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1985
DIED
2008
Craig Goris Obituary
Craig Goris, of Ojai and San Francisco, arrived in our lives on March 29, 1985. Many people spend a lifetime looking for themselves and what they're about. Craig was one of those rare individuals who, from the moment he was born, was comfortable in his skin and knew precisely who he was. He was an incorrigible optimist who eluded a calm confidence, a humor, and a nonjudgmental realistic insight of people; he was our teacher, our mentor; Craig will always be our hero.
He seemed to practice a simple tenet: Climb to the top. But it was never the top he was after, it was the climb, for when he reached a summit he saw that as the best place to discover his next climb.
Early on, Craig focused on ways to head out of the driveway. By age 3 he was on a two-wheeler and spent his grade school years looking for vacant fields to build tracks. Whether he was in his tough and dirty days on the BMX circuit, skateboarding at the Ojai park, jet-skiing, dirt-biking, or riding his BSA around town, he challenged himself to take risks, but only well-calculated risks.
It was always the mental challenges Craig enjoyed most. In junior high, music got under his skin. He learned to play the guitar, created two bands and joined other bands. At 15 he decided Ojai needed a new style of music for its younger citizens. He rented a venue, found someone "legal" to sign papers, brought in touring bands from many places, even different countries. It was never about the money; this climb was about the music.
A voracious reader, Craig's climb in high school was for knowledge. Though rarely a lover of school, he graduated with honors from Nordhoff in 2003. Heading once again out of the driveway on two-wheels, he left for college, squeezing in a few trips across county and throughout Europe, usually with touring bands.
Craig was in his senior year, majoring in electronic broadcast communications. He wanted to make documentaries, to become a voice. He found his training niche as a production assistant at Santoki Productions in San Francisco, where he suddenly landed in the 24-hour world of broadcast journalism working on major network news programs. Whether working in the office or holding a camera in the field, Craig found the trajectory in his climb to the profession of his dreams... and he thrived.
In August 2007, he encountered the deadliest climb of all: Ewing's sarcoma. But Craig kept climbing — he still worked, he still made music, he still loved life and he never once had a pity party. Together, we prayed for a miracle, even though we all knew we already had the miracle. As hard as we prayed to keep him, this disease eventually stopped Craig's climb on May 1, 2008.
He leaves behind his parents, Gregg and Donna of Ojai; sister and his "rock," Jean of Morro Bay; aunt and uncles, Debbie (husband Mike), Dale, Jeff (wife Betty), Dan (wife Karen) and David (wife Carol); cousins, JK, Kyle, Lance, and Heather; best friend, Anna Levett; and the inner circle of friends who keep the climb alive.
Honoring Craig's wishes, a memorial will be held at 3 p.m. Saturday, May 10, at Faria Beach Campground.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Craig's memory specifically toward the diagnosis and cure of Ewing's sarcoma to: The Liddy Shriver Sarcoma Initiative, 17 Bethea Drive, Ossining, N.Y., 10562-1620; http://www.sarcomahelp.org/donations.htm.
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Memories and Condolences
for Craig Goris
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Ashley Thomas
May 3, 2024
Still think about you all the time!
Ashley Thomas
May 3, 2023
Thinking of Craig today.
December 3, 2013
Miss you Craig the Bear Goris, glad i was lucky enough to tour both the us and Europe with you and all of our friends! RIP brother!
mike matzke
August 19, 2009
craig was a man with passion, who had a solid perspective on life and what was good (including music) and what sucked. he'd let you know what he felt as well, never afraid to speak his mind.
he truly did live life to the fullest extent, and every day he continues to inspire. ill continue to remember.
Mary
May 2, 2009
Dear Goris Family,
Just wanted you to know that we are thinking of you & Craig.
On sleepless nights over the last year, I have wondered if you are sleepless, too, missing Craig & sitting with memories of him. Funny how often he shows up for us in other people's faces & in dreams, even though we didn't know him nearly well enough nor long enough. I think since he was so important to our daughter & to so many others whose hearts he touched, the loss of him has been significant.
Just know that we are thinking of you all...
Mary & Jake Blehm
(Eva's Folks)
Carol Meece
April 30, 2009
a memory book can always be added on to ..... here is a contribution to the optimistic, fun and loving person that was Craig.....
Memory:
you came to visit when the kids were younger, Jean and Craig were in the middle room on sleeping bags. think that Jean was trying to get Craig up and was not having much luck so.... sent her back in to tell Craig there were banana nut muffins waiting for anyone who could make it to the kitchen - SWOOSH! the sleeping bag moved, Craig's head appeared with the cutest little grin on his face and we knew that we had been successful in our ' wake up ' call.
..know that tomorrow will be a day filled with sadness and memories of Craig .... and wanted you to know I am thinking of you, Gregg and Jean -
Katie
March 27, 2009
Craig, I love you and miss you. Thanks for the good times and memories and for being my plus one.
