1924
2009
With a mixture of gratitude and sadness we announce the passing of Ruth "Bun" Alamshah who entered into the loving arms of the God she knew so well on Thursday, Dec. 10, at the age of 85.
Ruth was born March 9, 1924 in Waukesha, Wis. to Alma and Edward Boehmke. She was the second of six children who grew up in a large, noisy house filled with activity and fun. A straight "A" student, Ruth graduated from Michael Reese Hospital School of Nursing in Chicago in 1946 and worked as a courier nurse on the Santa Fe Railroad between Chicago and Los Angeles. It was there she met Ted Alamshah, a dining car steward who captured her heart with elegant food (fine food was one of her favorite things) and quick wit. They married in Chicago on Aug. 5, 1947, where she gave birth to her only child, a daughter, Diane, in 1950. They made their home in Canoga Park in the San Fernando Valley.
Ruth worked tirelessly as a nursing supervisor and head nurse of the medical/surgical unit at Encino Hospital for 32 years. A wonderful nurse, she was calm and committed to everyone under her care. She made many treasured friends there and was well respected for her remarkable intelligence, wonderful temperament and truly unique sense of humor.
These were the things Bun loved the most: dogs, all dogs, she never met a dog she didn't think was marvelous. She loved fine food and eating out, and trees and birds and flowers of all kinds, and big barbecues with laughter and jovial banter between people. She loved to gamble. She loved the warmth of the sun, gentle breezes and was grateful for the things of nature that God provided.
At her request, there will be no services.
Little Bun leaves behind her daughter, Diane "Deva" Skiles (dog Maggie Mae) of Ventura; granddaughter, Lisa (Ron) Smith and great-grandson, Thomas "TJ" Smith of Le Claire Iowa. Preceded in death by her sister, Georgiann Dahms, she will be missed by her brother, Edward (Kathy) Boehmke and sister, Francis Kawatski of Waukesha, Wis., brother, Daniel Boehmke (Cheryl) of Wisconsin Dells, Wis., and sister, Mary Jane Schley (Gordon) of Port Orchard, Wash. Also brother-in-law, Robert Dahms of Milwaukee, Wis. and many nieces, nephews and cousins and their families.
Thanks for the special love so freely given by her dear friends Carolyn, Dan Lengel of Bellingham, Wash., Bernadette Brown of Ventura and Anita Plant of Port Hueneme.
Special thanks to the "special angels" at Victoria Care Center who truly do God's work.
Ruth has been entrusted to the care of the family owned Joseph Reardon Funeral Home, Ventura; 643-8623.
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Victoria Richardson
January 13, 2010
Dear Bun,
Before you go Over Yonder to be with your Lord, I have to Thank You for Bringing Deva into this world. She is such a blessing. And Maggie Mae, everytime I go to California I promise to sneak her a little fried chicken.. You are such a Blessing and have touched so many hearts, more than you will ever know.
Love Always,
Queenie
Deva Skiles
January 12, 2010
P.S. Mother, Maggie is going to be featued in a NEWSPAPER next month!! Wish you were here.
Your Loving daughter,
Diane Skiles
January 12, 2010
Well, Little Bun, you're going off line now, but I just wanted to tell you that Maggie and I miss you big time; especially on Sundays. I'm being good to her as I can, and I'm being as good as I can. I'm glad you were my Mother - I could not have chosen better.
MARY bENDER
December 20, 2009
Diane,
I'm very sorry to hear about your mom. It isn't the best time of the year to lose a loved one. Just find comfort in the Lord and know she is well taken care of now and pain less. You know my prayers are with you.
Love Mary
Mark White
December 19, 2009
Deevah, Im truley sorry to hear about your Mom. THe memoral shows how much you love your Mom and Always will.
Take care
Mark and Brett
Jun Peredo
December 18, 2009
We at Victoria Care Center were so sorry for your loss. We will truly miss her.
Brenda Sprankel
December 17, 2009
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.
collette bernard
December 17, 2009
My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
Marsha Moreno
December 16, 2009
Dearest Deevah:
I wish I could say that I don't know what it's like to lose one's mother; but I do. I guess it is different for each of us. For you, I wish the peace of knowing your mother is released from this earthly plane. She is free. And I also wish you the pleasure of discovering her very best parts alive and well in you.
I love you, Marsha
Queenie
December 16, 2009
Dear Deevah, and family,
Thank you for sharing your mom, Bun with me for the brief period I lived in Ventura. She was an Angel and a sweet sweet woman. I loved her and I Love you,
Victoria, Queenie
cressida roth
December 16, 2009
Diane...I am very sorry to hear about the passing of your mother. Although I did not have the opportunity to know her, she sounded like a wonderful lady who was full of life. I can see by that picture and her smile that she was funloving. I don't know what its like to lose a mother ( my mom has severe parkinsons and is failing fast)but I am sure that its a right of passage that changes us forever. I hope that at this time you find comfort in great memories of her and faith in God that she is in a much better place. Love to you and keep in touch. 818-641-9584
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