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Patrick McCarthy Obituary
Lebanon, NH - Patrick S. McCarthy, 38, passed away Wednesday October 16, 2024 at Dartmouth Hitchcock Hospital surrounded by his family. He was born to Robert & Cindy (Kelly) McCarthy on June 8, 1986. Patrick graduated from Lebanon High School in 2004. Following graduation, he began working for High Country Aluminum Products with his cousin. He began working in Lebanon serving his community first at Ricker Funeral Home and most recently the City of Lebanon. Patrick and Carli (Downey) McCarthy started their life together in 2015. They celebrated their marriage on September 10, 2022 and welcomed their precious son, Bodie on October 24, 2023. Carli and Bodie meant the world to Patrick. Patrick enjoyed summers at the lake with his family boating and shooting fireworks. He served as the Halls Lake Association President. Patrick also enjoyed bird hunting with his uncle and cousins. Most of all, Patrick enjoyed spending time with his son around the house working on home improvements, tractor rides and their most recent project, their golf cart.
He is survived by his wife Carli McCarthy, their son Bodie and dog, Benelli, his parents Robert & Cindy McCarthy, a brother Ryan McCarthy and his wife Becca, father and mother-in-law Brendan & Carrie Downey, sister-in-law Caitlin Downey, a niece Kaelyn, nephews Brayden, Camden and Landon.
Family and friends are invited to Patrick's calling hours at the Ricker Funeral Home in Lebanon Monday October 21st from 5 to 7 PM. On Tuesday, a memorial celebration will be held at Forbes Tavern in Eastman, NH from 2-5 pm.
In lieu of flowers, please donate to a charity of your choice in memory of Patrick.
An online guest book is available to leave a message of condolence for Patrick's family by visiting www.rickerfuneralhome.com
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Memories and Condolences
for Patrick McCarthy
Sponsored by Ricker Funeral Homes & Crematory - Lebanon.
The Deary Family
October 20, 2024
We are so heartbroken that Pat is no longer here with us. His smile, kindness and much more will be missed. Sending all our love Carli, baby BoBo, his family and friends.
Phil Marrama
October 20, 2024
To all members of the McCarthy and Kelley and Downey families and his loving wife Carli my deepest sympathy.
I have many fond memories of being with Pat at gatherings, hunting together. A great young man.
Nikki
October 20, 2024
Patrick will be missed. He was always so nice and always made me smile when he would come into UVSC . He would always talk about his beautiful wife and his very precious son. I always enjoyed seeing him light up whenever he spoke of his family whom he was so proud of. Rest easy Patrick. My condolences to his family.
James Morel
October 20, 2024
So sorry for the loss of Patrick. Condolences to the family.
Jim Morel & Lynne Harrison
Jenni Lund
October 19, 2024
Patrick was a blessing to everyone on Halls Lake. We all benefited from his energy and enthusiasm. It's hard to believe that such a vibrant person can be taken so young. We know neither the day nor the hour....
Gary Mayo
October 19, 2024
Very sorry to hear, and to miss this (away).......My favorite Pat memory was when he modified his bucket truck so I could rise high above the football field at Windsor HS as the booth coach for the NH Shrine Team in 2011
Never before or since at a Shrine Game.......it worked great!
Bert Blais
October 19, 2024
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
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Calling hours
5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m.
Ricker Funeral Homes & Crematory - Lebanon56 School Street P.O. Box 549, Lebanon, NH 03766
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