Sgt. Tyler John Vaughan

June 24, 1994 - March 18, 2017

Visalia

Sgt. Tyler John Vaughan, 22, of Visalia, California passed away on Saturday, March 18, 2017 in Gräfenwoehr, Germany from injuries sustained in a vehicle accident.

Tyler was born in Visalia, California on June 24, 1994 to Todd Christopher Vaughan and Kiersten Leigh Machado Vaughan. He was educated at Crestwood Elementary, La Joya Middle School and graduated from El Diamante High School in 2012. He played baseball for El Diamante all four years. Tyler attended Visalia First Assembly of God Church. His hobbies included playing guitar, riding motorcycles, hunting and fishing, and spent many hours at the gym working out. Above all he felt that it was his duty to protect his country that he loved by serving in the United States Army. Tyler never took a bet that he couldn't win. His friends remember him as the nicest jerk you'd ever meet. He loved spending time with his family and was a mama's boy. Times spent with his fiancé, Alissa were memorable and Tyler was coming home to marry his sweetheart in a few short weeks. He also enjoyed spending time with his many friends. Tyler will be greatly missed by those who knew and loved him.

Tyler leaves his cherished memories to his parents, Todd and Kiersten Vaughan; his fiancé, Alissa Rader; his sister Valerie Campos Hopkins and her husband Henry Hopkins; grandparents John and Gail Vaughan, Susie Wooten, and Ronnie and Rosie Machado, numerous aunts, uncles, cousins and many friends.

Celebration of Life services will be held on Monday, April 3, 2017 at 10:30 am at Visalia First Assembly of God, corner of Akers and Caldwell. Interment will be held at Visalia Public Cemetery.

Tributes and condolences may be made at www.millerchapel.com.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made to Tyler Vaughan Memorial Fund at Valley Oak Credit Union of Visalia to benefit local charities.

Arrangements entrusted to Miller Memorial Chapel, 1120 W. Goshen Ave., Visalia, CA (559) 732-8371.

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Published by Tulare Advance-Register & Visalia Times-Delta from Mar. 30 to Apr. 1, 2017.

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October 10, 2019

On my heart bad today. Miss you, buddy.

Dr. Walt

March 17, 2019

We had a mass for Rosi's mom on the same day you had Tyler's. Love in Remembering. :Walt

Alissa and i sporting Tylers jersey

Kiersty Vaughan

May 1, 2018

4/27/18 Tylers varsity coach Bert Flores

Kiersty Vaughan

May 1, 2018

4/26/18

April 30, 2018

Tyler, It was tough going to El D's varsity field to see a banner go up on the fence with your name and baseball number, the memories of watching you on the field and hearing Big Vaughanr as you came up to bat with Ozzie playing loudly in the background was bitter sweet. Such a stud out there, I remember that goat tee you grew and you'd ask me to buy rubber bands so you could tie it. All the memories are so precious, seeing the banner on the outfield fence made me proud that you are so honored and remembered. Your coach spoke and said you were a leader even back then and that you worked hard. So many miss you Tyler, so many times throughout the day I close my eyes in hopes when I open them this will have been just a bad dream. I know your in heaven and I try to remind myself that time on earth is short and that I get to be with you for eternity someday and I will never lose you again. You are an amazing son, thank you for being so easy! You could drive me crazy, I think you did that on purpose and I cherish every minute I had with you. My heart is broken in a million pieces, the pain of losing you can be very overwhelming, I hold onto Gods promises, I ask for strength and peace everyday. I'm thankful for the Hope, knowing I will see you again I am blessed, God gave me two wonderful children, supportive family and friends and Tyler your friends have been so awesome to stay in touch to make sure I'm ok. You are the bravest person I know, you signed up to protect this country, you were ready for anything, sometimes I'd look at you and wonder who is this guy? For the rest of my life I will try to be brave the way you'd want me to. The hardest thing that Ive ever had to hear is that you died, the hardest thing that I've ever done is live everyday since that moment. There is no words that can describe this, this world isn't right without you. I miss you and all the tomorrows I don't get to share with you! I love you so very much ! Momma

February 26, 2018

My Dearest Tyler,
The Christmas holidays have come and gone and now we face another year without you. The holidays brought bittersweet memories of you that could not be forgotten. I thought of you when I saw the glitter on my bed from wrapping presents and I could see you shaking your head. Little did I know that you didn't like glitter...I must have wrapped most of your last Christmas gifts in glitter wrap to match the sparkle in your eyes. I thought of you when I attempted to get a pot or pan from my cabinet and they would jump out like "Jack in the Box of pans." You laughed at that. We had a plate for you at our table and an empty chair because we wanted you with us and I feel you were in spirit. And now we are approaching your 1st year anniversary. It has been a long year and it has brought us unmeasurable pain but it has also forced us to remember that life is short and you must live your life to the fullest. That is something that I think you did. You gave it your all whether playing baseball, playing your guitar, hunting, video games, golfing (well maybe not that) and your dedication to the Army.
I read somewhere that losing part of your family is like losing a branch from your family tree. You were a great big branch on our family tree and we are now a little lopsided because of the unbalance. I visualize our tree as a giant Sequoia. Tall, strong and majestic. I am saddened that you will never have your little seedlings to carry on our name or be present for our family gatherings. We will keep your memory and your legacy alive. You gave us memories that are imprinted on our hearts forever. I am thankful for your love of God. I think that is the only thing that comforts me because I know where you are and that you are happy.
Take care of us from above, guide us when our road gets rocky and help us to heal.
Love you to heaven and back.

