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John Erbeck Obituary
John R. Erbeck, Ph.D. passed away peacefully with his family by his side in the morning of October 10, 2012. John was 67 years old.
John was born in White Plains, N.Y. on April 12, 1945 the only child of John and Janette Erbeck. Education was an important part of his life. He attended the Harvey School and Trinity-Pawling Preparatory School.
Upon winning a New York State Scholarship for both academic and athletic achievements, John attended Colgate University where he graduated Phi Beta Kappa with B.A. in Psychology. He completed his first two M.S. degrees at Long Beach State University and received a third from Florida State University. John also received his Ph. D from FSU and graduated at the top of his class.
In 1979, Dr. Erbeck began a private practice in Ventura where he continued to see patients until his untimely passing. Dr. Erbeck was very dedicated to the profession of Psychology. Dr. Erbeck was active in his community and his profession. He served on the board for the Swift Memorial Health Care Foundation, Calif. Psychological Association and the Ventura Co. Psychological Association, his HOA and several others.
Jack met the loved of his life, his wife Carolyn, in June of 1989. They spent the next 23 years virtually inseparable. They worked together, played together, traveled together and explored their many mutual passions. Jack also became a father to Carolyn's daughter Jennifer. They made a happy family. Together they all enjoyed the love and company of family, friends, and pets. Jack and Carolyn truly enjoyed being married.
Jack loved to spend time with his friends laughing and watching sports ("Go Lakers") and FSU Seminoles. He was a very kind , loving man, a wonderful husband, father, friend and a true gentleman. We have lost a very special person, who is dearly missed.
A devoted husband and father, Jack is survived by his loving wife Carolyn; his daughter Jennifer; sister-in-law Pattie (Tim), Ethel, Dorothy, and Kay as well as several nieces and nephews and countless friends.
Services will be private.
Donations in his name may be made to Cancer Hope Foundation (Camp Keepsake) by going to their website [email protected]
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Memories and Condolences
for John Erbeck
Diane Von Heyneman (V.)
February 23, 2015
It is nice to see this most recent post, knowing others are visited in their dreams by the Doc. I have had a few visitations and they always bring me much happiness.
One of the best I had was him riding on my Bike MS team. At the day's end party we had beers together. That's right beer, not wine. This dream coming from off topic conversations of beer and wine we had. I learned things about wine from him and he learned things about brews from me. That was a great chat Jack!
I miss our visits here on earth, but I'm pretty sure you are being kept busy on the other side and being ever so helpful.
Continued blessings to you Carolyn with love in my heart.
Debbie XO
February 22, 2015
Dreamed of you last night Jack. First time in years and years. It was a good dream. I think of you fondly. I wish we had been allowed to talk towards the end. You introduced me to so very much, and overall, made my life better. I will remember you always and hopefully we will be allowed to talk and laugh again together on the other side. XO
Charles Malan
November 23, 2012
I saw Dr. Erbeck as a young boy, and through his guidance and understanding molded me into a young man who now has a successful career in the military. Many of my accomplishments today would not be possible without the solid guidance of a smart, compassionate, and humbled man growing up. You will truly be missed and alway's remembered.
-With Condolences
Your Marine
Donna Malan
November 21, 2012
Caroline, I won't be able to think of Dr. Erbeck without thinking of you. I appreciated both your help.
Kay Emerick
November 15, 2012
Carolyn and family: So sorry Jack has passed away. I knew him as a colleague through important times for psychologists in Ventura. He was a consummate professional, kind, articulate, always maintaining his sense of humor. I am grateful to have known him. I am sorry for your loss. Kay Emerick
Jack on a "runner's high" in the 1980 Mulholland Relay
Rick Hunter
November 2, 2012
Dear Carolyn,
I'm so sorry to hear of Jack's passing. Jack and I and our running group spent many great hours together running all over the area in the 70's and 80's. He was a great and funny guy. When we meet again in heaven we'll greet each other with a hearty "Ho-o-o-o-o!"
Here's a picture of Jack in the 1980 Mulholland Relay. This is the picture that I always have in my mind when I think of Jack.
Shlomo Kreitzer, Ph.D.
November 1, 2012
I knew Dr. Erbeck, briefly, as a fellow psychologist. I saw him as a gentle, strong, smart, sweet guy. Unfortunately, cancer is rarely "fair." Sorry to hear that he's died; he was one of the "Good People."
Brian Harris
October 31, 2012
My deep condolences to Carolyn and the famiy. Dr Erbeck, will be missed by many, but not forgotten.
October 30, 2012
Certainly saddened to hear of Jack's passing. We had some great times at Saticoy CC, with the Stag and he helped a great deal with my elderly mother. Know Carolyn and Jennifer are hanging in. Miss you guys!God Bless you all. Jack was a great guy!!!!