Kali
March 27, 2009
I think of you daily, friend!
climbing for CrAiGGG
August 29, 2008
Kyle's: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7IWiS8DgFlE
Craig's: http://www.youtube.com/user/cgoris
to the beach bro
John, Sharon and Amy Matyja
June 9, 2008
The Matyjas have fond memories of fun times shared at the ranch that live on for each of us. We remember Craig as comfortable with his peers as he was with those that have seen him grow into a wonderful young man. The dating game last year was a classic and will live on.
We are grateful to have known Craig
Donna Goris
June 9, 2008
My Beloved Son,
Destiny first chose to make you a very special part of my life
Destiny then chose to take you out of my life.
The time destiny allowed us went so quickly,
it wasn’t enough, there should have been more,
much, much more.
But whenever I start to feel badly because
destiny took you out of my life,
I will think of how sad it would have been
not to have known you.
I will thank destiny for making you a special part of my life.
Giving me so many happy and precious memories
that will I will treasure for as long as I live.
(author unknown)
Forever My Love,
Your Mom
Debbie Dunham
June 8, 2008
Craig combined the best of the Goris/Meece clan, strengthen, determination, empathy, grace, compassion, and the ease of self. Forever our task in love, respect, honor of Craig as we strive to live.
Pennie
June 7, 2008
Craig had the ease and confidence most of us wish we had. A indication that his parents did a brilliant job raising him. He was so perfect that God took him for his own, leaving the rest of us less perfect ones behind. Thank you for your presence Craig.
Carol Reed
June 6, 2008
Greg, Donna & Jean,
Our hearts go out to you ! Craig was one incredible young man & will forever be missed by all that had the honor to know him. We looked forward to seeing all of you up at Taylorsville, a special place where we treasure the time spent with good friends, good food & making new memories. The memories I have of Craig over the years from the Ranch, are ones of a strong, happy, well loved young man, who enjoyed having fun & we looked forward to seeing him each year. It is very obvious to me that you raised a truely wonderful young man, who was well liked by all, and we will miss seeing his smiling face & good humor... we will always rememer him !
Love Carol
Jeff Goris
June 4, 2008
Gregg & Donna
Craig Roman Goris reminds me of his great grandfather, Roman W Smith. Both could walk into a room full of strangers and stand out in the crowd. Both men were always ready to play a joke, but had a serious side also.
At the funeral, I was amazed by the number of people of all ages that he touched. Craig was an awsome young man. We will all miss him.
Sharon Masson
June 3, 2008
Gregg, Donna, Jean,
I just finished reading all 7 pages of Craig's guest book and it amazes me the lives he touched in such a short time. Although I didn't know him personally, I certainly do know him now! And it brings a smile to my face as I recall the times Tish would talk about him. I know in her heart she knew there was something very special about Craig and she probably asked herself...could he possibly be? To touch so many lives the way he did...to leave such a beautiful memory behind...what a blessing to everyone who crossed his path!
There are those rare times when God sends the soul of an angel to live amongst us and the message they come with is always simple...love one another.
Jim Carriger
June 2, 2008
I kept up with events in Craig's life mostly through his mom, Donna. Although I only spent a small amount of time with him, it was easy to sense his love of life and adventure. He had so much much to offer, but so little time to live it. My deepest sympathies and prayers for his loving family, and his many, many friends. He will be greatly missed.
Carolyn Jackson
May 31, 2008
I never knew Craig much to my disappointment but in unpacking a package full of much newpaper his whimsical face caught my eye and I had to stop and sit down and read of him. In doing so my heart broke for I know that in losing Craig the entire world suffers this loss. It angers me the more at cancer and why we can not seem to find the cure. Special is an over used word now days but special this young man certainly was. I would bet the Angels were so happy for him to have him return to Heaven. I bet they had missed him..as many who he was beloved to will miss him.I am so so sorry for your loss.
May the Lord bless you and keep you
The Lord lift His countenance upon you, and make His face to shine upon you,
The Lord be gracious unto you.
And grant you peace.
Sandra Medrano
May 29, 2008
Let me start by giving my condolences to the family of this very special young man, my thoughts and prayers are with you all. I am basically a complete stranger who had the privelige of coming in contact with Craig and although it was only once, I have not stopped thinking about him since that encounter. He was so vibrant, happy go lucky and full of life and humor. I took his disability claim and like his mother said, he didn't seem to be the type to have pity parties. I remember he said he was upset that The Make A Wish Foundation would not grant him a wish because he was too old and insisted he was still a kid at heart. We laughed at that and alot of other things during the interview, like when he said he hated not having eyebrows, but he felt he had to show me his drivers license to show me what he looked like with hair, he was really funny. Craig, now you can have any wish your heart desires. you are TRULY an inspiration and as is often said, everyone has a purpose in this world, and yours was to touch the hearts of all the people that you would come in contact with, and you have. I will ALWAYS remember Craig and his beautiful eyes. We will keep climbing for you Craig. Thank you very much Donna for sharing the obituary, I am truly honored. GOD BLESS
Will Reed
May 29, 2008
I love you Craig... in any tense, past, present, or future.