Mimi Gail

Tyler's Momma

February 25, 2018

Tyler
You are so heavy on my heart, as the 1st anniversary of your death approaches, the realization that you will never again be a vital participant in making more memories with us here is painful. Life is so fragile and precious, I want to hug you and never let you go!
Through this tragedy I try to keep my eyes on God, it's my connection to you, in worship I feel you.... I know you're close to God and that's where I want to be. When I lift my hands to God, I feel God has my hand and yours and we are connected. I'm not sure how I'm getting through each day, it's gotta be God. I feel your smile and happiness when I'm in church and that gives me peace.
I miss you Tyler, your smile, laugh, your dark eyes, your voice and I miss hearing you play your guitar.
I ask God why? Why this? I will never understand, I do believe God is near, he walks closely beside the broken-hearted and he is with me even if I don't feel him.
When I think about your life I have so much to smile about, but your heart for God is what I'm most grateful for, I have the picture up on the wall of you being baptized in Feb 2014, I pass by it everyday and think, that was 100% your decision, your heart was right with God and that gives me peace and hope. I know I will see you again, until then I will do my best with my time here, my world will never be the same and my heart will always ache for you, you will never be forgotten Tyler John. I love you!

January 1, 2018

My baby boy, my Bubba
barely made it through the Holidays, Thanksgiving was not as bad as Christmas, Christmas was a special time for our family, so I tried to think of great Christmas memories to get me through, like when you were little and Mom and I would stay up all night putting things together and hoping we had enough batteries only to watch you get up the next day at the crack of noon, you loved your sleep, you got that from Mom, or how you would make Mom do your hair to look like Uncle Tim's and no Christmas would be complete without a LENNY appearance, but then I get sad because you are not here to share the memories with. Bubba everyone misses you very much, we should be driving you back to LAX today and putting you on a plane, I am so glad I got to tell you last January that I loved you and was proud of you and that I had your "6", you laughed because you didn't know I knew Army talk. People tell me that they are sorry that I lost my son, but when you lose something you do not know where it is at, I know exactly where you are, you are a SGT in God's Angel Armies fighting for our Faith, Bub words cannot express how much I miss you and how bad I am hurting, but I will try to be strong for you, Bubba I will have you in my Heart forever and you and the memories in my heart forever.
Miss you my Baby Boy
Love you Tyler
and I am so Proud of you Bubba
until I see you again
Love Dad

December 30, 2017

A Note to Heaven
I miss you my Son,
2017 will forever hold the devastation of your death, it will hold the memories of the last time I saw you and hugged you and said good-bye.
The first 2 1/2 months of 2017, you were here on earth and even though it has been a devastating year it still holds precious precious memories that will be clung to forever. You had accomplished a lot in those 2 1/2 months in your job and personal life, you did what it took to be promoted to sergeant and you got engaged to Alissa, so proud of you!
Going into 2018 feels like we are moving on without you and it hurts, 2018 will be the first full calendar year without you.
I don't want time to be a thief of my memories of you, you will forever be in my heart. I think about last year at this time, New Years Day 2017 we took you to the airport not knowing it would be the last time, I cherish those last moments sending you off, had I known what I know now I wouldn't have let you go.
I would have done absolutely anything to have kept you here with us.
I was chosen to be your Mom and death can't change that!
I will always love you and hold you in my heart.

I will carry you, here and there, there and here, until I am where you are.

Love you to Heaven and Back
Momma

Mimi Rosie and Papa Ronnie Machado

December 25, 2017

Tyler...
This has been a hard holiday, last year we had you with us it was so good you even let me nag you into a pic of you you with all the little grandkids so glad you did it's my favorite. Your mom dad and Alissa did such a great job picking out your headstone, it is beautiful and totally you everything you loved right down to that can of chew, I still can't believe they put that on there but that was a part of you. We will forever have it to remind us of where we can visit you are in a better place and we have will have to wait to hug you again, at least I hope I'm heading your way. You have a big job now of guardian angel to so many but keep your mom dad and Alissa close they are hurting so bad and it a hurt that can't be fixed. Like I said your headstone is beautiful and totally you, you can't miss it, it's stands tall proud and like you are watching over your area like the soldier you are no one can miss it. Wish we could have one more hug and I could tell you your my Hero but you know that your my forever Hero and always in my heart.

December 24, 2017

My Dearest Tyler,
Today is Christmas Eve and a year ago I never visioned myself writing to you in heaven. My heart tells me to make buckeye balls and potato salad but my mind tells me that you won't be here to enjoy it. We have had a lot of firsts this year without you, your birthday, Mother's Day, Father's Day, 4th of July and many more but Christmas is the hardest one so far to celebrate. Just a year ago, we were celebrating Christmas at your Mom's house and you said grace, Dominic was there and we were all laughing, smiling and listening to you tell us of your army adventures. You were so patient in our quest to take as many pictures of you that we could. Oh how I miss those times. I have a Tyler Memorial Christmas tree this year. At first I didn't want a tree but then I thought that I could look at it and remember you and all the things you liked. It gives me a little comfort seeing your face, your guitar, cowboy boots and of course Sgt stripes and the red, white and blue lights. Your spirit is here with us. We are also lighting candles for you today. We will tell you that we love you, miss you and honor you for your sacrifice to keep us safe. Hope those angels up there know how to make you pretzel salad and ribs. I love you Tyler John with my whole being and miss you beyond words can express. Be at peace my dear grandson. "A'int no sunshine when you're gone, only darkness all day long." Love you to heaven and back.
Mimi Gail

