1972
2008
It is with broken hearts that we announce today the passing of Kimberly Noelle Magers. She was wrenched away from us suddenly at home on the morning of June 28, 2008. The loss of her vibrant presence in our family is beyond measure.
Kimberly was born on May 18, 1972, in Kalamazoo, Mich., to Geoffrey and Carol Stubbs. She lived in Portage, Mich. until 1973, when her family moved to Thousand Oaks, Calif. She attended St. Paschal Baylon School, St. Bonaventure H.S., and graduated with honors from Cal State Long Beach in 1995 with a bachelor's degree in business and marketing. She also traveled abroad during those years and studied at Oxford University in England.
In December of 1994 she met Bradley Sims Magers, the love of her life, and on April 13, 1996, their two hearts were joined in marriage at Padre Serra Parish in Camarillo, Calif. They lived in Laguna and then Seal Beach for the next several years close to the ocean and sand that Kimberly so loved. During this time she worked at an ad firm in Huntington Beach, where her great creativity, organizational skills, and "spunky" personality helped her land many new accounts. In 1999, they bought their first home in Calabasas. In June of 2001 "with no regrets" she gave up her high-powered career and beloved advertising to become a "stay at home" Mom. On July 7, 2001, their first son, Nathan Sims Magers, was born followed soon by another son, Ryan Stubbs Magers, on Sept. 17, 2003.
Kimberly now had her "three boys" to take care of. Her life was full and complete. In 2002, they moved back to Thousand Oaks where she was raised, bought their present home in Sunset Hills and settled into an idyllic lifestyle that only Kimberly could have fashioned. She was the iconic "California Girl" She loved the outdoors, the beach and ocean, sunny days, shopping and tooting around on the freeway shopping and doing errands with her babies. She channelled her successful business ethic into everything she did. She organized a group of her friends and started a Mom's Club. She organized and cooked countless meals for her friends who had new babies or were ill. When the boys started preschool, she got active with Kolbe's Korner at St. Max's in Westlake and spent countless hours on the board and organizing the annual fun raiser. And when Nathan started kindergarten at St. Paschal's, she took an active role there, too. Her energy and vitality were boundless. She was a wonderful wife, "mommy," daughter, sister, aunt and friend to all who were lucky enough to have known her. She loved her "boys," her family, her home, the Southern California lifestyle and her life. There was never a more loyal or generous person. All of us who knew and loved her were so lucky to have been a part of her too short, amazing life and can only imagine what was yet to be.
Besides Brad and the boys, Kimberly leaves behind her proud mom and dad, Geoff and Carol Stubbs, of Santa Rosa Valley, Calif.; her loving sister, Meredith, and her husband, Bob, and their children, Geoffrey and Julianna of Simi Valley; her sweet brother, Bryan Christopher of Camarillo; a grandmother (Busia) Ann Mokrycki of Michigan City, Ind.; Brad's mom, Betsy Mallegg, and husband, Dave, of Laguna Beach; and dad, Bruce Magers, and wife, Kathy, of Northbrook, Ill.; and brother, Scott, and companion Nadia of Mission Viejo; as well as numerous loving aunts, uncles and cousins.
A remembrance and rosary service will be held from 7 to 9 p.m., Wednesday, July 2, at St. Paschal Baylon Church. A Mass of Christian Burial will take place at 10 a.m. Thursday, July 3, at St. Paschal's Church, 166 E. Janss Road, with Pastor David Heney officiating. Burial immediately afterwards at Valley Oaks Memorial Park, 5600 Lindero Cayon Road, Westlake Village, Calif.
Some people come into our lives and quickly go.
Some stay for awhile,
touch our hearts
and we are never the same In lieu of flowers …please make a donation in Kimberly's name to St. Paschal's School Wish List Fund, 154 E. Janss Road. Thousand Oaks, Calif., or the Surfrider Foundation (for the preservation of beach and ocean environments) P.O. Box 6010, San Clemente, CA 92674-6010.
Funeral arrangements are under the direction of Griffin Family Funeral Chapels, Thousand Oaks; phone 805-230-2800.
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Marilyn Ehrman
July 24, 2008
I am happy to have met Kim and shared a chapter of our lives together...with our first born playing at the beach, to sharing the joy of our 2nd born. I treasured her friendship and it was always a treat to read her yearly newsletters.
I miss her more than one can imagine and one day we'll be sharing together again.
