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1979
DIED
2012
Michael Mendez Obituary
Michael Mendez Jr. passed peacefully on August 10, 2012 at his mother's home. In his dreams, God felt led to call him to his heavenly home.
Michael was born February 17, 1979. Even as a small child it was clear that the Lord had blessed him with many talents. Singing and cooking being the two he favored most. Whatever he set out to obtain he did his best and was successful in accomplishing it. Michael worked numerous years in the medical industry. His tender heart, contagious laugh, along with his movie impressions will be missed by all.
He is survived by his parents, Linda Garcia, Michael Mendez Sr.; his aunt, Maria Estrada who was very instrumental in his upbringing; Grandparents, Faviana Estrada, John and Sally Fontes; Brothers, Niko, Tonio, Chano and Anthony; Sisters, Monica Mendez, Christina Guzman and Reyna Garcia; many nieces, nephews, aunts and uncles. He was preceded in death by his grandfather, Antonio L. Estrada.
Michael, the passion, love, and wisdom you shared with all of us will never be forgotten. We love you and you will be greatly missed.
Viewing will be held Monday, from 5 to 8 p.m., with the rosary at 6:30 p.m., Aug. 20, at Camino del Sol Funeral Home, 200 North C St., Oxnard. Mass of Christian burial will be celebrated on Tuesday, 9 a.m., Aug. 21, at Mary Star of the Sea Catholic Church, 463 W. Pleasant Valley Rd., Oxnard.
Please sign the on-line memorial register at www.caminodelsolfuneralhome.com. Camino del Sol Memorial Center and Funeral Home, A Heritage Life Tribute Center, 200 North C Street, Oxnard, is assisting the family with the arrangements, (805) 483-3443
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Memories and Condolences
for Michael Mendez
Christine Portillo
August 28, 2012
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998
Jennie Weber (Estrada)
August 27, 2012
So sorry to hear about the passing of a talented and loving young man... Michael was always kind to me and my family. We knew each other as children, but he had such a personality that was not easily forgotten. My condolences and prayers for Michael's peaceful return Home and for his family's peace as well.
August 21, 2012
Michael Sr.,
So sorry to hear about your son, I too have a son this age, and know this loss would be unbearable. Please know that my thoughts are with you at this time.....K
Patty Madrid
August 20, 2012
My condolences to all of your family. Michael you were such a good dancer enjoyed seeing you dance en El Tapatio. RIP Patty Madrid
Patty Madrid
August 20, 2012
Michael may you rest in peace. You were such a good dancer (El Tapatio) it was a pleasure watching you dance with Blanca. You will be missed. Patty
Dolores Hernandez
August 19, 2012
My deepest condolences go out to Michael's family. Although you are enduring a great loss, I hope that the memories Michael has left you with will help you find the strength to get through these tough times. I know that for me the memories I have of Michael will always bring a smile to my face. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Anabel & Ralphie Estrada
August 19, 2012
Our condolences to all the family from yalls cousins in Texas..RIP MICHAEL..
Sylvia Garcia Bothwell
August 19, 2012
When I got the call about michael's passing I was beside My self, I kept saying oh my god! oh My god! I can't believe it! So young but then again so brave. Linda so so sorry to hear about ur loss. Michael u rest and I'll see u later ok My friend. ;'(
Melissa Montesinos(Gabino)
August 17, 2012
Words seem inadequate to express the saddness I feel about Michael. I am deeply sorry to hear about his passing. I remember him as the class clown @ OLG he alwayz made us laugh & he was alwayz so full of life.May you take comfort in knowing an angel is watching over you.My prayers & thoughts are with you all. May he RIP.He will be gone but never forgotten.
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