Your baby girl

November 25, 2017

Hey babe,
I wanted to stop in and say hi. I know you're with me all the time so i don't need this website but somehow typing it all out feels like you're gonna hear it. I'm so lost without you. Change is so terrifying for me. April of this year my life was going to change drastically but i wasn't afraid, because I had you and I knew that if I had you by my side there was nothing to ever be afraid of. I know that you're still by my side, but trusting the invisible is so hard to do. My life changed so much the second you left this earth, I didn't have a choice in that change.. none of us did. I spent 8 months hating everyone and everything (except your mom, dad, your family), I didn't want to be here, and I wished the world would blow up. I'm learning now that the way to honor you is to live, no matter how bad I don't want to, to live for God and carry you with me. I'm trying so hard to do that. It's a fight I have to choose to fight every day that I wake up and am hit with the reality that you aren't here. From day 1 of our relationship you wanted me out of the house I was in. You were so excited to be my knight in shining armor coming in and rescuing your princess. You told me you were going to do that, and then you were going to make me your queen. I loved your heart and the way you always knew exactly what to say to me. I did It babe, i got out on my own. Your dad let me borrow his truck and your mom came and helped me decorate. You already know, but it's a shrine of you everywhere and i know you'd love that. I know you'd be so proud of me, but it breaks my heart walking in every day knowing that we were supposed to do this together and now we'll never get to. I'm looking for adult jobs, which I know you'd be excited about for me. There's so much change going on in my life and while I know you would be proud of me I hate that you're only here for it in spirit. I so badly miss telling you everything and hearing your perfect words back. I miss everything about you and about us. This hurts so bad, babe. I'm positive it's killing me from the inside out. Your army buddy called me the other day and told me that you're a warrior and because you chose me, I'm your shield maiden. You knew i would always go to battle with and for you. You knew I'd always have your back and that i would fight the fight if somehow you couldn't. As long as I have breathe in my lungs I will wake up every day and fight because i know that's what you would do for me and because you trusted that I would always be willing to go to battle. I love you so much, Tyler John. My heart will never heal from losing you. I ache so deeply for you every second of every day. I hope youre proud of your girl. Forever and always and even after that, baby.

I love you to heaven and back an infinite amount of times.

November 18, 2017

Tyler
There will always be a missing space in our lives, our families, a forever hole in our hearts. For as long as I breathe, I will grieve and ache and love you with all my heart and soul. It's a pain I will suffer for a lifetime, my world will never be right without you in it, I know I have to find a new normal now, you always told me Mom I want you to be happy I know that's what you'd want for me now more than ever.
Being your mom is the best gift I've ever been given, death can't take that away. I love you to heaven and back!
Momma

Kiersty - Tyler's Mom

November 9, 2017

Thanksgiving and Christmas are coming and the feelings of anxiety and sadness are almost to much to handle. You are all i think about, what I'd do to hear your voice and see your smile again.
As hard as it is to feel thankful right now, I'm thankful God gave me you to be your Momma. What I'd give to have many more years!
Like I've done for the last 22 years I so want to buy you Christmas gifts for under the tree, I would be texting you around this time asking you Bubba give me your list . I am thankful we got to be together last Christmas, we had special family time with everyone and we all made sure you got all the things you liked to eat for dinner, prime rib with all the fixings, pretzel salad and Alissa and I made you your favorite puppy chow and white trash snacks.
New Years Eve we had Taco Bell before you and Alissa went out to celebrate, New Year's Day Dad, Alissa and I took you back to LAX airport and we ate In and out burger on our way, that's the last time we saw you.
Tyler, you will never be forgotten, so many tears have been shed since you left us, your family and friends will always carry you in their hearts, you are our hero! I won't let you go, you will always be with me for as long as I'm here, I wish so badly this story was different, I'm trying everyday to figure this out and not go crazy, I'll love you forever, my baby you'll always be!

Tyler's Momma

September 24, 2017

Today is Gold Star Mothers Day
When you died, I automatically became a Gold Star Mom, a distinction I didn't want, but I will wear it proudly.
You were bigger than life, your purpose was bigger than yourself. You loved the freedom this country allows and you enlisted to serve and protect.
I am a blessed Mother, even if it was 22 short years, I would do it over again even if I knew how it ended because you brought so much joy to me and to so many close to you. You impacted lives, I believe people at your memorial accepted Jesus, your life showed people they didn't have to be perfect, they saw your strength and your love for God.
When I'm hurting and missing you, I hear your voice in my head telling me " Mom I'm not gone, I am here right beside you, I'll never leave you".
This new normal is painful and unbearable but I will choose to live and to honor you for the rest of my life.
March 18, 2017 was the worst day of our lives but the best day of yours....that's the day you saw Heaven.
I have peace knowing you are living way bigger now than you ever did here on earth. I know you knew that being absent from the body is to be present with God and so you didn't fear death. I love you Tyler, God only knows how much I miss you .

September 7, 2017

Whisper

As I knelt by your grave yesterday,
I whispered your name, Tyler John
There was no answer
Your new headstone is now in place
I now realize that I will never kiss your face
or see you smile or receive a hug
Life goes on without you but is not the same
I whisper your name, Tyler John
There is no answer
Your essence lingers in my mind
your persona is one of a kind
Pride, commitment, devotion, family love
My memories will never falter
Your stone is a reminder of your life
sleighing the weights, videos, guitar,
being Army strong, baseball, copenhagen
and of course Big Vaughanr
Oh... how I remember
I whisper your name, Tyler John
and God answered:
Tyler John is in my care now, do not worry
he has fulfilled one of my great needs
to have someone who stands firm in his faith
to be a hero to many
a role model for those who have lost their way
and a son and loved one that so many carry in their hearts
Can't stop the hurt so deep in my soul
but maybe some day, I will hear your voice in the wind......
Until then
Love you to Heaven and Back....