While on the plane I came upon a perfect epitome while reading Dostoevsky's "The Brothers Karamazov".
"The gift of making people love him was inherent to him; he gained people's affection directly and effortlessly; it was part of his nature [...] He never tried to show off to the other boys, perhaps because he was never afraid of anyone. Yet the boys felt right away that he was in no way proud of his fearlessness, that it never even occurred to him that he was fearless or bold. He also never held a grudge when someone offended him. An hour later, he would answer the offender or speak to him himself, with a trustful, friendly look, as if nothing had happened. And it wasn't that he had forgotten or, having thought it over, had decided to forgive the insult; it was simply that he no longer felt offended. It was this trait that won all the boys over to him and made them love him."
Vince McGarry
May 27, 2008
Donna, Greg and Jean,
Our hearts are heavy and our spirit wounded. We can only imagine the pain you have endured emotionally during the past year. Jean is your shinning light and you should be very proud to have a beautiful, intellignet young lady that can keep it all going for the Goris family. I will miss the young Craiger because unfortnately I didn't get to know the young man that I heard about during the services. I remember the kids going on bike rides with Greg and the family barbeques and how you always made us part of your family. I remember you loving Jenna as if she was your own daughter and Craig's little sister he never wanted. Years have flown by and for that we have regrets of not getting together more often. Everybody communicated that Jean was Craigs rock but it sounds like Craig was everybodys rock. The McGarry family will definately miss our little bike riding, little league playing blond haired neighbor. We love you guys and thanks for treating us like family one more time.
Audrey and Dave Hofteig
May 27, 2008
Donna, Greg and Jean,
You all know how much David and I loved Craig. One of my favorite things about him was that he always took the time to connect. He never let you feel that he was just putting in the time. We fondly remember just hanging with Craig and having great discussions and sharing opinions about the world. He got that love of ideas from his dad.
He also had the best sense of adventure. As many have said, his life was a journey. That need to see around the corner or behind that door he owes to his mom. And Craig was a very caring and compassionate young man. With just a nod of his head he could make you feel a kinship that all of us look for in this world. He learned this from his big sister and friend, Jean.
So, you see he my not be here in body but all the wonderful things that Craig was will live on in all of you. Because he was all the best parts of you.
Love, Audrey and Dave
Lisabeth Collins
May 23, 2008
Almost everything has already been said, and rightfully so. Craig was one of the most amazing people I've ever had the pleasure of knowing. My only regret is that I didn't meet him sooner in life. The short period of time I did spend with Craig was always wonderful, and I can't wait to hang with him forever one day, surrounded by velvet capes, and endless talls.
My best wishes to Donna and the rest of the Goris family
Joyce Edsell
May 23, 2008
The Goris and Edsell families first crossed pathes in the mid-80's. Both families lived in the Oxnard Shores area. Donna was attending college and needed a part-time babysitter. Our daughters, Amy and Katy became fast friends with Jean, and her little brother Craig. Our daughters finally had the little brother they always wanted. Our babysitting arrangement grew to a wonderful friendship. The Goris family included us in Thanksgiving, Easter, Christmas, Birthday family gatherings. We also spent summer vacations in Mexico and Bass Lake, we had truly become part of their extended family. Over the years we watched our families grow and shared the milestones and excitement of horse shows, concerts, water polo and volleyball tournments, braces, boyfriend, girlfriends and college. But we also were there through near tragedies at Bass Lake, always through thick and thin. Through all this we have all dodged the bullet and stayed healthy. So when Craiger first became sick in August of '07, we all knew that he would be fine, just a bump in the road. Craiger, the Bomber Boy, the Golden Boy, he always came out on top, unscathed with such little effort and ease. Of course we were all very concerned, but knew that Donna and Greg along with all their research had done their homework and knew what had to be done. Their whole life became focased on one thing- helping Craig get well. They were able to get him the best doctors available, in the top hospitals in the country. Craig was very blessed to have such great support from family, friends and doctors. We all just figured after his fight with Ewings Sarcoma was over, Craig would make a documentary of his personal success, receive numerous awards and then be on to his next "climb". That was our plan......... In Craigs's short 23 years he has touched so many lifes in so many ways. He had the ability to bring warmth, humor, and genuine good feelings to all those around him. I feel as though I truly also lost a son, he will greatly missed by our entire family. Joyce, Michael, Amy, Katy, Brad, and Taylor Edsell
Mariza Sullivan
May 22, 2008
