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Jerry Lee "J.d." Dammeier

1945 - 2021

Jerry Lee "J.d." Dammeier obituary, 1945-2021, Camarillo, CA

BORN

1945

DIED

2021

Jerry Dammeier Obituary

Jerry Lee "J.D." Dammeier

Camarillo - It is with a heavy heart that we announce the passing of our beloved Jerry. He had succumbed to his 10-year battle with cancer.

Jerry was born September 27, 1945, in Seattle, Washington to Harold and Elsie Jean Dammeier.

Upon graduation from Queen Ann High School, he entered into military service. Jerry served in Viet Nam with the 5th Marines. He was a Navy Corpsman attached to fleet Marines. Time served 1962 - 1966.

Jerry embarked on his career in retail, working as an assistant manager of "W.T. Grants". He became a buyer of woman's clothing for "Grants" home office in Manhattan, New York. That is when Jerry met and married his wife of 50 years, Vivian, who also worked for the company.

They quickly moved back to California. Jerry spent years being transferred to various store locations. He managed stores in Santa Rosa, Chula Vista, National City, (where their first daughter was born), Oceanside, Camarillo (where the twins were born) and Ridgecrest.

Jerry then managed Unity Buying Services until Harbor Freight occupied the building. He was fortunate; people valued his knowledge of retail. While he helped them prosper and grow, he also succeeded on accomplishing his own goals. Jerry climb the corporate latter, carrying various titles until he retired as president.

Jerry was very regimented, you could set your clock by his routine. Every year he wrote out a bucket list of things to do, travel plans, home improvements, etc. and was able to scratched them all off. His life was full. He loved spending time with family and friends. Jerry toured Europe, vacationed in Hawaii and Mexico, visited various places around the United States, family outings, and camping with family and friends. His all-time favorite was the family home at Bass Lake doing all the fun stuff the lake provided.

Jerry enjoyed deep-sea fishing. He played on a softball team for years. He loved the Lakers and the Seattle Seahawks (his hometown team).

Jerry will be sorely missed by all who had the good fortune to know him. To all those who have reached out to us in thoughts and prayers, a heartfelt thank you. To Scotty (Jerry's lifelong friend and buddy) thank you and God bless you supporting our girls, and Angela & family, being that comforting shoulder we all need right now.

He was preceded in death by his son, Justin Dammeier; sister, Sherri Dammeier Poletti; parents, Harold and Jean Dammeier; stepmother, Geneva Dammeier; and grandparents.

Jerry leaves behind his wife, Vivian Dammeier; daughter, Danielle and Vanessa Dammeier; grandsons, Jacob Dammeier (Bri), and Jaden Dammeier Le Fleur; and great granddaughter, Lyla. He was uncle to 12 nieces and nephews; and great uncle to 24.

Until we meet again, our beloved Jerry. Rest in Peace.

There will be a private burial service for immediate family. Flowers may be sent.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Ventura County Star from Mar. 15 to Mar. 17, 2021.

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Vanessa Dammeier

March 6, 2025

It has been 4 long years without you Dad . I think about you every single day . I miss you more than words can express.
I can´t wait until the day I see you again .
I love you to infinity!
Vanessa

Vanessa Dammeier

March 14, 2024

I miss you every single dad. My heart has been broken every since you´ve been gone . I hope you are happy and looking over us. I love you so much . Thank for being my the Best Dad a girl could ask for .
I love you .

Jay Musselwhite

June 5, 2021

I am so sorry to hear that Jerry has passed.
Jerry and I were classmates in Junior High. We had a lot of fun together going to the Magnolia Bowling Alley and playing the pin ball machines. Jerry was a great guy and a lot of fun to spend time with.
Rest in peace my friend.

Vanessa Dammeier

March 31, 2021

Dad ,
Thank you for being the most amazing father and friend . I love and miss you so very much . I’ll be counting the days until I see you again .....
I hope the Angels know what they have .
Forever yours ,
Vanessa

Ron Austin

March 25, 2021

I enjoyed fishing with Jerry. I believe Jerry is in a better place now. I know he struggled to stay alive as long as he could. He loved all his family. He was very appreciative for Angela’s love and support. He loved her. He missed his son Justin. I wish all of you peace.