Mimi Gail

Kiersty Vaughan

August 27, 2017

Hi my Son
I still think that I'll see you walk through the door, hear your voice and your loud laugh. Time has seemed to stand still and yet it goes on.
I never thought I'd live this life without you, I miss you more than words can say, this hurts so much. My life will forever be divided into before and after.
I know you are near and with me, you are in my heart and in my thoughts every single minute of the day. Losing you is just so unfair, all of us miss you so deeply, we will never forget you Tyler, you will be remembered for the rest of all of ours lives. I love you forever!!! Momma

Michelle Machado

August 25, 2017

I miss you :(

August 15, 2017

My Dearest Tyler,
Recently your Mom gave me a picture of you, that I had never seen before, of you kneeling in the snow. You were surrounded by men with their eager faces turned toward you waiting for your orders. You were a leader of men at an early age with such a command of dignity, duty, love of your country and fellow men. I would have loved to have heard what you had to say to them. We are so proud of your devotion to the military and what you achieved. I can't help but recall when you were about 6 and we were hiking at Lake Kaweah and you wanted to be leader, even if it was just Papa and Mimi, you were our leader and we followed you. You have always been the glue that kept our families together whether it was for holidays, birthdays or you coming home or leaving for your next deployment. You not being here has been devastating for us. You have left your footprints on our hearts and the hearts of your little cousins that envision you as a super hero. We will forever love you, miss you and be proud of you. Somehow I wish that you will come through the door and we can again go back to before March 18th. Until then, we carry you in our hearts.
Love you to Heaven and back.
Papa and Mimi

Alissa Vaughan

July 4, 2017

Happy 4th, babe. I can only imagine the celebration up there today. You always told me you were always fighting your hardest to get back home to me, I'll always be fighting my hardest to get back to our forever home with you. Drink a heavenly beer for me, and enjoy the fireworks from an entirely different view tonight. I bet they're going to be so beautiful from your seat in the house. I love you more than the word means, to the moon and back, an infinite amount of times. I miss you with every part of me and then some.
I'll see you soon, babe.
Your baby girl

Megan Machado

July 4, 2017

Happy 4th of July soldier. As I look around at all of the flags being displayed so very high, I can't help but feel an extra amount of pride knowing that my very own nephew chose to dedicate his life for our freedom. Today's celebration also has an extra sting, knowing that you aren't here. Not a day goes by that I don't think of you, of what you stood for, or of the legacy you chose to leave behind. You accomplished so much in 22 years of life. While most still search for their calling, you found it. While most still search for that special love, you found it. While most go through each day going through the motions, you lived life to the very fullest. It is very scary venturing out for what one stands for, and you did without hesitation. Your legacy is already so much greater than many. I love you and miss you so much. Thank you for your service. Thank you for your courage. Thank you for being brave enough to stand firm in your faith. I pray you have a front row view of the most beautiful fireworks that exist. Happy 4th buddy. Thank you.

Dad

July 3, 2017

Bubba,

just wanted to say thanks to you and all your fellow military brothers and sisters for wanting to fight for our freedom. Happy 4th of July BUB. Always Proud, Always Thankful, Always in my Heart.

A soldier doesn't fight because he hates what's in front of him, he fights because he loves what he left behind

Love you Son

Michelle Machado

July 2, 2017

America without her soldiers would be like God without His angels -Claudia Pemerton
I love you so much Tyler and miss your face.
Happy 4th of July.

Kiersty Vaughan

July 2, 2017

As the Fourth of July approaches .......

I like to see a man proud of the place in which he lives. I like to see a man live so that his place will be proud of him
~Abraham Lincoln

This is so you Tyler!

July 4, 1776 is the day that represents the Declaration of Independence and the birth of the United States of America as an Independent Nation.
You wanted to be a part of protecting that and making sure our country will always be the Land of the Free and Home of the Brave.
Tyler, you are my Brave American Hero
On this day and forever
Happy Independence Day!
No words can describe how much I love you and miss you
Momma

Michelle Machado

June 24, 2017

Happy Birthday, Tyler John. I miss you, buddy. I love you.

June 24, 2017

As we celebrate your birthday today without you, there will be tears, laughter and so many happy memories. Nothing can replace the joy that you have brought us and we will forever miss you. In a world where there seem to be fewer heroes please know that you will always be one in our eyes. We love you Tyler - Happy Birthday.
Papa John and Mimi Gail

Momma

June 24, 2017

Happy 23rd Birthday Bubba
23 years ago I gave birth to you, 9lbs 4oz, 21 inches long
Today should have been so different, It's so painful without you here, especially on this day, the day your were born. I took for granted I'd see and celebrate so many more with you here.
Just know I am thinking about you, missing you, loving you. celebrating and honoring you !

Happy Birthday in Heaven my Son

Alissa Vaughan

June 22, 2017

4 years ago today you asked me to be yours, it was the best day of my life - and every single day that I called you mine was my new favorite day to have. I've loved you endlessly and whole heartedly for 1,460 days, I've been lucky enough to have you love me back for 1,460 days too. We've laughed together, cried together (I'm lying it was only me who ever cried), spent thousands of hours learning the depths of each other's hearts, seeing each others flaws and only loving the other more for them, fighting & making up, impatiently waiting to be together again and have no distance between us, but mostly just truly loving each other day in and day out. You are my best friend, the best part of me, my hero. You molded me into who I am, someone who knows I'm worthy of your love and never had to doubt it. Everywhere I am, you will be. There will never be a day in this life I'm forced to live without you that I don't love you and miss you with every single fiber of my being. The best day of my life was supposed to be the day I married you, now it will be the day I finally join you. Happy 4 year anniversary and what would have been 2 and a half months married, baby. I love you forever and always, and even after that.

Your baby girl,

Mimi Rosie and Papa Ronnie Machado

June 7, 2017

Tyler, My Hero Forever. Today they moved your flag to hang next to Kieth's a fitting spot for two special young men. I had told Papa Ronnie that I prayed we would never see that fallen hero under your name but God had a different plan. They say time helps to heal but I don't know how much time it will take because it still hurts as bad maybe more as we reflect on your life. My heart hurts for all of the family but breaks for your mom watching her grieve is so hard if there's s way to let her know your with her send her ladybugs. Love you more......