Margaret, Colin and Philip Bower
July 20, 2008
No words can express our sadness at such a cruel blow. Our thoughts have been with you all, Brad and the boys, Meredith Bob and family, Carole and Geoff and Bryan, and the wider family, since we first heard. We have such happy memories of seeing Kim and Brad here in England on Honeymoon and again for the Millennium. Such a loss to us all.
Joe McGuigan
July 19, 2008
Carol, Geoff, Bryan and Meredith,
I know that the nine years that we were all together in Thousand Oaks, Kim, Bryan, Meridith and my girls, Jenni & Erin were little kids. That, is one of the things that made the loss of "Kimmie" so very painful for me! Most of my memories of her are as a little girl. To me, she will be forever "Kimmie"!!
ALL of you are in my prayers.
Love to all,
Joe
Shannon Abler
July 13, 2008
Bryan,
i am so sorry to hear of your sister's passing. I will have your entire family in my thoughts and prayers. It has been a lot of years since our St. paschal time-but i have never forgotten how wonderful your family is. Please know your sister made a diffenece in people's lives.
Shannon (Dyckes) Abler
Regina Cooley-Hermanek
July 12, 2008
During this sad time of Kimberly's
passing,I would like to suggest the
James Van Praagh book:Ghosts
among us... uncovering the truth
about the other side.
A very comforting and healing ex-
perience !
"Happy will they be,who lend an ear
to the words of the dead."
Leonardo Da Vinci
(1452-1519)
Blessings, and love to family and
friends.
Regina F. Cooley -Hermanek
John & Kami Miller (and family)
July 10, 2008
Brad, Nathan, and Ryan,
We can't put into words just how upset we are over the loss of Kim. She was a wonderful person and a great mom. We feel blessed to have known her and we will miss her smiling face at all the games.
May God help you all through this very difficult time and know that our prayers are with you.
Sherri Lovio
July 10, 2008
I am so very sorry to hear of Kims passing. I can remember her at St. Bonaventure like it was yesterday. Always had a smile on her face. I had only seen her a few times over the years and she had not changed a bit. Just a great person all around. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you in your time of grief and may your memories bring you comfort.
Regina Cooley
July 9, 2008
During this sad time of Kimberly's
passing,I would like to suggest the
James Van Praagh Book:Ghosts among us....uncovering the truth
about the other side.A very comforting and healing experience!!
" Happy will they be who lend an
ear to the words of the dead."
Leonardo Da Vinci
( 1452-1519)
Blessings and love to family and
friends.
Regina francoise Cooley
Shelley (Inguito) Stuckey
July 8, 2008
"Those to whom we say farewell, are welcomed by others"
-Unknown Author.
My fondest memory of Kim was playing powder puff football with her at SBHS. Prayers go out to her family and friends.
MacLean Family
July 7, 2008
Kim was like every stay at home mom in this area. Buzzing around everyday with her kids. Taking them here, taking them there, doing a few errands, fitting in her workout, catching up w/ friends, planning playdates, rushing home to get a hot meal ready, and getting to relax after the kids were asleep. We all do it everyday without even thinking that it could be taken away so suddenly. Live everyday to it's fullest. Carpe Diem. To Brad, Nathan and Ryan, we will pray for you forever and will always remember Kim. Love, The MacLeans
Tbone Wiles
July 7, 2008
We love you guys so much. We're thinking about you down here in Seal Beach. See you soon.
Love, Tbone & Jamie Wiles
Cathy Jafari
July 7, 2008
To The Magers' Family,
I am so saddened to just have heard about the loss of Kim. I remember her at school everyday, picking up her child and an occasional Hi between each of us. What a beautiful person! I will pray for all of you.
Sincerely,
Cathy Jafari
Teacher at Kolbe's Korner
Leila Barth
July 6, 2008
Kim will be deeply missed. She was one of the first people to welcome me into the MOMS Club of Calabasas. She was a true leader and well respected and loved by everyone in the club. Her example made me become more involved in the club, which truly changed my post-career life as a stay-at-home mom. Her passing is a tragedy, and my heart goes out to you and your boys. I am very sorry this has happened to you all.
Laura J. Brown (Minea)
July 6, 2008
It's taken days to find the right words to express my sorrow for Kimberly and the family. Since it's not possible, I want to at least send you all my love. Please know myself and my family is thinking of all of you. You've been dear neighbors and friends to Mom and Dad for years. We love you.
