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2009
Frank Bustamante Obituary
Frank Bustamante passed away peacefully as he planned on March 26, 2009 knowing his life on earth was to be followed by his grand journey into heaven. Frank was loved by a countless number of people and left his mark wherever he went with his sense of humor, quick wit and gentle nature. He was a great husband, father, grandfather, uncle, brother and friend.
Frank was born December 3, 1926 and was a veteran of World War II. He met the love of his life, Gloria after his honorable discharge from the service and they married in 1952 and were married for almost 53 years before her death in 2005.
Frank worked for Bank of America for 30 years before taking early retirement, even though he did not retire. He continued to work as a consultant for a few years, but always found time to enjoy life. Frank was a true sports fan, and if the Lakers or Dodgers were on the television, you just knew you could find him sitting in his favorite chair rooting them on. You also knew not to call him during the game, or the conversation would be rather one-sided. Frank also loved being a member of the Knights of Columbus and was honored to serve a year as Grand Knight of San Buenaventura Council #2498. Frank volunteered for many projects with his brother Knights, and he also donated time, energy and money to little league, the American Legion and many other worthy recipients.
Frank is survived by his daughter, Barbara and her husband Jerry son, Ted and his wife Debbie; and his grandchildren, Melissa, Evan, Bryant, Scott and Sara, who were the five lights of his life. He is also survived by his sister, Chita; and many nieces and nephews.
Visitation will be held from 3 - 8 p.m., Monday, March 30th, at the Ted Mayr Funeral Home, 3150 Loma Vista Road, Ventura, with recitation of the Rosary beginning at 7 p.m. A Funeral Mass will be held at Our Lady of Assumption Church at 12:00 noon on Tuesday, March 31, with Interment to follow at Ivy Lawn Memorial Park, 5400 Valentine Road, Ventura, and reception at Saticoy Country Club to follow. The family would like to extend heartfelt thanks to all the medical personnel and friends who helped Frank over the years. Every kind word and thoughtful action helped Frank with the struggles he faced daily, and provided him with strength while he lived his last days as he lived his entire life, with dignity.
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Memories and Condolences
for Frank Bustamante
Barbara Payan
April 22, 2009
Iwant to take this time to send my deepest sympathy and god bless all your family. because it is difficult to lose someone you love and admire. And know god is with you always/ The time i got to know Frank was a blessing in my life and he will be truly miss. You are in my thoughts and prayers
Joe & Kathy Vaughan
April 7, 2009
Ted and Family.
Sorry to hear of the loss of your father. It is always difficult to lose someone that you admire and love. I believe we honor those we lose by taking what we admire in them and making those traits a part of our lives.
God Bless you. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
charlie schaefer
March 31, 2009
Dear Ted & Barbara
I am deeply saddened to have learned of the passing of your father. He was truely a remarkable man, whose wit and humble nature I will never forget. He is the type of Father all of us aspire to be. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your families. God bless
March 31, 2009
March 31, 2009
Dear Family of Frank Bustamante,
My husband and I wish to extend our condolences to all of you. May the Lord comfort you during this difficult time. We were sorry to hear of Frank's death, but inspiring to read of his productive and happy life.
I was a Classmate of his at Miami High School during the years of 1943-45. I also knew him since the days he lived in Florence, AZ when I would visit with my cousins, the Garcia family. My cousin Eloisa was a good friend of his sister, Lola. He was also related to my sister-in-law, Betty Portillo Barcon. She always called him "Uncle Frank," because he was her uncle, even though she was 13 years older than he. I lost track of Frank, or "Kiko" as we called him, throughout the years, but I saw him and his wife Gloria at the funeral of Dave Hernandez. It was enjoyable to share our life's experiences then and we discovered we had similar travel experiences. It was a pleasure to meet your Mom. I had occasion to converse with him over the phone a few times after that. I will always remember him fondly, as you say in the obituary, he was a quiet and dignified man.