Michelle Machado

May 28, 2017

Hey there Tyler John, I miss you As Memorial Day/weekend has come and will pass, I just wish that I were able to tell you face-to-face how grateful I am to you for your service. Thank you for being a hero to us here and for believing that our freedom is worth it. I love you. I love you. I love you. You are thought about so often throughout my day, and I am in constant prayer for God to touch our family the same way that He touched you. xoxo

Your babes, Alissa soon-to-be Vaughan

May 25, 2017

I miss you every day, babe. I look for signs of your presence everywhere. When the wind blows, when there's a butterfly or a lady bug, every time a Jason Aldean song plays on the radio; I hope it's all you. I'd give anything in the world to feel your arms wrapped around me, feel your lips on my forehead, and hear your voice say "I love you more than anything princess". I know you'd never let me walk through this life without you, because you promised me you wouldn't, and you've never broken a promise to me. I know you're with me. I know you hear me when I say out loud "I love you" a million times a day, and I know you're trying to find ways to let me know you're saying it back. I'm so honored and thankful that you chose me, that you loved me, and that a person like me could make a person like you happy. I will still strive to make you happy every day of my life until I can be with you again, just like I promised you I would. I will never stop hurting, aching, and longing to have you by my side. I hope I can find a way to get my crap together and make you proud that you loved me. I love you the most, my handsome. Forever and always baby, and even after that.

Rylee Pierce - University of Missouri Softball

May 23, 2017

I haven't really been able to put into words the impact you've had on me this last month. I didn't know you on a personal level, but being around you from the time I was young on into high school always made one thing clear to me; you love America.
You gave your life for my freedom, I have stood on the foul line of the softball field for the national anthem 20 times since you passed and each time I look at the flag and place my hand over my heart, I immediately think of you.
Cheesy as it is, I wrote your initials "TJV" in my visor. I put my visor on nearly everyday. Tonight I will put it on to play LSU. The constant glimpse of your initials serves as a reminder of how fortunate I am to be living my dream. It reminds me no matter the outcome, I'm blessed to be able to play the game we both loved.
So thank you Tyler J Vaughan, thank you for your service, for your sacrifice and for reminding me to live each day to the fullest.

Momma

May 21, 2017

I'm trying really hard to be strong, the pain of losing you is impossible to describe. I lie awake at night thinking about you and wishing I could take this all back, my heart breaks of the thought of never seeing you again. My heart won't accept your gone, I didn't get to tell you goodbye and that I love you so much, I think about you every minute of the day. I will carry you in my heart forever Tyler, I keep praying Gods promise in Philippians 4:13
I can do all things through him who gives me strength, I know you believe and I believe to. I love you Son ❤

Megan Machado

May 6, 2017

Tyler, oh how I miss you so. I'm so honored to call you nephew and friend. You are the perfect role model for our 3 boys to aspire to be. I'm proud of your heart, your commitment and your passion for all that you believed in. I'm thankful for your willingness to sacrifice your life for our freedom. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't think of you and wish I could have one more chance to hug you and tell you that I'm proud of you and that I love you. I wish I could have one more day for you to make fun of me or be sarcastic just to hear you laugh. I'm holding on and trusting that we will have an embrace again, and you will have a sarcastic remark just waiting to welcome me into the pearly gates. I miss you buddy. Thank you for being you. You're a warrior in Heaven, and I'm so thankful I can call on the Lord to send my favorite Guardian Angel to watch over our boys. Heaven just gained one heck of a soldier! I love you.

Ronnie, Cannon and Evan Machado

May 6, 2017

Tyler,
We love you so much and we miss you. Thank you for being our "Captain America."

Matt Bese

May 1, 2017

Not a day goes by where I don't think about you brotha, and all of our good times. Any song that comes on I always think of memories of us singing and putting them up on YouTube, or going to concerts or just driving around talking and listening to music. You and I have made unforgettable memories that will be with me forever. We were always there for each other man, we held each other accountable and we never let each other down. I was always so proud of you and the person you were. You loved God, you loved Alissa, you loved your family, and you loved your friends and to the people you loved the most you would always do anything for them. I can't thank you enough for the impact you have made on my life and I promise to always keep your legacy going. No one will ever forget Big Vaughanrrrrr. I miss you so much bro and I'm trying to be strong but it's tough. But I will be strong for you because I know that's what you would want. I love you brother and you will always be in my heart❤ So proud of you SGT
Matt Bese

Javi Lopez

April 30, 2017

March 18, 2017. The day we lost a brother, a warrior, and one of the greatest friends I've ever had. From graduating high school in the Class of 2012, to raising our right hands for this great country to be part of the Army, and getting through Basic training out in Georgia. He was full of energy and made a positive atmosphere around him wherever he was. One of the most patriotic guys I've ever had the pleasure to know and serve with. I was speechless when I heard the news and still can't believe it's true. My prayers go out to Alissa Lehanne Rader and the Vaughan family who are going through this heart breaking tragedy. Every time I look at the flag, I will think of you brother. Every time I look up at the sky, I will know you are watching. Till Valhalla brother, where the brave live forever #neverforgotten #AmericanHero

April 29, 2017

Dear Tyler,
There are no adequate words to describe our sadness in not being able to see you again on this earth. There was no time to say good-bye. No time for one last hug, kiss or promise that you would be ok and return to us soon. We love you intensely and unconditionally and were so proud of you.
We have our memories of camping, hiking, fishing, train trips to New York and baseball. I can still hear you and Papa giggling about something that only the two of you shared. I remember your quirky smile when Matt hollered out VAUGHANR at one of the El D baseball games. You were tagged and made a friend forever. Your church antics did not escape a smile either. You were about 5 and were singing your little heart out when you leaned over to me and asked me to tell the music director that you wanted to sing "Working on the Railroad." Precious child.
Tyler, you found your calling with the Army. You excelled in challenges, structure and discipline. You made us so proud of your accomplishments and to be your grandparents. We bragged a lot.
We are saddened that you never married Alissa or got to be a Dad. You would have been a great husband and father. Your motto would have been - no Army brat here.
Your strength in your faith was very evident in your e-mails and instagram postings. We will call upon this faith to help us accept God's plan for you.
We will miss your smile, your laughter, the mischievous twinkle in your eye but most of all we will miss your presence and those Tyler hugs. Nothing can compare of being with you.
We asked God to wrap his arms around you and keep you close and the first thing we want to hear when we get to heaven is: "Hey Papa and Mimi."
He will raise you up on Eagle's Wings....Psalm 91.4

We love you Tyler John, watch over us and thank you for loving us.

