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ABRAHAM FRIEDMAN Obituary

FRIEDMAN ABRAHAM SOLOMON FRIEDMAN Loved for his warmth, sense of humor, and wisdom, Abraham Friedman died on September 18, 2017, a month shy of his 96th birthday. Having begun life as a poor kid from Brownsville, Brooklyn, he achieved much: a distinguished career as a scientist and diplomat, a great marriage and loving family, and the loyalty of friends and neighbors. Often, in the evening after a good meal, Abe would light his cigar and say with a measure of gratitude and satisfaction: "It's a good life." The youngest child of Israel Friedman and Sarah Cohen, Abe was a first-generation American whose first language was Yiddish. He earned his bachelor's degree in Chemistry at Brooklyn College in 1943 and immediately joined the war effort, where he soon began working as a research chemist on the Manhattan Project. After the war, he went to Ohio State University on the G.I. Bill, where he received his PhD in Physical Chemistry and met the love of his life, Diana Elena Scott, a Chilean international student. In 1951, Abe went to Amsterdam as a Fulbright postdoctoral research fellow at the University of Amsterdam. He learned Dutch, lived with a Dutch family, and made lifelong friends in the scientific community. It was a city he referred to fondly all his life, for it was also there that he and Diana got married, on the Fourth of July. Upon their return to the US, Abe worked first at the National Bureau of Standards, and then the Atomic Energy Commission. He was the AEC European representative in Paris (1962-1965) and then director of international affairs. In the 1970's, he joined the State Department where he served as science counselor in U.S. Embassies in Mexico City, Bonn, and Paris. Abe was awarded the National Order of Merit from the French government in recognition of his work. He was an active member of the Cosmos Club. Abe and Diana shared a loving marriage for 62 years, until her death in 2014. Together they led an adventurous life, traveling the world, raising four daughters, and enjoying wonderful friendships. Abraham Friedman is lovingly remembered and survived by his four daughters, Danielle Michelman (David), Rebecca Stanger (Jordan), Abigail Friedman (Eric Passaglia) and Michelle D'Elia (Peter); 11 grandchildren, Sarah Lo (Lewis), Ariel Michelman-Ribeiro (Arthur), Dinah Michelman, Aviva Michelman-Dumas, Nina Schroth (Nick), Nathaniel Stanger, Abraham Passaglia, Martha Passaglia, Samuel Passaglia, Rachel Brzowsky (Kris), and Benjamin D'Elia; and his seven great-grandchildren, Isaac, Raphael, Jonah, and Dalia Lo, and Daniel, David, and Miriam Diana Ribeiro. A memorial celebration will be held on a date to be determined. Donations may be made in Abraham Friedman's name to the Jewish Social Service Agency (jssa.org) or So Others Might Eat (some.org).

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Published by The Washington Post on Sep. 22, 2017.

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Selma Rubin

October 10, 2017

Abe and Diane were so close to my husband, Ben Rubin from days of Ohio State and me (at a later time) until the deaths of each of them. I will miss seeing Abe on his daily shopping walks.

Claire Stanger

September 30, 2017

Rebecca,
Your father, Abraham Friiedman was a remarkable man. My love and condolences go out to you and your three sisters.
Much Love,
Claire

Hope Stanger

September 30, 2017

I can honestly say this is the most beautiful obituary I have ever read. Hugs to all the Friedman women. You each have parts of your dad in you ❤

Norman Drubetsky

September 26, 2017

Our condolences to you Danielle. We have wonderful memories of your parents.

Norman Drubetsky, MD
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Nancy Cox

September 23, 2017

Thinking of you during this difficult time. I hope the wonderful memories of your father will give you peace.

Peter Reiger

September 22, 2017

My condolences to you and your sisters.

September 22, 2017

My parents and family are deeply grieved to hear this news; we all admired and liked your parents so very much, am sending fuller letter to the Bethesda home address Marion Rodgers

September 22, 2017

I'm so sorry for your loss.

May the God of all comfort, bring comfort to the Friedman family during these difficult times.

(2 Corin.1:3,4)

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