Life is but a blink of the eye. We are brutally reminded of that when a spirit such as Craig's graces us for a quick moment. I really only knew of him for awhile as an "Ojai Kid", a friend of my kids, Noel and Maura. And then I began to know of him in a different way as he fought tennaciously for his life. It so happens that I found myself driving a truckload of his friends to see him on what turned out to be his birthday.And that is where I was a witness to the courage and absolutely stunning light of this young man's spirit and the deep love surrounding him. It really did take my breath away then and still does now. Again, I want to thank Greg, Donna, Jean and the rest of Craig's family for sharing that precious moment in time with us. Just like the waves of the ocean that he loved so, may you feel the waves of Craig's spirit wash over you now. Respectfully, MMS
Ralph Parada
May 21, 2008
Even though Ann and I moved back to Texas from California many years ago, we have been able to visit with Donna, Greg, Jean and Craig on various occasions since. So our memories of Craig are like a handful of snapshots at various points in his life - first as an infant, then every few years afterwards. This gave us a different perspective to see him change over the years. I remember two visits with particular emphasis. One of when Craig was about 10 and we had all jumped on bikes to ride down the hill at Ojai. Naturally Craig was way out in front, stopping every once in a while for the rest of us to catch up. He was a fearless, adventurer even at that young age. The other was when I had stopped by for a weekend visit with the Goris’ family after being in Orange County on business. Craig eagerly volunteered to give up his room so I had a place to stay. On Saturday we all went down to the beach together as Craig had just bought a used surfboard. The two of us took turns riding some waves and just having fun in the sun and surf. It was really special to see him picking it up so quickly, along with the fact that we were both surfing at Rincon, one of the most primo spots in all of California. It was a marvelous memory that I will always remember.
We will always cherish the time we had with him and only regret that it was too brief.
With love and deepest sympathy,
Ralph, Ann, Megan, Corey, and Jessie Parada
Debra Bleemer
May 20, 2008
I have known Craig simce he was 14 months old. Recently, I was
bestowed the honor of being called
"one of Craig's other mothers". I had two self appointed jobs as "other mother". The first was making sure he was taken out for his birthday while at San Francisco State and the other was helping him graduate from charm school. Years ago Donna and I were sitting at the Goris' campsite and I mentioned to Donna that I had gone to a girls boarding school in Switzerland. She exclaimed that I went to charm school. Craig was there and at that moment he was doing something very 12 year old boy..not very charming..and Donna said " That's what Craig needs, charm school". And so began my next self appointed duty of prompting Craig along with Donna and Jean to remember his manners. I will always remember the look on his face when one of us would say "charm school" to him..he would stop and think a bit then do whatever was expected of him. Two years ago Craig and I were sitting at the bar at Stone Ranch watching people. There were some visiting kids there, one of them did something very rude to one of the adults and Craig turned to me and said " you can tell he never went to charm school". I was so proud of him, I told him he had graduated from charm school and wouldn't be prompting him any more. Through all the years I have known the Goris', I have always admired them as a family. I have never seen a sister and brother as close as Jean and Craig. They always came up to the ranch with Donna and Greg, even as young adults they cherished family time. Greg, Donna, Jean, I am sorry for your loss, Craig will be missed by many.
Jason Neal
May 19, 2008
I don't know how to start this or even what to say. I have written and re-written this several times, not knowing how to put my thoughts to words. Craig was an amazing human being and I think we have the whole Goris family to thank. When Gruggel and I needed a place to stay you guys took us in with out any questions and treated us like we were a family member. I feel honored to have had Craig in my life. I still look back and laugh at all the insides jokes we all had. Even though his time on earth was short I feel he impacted and touched a lot of lives. Every time I try to write this I break down and it starts to make no sense. Which is what is happening now. I was going to try and call but I can barely type this let alone speak clearly. Basically what I am trying to say is Craig was one of a kind and he will be missed dearly by everyone he knew.
Maura Sullivan
May 19, 2008
I remember Craig as an honest individual happy to live his life. In truth, I am still so shocked to be writing about this here. Craig was a good brother to me and will be greatly missed.
Charlotte Fox
May 19, 2008
Words can't begin to express what Craig brought to this world and the people within it. Craig showed me how to be strong. He was always pushing me to be a better person and i thank him for that. To the Goris family, i am deeply sorry for the loss of such a wonderful brother and son. He is going to be missed so much but i know he is among us in spirit and guiding you through life. Thank you for such a beautiful memorial service. It was exactly what he would have wanted. I think of Craig and his family daily and can only hope for strength and love for you during this time.
Abraham Brown
May 19, 2008
We met Craig when he came to stay in our guest house in 2007 for a short time during his treatments at Stanford. Although we knew Craig for only a short time, we still think about him and talk about how he touched our lives.
