penn State. I will always remember him with warmth and appreciation.

July 16, 2011

We were sad to hear of the death of Dr. Wilkins. It was our pleasure to be able to help with his care. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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Fred Klebacher

July 11, 2011

Brother-in Law Ray was never one to speak of his own accomplishments of which there are many. It is comforting to know that his spirit and legacy lives on in his many students.

Susann ("Sue") Bradman Leidemer

July 1, 2011

Dear Pat and Family,
I do not even know where to begin to express my sadness and pain in reading of Ray's death. I was his student teacher in 1969 and then worked with him at Oakton High School for many years. He was most certainly my mentor and was also a dear friend. I am still teaching art and will always remember how lucky I was to have him in my life as I began my teaching career. Much love and blessings to you all.

Leslie Bowman

June 30, 2011

Ray was an important mentor. Pat and children, know that his spirit lives on not only in your own lives but also in the vision and enthusiasm that he shared with his many students and fellow artists.

Katherine Moran Frederick

June 26, 2011

Ray Wilkins love of art and his students will forever shine brightly in my memories. He had such an impact on my life, he believed in me when it was hard for me to believe in myself. He was my art teacher for four yrs. at Oakton HS. (68-71) He gave me the honor of being Editor of the yearbook, he encouraged me in my decision to attend Ringling School of Art. His outlook on life, art, his humor were like candles ~ always shining brightly.

I had a habit of saying, "Yeah, but ~"
And he would laugh and say, "You're not a yabbit!"

I cannot express my sense of loss to think he has gone on before us. He WILL live forever in the hearts of SO many, including mine.

Thanks for the memories....RIP, with love.

Barbara Baker

June 26, 2011

I was a student of Dr. Wilkins in the late 60's at Oakton H.S. He was a great teacher and a very funny man. I was sad to learn of his passing. He will long be remembered. My prayers are with his family.

Mary Clark

June 19, 2011

I had the wonderful experience of being a student of Ray Wilkin's at Marshall HS in the 60s. It was through his inspiration and encouragement that I became an art educator. Working alongside my menor at South Lakes HS was the highlight of my career! I have fond memories of those days when I also had the privilege of having Mark and Hilary as students in photography and art. Pat and family, you are very much in my heart as I know how difficult this must have been for you in the last part of Ray's life. He certainly left his mark on this world not only through his artwork and teaching but through his kind generous ways and gentle humor. Mary Woodward (Houston) Clark

Stewart Andrews

June 18, 2011

Dear Wilkins family,

I was a student of Ray's from 1978-1982 and in effect came to South Lakes with the sole intent of studying art under his tutelage. No other reason. In fact, I was living in the Herndon district of northern Reston my first three years of high school but my family worked to sneak me into South Lakes because of him.

He was a man with a gift and influenced me in countless ways. His humor, his insights and his talents are things I carry with me always. I tell my children that we are lucky if in our educational years we come across a teacher who changes you — who influences the very course of your life. That was Ray. I count myself blessed to have known him and hope I can express the weight of my gratitude and emotion adequately.

May your grief be lightened by the outpouring of the return of the gifts he gave to so many. I remember the last time we spoke, I was so excited by so many things going on at the time and Ray listened patiently, then simply said, "good for you, now go make art".

Mike Zickel

June 18, 2011

To the family of Dr. Wilkins,

I don't typically peruse the obituaries of the VA Gazette, but I'm glad I did today. I was a student of Dr. Wilkins at South Lakes HS back in the 1980's. I loved is class, his energy, and his passion for art and teaching. He was a great instructor. As a HS student, I had no idea that he did so much outside of the classroom, but it fits with my memory of his character. Although I didn't pursue a career in the arts, I have always loved drawing and painting and encourage me kids to explore both. I attribute that at least in part to the encouragement and enthusiasm I received from Dr. Wilkins.

I'm sure this is a difficult time for you all, but I wanted to let you know that your husband/father/grandfather was an important and positive influence to many people, including me, and indirectly, my family.

Peace,
Mike Zickel

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