Papa John and Mimi Gail

Susie Wooten

April 25, 2017

Tyler,

I can't believe even now that you are gone. You were everything to everyone. So full of life, energy, and determination, and you were such a good friend to many. You were so happy about getting married and we were all looking forward to that day.

I'm going to miss your dry sense of humor and that gorgeous smile of yours. It will never be the same in any of our lives and you will be in our hearts forever. Until we meet again.

Your loving nana

Kamron Hood

April 23, 2017

Ty,

There are no words to describe the brotherly love that you and I shared. It still shocks my heart every day that I realize you're actually gone. Between you and me nobody will ever understand the true bond we had throughout our experiences. In some crazy way we communicated on a higher level. It's almost like you knew me better than I knew myself. You thought it before I said it-and vice versa.
Your love for God has not only inspired me, but brought me back to ground level. You told me once as we were walking through the woods, rifles over our shoulders, "Brother, who else could've created something so beautiful". My discouragement in faith was forever changed that day, and I thank you for that. I will NEVER forget the times we shared. I promise you that.
Every time I drive through the hills I see my brother riding shotgun. I will miss you forever and you will always hold a very special place in my heart. Here's to a true God Fearing American Patriot.

I love you Ty,
Kam

April 23, 2017

Hey BUB,
There is a hole in my heart and a pain that will never go away, I have to come to the fact that I will never hear your voice or see your face, I am doing the best that I can. So I fill my days with the great memories of you, it all started the day you were born, when the doctor said "It's a boy" and then said "Wow it is a big boy", your 1st words were not "Mommy or Daddy" but "Cook Cook" because you wanted a cookie, you and your buddies keeping us up all night, playing video games and guitars, your waking me up early on Saturday because you wanted to "Burn some Gas" so we would throw the dirt bikes in the truck and head for the hills. Going to Dick's to buy ammo so we can "Sling some Lead" at the shooting range. Coaching you in VYB baseball, the road trips for all-star tournaments, and coaching you at ELD baseball, are some of best times, but what I am proud of the most is the man you became, God fearing, love for your country guy. you touched many lives BUB, you had it figured out at such a young age. made SGT. at 22 to become a leader of men, now a SGT. in God's Angel Armies, getting married to the love of your life, I am so proud to be your DAD. Also I want you to know that when this tragedy hit, your friends really stepped up, you should be so proud of your buddies, they took care of your Momma like they knew you wanted them to, well BUB I have you in my bus, in my truck, on my mind but "Always in my Heart" I am so proud to call you my SON, I hope I made you proud, this is not goodbye but "Until we meet again" I love you BUB
DAD

Zoey Vaughan

April 22, 2017

Cousin Tyler,
I love you and miss you. Please take care of Jobu & Kuma up in heaven. Take them on lots of walks.

Uncle Tim & Aunt Sunshine Vaughan

April 22, 2017

Tyler, we are proud to call you our nephew. You were a remarkable young man, so amazingly talented and motivated. Whether you were jammin' on your guitar, or playing baseball, or working alongside the AL's crew, or taking on new military leadership challenges, you always gave 110%. You had such a kind heart, uplifting smile and genuinely cared about your friends and family. Thank you for your bravery and for protecting our freedom. We love you and only wish we could have seen all the great accomplishments you had in store. Rest in Peace.

PaPa Ronnie and Mimi Rosie Machado

April 21, 2017

Tyler, Tyler
My Hero...you have left such a void in all of our lives I will forever miss your cocky smile and attitude it was all about you. Loved watching you grow up thru all of your phases of life that led you to the special man you had become. You touched more lives then we will ever know. You had your life planed with Alissa for your forever love by your Army life was all ahead of you. My heartbreaks for your mom you were her heart and soul, your dad you were his pride and joy grandparents, aunts and uncles , and cousins that adored you. But God had a better plan for you it doesn't make it any easier losing you a part of our hearts will never heal. "You are no longer by our sides but Forevevr in our hearts." Our Hero Forever.

Michelle Machado

April 20, 2017

Oh, Tyler John, it just doesn't seem like this world had enough time with you. I am so very grateful to God that He gave you to us for the amount of time that we had with you. I'm torn up inside with grief, and I just wish you were here to hug/squeeze me. There are so many things that I will charish about you all the days of my life. Hanging out with you was one of my favorite things to do. Whether it was going to Merle's, In-n-Out, Scotty's, or just sitting in your room to watch you play your guitar, I will always remember how much fun you were to be with. Anytime I hear- My Chemical Romance, Rise Against, Suicidal Tendencies, and Lamb of God-I will think of those concerts we went to and how much fun you had. I will think about us playing Tony Hawk and how cool you thought that I was because I could do so many tricks and earn so many points. I'm really going to miss you. The thing I will miss the most is the way you made me feel loved every time we were together. Thank you, Tyler. Thank you so much for being the best nephew in the whole world. I was always proud of you and I remain proud of you today. I am so heartbroken because I will not get to see your future. The one you were going to share with Alissa. Darn it, Tyler, I want a do-over. Everyone here is missing you.