Crystal
July 6, 2008
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. Although I only knew Kim through chatting at the gym, she was always upbeat and it put a smile on my face to see her busily going about her fitness routine and pleasantly chatting with other gym members. I'm so sad for your boys. I do know, from our brief chats, how much she loved and adored her boys. You will be in my thoughts
Debbie Goldwater
July 6, 2008
I am very sorry to hear about Kim's passing. I don't know what happened, I only heard that she passed. I see her at the gym every morning, smiling and saying hello to the other members. Always used the same bike at the end of the row with her friend. Chatting away with many. From time to time I would save her equipment she use to like and she would always thank me with a big smile. It is so hard to believe that she is now gone, They say, when it's your time, it's your time, but for us, it is so difficult and shocking. Her spirit will warm you and at times when you think that you wont make it through, you will get the strenth somhow, and that is when you will know she is still around you and the family.
Cynthia and German Scipioni
July 6, 2008
We are truly sorry for your loss. Some of our fondest memories of SBHS were of riding to school with Meredith, Bryan, and Kim. She had a joyful spirit that was so contagious. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
Mary Kehoe Pickett
July 6, 2008
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Stubbs, Meredith and Family, Bryan,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Kimberly's husband and her children. I have fond memories of time spent in your home during high school. I will always remember Kimberly with the fun loving, "spunky" personality you described. Please accept our heartfelt sympathy,
Mary Kehoe Pickett and Family
Brian & Trina Williams (BW Windows)
July 5, 2008
Our deepest sympathy goes out to you all. Kim was a wonderful person, with so much to offer. Our prayers are with all of you during this time.
Mike McConville
July 5, 2008
I was completely shocked and extremely saddened to learn of Kim's passing. I have known Kim and her brother, Bryan since St. Bonaventure. I would often see Kim at the gym in Thousand Oaks with her big smile and her contagious laugh as she would walk by me and "accidently" bump into me and start laughing. I will miss that great smile and upbeat personality. My thoughts and prayers go out to her husband, children, and family.
Jerry and Anne Kehoe
July 5, 2008
Sending heartfelt sympathy and prayers on the loss of Kimberly. Our children attended SBHS with Meredith, Brian and Kimberly.
Greg Weiss
July 5, 2008
Brad, I am so sorry to hear about the lose of Kim, it has to be so hard on you and the kids and I want you to know that my family is thinking of you and praying for you and your family.
Love The Weiss Family
The Sommers Family
July 5, 2008
Brad, Nathan & Ryan,
Words can not tell you how sorry we are for your loss. Life is so precious and Kims was taken much too soon. It does not seem fair to have a mother taken from her children...or a wife taken from her husband, with so much life left to share. We knew Kim as a friendly neighbor and met her several times at neighborhood gatherings. She was such an outgoing, easy to talk to, fun-loving person. Our family would like to offer you the warmest heartfelt sympathy for the loss of your Kim.
Christina Amott
July 4, 2008
With deepest sympathy, our hearts go out to you in your time of sorrow. I am so sorry for your loss!Christina, Kyle and Emily Amott
Michelle (Meher) Silva
July 3, 2008
I went to school with Kim at SBHS. I was so shocked to learn of her passing. I am so deeply sorry. While I haven't seen her in years, I remember her as an incredibly upbeat, energetic, positive and very fun person. I was so proud to read of all her accomplishments since we graduated nearly 20 years ago. What a truly dedicated and remarkable woman. My thoughts are with her family.
July 3, 2008
From all of us at Westlake Oral and Plastic Surgery, our hearts go out to you and your entire family. Kim was a wonderful patient of ours and she will be truly missed.
Ryan Wright
July 3, 2008
I have not seen Kim since High School, but to her family please know that many, many people are praying for you during this painful time. My heart truly goes out to you. I am so sorry.
Allison deVries
July 3, 2008
Our deepest sympathy to Brad, Nathan and Ryan. Kim was a wonderful mother and a beautiful, hilarious and fun friend. She will be missed immensely!
Love, the deVries Family
Patti (Paul) Hansen
July 3, 2008
I remember the first time Kim and I met, which was our Freshman year @ St. Bonaventure. I have many fond as well as funny memories with Kim. We have kept in touch over the years through email and Christmas cards, and I will miss her tremendously.