Bum and Cheri

March 18, 2021

Angie, to you and your family our heart is heavy with sadness. JD was just an amazing guy. Nothing but the deepest respect for him. He made coming to work fun. I used to love to "Mess up" his papers on his desk whenever I delivered his morning paperwork. He would get so annoyed (With a laugh) you are in our thoughts and prayers and we are here for you if we can do anything.
Love Cheri and Bum

Jennifer Neuer

March 17, 2021

March 17, 2021
Angela, Shon and Sam,
I’m sorry for your loss. Angela you are a true hero and amazing women & Jerry knew that! To lose a partner of 28 years is devastating but you had a amazing bond & love many would cherish!❤
Sam and Shon hugs to you!

Sonia

March 17, 2021

My condolences to all!! Jerry thank you for all the great memories at bass lake and all the wonderful Mother’s Day parties you hosted. I am sure going to miss stopping by the house dropping off all your chocolates that you loved and cake for that sweet tooth you had. May you Rest In Peace now with the fat little angels as Ang would say.

Love
Elsa

Joanna Martins

March 17, 2021

Dearest Aunt Viv, Danielle and Vanessa, my heart breaks for all of you. Just know you are in my prayers and keep all of your precious memories so close to your heart. I will never forget the wonderful memory of visiting all of you out in California. Love you all so much, Joanna

Loyd Hembree

March 17, 2021

It's hard to put into words the way this family accepted me into their lives, I find comfort knowing he is with his son and the rest of his family with no suffering. We all have our memories of Jerry and his family, mine I hold very close to my heart. Jerry and Viv put up with a lot from us kids, knowing this family has made me a better person and it's an honor to call Jerry a friend. Viv, Danielle and Vanessa, day or night you know where to find me if you need me. I truly look forward to the day we can all be together again, rest in piece Jerry.

March 17, 2021

Angela, I am so sorry for you loss. Over the last 25 plus years you and Jerry really changed each other’s lives. Your love for each other made each of you better in different ways. Jerry was a terrific man, I am glad you were by his side through it all. I was lucky to know him and call you both friend. Please give your kids and his daughters my condolences.

Rachel G

Casey Green

March 17, 2021

Vanessa, I am so sorry for yours and Danielle’s great loss. Prayers and hugs to you both. Your Dad will be deeply missed.

Sonia

March 16, 2021

My condolences to all! Jerry you were a very kind hearted man with so much wisdom to offer everyone who you spoke to. Thank you for all the great memories at Bass Lake and Mother’s Day celebrations. I will miss stopping by the house dropping off all the chocolates that you loved because you had the biggest sweet tooth. May you Rest In Peace now.

Love
The Garcia Family
Family

Lori Hembree-Mike

March 16, 2021

Vivian, Danielle, Vanessa, Jacob
All close friends and family knew Jerry passing was sadly eminent. The passing of Jerry has reminded me to reflect on our two families’ happy memories together over the last 40+ years. Jerry always made sure we had well planned trips with ATCs to ride, boats to water ski, a motor home, and a Bass Lake cabin to camp. Jerry was very diligent to plan every event with a note for all prep and tasks. Even through the last year , I wasn’t surprised to see Jerry’s reminder note to change car oil sitting on the Dammeier home bar.
My thoughts and prayers go out to the Dammeier family. Wife Vivian, daughters Danielle and Vanessa, and grandson Jacob.

Kelly Jensen

March 16, 2021

Viv, Danielle and Vanessa...
I am so, so sorry for this devastating loss. I have the best childhood memories of our families all up at the lake. Jerry was always so quick to take us out to ski or tube even if he had just come back in from a run. He was always so fun to be around. I’ll also always remember our countless Christmas Eves together. You will be deeply missed, Jerry. Sending all my love to Viv and the girls

Kelly Jensen

March 16, 2021

Viv, Danielle and Vanessa...
I am so so sorry for this devastating loss. I have the best childhood memories of our families all up at the lake. Jerry was always so quick to take us out to ski or tube even if he had just come back in from a run. He was always so fun to be around. I’ll also always remember our countless Christmas Eves together. You will be deeply missed, Jerry. Sending all my love to Viv and the girls

Kelly Jensen

March 16, 2021

Viv, Danielle and Vanessa...
I am so so sorry for this devastating loss. I have the best childhood memories of our families all up at the lake. Jerry was always so quick to take us out to ski or tube even if he had just come back in from a run. He was always so fun to be around. I’ll also always remember our countless Christmas Eves together. You will be deeply missed, Jerry. Sending all my love to Viv and the girls

March 16, 2021

To our dearest friend “Terry”, you will be greatly missed. We had some great times, great conversations and great memories. Our condolences to you all. It’s time to walk Maggie.