What I remember most about Craig is the way he would smile when we came in the room to say hello, and he would immediatley make us feel like he had nothing better to do than to sit and talk to us.
Thank you, Craig, for enriching our lives during that brief visit. We will not forget you, or your family.
To the Goris family, please come visit when you are in the area again. The guest house is always open for you.
Love,
Abraham and Jim
Wesley Stone
May 19, 2008
Crieg,
You were an amazing man. I will never forget the summers I spent with you. I have always looked up to you Crieg and you have always been a great friend.
With unmeasured love, Forever in peace.
Rick Rizzolo
May 19, 2008
Every year we raise funds for, and ride in the Lance Armstrong, "LiveStrong Challange" ride in support of all those that have battled what Craig has battled. This year we will put Craig's name up on the board and dedicate our contributions and ride to him, to be remembered always and to inspire others in their fight.
We have not seen Craig in several years, but we remember him well from all those sessions at the ranch reunion over the years and the fun we shared with him.
He will always be an inspiration to us and to many others who's lives he touched with his laughter and love for fun.
His struggle and his passing is deeply felt and we will help to keep his memory alive in as many hearts as possible.
Sincerely,
Rick and Karen Rizzolo
Chris and Carol Reeves
May 19, 2008
Craig was a special person we looked forward to seeing each fourth of July at the Stone Ranch reunion. In those yearly episodes at the ranch, we watched him grow from a baby into a fine young man with a great sense of humor. He was becoming a master philosopher entertainer and we will miss him dearly. He will never be forgotten. Gregg, Donna and Jean, despite the gaping hole, you remain a truly exemplary family, and we see joy in your future.
Annie Levett
May 19, 2008
No one gave better hugs.
I admit I'm struggling wretchedly with this, but I try to remain grateful every day for the time I had with him. Thank you thank you thank you Donna and Gregg for sharing your son with us. There are so, so many who loved him.
Kali Woods
May 18, 2008
I am still reeling from the shock of Craigs death, and I don't know how to express how badly I feel. I never thought I would have to say goodbye so abruptly to a guy I had a crush on all through elementary school.. Craig was a genuine, wonderful person and was a true friend to all that knew him. I don't know that he ever had any enemies. The memorial at La Conchita last week was amazing - it was great to see everyone.
Craig's life was spent well and he was a righteous guy. He will always be greatly missed!
Jen Bach
May 18, 2008
Craig was always such a rad friend. Never held grudges, always stoked, and if bummed about something, it was always easy for him to get stoked like nothing happened. I think about all the random times we've had together, but mainly I've been thinking about the time Craig, some of our friends, and I went to treasure island and found a sweet skate spot/spot that could be really great for shows. And now, even more so I'd really like to put on a show over there on treasure island. Craig, you seriously do inspire me. I think about you when I play music, when I listen to music, when Maura and I get really excited about anything music related. You almost always come up. Not lost, but gone before. You will seriously be in my heart forever.
Goris Family, you are such an awesome family and I have much love for you.
Brian Thornhill
May 18, 2008
I first met Craig in Junior lifeguards at the beach. When we discovered we were both from Ojai I think we both realized a sense of common friendship and loyalty among the other Ventura kids. I think we even carpooled a few times. I also remember playing baseball with him through the years. I was never the star player, and if I remember correctly, I don't think he was either. But I do remember him always having a great time and happy to be out there with his friends, no matter what the score. We were just kids at the time, but as we both grew up in Ojai, among different groups of friends, we would always share a comfortable nod to one-another whenever we would cross paths. As we each got older, our friends and acquaintances became more woven and we seemed to bump into each-other more often. I came to realize that he was a very kind, happy, and cool kid. And if anyone would have ever asked, I'm sure we both would have claimed that we had been friends for years. I admired his individualism and that he was traveling the world playing music. What a courageous thing to do, I thought. He was doing what he loved to do and I thought that was so noble. I am terribly saddened to find this news. But I am reminded that anyone who was able to know Craig or cross paths with him was lucky. He was on this earth for a limited time, and if you were fortunate enough to share a moment with him, then lucky you. My heart goes out to him and the Goris family. Thanks you for contributing a wonderful soul to our world. We are forever gracious for your gift. It was a pleasure knowing you Craig Goris. Nicely done.
Shauna Scott
May 17, 2008
My Heart goes out to your family and friends. I am Mom to JT on E-Sarcoma list and I can only imagine how hard this is for you. I wish I'd known your son, he sounds like a wonderful son. God Bless you.