Alissa Soon-to-be Vaughan

April 20, 2017

Hey babe,
I'm having a hard day today. But who am I kidding, every day since getting the news has been a hard day. There's not enough words in the world or even a single word strong enough to tell you how much I love you.

I can't wrap my head around the fact that i will never see your perfect face, hear your perfect voice tell me that you love me, and hear your perfect laugh again in this life. I ache so badly to be in your arms, laying on your chest listening to your heartbeat. I was so proud of you and everything you were accomplishing, and I couldn't believe I was the lucky girl someone as amazing as you wanted to spend your life with. I got to be the one you couldn't wait to tell everything too, you'll never know how truly lucky I felt to be that person to you. I will forever be thankful that I have no regrets in our relationship, and I know you don't either. We both knew how much we loved and cherished each other, and how much love and happiness we had to give to each other. If you had to leave this earth, I'm thankful you went a happy man, knowing how much and how deeply you were loved.

Thank you from the bottom of my heart for loving me the way that you did, for making me the happiest I have ever and will ever be in my life. Our memories together will always be remembered, and every time I think of them I will remember the happiness I felt from being your girl. Nothing in the world could compare to that. I am heartbroken that I will never get to call you my perfect husband and myself your wife, but in my heart you're my husband. Our love for each other didn't need a title or a license, we knew what we were to each other.

Every perfect feature of your face and personality will live forever in my heart and mind. I will always hear you telling me "I love you babes" and I will miss you with every ounce of my being, for the rest of my life. I can hardly wait to be greeted by you at heavens gates.

My life has no meaning without you, but at the same time my life means everything because I was loved by you. You will always be the true keeper of my heart. You are my hero, Tyler John. I love you so much baby. Forever and always and even after that.

Always,
Your babes

Tyler' Momma

April 18, 2017

Hi Bubba
There are no words to tell you how much I miss you and how badly I wish I could go back in time and fix all this. Getting that knock on the door to tell me I'd lost you, that's the day I knew true heartbreak. I am so devastated by the reality that I will never see you again, I was so looking forward to seeing your future and all the things you were going to accomplish. You were so excited to be marrying the love of your life Alissa, I could see how happy you were to take this next step. I am thankful for all the wonderful memories I have, you were good, I couldn't have asked for a better Son. You loved God, and your family and your friends. I am so proud of you, you accomplished so much in this short life on earth. You stepped out in courage and honor to serve our country and you gave it 110% everyday.
What I'm gunna miss most is hearing your voice call out to me - Momma.
You sent me a text a couple months ago and said "momma I love you more than you know" I hope you know I love you so much! My only peace in all this is knowing I will see you again when it's my time to leave this earth. It's going to be so difficult to live the rest of my life without you, I feel so lost and empty. I pray for Gods help everyday.
You left this Earth as a Soldier, now you're a Warrior in the Army of the Lord, I can't even imagine how pumped you are about that.
I know you don't want me to hurt but I will hurt for you the rest of my life, the pain in my chest will always be, losing you my baby boy feels like I lost my soul.
I promise you this, I will always think to myself "what would Tyler want for me" and I will always try my best to do just what you'd want.
I will love your forever, you are part of me and I will miss you so badly
❤ you always
Momma

Ed Chavez

April 7, 2017

Mr and Mrs Vaughn and family it is sad
To hear of Tyler's passing my myself
And my son send our prayers and Love
To you and all your family.

I knew Tyler since my son and him attended
La joya Jr high and all threw high school
I remember him and bunch of his friends came
Over my house to play music till the police
Shut them down I made sure the boys ate
Before they left.
He was fine young man and good in athletics we will miss him

Edward Chavez
Brandon Chavez chavo

Alissa Soon-To-Be Vaughan

April 6, 2017

I love you with all of my heart, babe. That will never change. Forever and always and even after that. I will miss you every day of my life, my forever soon-to-be husband.

Alissa Soon-to-be Vaughan

April 6, 2017

I love you with all of my heart babe, and I miss you more than any words can say. Forever and always and even after that.

Charlene Thompson

April 5, 2017

My sons went to school with Tyler. After graduation Tyler chose Army and my son went to The Air Force. I spoke to my son Richard today and told him about Tylers passing. Tyler was a character back in high school. He had a funny, upbeat personality that I admired. He always made time to say hello Ms. Thompson. Rest in peace Tyler. Thank you for those kind hello's. Thank you for your service to our country.

Thank you Mr. and Mrs. Vaughan for raising Tyler to be a good man. My heart is heavy and I can only hope and pray that your memories of Tyler help to ease your devastating pain. So very sorry for your loss...

Jarrett Family

April 3, 2017

Our hearts are heavy and saddened for your family. May God comfort you all. You're in our thoughts and prayers.

Art Villarreal

April 3, 2017

Your family is in our thoughts and prayers. God bless.

Garispe Family

April 3, 2017

To All,
We have many wonderful memories of Tyler on the baseball field and lifting weights at our house. He was a wonderful young man and his loss is tragic. We grieve with you and will pray for you.

April 2, 2017

We are so very sorry for your loss. May God ease your pain at this sad time. Jackie and Amos Musgrove from Visalia Ca.

Florence Deputy

April 2, 2017

Our deepest sympathy to Tyler's family, what a wonderful son, fiance' and friend

Forever in our heart and prayers
Dave and Florence Deputy

April 1, 2017

Todd, we are so sorry to hear of your loss. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time.
Josh & Debbie Hadley

Paul & Dolly Menezes Sr.

April 1, 2017

We are very broken hearted to hear of Your loss. May the Lord embrace All of You, and Our Prayers goes to All of You and Family. This was a fine young Man serving our Country. Love You All !

