Search by Name

Search by Name

Ruth Crary Obituary

Ruth Crary Ruth "Oneita" Bailey Crary, born in Alto, New Mexico on July 2, 1921 to James Samson Bailey and Mary Ann Martha Jones Bailey lost her battle with pancreatic cancer and passed away at her home in Albany, OR, on September 17, 2012 at the age of 91. Ruth was the youngest child of seventeen, 5 boys and 12 girls, two of which died in childhood. Growing up during the Depression the family survived by farming and picking cotton. The family moved to El Monte, California in her teens, where she graduated from high school at Holiness Evangelistic Institute in 1942. She worked for a laundry from 1942-1945, ironing shirts, in Laguna Beach, CA. She was the fastest and best presser, an accomplishment of which she was quite proud. In 1945 she attended Northwest Nazarene College for one year, and remained lifelong friends with many of the students she met there. In 1946 she attended Pilgrim Evangelistic Institute in Pasadena California where she met her teacher and future husband, A. Donald Crary. Ruth and A. Donald "Don" Crary were married, January 20, 1948 in El Monte, California. Don worked as a Nazarene pastor and public school teacher and they pastured small churches where she often served as a Sunday School teacher, Director and seamstress for church plays, a bus driver, janitor, and anywhere else she was needed. They served at churches in Rosholt, SD, Mason, Carrico Springs, Crystal City, and Edcouch, TX. In 1964 Ruth and Don moved to Goshen, California where they served in various churches in the area until November 2007 when her beloved Don passed away. Ruth then moved to Albany, OR and lived with her youngest son, Jonathan Crary and his wife, Sharon, until her death. First and foremost Ruth loved Jesus Christ and serving Him. She read her Bible daily. Her hobbies were quilting, playing games, and gardening; growing her own tomatoes, onions, and other vegetables. She was well known in her Goshen neighborhood for organizing games for the children after school. Many times the neighborhood children would knock on her door and ask her husband "Can Ruth play today?" While living in Albany, she gathered twice monthly to play games with the "Laughing Ladies" of Grace Point Nazarene. She also worked out at the local YMCA three days a week. She is survived by her two sons; Philip Crary and his wife, Susan of Visalia, CA; Jonathan Crary and his wife, Sharon of Albany, OR. Seven grand-children; Jedediah Crary of Visalia; Sarah Crary of Las Vegas, NV; Daniel Crary and his wife, Rebekah of Nampa, ID; Rebekah Gasperino and her husband, Scott of Albany, OR; and Anna Crary of Visalia, her grandchildren; Heather Smith and her husband, Michael of Hillsboro, OR; Preston and his wife, Faith, of Azusa, CA. Two great-granddaughters; Lillian Parker of Las Vegas, NV and Savannah Smith of Hillsboro, OR. Two sisters, Virginia Bailey of Apple Valley, CA and Mary Stoops of Clovis, CA. And many, many nieces, nephews, and cousins. She is preceded is death by her husband, A. Donald Crary; parents, James Bailey, and Mary Jones Bailey; her five brothers and ten of her sisters. A funeral service will be held at 11:00 A.M. on Saturday, September 22, 2012 at the Church of the Nazarene, Exeter. Condolences may be made at www.smithfamilychapel.com. Services are under the direction of Smith Family Chapel in Exeter. A memorial service will be held at 4:00 P.M. on Monday, September 24, 2012 at Calvary Chapel, 2815 Pine Street Southeast, in Albany, Oregon.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Visalia Times-Delta on Sep. 21, 2012.

Memories and Condolences
for Ruth Crary

Not sure what to say?





1 Entry

Debbie Dennis (Carvel)

September 23, 2012

I have cherished memories of Mrs. Crary. Their church helped build my foundation in the Lord. I am saddened of her passing but I know she is with her Lord and Mr. Crary so she is happy. My prayers for her family. May God Bless each of you as you cherish her memory and love. Phillip and Jonathon your Mother was one of a kind and a Mother in every sense of the word. I remember making taffy and grape center pieces in your home. She was wonderful!!

Showing 1 - 1 of 1 results

Make a Donation
in Ruth Crary's name

Memorial Events
for Ruth Crary

To offer your sympathy during this difficult time, you can now have memorial trees planted in a National Forest in memory of your loved one.

How to support Ruth's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Ruth Crary's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more