Shauna
Expecting Miracles
Emily Burger
May 17, 2008
Dear Goris family,
May your hearts remain full of the love that Craig brought us all while he enjoyed his journey on Earth. I am grateful to have known such a real,strong, loving, & kind person, always able to sense the hilarity in day to day life...we will always miss his physical presence, incredible smile, and genuine laugh. The down to earth love he embodied is something we will carry with us forever, in spirit.May you find peace knowing that Craig is still very much alive through the invaluable gifts he shared with us.
katie foley
May 17, 2008
Dear Goris Family,
Craig gave me so much. This one time I was sitting in his room back in Ojai with Graham and Craig. We were listening to music and talking about their recent tour of Europe. They both sat facing me explaining basically how stoked they were to be alive. I shared similar moments like this with Craig but this was the first time he’d said it flat out this. Often when I’d see Craig up here in the bay area we’d end up talking of fun memories we had shared together. I guess I want to thank him for all the great times.
I’m still trying to put a grasp on all this. My words don’t begin to express all that I feel for Craig and your entire family. You all are amazing people. Maybe I meet you in morro bay like Donna said?
Love you all
Brenda and Richard Parish
May 17, 2008
Dear Donna,
I am Chris' mom on the E-SARC list-serve. I am so very, very sorry about your loss of your son. These young men who battle Ewing's are so courageous and strong. It seems to make their passing even more tragic. I did not know your son personally, of course, but - as one Ewing's mom to another - my heart goes out to you and your family at this most difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love from Texas,
Brenda Parish (mom to Chris, 20, dx ES/PNET 2005, awaiting most recent scan results)
Eva Blehm
May 14, 2008
Dear Donna, Greg and Jean,
Craig helped me get my life back together after I fought a tremendous personal battle. I will never forget all that he helped me find within my self as well as in others and my surroundings. He encouraged me to go back to school and to find what I loved and to do it, with out questioning myself. I can't even begin to express my gratitude and will forever strive to show him all that I am capable of. While I am heartbroken over his physical loss I feel his spirit everyday and know that he is watching which motivates to work harder and harder. The love within your family has inspired me. Thank you for producing such a wonderful human being who has shared his magic with so many. I love you all and will forever keep you and your boy within my heart.
Julie Bjorn Christensen
May 14, 2008
Dear Goris Family
You don't know me, but I knew your son - I am a Danish journalist who worked with him at SanToki Productions.
I am now back in Denmark, but emailed with him only a couple of months ago where he talked of the fun times he had had some years ago, visiting Copenhagen.
I can't believe he is no longer among us, and I just wanted to offer my sincere condolences to you and your family.
I only worked with him for a short while, but I very much enjoyed his company and always easy-going state of mind.
He was always very helpful and with a smile on his face.
I will miss him - and think of you through these times of hardship.
Cynthia Sherman
May 14, 2008
Our Heart felt thoughts and prayers go out to all of you. Know in some way that he is not suffering and in pain anymore. He is shining brightly and will truely be missed. Love you Donna, Greg and Jean
Audrey Husted
May 14, 2008
Donna,Gregg and Jean What an honor to beable to sign Craigs guest Book. I will always remember him the last time I saw him, he remembered me and his smile, a smile I will always remember. He was such a wonderful person. My prayers are with you - I know you will always have him in your hearts.
Nicole Sherman
May 14, 2008
My heart breaks for the loss of your child. I can only imagine the pain. Reading about your son, makes me sad that I had not known him better. God really touched his life by giving him such a wonderful spirit. What a legacy that he left behind. I know that you must be so proud of the accomplishments that he made. You were truly blessed and will continue to be blessed.
God Bless you and your family...
Ashley Thomas
May 13, 2008
I just keep thinking that the best part about Craig was really his
spirit, which is indicative of his endless wonderful qualities. I keep
thinking of a conversation we had not that long ago. He was saying
something about his band, and I said, "man I want to be in a band."
and he just looks at me and goes, "so do it ashley." Anyway, I've been
doing it recently, and I know I'll think of him every time I play
music with someone else. I loved him very much and regret not seeing
him more, I could have learned so much more from him, though I know
when I think of just how Craig "was" in his entirety I can learn a
lifetime of lessons.
Mary Blehm
May 13, 2008
Dear Goris Family,
Our hearts break for you & the tremendous loss you are suffering. One did not have to spend much time with Craig to know that he was a very special human being. When our daughter, Eva, brought him home to introduce us to him last year, we were struck by his peaceful presence, confidence & maturity. We are grateful for the time he spent with our daughter, offering his love & support at a time when she needed his wisdom & optimistic faith in humanity.
Please know that you are not alone in feeling the magnitude of the loss of Craig. Our thoughts & prayers are with you all.
Most sincerely,
Mary & Jake Blehm
Kevin Barnett
May 12, 2008
Craig's smile and laugh is something I will always remember. I am saddened by this loss, and hold his family and soul in my prayers. See you on the other side, brother.
cathy pagnusat
May 12, 2008
Donna, Gregg, & Jean,
Craig will always be in our hearts and memories. We are so blessed to have been touched by him, and to have shared in making memories with him. He was my other son and will be truly missed. There are no words that can lessen the pain you guys feel. You know you can call on me anytime and I will be there for you. I will continue to keep you in my prayers for the strength you need to get through this great loss.