Martin Bailey
Susan Shearer
October 29, 2012
I am thankful for the time I had with Dr. Erbeck and his helpful guidance for many years....he always guided me in the right direction. I will miss our time together, the tears, brief Dodger updates and the much enjoyed laughter.
Dr. Erbeck was a remarkable man that I was blessed to have in my life. He was a professional and a dedicated doctor to his patients. He listened and gently gave input, as needed, but always smiled.
Carolyn may the beautiful memories you shared with Dr. Erbeck help you through this difficult time and bring smiles to your beautiful face.
HK Belles will add "We walk for a cure in loving memory of Dr. John Erbeck" as we continue to walk for a cure for all cancers.
God Bless,
Susan S.
Dixie Van Landingham
October 29, 2012
Dear Carolyn,
Please accept my condolences and deepest sympathy. I have too many fun memories to count when I lived next door. Immediately what comes to mind was when you and Jack took me to the Hollywood Bowl for the first time. I think about you and Jack every time I drive by it..which is often. Your wedding still remains one of the most beautiful I've ever attended. I really could go on and on and so I hope that your memories together will help you go on.
I am running a half marathon this weekend in AZ. I will be using Jack as inspiration, as well as too many other friends battling this horrible disease.
With Love,
Dixie (Dick) Van Landingham
Patty Lowthorp
October 29, 2012
Oh, I am so, so sorry to learn of Jack's death. We had such a wonderful time serving on the Swift Board together. The laughs, the hugs, the memories will stay with me forever. Remember all the good times, Carolyn. That's what will help. God bless you, Patty
Barbara Amick
October 28, 2012
Was so very shocked and sadden to read of Dr. Erbecks passing. I worked at Saticoy Country Club and always have fond memories of the two of you and at times Jennifer coming for meals.
May the Good Lord watch over you and
hold you in this arms.
October 28, 2012
ROBERT JORDAN
October 28, 2012
Carolyn,
Be proud of the valiant fight Jack made against this awful disease. Cherish all the wonderful years you were able to enjoy together. I will keep you both in my heart, Emma Mayer and family
Diane V.
October 28, 2012
Was this a Jack of all trades? No. A master of one who cares for many and much in this world? Yes. I am thankful for the time I had with him here and his helpful guidance from sad and dark places. I will miss our time together, the tears and the much enjoyed laughter. I raise my glass to you Doc. You'll be busy helping those on "the other side" now. Hang in there Carolyn, and all those missing him. His spirit is always with us at least :-)
Chuck's Brigham & Gardner
October 28, 2012
Carolyn and family, our best wishes and thoughts, many good memories and times. Your friends at Leeward Winery.
October 27, 2012
My deep condolences to Carolyn and the famiy. From a colleague and friend, Norma Beck, Ph.D.
Sandra Higginbotham
October 27, 2012
I will always remember Jack as a wonderful neighbor and friend -- an exceptional spirit who loved people and animals -- off he went on his bike to the work he loved -- he always took that extra moment to greet the neighbor, the dog, & even the cat with an uplifting humor. While a tremendous loss to his wonderful Carolyn & our neighborhood - he will forever remain in my heart as a reflection of what sincere goodness the world has to offer.
October 27, 2012
He truly was a wonderful man. Always upbeat. Deepest sympathy to you, carolyn and family. He will be greatly missed.
Sarah sharp
Virginia Weber
October 26, 2012
Jack was truly a remarkable man, with great humor and empathy. He just made wherever he was a better place to be. Our prayers are with you, Carolyn and family. Jack will be missed.
Virginia and Jeff Weber
Mona and Fred Nagelschmidt
October 26, 2012
Carolyn and Family
A good man and a great voice have been taken from us much too soon. Any one that heard Jack laugh immediately felt his warmth and caring. We must confess that we often told him a joke, not only to kid him, but also to hear that warm and friendly friendly laugh which was a reflection of his concern for others. We know that you can take some degree of comfort in knowing how much he affected others.
October 26, 2012
The girls her at petit palace in suite D will truly miss Dr Erbeck he was just a great Dr,Friend And good person in general. We will miss his funny jokes and laughter we will keep him here always with us in heart and memorys, Carolyn was a wonderful wife and Dr Erbeck, a good friend to all of use her at Petit palace. We love you Carolyn and we will always hold him in our hearts. Cheryl,Lili,Sarah.
Kate McLean
October 26, 2012
Carolyn and family....my thoughts of care and concern are with you. Jack was indeed special and will be missed. I feel fortunate to have known him. Warmest regards, Kate McLean
Richard and Patricia Van Remortel
October 26, 2012
Richard and I met Jack over 30 years ago when he joined the Ventura Psychiatric Medical group. He was really a nice guy. Please accept our sincere condolences.
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