My heart goes out to her family and friends especially her boys, Nathan and Ryan. My thoughts and prayers are with all who knew and loved Kim and are feeling her loss.
Patti (Paul) Hansen
July 3, 2008
I remember the first time Kim and I met, which was our Freshman year @ St. Bonaventure. I have many fond as well as funny memories with Kim. We have kept in touch over the years through email and Christmas cards, and I will miss her tremendously.
My heart goes out to her family and friends especially her boys, Nathan and Ryan. My thoughts and prayers are with all who knew and loved Kim and are feeling her loss.
Mark and Jill Mecklenburg
July 3, 2008
Brad,
My deepest regrets go out to you and your family on your loss of Kim. I am happy to have had a chance to meet her! The two of you seemed perfect for each other. You will be in our thoughts.
Gene & Sandy Gravley
July 3, 2008
Our prayers and blessings are with you Brad and boys. Kim was and angel and will truly be missed. May she now rest in peace as God takes her home.
Love and Blessings
Gene & Sandy Gravley
Garry Glaub
July 2, 2008
Brad,
It has been so many years since the days of teaching tennis on adjacent courts in Laguna. I am so sad and sorry to hear the news of your lovely wife's passing. I will pray for you and your family. I can't begin to imagine how difficult things are right now. May you find peace in the midst of much sadness. Lean on God! He can handle any burden!
Rich, Sue Ann, Adriana and Gianni Ferraro
July 2, 2008
Death is nothing else but going home to God,
the bond of love will be unbroken for all eternity.
~ Mother Teresa ~
God Bless You.
brooke
July 2, 2008
kim was the most amazing mom and amazing person. i will miss you dearly kim.
i cherish our conversations and fun times.
my love to her family and friends.
xo
Loretta Tahan
July 2, 2008
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
May your memories of happy times with her bring you comfort. Kimberly lives on within your hearts. We will miss her beautiful bubbly smile at the gym.
Lisa Ortega Menees
July 2, 2008
I don't know where to start, I am shocked and very saddened to hear of the news of Kimmy. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you! Love and Miss you! chilli pepper!
Owen, Grace & Olivia Boyd
July 2, 2008
Brad, Nathan and Ryan - Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We grieve for the loss of your beautiful wife and mother and will miss her smiling face at all the little league games. Much love to your family from ours.
Amy (Sobota) Hastings
July 2, 2008
I am very saddened to hear Kim's tragic accident. She was a beautiful person inside and out! My heart goes out to your whole family. My prayers are with you, may God's love surround you during this hard and heavy time.
July 2, 2008
Your loss is shared by many who knew
and loved Kimberly.
Our thoughts and prayers are with
you all.
Love,
The Kocisko Family
Jerry St. Peter
July 2, 2008
Kim is an amazing, vibrant woman! Whenever she walked in a room and flashed her smile everyone was so happy to see her.
We are so sad and heart broken over her passing. Our love, heart and friendship goes out to Brad, Nathan, Ryan and their families.
With deepest sympathy, your friends,
Jerry & Jamie St. Peter
Glenn and Irene Nelson and family
July 2, 2008
We have been in a state of disbelief, shock and deep sadness when we heard the tragic news. What a beautiful woman Kim was inside and out and will always be remembered as such. Life will never be the same without her laughter. May the memories of the times spent with her on this earth continue to live in your hearts and your minds for all the years to come. Please know that we are here for you and the boys at any time.
Love all whom you hold dear
Precious is the time you share
Do not wait for tomorrow
For tomorrow may not be . . .
We hope you find healing in God's tender love and embrace. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.
July 2, 2008
I am very sad to hearing of Kim's sudden passing. Kim was a very happy fun loving person. I am glad I was able to be let into her life. She had a love for life and enjoyed every moment. She was a great daughter, sister, wife and most of all was a wonderful mother to her little boys. She has touched many lives and we will all miss her dearly. It is very hard to understand why when God calls a loved one to him, especially when she has a lot of life left to live & has little ones that need her. I know God has a purpose for everything, but at times it just does not seem fair. My heart and prayers are with you at this very sad time.
Sincerly,
Judy (Minneapples)
Gregg & Cate Tetro
July 2, 2008
To All the Family, You are in our thoughts and prayers. Kim was a dear soul who will always have a special place in our hearts.
The Moss Family
July 2, 2008
we are shocked and saddened to hear about Kim's passing. Our prayers are with all of her family at this very difficult time.
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