Sincerely,
Jess and Elisa Munoz
8301 Winterwood Ave.
Stanton, CA 90680
Michele Schoenberger
March 31, 2009
Dearest Frank,
It is often too late to express to someone exactly how they touched your life. You were a wonderful man and I am thankful I had the pleasure of knowing you. My daughters will always remember you as "Frank with the licorice". They looked forward to coming to the office to visit with you and enjoying licorice together. As will I always cherish the quilt Gloria knitted for the birth of our daughter, Kyrah.
I take solace in knowing your long battle is over and you are now at peace and in the loving arms of your sweet Gloria.
I will miss you but the memories of you and the times we had together will always be in my heart. You were a wonderful person and friend and I can only inspire to be such a person as you.
Ted & Barbara,
I am saddened that I am unable to attend Frank's services. Please know that he is in my heart and I am thinking of you at this time. Your father was so special to me; I enjoyed being a part of his life. I felt lucky to have shared a special day with him, December 3rd, not only was his birthday but it is also my wedding anniversary. Each year on that day we would give each other a hug and congratulate each other on our special day. You are very fortunate to have such a wonderful & loving person for a father. My heart is with you both as well as your families during this difficult time.
With love
The Schoenberger Family
Anna and Herlinda Hernandez
March 30, 2009
Dear Ted and Barbara,
Mom and I would like to offer our condolences and prayers at this difficult time for you. Mom has many fond memories of your father over so many years. He was a very positive influence in her life, and he was a wonderful source of inspiration for her after my own father passed away. God bless you. You are in our prayers.
March 30, 2009
Dear Ted & Barbara,
Your Dad was one of the kindest and gentlest man I have ever met. he was a class indivual whom I am glad I had the chance to know, he will be missed. My thoughts are with you and your families during this most difficult time. God bless
Jim & Ruth Aguilar
March 30, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Derek and Betty Storey
March 30, 2009
Ted, March 27,2009
What a gallant finish to an inspiring life...I sorta felt him departing last night and this morning before I read your e mail.......Frank had such a grounding effect on me and had such a good sense of humor...The Lakers won one in his honor tonight... How fortunate you were to have him for so many years...You were a great son and I know he treasured you till the end...Our last encounter at Casa De Soria was just like the good old days with warmth, laughter, and fond memories...I guess we now hold tight the memories and the legacy until time heals the pain...May your tears of sorrow eventually turn to tears of joy that Frank had such wonderful life with so many blessings and no regrets...Looking forward to celebrating his life with you on Tuesday. I just sent him a prayer..Bless Him and we send a Fond Farewell to a Dear Man...
The Storey Foundation
Debra Libby
March 29, 2009
Dear Barbara and family,
I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your beloved father. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time.
Debra Valdes Libby
henry@alice guevara
March 29, 2009
We would like to offer our condolences to Franks family. He was a brother knight. We would see him at the K.ofC. meetings and K.ofC. conventions. We will miss you. God bless you.
Benjamin & Mary Lou Romero
March 29, 2009
Barbara & Ted,..We send our deepest sympathies on the passing of your father.Sad news travels fast & my sister Neomi,along with my tias' Eleanor Almeida & Esther Magdaleno of Ventura County keep me informed of all things of importance in the family.Your mother Gloria was my mother Margaret Tafoya Romero's first cousin from Moorpark.The wonderful obituary does your father great justice,& its always good to see that our family members, here,& gone have led a fulfilled & productive life.Frank Bustamante's legacy will forever be cherished by those whose life he touched most.Be strong & may God Bless al of the Bustamante & Martinez Family
Barbara Payan
March 29, 2009
i would like to offer my condolances on the passing on Frank .joe and i got to know him from diaylsis and he was a great friend ..You are in our prayers.
Socorro Hill
March 28, 2009
I would like to offer my condolences on the passing of Mr. Bustamante. I worked at the Ventura Townehouse in food services. We used to call each other "My corazon." I really liked Mr. Bustamante, and I will miss him a lot. God bless you Mr. Bustamante.
Danny and Donna Sassen
March 28, 2009
Barbara and Ted, I am sorry to read of the passing of your father. Our condolences go out to you and your families. We will keep you and your Father in our prayers during this difficult time.
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