Jean, you can know that the friendship you and Craig had was a rare and wonderful gift. You also helped in making him all that he was. How fortunate he was to have a sister like you.
Love you all
Melvin
May 12, 2008
Craig, you'll always be my Guitar Hero! Love you Aunt Donna, Uncle Gregg and cousin Jean!
Eunice Montes
May 12, 2008
Donna,
My thoughts and prayers are with you. My heart broke when I received the phone call. You and your family have been a blessing to me and my family and we will forever remember your courage, hope and love for your beautiful son. We are truly blessed that you all walked into our life. God bless you and keep you always. Craig is and will always be a true inspiration to us all.
JK
May 12, 2008
There will always be a place of honor for you at the "Kids Table"
Ronna Brandt
May 12, 2008
Dear Donna ,Greg and Jean,Wow,what a beautiful story of Craig's life! I wish we could have known him better,it was much too short a time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you now as the healing process starts. He obviously gave life his best. You are blessed to have had such a great son and brother. With love, The Brandt family,Ronna Barry,KD and Ben.
Les Simonson
May 12, 2008
Donna, Gregg and Jean,
I can not tell you how My heart ached upon hearing about Craig. Words cannot convey the feelings created. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and all of the family. I know so many lives are better, because of being touched by your fine son. Love, Les and Debra.
Sophia Teper
May 12, 2008
I started working at San Toki productions around the same time as Craig. The workload and responsibilities were unpredictable and Craig was always able to take care of all of his tasks calmly and with the best attitude. He was probably the reason that I stayed at San Toki for the time that I did and I'm completely shocked and saddened that such a bright light could have gone out. I wish all the best to those he left behind, but know that what he did leave behind could fill the hearts of those he knew and many more. You're in my thoughts.
Erin
May 12, 2008
Craig will be in the hearts of everyone who knew him, you don't forget a loving soul like his.
Sandy Chan
May 12, 2008
to the Goris Family -- it was an honor and a pleasure to work with you and your family, especially Craig. Thank you for your grace. take care of yourselves. From Dr. Stephanie Harman, Sandy Chan, LCSW, Stanford Palliative Care Team.
Homan & Jennifer Khaki & children
May 11, 2008
Dear Donna, Greg & Jean, time spent with you and your family with the Hofteigs is always a joy. The memorial was a beautiful tribute to the man Craig had become and to the wonderful way you raised your children. We are deeply sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Pam and Matt Schlotterbeck
May 11, 2008
Donna, Gregg and Jean,
We are so very sorry for your loss and wish there were some words of wisdom that would provide you with comfort. We could see during the memorial service that you are surrounded by many caring and loving family members and friends. We wish we lived closer, so we too could help and support you during this difficult time. Please know that you continue to be in our thoughts and prayers!
Much Love,
Mary Ellen & Jerry Hamilton
May 10, 2008
Our prayers and thoughts are with all of you. My heart breaks to see such a young person cut short in life. It sounds like you have a lot of good memories to reflect on.
Erika Trautman
May 10, 2008
I interviewed Craig for his internship at Santoki Productions a little over a year ago and told our boss, Grace, I thought she would like him. We worked together over the Spring and Summer. He was smart, committed, reliable, ethical, always calm under fire, totally easy to work with and a lot of fun. I looked forward to a long professional relationship with him--I figured I would be hiring him for film projects decades down the road. We miss him over here at Santoki Productions. He was a great person to have around.
To Craig's family, I'm very sorry for your loss.
Sharon Dwyer
May 10, 2008
Dear Donna and family,
I am so very sorry to hear about Craig's passing. I was deeply moved by the obituary - what a stunning tribute to a young life so rich and full. The words were full of love - may that love bring you strength and comfort during these difficult times.
I send my sincerest condolences. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely,
Sharon Dwyer
Teresa Rooney
May 10, 2008
Dear Greg and Donna,
Peace be with you and your family. Words are just not enough to express the heart felt sorrow of the loss of your beautiful son. The world was a better place because of him.
with love, Teresa
Jeanine Kelly
May 10, 2008
Donna, Gregg, Jean and family,
Our sincerest condolences in this most difficult time. I didn't know
Craig well but from the few times our paths did cross, I could see he was a very inspirational soul who loved to live life to the fullest. He wasn't afraid to reach for the stars and it showed in his incredibly positive outlook on life. He will be truly missed by many.
Helen Park
May 10, 2008
I first met Craig about a year ago, at the Santoki Productions offices in San Francsico. I was editing, and he joined our team as a fresh faced production assistant.