Love,
The Radel Family

Love Darla

March 16, 2021

Angela, Shon and Sam,
Sorry for your loss. You all we’re the best thing that could have come into Jerry’s life. We can tell how much love he had for all of you including his grand babies. Ang, to us you are a true hero! We saw how much love And care you gave him from beginning to the end. You are a beautiful and strong woman and Jerry will be truly missed.

March 16, 2021

Angela,Shon, and Samatha I am so sorry for your lose. My thoughts and prayers are with you all in this time. I could only image what you all must being going through having to lose the man that completed your guys circle. It was always so nice to see how much Jerry cared and loved each and everyone of you and the grandbabies. The way he looked at you Ang when you walked in a room! Amazing couple!!! I will always remember that sweet tooth he had and ready for the next batch of desserts. I know he will always be watching over you Ang and supporting everything you do . He truly loved you and appriciated all the care you did you for him til his last days.. You are his angel on earth and he is your angel in heaven!

Love
Lisa Casas
friend

March 16, 2021

Condolences to you all.
Thank you for all the amazing memories.
Love,
The Hernandez Family

Ron Rodriguez

March 16, 2021

There are just no words. I cannot imagine losing my partner after 28 years. Angela, the love you two shared and the home you made together were awe-inspiring. Your love stood the test of time and now Jerry will watch over you and your family forever. Deepest sympathies to you and your family and Jerry's daughters, so much loss for them as well. Continued Blessings to you and your family in your time of mourning. May Jerry's love bring you peace through it all.

March 16, 2021

Angela & Family, Vanessa & Danielle. Sorry for your loss. Rest In Peace Dammeier!

Steve

March 16, 2021

Angela, So sorry for your loss. My heart just break for you and your family. We were all so blessed to have Jerry in our family. He will be truly missed. We love you

The Capone's

March 16, 2021

No words can describe the pain you must be going through after all these years. Angela, Please accept our deepest heart felt condolences. Prayers to you and the kids and those beautiful grandbabies that brought such Joy to JD these last few years. We will celebrate him at every future concert in the park. Love and Hugs

Mike & Christina

March 16, 2021

Great lake memories with Jerry and Angela.
Jerry you will be missed!
The Morgans
Bass Lake Neighbors

Patrice

March 16, 2021

My Nag, words cannot express my sadness for you, Sean Michael and Sam. I am here for you as you loose your life partner and best friend. So happy you had so many years together.

Rob

March 16, 2021

Best times were hanging out with you in the garage, just doing nothin. Miss you man. Will visit the family - Angela and the kids.

Stef and Jeff

March 16, 2021

The greatest couple - we love hanging out with you guys. Jerry, you will truly be missed. Angela, Stef and I are hear for you.

Dave

March 16, 2021

Jerry - Angela lived to make you happy. So sorry for this loss.

Patsy

March 16, 2021

So sad to say "goodbye", we all loved you. Your family will miss you dearly. Ang, Sammy and Sean - my heart and hugs are with you.

March 16, 2021

Love and condolences to the Pallan and Dammeier family . Jerry was an amazing man. Papa will be greatly missed by his grand babies Lorelei and Scarlette. He brought so much joy to our family. His Mother’s Day parties were the best.
Love,
Lamas Family

March 16, 2021

Angela, I am so sorry for your loss. Prayers for you and your family.

Jenna

March 16, 2021

I am so sorry for your loss, JD was an amazing man. It was truly a pleasure knowing him. Angela, please accept our condolences and give hugs and love to the kids and his daughters. You were truly a Blessing for him. Much love to you all.

The O'Connell Family

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