Robert Self

March 31, 2017

Our family is so saddened to hear of your loss. Losing a child, grandchild, brother is the hardest thing imaginable. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Robert Self, Dakota and Hanna
Susan & Rick Mangini

Laura /Joe Rimelen

March 31, 2017

To Alissa- I just wanted to tell you how sorry I am for your loss but keep Tyler close to your heart,he loved you and wanted to share his life with you,cherish his memory and remember the blessed time you both had together,,,,Todd,Gail & John..no words can express the loss and sorrow of a son and grandson taken too soon from this earth cherish what he did what an honor to have met a wonderful young man and May God Bless all of you during this difficult time

Grace Jepson

March 31, 2017

So sorry for your loss!

Sharon Culbertson

March 31, 2017

Todd and family so sorry to hear about your loss. Thoughts and prayers going out to you and all your family.

George Weaver

March 31, 2017

Our heart felt thoughts go out to the Vaughan family.

Thelma Telford

March 30, 2017

To Kiersten and all of Tyler's family, especially Susie (my good friend and neighbor), I would like to offer my condolences and sincere sympathy for the loss of Tyler. From listening to Susie talking about Tyler, I know that he was a very remarkable young man and it is just so sad that he has been taken at such a young age. My thoughts and prayers are with you as you go through this process.

Walt Weckwerth

March 30, 2017

Walt and Rosa Weckwerth mourn your loss of this young man. Our prayers are with you and your family.

Torey Shepherd

March 30, 2017

Bless you and your family praying for all

March 30, 2017

Our sincerest condolences to Tyler's family and friends. We cannot appreciate Tyler enough for his service to our country, may God Bless all during this difficult time.

Steve and Sissy Tindle
Woodlake, Ca.

Tiffany @ Peltzer Enterprises

March 30, 2017

Tyler worked for us for awhile and was a great addition to our "family". All of us here at Peltzer Enterprises are deeply sadden by your loss. He will be greatly missed!

First-aid Firefighter

March 30, 2017

Dear family members,
on this path, I would like to express my sincere compassion to you, but also to the injured comrades, and wish you enough strength for the coming time.
Keep him in good memory.
My sincere condolences.
With a quiet greeting.

Elizabeth Franco-Fischer

March 29, 2017

So very sorry for your loss. My heart aches for the family. Thank you Tyler for your service.

Barbara Queen

March 29, 2017

Didn't know him but thank u Tyler for you serving your country & very sorry to your family for their Great Loss. God b with all

Larry Copeland, Captain, USN (ret)

March 29, 2017

For the Vaughan and Machado families, I am sending my deepest heartfelt sympathies and condolences. Sergeant Tyler John Vaughan served his country honorably, proudly, and gallantly. His spirit lives on. He will always be with you, on patrol. All Hail! for our hero!

Tim McGlasson

March 29, 2017

Tyler was a student of mine at El Diamante HS both his Sophomore year and Senior year. He was a great young man and always fun to talk to about sports. Specifically, we talked baseball whenever there was some down time in class. Since my classroom was right across the access road to the baseball diamond, I watched him play many times for the Miners. One thing I will never forget is his wonderful attitude and that wry, knowing smile of his.

A very focused person and I see by the photo in uniform, he made rank very quickly in the service. Proud of him. I am so very sorry to learn of his passing and my heart goes out to his family in ways only time will heal. My prayers to you all.

Tammy White

March 29, 2017

So sorry for your loss

Roxanne Corley-Harlien

March 29, 2017

Kiersty, I saw a post on FB from a friend of Tylers. I am so incredibly sorry. We have not seen each other in years, and yet my heart broke like I hugged you yesterday. I am praying for you and Valerie. Thank you for raising a soldier. I hope you feel the prayers from so many who care for you. Words may not help but The Healer has not left you. You are not alone. "When you pass through the waters, I will be with you;" Isaiah 43:2a

Arlene Ramos

March 29, 2017

Praying for Tylers mother and father and family..he was an amazing person..and we feel privileged to have had a part in his life and his in ours...no words can express how sorry we are for your loss..R.I.P. Tyler...

Rhonda Denney

March 29, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Brian Horton

March 29, 2017

So sorry to hear about your loss. Praying for you and your family coach.

Sam Mendoza

March 29, 2017

I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your son, Tyler. My sincere and heartfelt condolences to you, Todd and to your wife and family. Also, to Mr Vaughan, or Coach Vaughan as I called your Dad and Mrs Vaughan. I'm very sorry. Tragic. God Bless you and may he keep you in his arms

March 29, 2017

To the Vaughan Family,

I am so sorry for your loss.....Prayers from Vilseck, Germany

Lana Gregg

March 29, 2017

I was absolutelty Honored to have the CHP and all the bikes in our lot awaiting the arrival for the escort to Bakersfield, beautiful to see all come together for a Genuine Person that served our country!!!! I took pictures of this to share the absolute love of our people and our country, as i have a heavy heart for this family and friends and cried for a Fallen Soldier i have never met, it was normal for me to stop what i was doing at work and walk outside and stand in full Salute as he exitted my parking lot in escort...Thank You for letting me be a part of a tribute for this young man who i never knew, but will never stop thinking about, this wont leave me for a long time!!! On the way home from work tonight the song "God Bless the USA" came on..unbelievable...all i could think about was this man and his family...Bless You All

Debbie Williams-Tuttle

March 29, 2017

Beautiful memories - Heartbreaking!

Tiffany Smith-Edmonds

March 28, 2017

Todd, I am so sorry for your loss. May God grant you peace and comfort during this unimaginable pain.

Tiffane McRoberts

March 28, 2017

Prayers and my heart goes out to you and your family

Alicia Dyckman/Cochran

March 26, 2017

To Kiersty & all family
I just wanted to say I'm so so sorry for your loss.
My heart is broken for U all. U r all & will remain in my prayers.
Im sorry im at a loss for words. I send U my love

Michelle Machado

March 24, 2017

I miss you buddy. xoxo

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