Craig was an amazing young man. I'm so happy that I got a chance to work with him, and see him rise to every challenge our work had to offer. He always went above and beyond the expectations (which were always unpredictable, crazed, and chaotic), and it was wonderful to watch him become better and better at what he did - and always so centered in the midst of it all. He was the sanest amongst us, for sure. His presence had a wonderful calming effect, and he was just great to be around, as you all well know. He was exactly what we needed!
I had left the Santoki offices in August of last year to move back to New York, and it was shortly thereafter that I had first heard the news of Craig's illness. He has always been in my thoughts.
I am blessed that I got to see him again both times I went back to work for Grace last fall - his light was still just as bright, his spirit so staid and calm, as always. He was incredible to witness. I don't know many people at all who would have handled the same situation with such strength of mind, soul, and heart.
I am honored to have known and worked with Craig.
I know there are no words that can ease the pain you and your family are going through right now, but I just want you to know how Craig's life touched yet another person.
I deeply regret not being able to be at the memorial tomorrow, as I am still in NY. But will absolutely be there in spirit, and will be thinking of Craig.
My sincerest sympathies to you, Gregg, and Jean.
Todd and Dianne Kelley
May 10, 2008
Donna, Gregg, and Jean and family
Our hearts grieve for the loss of your son Craig. What a beautiful soul. We were blessed to know him. He was blessed to have a wonderful family to love and support him as he climbed every mountain. God bless and comfort you always, Love Todd and Dianne Kelley
May 9, 2008
I teach Advanced Video Production at San Francisco Sate University. At the beginning of the fall 2007 semester, late August, I received an e-mail from Craig who wrote to inform me about his unknown medical condition and asked me to keep his seat for him. He wrote:
“I want you to know that my education is my first priority, and I am doing everything in my power to get back into class as soon as physically able. “
After my reply informing him about the nature of the course, the time requirement, and long production hours, he wrote back:
“I am aware of the workload involved in this class, and I am very capable of handling such work…… I have all the prerequisites necessary. So as soon as I regain my health I am ready to go.”
Indeed Craig was an incorrigible optimist. I very much respected his drive, optimism and his can-do attitude. He had all the passion, enthusiasm and qualities that we treasure in our students. I am writing to offer my condolences to Craig’s family, friends, and all those whom he touched in his short but rich and inspiring life.
Hamid Khani, Professor
San Francisco State University
Laura Kriese
May 9, 2008
Gregg and Donna,
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. My heartfelt condolences to you both.
Kayla Wilde
May 9, 2008
Love you Craig!! My heart and prayers goes out to everyone!
JacK Clise
May 9, 2008
Good bye Craig- I always enjoyed talking you with you late at night under the orange tree. You were a good friend to Graham and the guys, a good helper when the containers arrived from Asia, a good brother when Jean needed you in Mexico and a good example to all. In this life your presence will be truly missed.
Cynthia Payne
May 9, 2008
Dear Donna, Greg & Jean,
Our thoughts are with you.
Craig will truly be missed.
Jeff Jacoby
May 9, 2008
I was Craig's Professor at SFSU, and remember well his passion, good nature, and good work. The news of his passing is a shock and saddens me very deeply. But I, among many, will remember him always, and send my condolences to his family & friends.
Barbara Owens
May 9, 2008
Dearest Goris family,
I, too, believe that special people are sent to us to accomplish something or teach a lesson and once their task is done, they leave us all too soon. I believe Craig was one such person. May your hearts be filled with the best memories ever of your son and brother. Hugs Barbara
Shelia Walker
May 9, 2008
Dear Donna and family -
I am so very, very sorry. I wish I had the words to ease your pain but I don't. Just know that many people are praying for you and your family. Always in my prayers and thoughts. Love-Shelia e-sarcoma board
carol meece
May 9, 2008
my heart goes out to Gregg, Donna, Jean - family & friends that loved and supported Craig throughout his life.
Carol
Sharon Masson
May 9, 2008
Greg, Donna, and Jean, my thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time.
mark knox
May 9, 2008
donna, our thought and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. May God's love hold and strengten you. love Mark and Sally Knox
Erin Hofteig
May 9, 2008
Craig will never really leave us.
Ryan
May 9, 2008
Craig will live on through our hearts and our memories. He made a huge impact in so many lives and will not be forgotten.
MiMi Olsson
May 9, 2008
Dear Donna and family.....my heart aches for you...there are no words..
With Hope, MiMi
Ewing's support group
http://www.acor.org/e-sarcoma.html
Luann Swanberg
May 9, 2008
My heart goes out to you Donna and your family during the difficult time. May love, peace and strength surround you.
Alex
May 9, 2008
I will always remember the time we shared...never to be forgotten
Ted and Sandi
May 9, 2008
What a wonderful life he led in his short time here--and he was blessed with a wonderful family and countless friends of all ages.
Tish
May 9, 2008
Craig . . .you inspire my days.
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